My husband's erection is subsiding, I need advice

[Sunsh1ne]

Hello.
During sex with my husband, his erection declines (the penis becomes a little soft) and this can happen several times during sex. This causes me anxiety, when I ask, he answers in different ways, sometimes he’s tired, sometimes I don’t know, sometimes he was afraid to make noise, sometimes one testicle hurts...
We have been married for 15 years, we married for love and there is always sex and it has always been of high quality and often. With the exception of two pregnancies, those who have children will understand.
But about a year ago this problem appeared and I cannot understand what is happening. I start to imagine that my husband has stopped loving me, that he doesn’t want me anymore, or that he loves me but doesn’t want sex with me, or that he has problems with potency, but he won’t admit it (he doesn’t want to go to the doctor). As far as I know, there is no mistress. We have sex regularly 1-2 times a week. He is 42, I am 36. Tell me, what could it be? Why does this happen to a man?

[Beluga]

Looks like we need a new husband

[Let’s]

and I thought that this was so, for the sake of warming up,

And you, without hesitation, perhaps during sex or immediately after it, then what do you if you liked it, take it and develop the topic.. If you can, write what he talks about, what makes you happy?

[Sunsh1ne]

you, without hesitation, perhaps during sex or immediately after it, take what you liked and develop the topic.. If you can, write what he talks about, what makes you happy?

Well, this is personal, I’m not ready to make it public, I can drop a couple of phrases in a personal message..
Well, like “you’re so hot” and also “you’re so wet” “I want to enter you” “I want to bite your ass” and so on. The rest doesn’t sound very decent)

Do you say this to your girlfriend during sex?

[niqk]

We need a new husband, it seems

Have you been replaced with a new husband? I sympathize with the loser...

[Let’s]

You say things like that to your girlfriend during sex

Of course I say, my wife knows almost all of my wants. Only my situation is the opposite)) I initiate the purchase of all the toys, of which we have enough. Initiator of ideas. But.. My wife, like your husband, says that she is satisfied with everything))

[Sunsh1ne]

Of course I say, my wife knows almost all of my wishes. Only my situation is the opposite)) I initiate the purchase of all the toys, of which we have enough. Initiator of ideas. But.. My wife, like your husband, says that she is satisfied with everything))

Oh, how I wish he would buy a toy and make something can happen to me using this toy. These are my secret fantasies, although not so secret anymore))

How can I tell him about this? And then wait for this action and even if he does, I will think that I forced him and that he does not enjoy the process (what if he ignores it and I will also feel bad about it...

[Let’s]

he doesn’t enjoy the process

Personally I don’t understand how you can not get high when your woman is feeling good. Anyway. Let’s say he has some kind of complex about the dildo, maybe he somehow regards it as a substitute for himself.. (assumption), maybe then just buy a vibrator? Not like a dick. Like magic or some other vacuum type, After all, sex is still a joint venture. In addition to receiving pleasure, it must also be given. And the sight of a woman masturbating in front of her beloved is a kind of incomparable pleasure, when you see how good she feels, get excited but don’t touch her, and then, when she’s at her peak, you join in and bring the matter to the end. Excitement goes off scale, she cums, you enter her and cum in the same place with her in seconds..

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How to tell him about this?

Directly and honestly. Just don’t force and put pressure, but in the same sex, voice your thoughts, that I would like this and that.. Voice it and forget for a while. The plant does not germinate immediately. We must sow the grain and give it time to germinate. Don’t wait instantly. Yes, he can immediately do as you ask, or maybe he needs to sleep with this person in order for him to want it.

[Ozasa]

Say directly that you have noticed this, that you are worried about his health and that you suspect that it may be age-related. See an andrologist, he will prescribe tests, perhaps testosterone has dropped, perhaps vascular problems. In any case, this is all simple, short-lived and not very expensive to treat.

[Sunsh1ne]

Personally I don’t understandhow can you not get high when your woman feels good? Anyway. Let’s say he has some kind of complex about the dildo, maybe he somehow regards it as a substitute for himself.. (assumption), maybe then just buy a vibrator? Not like a dick. Like magic or some other vacuum type, After all, sex is still a joint venture. In addition to receiving pleasure, it must also be given. And the sight of a woman masturbating in front of her beloved is a kind of incomparable pleasure, when you see how good she feels, get excited but don’t touch her, and then, when she’s at her peak, you join in and bring the matter to the end. Excitement goes off scale, she cums, you enter her and cum in the same place with her in seconds..

I can’t say, but he seemed offended, why vibrator, if there is his royal member, I don’t want to take it. After such a reaction, I lost all desire to offer anything at all. And my vibrator is beautiful and expensive, and I deliberately took a size smaller than his erect penis. He doesn’t mind a vibrator when he’s not around, and when he’s around, the whole pussy should be at the disposal of his pussy)

Your wives are lucky! Is there anyone here who is against toys in sex?

[Beluga]

We need a new husband, it seems

What do the doctors say?

[Let’s]

but he seemed offended

Yeah, it definitely looks like he has a complex. Here you first need to resolve the issue with them. It’s definitely too early to switch over to sex and offer it.

[Sunsh1ne]

Yeah, it definitely looks like a complex. Here you first need to resolve the issue with them. It’s too early to definitely switch to sex and offer sex.
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I don’t remember whether I wrote here or not. But MFM was suggested before my husband had problems with his erection. About 2 years ago, I was hoping to try sex with another man and for my husband to start getting jealous or something, so that a new wave of passion would appear between us... And I would have a new experience

[Mitry]

Lucky your wives! Is there at least one here who is against toys in sex?

as it is, there is no one here, there is trash in the topic about dildos they don’t even come here, otherwise they would screw everything up.

[gerz13]

The penis falls even in young people! And there are also old men with stone erections! There are a lot of introductions here. Try replacing beer with dry red wine! This is healthier for men. Plus eliminate stress whenever possible! Rent a hotel with your husband! The change of scenery is very exciting! When I first rented a hotel with my ex-wife, I fucked her all night! The dick stood like a teenager’s)))
Can play a game: you both dress in your best clothes, you both go to the club, but alone. There you meet for the first time, flirt, and go to the hotel. I guarantee a night of love and sex!!!! Checked!)

[Sunsh1ne]

The penis falls even in young people! And there are also old men with stone erections! There are a lot of introductions here. Try replacing beer with dry red wine! This is healthier for men. Plus eliminate stress whenever possible! Rent a hotel with your husband! The change of scenery is very exciting! When I first rented a hotel with my ex-wife, I fucked her all night! The dick stood like a teenager’s)))
Can play a game: you both dress in your best clothes, you both go to the club, but alone. There you meet for the first time, flirt, and go to the hotel. I guarantee a night of love and sex!!!! Checked!)

We were recently in a hotel by the sea, the sex was awesome.

I persuaded him to take tests, whined to him and agreed! Bingo! But he didn’t recognize the problem! How come, he said that he thinks everything is ok there (

He laughed about diversifying sex and didn’t talk, it’s even scary what he’ll offer)
I’m off to think or something)

[Hair shirt]

We were recently in a hotel by the sea, the sex was awesome

The truth looks like all this looks like some kind of trolling.
There is still more left at the end of each post, don’t forget to add a postscript so that they don’t forget to like.
Well, let’s assume that this is not trolling and that this is actually written by a woman. And then also assume that everything she writes is actually true...

I’ll try to understand this mess of consciousness...
Women often do not marry for love. That is, for those men who are not considered sexual partners at all. This is a fairly common practice on the part of women. The reasons are the sea. We won’t look into them right now and won’t touch on the ethical side of this matter.
But if this happened, then the sex of such a couple is very fickle. Either he is good, or he is bad, then there is no sex at all and the man is forced to constantly beg. All these jokes about having a headache are not all out of nowhere.

Follow this link I once wrote a post on this topic. The general meaning is that a woman needs to teach her body sexuality. I won’t retell everything again - if anyone is interested, go in and re-read it.
So you write that your husband is the only man in your life. And that you don’t experience an orgasm with him. And with a vibrator you kind of experience it. Again, you write that you bought a vibrator so that it would be no more than your husband’s penis.
So maybe then you can still voice the tactical and technical data of your husband’s penis and, accordingly, the vibrator that you are so excited about.
Next...
There is one thing that neither men nor women admit to their other halves. These are preferences in the size of the partner’s genitals. Men will never admit that they have it dangling there like a pencil in a glass. And women will never say that they would like their penis to be thicker and longer. Well, and so that he would also stand more or less at the same time.

Have you ever wondered why men are so greedy for young girls? Yes, because they have a pussy the size of a mouse’s eye and it’s very crowded. And such a pussy clasps the penis very tightly and feels it accordingly and well. And the girl also feels good about her penis, even if it is of mediocre size and even if it does not stand very well.

And now imagine that a woman’s pussy is quite spacious. Moreover, she got excited and flowed. And it became even more spacious. And the man came in and after a couple of minutes it became even more spacious. And now they no longer feel each other. AND THIS IS WHY HE STARTS TO FALL!
What is incomprehensible here?
And this is exactly why you don’t get an orgasm because you lack arousal.

Yes , You are right in your assumptions that it is possible that if there was another man in the bed, the husband would start, and the other man would continue and perhaps, even against the backdrop of your possibly spacious vagina, he would still be able to bring you to orgasm before he also has a penis would begin to fall from the loss of contact with your vagina.
In principle, two men in bed with one woman is a good solution to finally satisfy the poor woman and not torment her with constant lack of sex.

Well, I don’t see anything surprising in the fact that you bring yourself to orgasm with a dildo. I think you can bring yourself to orgasm without a vibrator, just with your fingers.

What do we have in the bottom line...
Unless, of course, all this is not a scam. But I would like to believe.
Well, so...
It is possible that your husband’s penis is simply not thick and long enough to create tactile contact for you against the background of the fact that you have flowed profusely and against the background of your possibly spacious vagina.

I think that such things cannot be corrected. In the sense of eliminating the spaciousness of the vagina or enlarging the penis.
Do you think people on this forum are interested in MFM, about family friendship, about family friends, about swinging.
Do you think they are kind of mad about fat? No!
I think it’s just that, firstly, they don’t want to deceive each other on the side, and secondly, they want to somehow find a solution to the problem. Someone, perhaps realizing that the problem is in him, wants to please his other half through a third person.

I think this is love.
When people step on the throat of their jealousy and their own desires and go to make sure that their loved one feels good and does not suffer morally not physically.

Well, let’s say the wife doesn’t have an orgasm regularly. And if this problem can be solved at least temporarily, then why not do it? And isn’t it happiness to watch how your wife is given joy and happiness right here and now.
And I think the one who goes for this is pleased to see it. And it’s also nice for the wife to finally feel butterflies in her stomach and then get another orgasm.

In short, I think you are on the right path - you need to arrange MFM with your husband and some other guy. But you need to choose one so that he has a decent-sized penis. You can ask about this issue in advance.
We wrote that the husband does not agree to another man. But you also wrote that he agrees to FFM.
Well, then, agree with him that you agree to FFM. And think together who is suitable for this role. What a man and what a woman.

[Dima D]

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[Let’s]

About the sizes of the penis and vagina, this is only an assumption, we don’t know them)) and she didn’t describe them.
But I agree with the previous speaker on MFM and FFM. If you offer your husband something that he doesn’t really crave, then there must be a compromise. Roughly speaking, you’ll give it to me. Take it for yourself, but also give it to him, or something else he wants.

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so that my husband would become jealous or something, so that a new wave of passion would appear between us... And I would have a new experience

Experience yes. But regarding the new wave of passion - a one-sided view. Have you ever read how families fall apart because of this format? Even on this forum there are similar stories. When they decide to try it, jealousy during sex, as a result, the husband then reproaches his wife, begins to treat her worse and the marriage collapses. So yes, on the one hand it can boost relationships. But on the other hand, be prepared for the opposite effect.

[Hair shirt]

We have been married for 15 years, we married for love and there is always sex and it has always been of high quality and often.

And he writes that there has never been an orgasm! How can this be?
How can sex be of high quality without a woman having an orgasm?
Or am I missing something?

Next she writes that she supposedly offered to arrange MZHM and also writes that in his life he had sex with only one man - with his husband.
As any cop or investigator would say, he is confused in his testimony. Which may indicate that he is either misleading (lying), or is keeping silent about something.
Well, in general, debit and credit do not add up. With the data described, the result is usually different.

In this situation, a woman will not miss the opportunity to sleep with someone else besides her husband. Here above, some lady mentioned that after her divorce from her first husband, she immediately tried to fill the gap in the lack of sexual diversity and managed to sleep with three men before marrying her second husband.
I personally don’t think this is anything reprehensible. Each person is the owner of his body and only he can dispose of it at his own discretion and no one else. And if a person wants something pleasant from life, then he has the right to it. The question is different - there may be obstacles to this.
But if a person is an adult, then there is always the opportunity to come to an agreement with those who may not be happy with it.

Strange as it may seem, even with a husband you can come to an agreement if the wife wants variety in sex. If she doesn’t want to deceive anyone and, accordingly, hide something, hide herself, lie, come up with some excuses.
It’s enough just to come to an agreement with her husband. And don’t think that everything will end in divorce or a black eye. Not at all. It’s enough just to be honest with your other half. And explain everything to her as it is. What do they say like this and so - I have erotic dreams on this topic. I think about it all the time, I can’t get rid of these thoughts. I get excited by randomly seeing stories and videos on this topic on the internet. I don’t want to deceive.

Well, in general, it’s kind of strange with this couple. It is possible that they ended up together by chance and this woman initially did not like her husband as a man. In life, it often happens that this or that guy or man does not impress a woman at all. That is, she just doesn’t like him. She is indifferent to him as a man. But for some reason they end up together. In such cases, they usually say - she will endure it, she will fall in love.
Well, and also against the background of the fact that the girl’s husband is her first sexual partner.

[Martin]

My mistress will always erect a dick if she wants to fuck... She especially does such miracles with her mouth...!!!

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My mistress will always erect a dick if she wants to fuck...Especially with her mouth she performs such miracles...!!!

[Sunsh1ne]

hair shirt,

So... About whether the story is true or not. The story is true and even if it seems like nonsense to you, I’m 35 and what should I do? I have nothing to sit here and make up things?
I don’t have anyone to ask, I need experienced men and their opinion. If you’re not interested, just pass by.
I’m trying to figure it out, my marriage may fall apart, and the reason for this is my inexperience with partners and the fact that my husband is not telling the truth, perhaps (these are my guesses, maybe he doesn’t want to upset me, I don’t know that). Or maybe he’s already cool, but I’m sitting here thinking it out and I’m dissatisfied. Why are you surprised by what I write here? Are girls not known for their outspokenness? Or what? I have no problems with this. Well, writing about a problem is easier than voicing it out loud)

I told him yesterday about my experiences, but he was not completely open. This worries me very much, I tell him, tell him what’s wrong and we’ll solve it. I don’t know why it became closed. And 1000 reasons are scrolling through my head... of course, if he tells the truth, I will forever lose attraction to him, maybe that’s why he’s silent.
We are women, we like to think things through, so I ask him directly, but I don’t get an answer.

As for the hole, I’ll be honest, at the beginning it was very narrow. It even hurt me at first. We couldn’t get in right away, even when I was excited.
It lasted (pain) for quite a long time. I think he liked it, of course. Now everything is fine in this regard. I asked him if everything was fine there now, he said YES.
In an excited state, two of my fingers enter (I have already been advised how to check my size). The third finger doesn’t fit, and I have very thin fingers. Of course, when I’m very excited, there’s a lot of lubrication, he fits in perfectly. I guess it’s like that for everyone. But it hurts even when dry, and you can rub your penis (I had that experience). Since I had a caesarean section, everything there was also in excellent condition after the birth.

We married for love, I wrote about it. There was and is a lot of sex. And I never have a headache, you probably won’t believe it, but I have never refused my husband sex! Never! Even if you really have a headache, it often goes away after sex)

I’ll take a look at the link, thank you. You are right, the body must be taught sexuality.

About the size of his penis. He sometimes jokes and says, there are no interesting operations to make it longer. And this is not the first time. This surprises me. Maybe he has a complex about this? in a standing position, if well excited, 16-17 cm, the thickness is normal, not thin and not wide. Its size is enough for me, when it is from behind and if it goes in as deep as possible, it sometimes hurts a little. But this pain is mild, so there is no discomfort. I mean, if he had more, it would probably hurt)

We discussed the sizes, it turns out the reason is not the size of our genitals.

He doesn’t want MFM, I don’t really want it either (after reading the answers here) because suddenly I like another man and our family will fall apart. I offered him MFM and then FFM, this was 2 years ago and was refused. He says that he won’t be able to look at someone touching me. If we decide that we will separate, then there will be other men. I am faithful and betrayal is unacceptable to me, betrayal = betrayal, betrayal means you don’t love, and if you don’t love, fuck this marriage and your partner nearby.
And why are you writing to agree to MFM? What good is another woman to me, only if she is a lesbian and will teach him what and how to do correctly)

Well, let’s say the wife doesn’t have an orgasm regularly. And if this problem can be solved at least temporarily, then why not do it? And isn’t it happiness to watch how your wife is given joy and happiness right here and now.
And I think the one who goes for this is pleased to see it. And it’s also nice for the wife to finally feel butterflies in her stomach and then have another orgasm.

What conclusion do you draw here? That he doesn’t love me and doesn’t give a damn about me? Or does he have a complex that he can’t bring me to orgasm on his own?
Maybe it seems to him that I’m not good enough with him and that’s why I don’t cum? But he doesn’t say anything about it!
I understand that take my dick and do whatever you want and finish it, why use a dildo. It hurts his male pride or something. After all, he laps and does what he can with his hand and tongue, I don’t know which of us is to blame.

And he writes that he never had an orgasm! How can this be?
How can sex be of high quality without a woman having an orgasm?
Or am I missing something?

Yes, that’s how it can be, we are all different. Caresses, kisses and everything is fine, don’t you like the process itself? Is it necessary to only have an orgasm? It’s high quality, because it’s so cool for me that I can’t open my eyes afterwards. But there is no orgasm! Maybe it’s just me, I can’t say anything because I don’t know..
And in general I don’t think that all women always have an orgasm with a man.
Dear girls, please confirm that you often pretend. Men also need to know the truth that they are not all heroes. The female body is complex.

I don’t understand about “confused in the testimony”, please explain?
15 with one man, started having sex with him and then got married. 2 years ago I offered MFM so as not to cheat on my husband and a new experience emerged. So what?
I admit that I just want sex with someone else, just to compare with my husband and understand whether I will end up with someone else or not. But for me it will be a difficult experience; sex without feelings is not for me. If I don’t love a man, his touch doesn’t excite me as much. I need this chemistry. But I always want a husband, even after 15 years.
For men, sex is separate, love is separate. For women sex and love on the same scales (let’s say most often this way, there are certainly different women, it’s bad to generalize).

My mistress will always erect a dick if she wants to fuck... She especially does such miracles with her mouth ...!!!

Yes, I can also erect a penis, you don’t need a lot of skills for this. Once or twice it’s worth it))
My husband’s penis is standing, it just sometimes becomes soft, we already realized that we need to go to the doctor. I help him pick it up and we continue making love.

[Let’s]

I told him yesterday about my experiences, but he was not completely open

That’s where the whole problem lies.
He has some thoughts in his head. Maybe some secrets. Which he doesn’t talk about or doesn’t talk about at all. You feel it, and then it’s like clockwork. You start to beat yourself up. This is already a bad trend.

[Mitry]

For men, sex is separate, love is separate. For women sex and love on the same scales (let’s say most often this way, there are certainly different women, it’s bad to generalize).

Very controversial issue.

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Sunsh1ne: ↑I told him yesterday about my experiences, but he was not completely open
That’s the point lies the whole problem.
He has some thoughts in his head. Maybe some secrets. Which he doesn’t talk about or doesn’t talk about at all. You feel it, and then it’s like clockwork. You start to beat yourself up. This is already a bad trend

Yes, the emergence of omissions and secrets, especially if this has not happened before, is a bad call

As a rule, any problem, except the most primitive ones, is the result of a combination of many factors.

[Sunsh1ne]

Very controversial issue.

More details please) very interesting..

This is where lies the whole problem.
He has some thoughts in his head. Maybe some secrets. Which he doesn’t talk about or doesn’t talk about at all. You feel it, and then it’s like clockwork. You start to beat yourself up. This is already a bad trend.

That’s right, I feel it. And I’m already screwing myself up.
I’ll bring it to light

[Xenophon]

Everything is correct, I feel it. And I’m already screwing myself up.
I will bring it to clean water

Some fish do not live in clean water. Therefore, think about whether it is worth bringing it to clean water. No matter how much worse it gets.

[Hair shirt]

I don’t understand about “confused in the testimony,” please explain?

Your texts offend my sense of beauty regarding personal identification.
Here’s to For example, you look at some woman even from the back, but something in you tells you that this is not a woman but some kind of trans or a man in disguise. It’s hard to screw up the eye and it sees the slightest inconsistencies regardless of you. Is there something wrong. You take a closer look - and you see that there are really a lot of things wrong - gait, gestures, facial biometrics, hairstyle. Yes, a lot of things.
Your texts are exactly the same.

Okay, let’s make allowances. Like, let’s take a break from all this and imagine that it is as you write.
Well, what can I say...
You are playing with one goal right now. That is, at the moment your husband is not your best friend. It would be more accurate to say that you are not his best friend. And he doesn’t want to share with you and be honest and sincere with you. And if two people are not friends with each other, then they accordingly cannot betray each other. That is, you cannot betray your neighbor because you do not have any obligations to him.

I understand that a husband and wife are either friends in life or not. If they are not friends, then everyone lives and is constantly insured and is constantly prepared for the fact that his wife will leave for another. Or that the husband will leave his wife. Hence the nest egg and mistrust. I would say - why continue to live like this together. But it’s good to say this to someone who has wealthy parents and who is generally wealthy in life. What if the wife or husband just simply doesn’t want to go back to their fucking place? And if he is simply horrified that a divorce awaits him and that his wife and two children will simply undress him and send him around the world with alimony for two minor children?

He will not get anything from the apartment either. Well, what if you drop everything and go somewhere far, far away. Let’s say live anywhere in Argentina. But you need good Spanish, which you don’t have. So what?
In general, it’s difficult to even imagine what’s going on in your husband’s head and why he’s not completely sincere with you, as you think. Maybe he has a female friend with whom he feels good and is interested. And for some time he considers you a stupid cunt.
Or maybe he got sick with something and just doesn’t tell you.

Or maybe he’s having a midlife crisis. I have a brother. Clever girl, the hope of the institute teachers and the pride of her parents. Everyone said about him that this guy would definitely be the director of some very large federal enterprise. But it happened that marriage, two children of the same age, lack of money, housing. And all the dreams collapsed. The disser remained unfinished, and dreams of a career also went to one place. And so everything was rosy at first. If I hadn’t gotten married, maybe everything would have worked out...

But I never touched my brother on these sore spots. So he lived with this, convincing himself that he loved his wife and his children madly.
Well, well...
But let’s return to you. What should you do in this whole situation?
If a man were in your place, I would advise him to take care of himself. Go to the gym, start working out seriously, lose weight, get in good physical shape. Additionally, start seriously learning English. And not just teach, but set the goal of starting to hear English speech within a year. Make a step-by-step plan, after some time, hire a tutor - always a native speaker. First, ensure that you watch bourgeois films in the original, then read literature in the original. As a test of yourself, take the exam for an Elts or Toefl certificate.

Well, I would advise you to check whether you will have an orgasm with another man. But for this you need to choose the right man. In the sense that you like him. I think this is an indispensable condition. And preferably without these long painful doubts, thoughts, torments of choice.
Just come somewhere to a club and go from there to a hotel with some handsome man who you will like in every way.
I understand that all this is difficult organize with a husband and two children.

Well, in general, in my opinion, you first need to sort yourself out and then take your husband out to some kind of water.
Figure it out first in yourself - what’s the matter? Why don’t you have an orgasm? There must be one! It must be iron! This is how the female body works.
And secondly, don’t worry about the fact that you are betraying someone there. I already wrote above that in order to betray someone, you must first become best friends with each other. Then we need to learn to trust each other unquestioningly and in spite of everything.
And then you can think - well, how can I do this!? I will betray.

And now you are not betraying anything or anyone. And so it turns out that if your husband suddenly leaves you tomorrow, he, too, will not betray you in any way. Because he has nothing to betray - you are not friends. You still need to become one in order to betray.
And so fill this gap in your life - you will finally sleep with someone else besides your husband. Look what comes out of this and what is it like?

[Alexssss]

Holy crap, hats off)

[Lost]

Maybe it seems to him that I’m not good enough with him and that’s why I don’t cum? But he doesn’t say anything about it!
I understand that take my dick and do whatever you want and finish it, why use a dildo. It hurts his male pride or something. After all, he laps and does what he can with his hand and tongue, here I don’t know which of us is to blame.

It turns out that you seem to have said more than once that you feel good with your husband. You shouldn’t convince yourself otherwise or convince yourself. Maybe your physiology is the same, you can only cum in certain situations, positions, etc. This happens. A simple example, there is a friend who enjoys everything, but achieves orgasm only when she is on top. Even clitoral stimulation helps her in other positions. Regarding the vibrator, my husband may have some kind of complex. Why would he then have such a negative attitude towards the presence of a vibrator during your sex?

[Sunsh1ne]

Understand yourself first - what’s the matter? Why don’t you have an orgasm? There must be one! It must be iron! This is how the female body works.

Thank you for your detailed opinion.
Well, you are a fan of reading between the lines and few people inspire trust in you))

I don’t agree with you about orgasm. Not every girl gets it with a man. They fake it often, unfortunately. Why they don’t receive it, there are a lot of reasons you can describe here. Men who don’t know how to act, women who don’t love, physiology, etc.
It’s a pity that the girls on the forum are silent and don’t want to write about their orgasms. Maybe there is a topic here, I haven’t seen it, or I need to create a new one)
Will they write that with one man I get an orgasm, but with another I couldn’t.

My husband and I always were friends and were friends for 3 years before they got married. He always guessed what I was thinking about, what I wanted. But over the years we have lost this. Everyday life, children and the desire to develop, stress at work cannot but leave a mark. Everything is fine with his career, he achieved what he wanted. I don’t think he’s afraid of losing his property. Because he does everything for the family and his children.

He listened to me and said that he would improve. If it’s important to me, he’s willing to try what I want and how I want it. I literally forced him to talk, and I don’t understand why it’s difficult for him to talk about it. But the ice has broken)
Let’s see what comes of it.

Sent after 15 minutes 30 seconds:

Maybe your physiology is the same, you can cum only in certain situations, positions, etc. This happens. A simple example, there is a friend who enjoys everything, but achieves orgasm only when she is on top. Even clitoral stimulation helps her in other positions. Regarding the vibrator, my husband may have some kind of complex. Why would he then have such a negative attitude towards the presence of a vibrator during your sex?

Apparently in 15 years of marriage, I haven’t found that very position. Although we tried so many things) it’s sad to realize this. My last hope was for a vibrator, so that both my husband and he would work out together, but that didn’t work out either.

Thank you, at least you don’t write that “all women should have an orgasm with a man”

Sometimes I think maybe I can’t completely turn it off head. But alcohol helps turn off your head 100% and it doesn’t work with alcohol. I admit, I suffered from this for a long time and even had a complex that I was somehow different, but then I let go of this situation and continue to love and accept myself as I am)

[The wound]

try ginseng root
..... bind )))
Just kidding.
It happens, people don’t get younger, - sometimes it manifests itself earlier, for others later... Try a silicone ring...

[Hair shirt]

He listened to me and said that he would improve. If this is important to me, he is ready to try what I want and how I want

I have always said that the night cuckoo always snacks on the day.
Well, what did you agree on? Should I try your idea - MFM, or his desire first - MFM?

[Tamerlane]

Only by talking with my husband. And his full support. Go with him to a paid clinic.
There can be a lot of reasons. Get well soon.

[attentive1]

DAMN, LIKE A LITTLE GIRL, I’M SHY TO WRITE CLEARLY - I DON’T GET AN ORGASM, BECAUSE THE MAN’S DEFAULT BEFORE TIME SO?
All real women know what to do. And you jerk off to writings and comments. Most likely you are the guy who has a bad erection and cums quickly.

[Sunsh1ne]

All real women know what to do. And you jerk off to writings and comments. Most likely you are the guy who has a bad erection and cums quickly.

You are mistaken, I am not a man.
What can you jerk off to writing on my topic?)
If I were a man, I would probably turn on porn.

For me, as a woman, everything that is written can cause slight excitement, but I don’t want to jerk off... so-so pleasure)

[attentive1]

If I were a man, I would probably turn on porn.

There are special men here, they jerk off to LETTERS

Sent after 3 minutes :

For me, as for F,

For you as a F, I’ll say: a man needs to stimulate your clitoris with his hand during frictions. Comfortable in a doggy position You will have an orgasm. By the way, 3 minutes of chopping is the lower limit of the norm. Maybe it’s just you?

[A meow]

Sunsh1ne, everything has already been written... and you put some tablets in his soup!!! It’s true that the pills are addictive, as doctors say...

[Serg_A]

Sunsh1ne, everything has already been written.. . and you put some pills in his soup!!! It’s true that the pills are addictive, as doctors say...

Call if it’s heroin

[attentive1]

How many minutes does he rub you? If 5 - 6 minutes is normal.
Let’s move on to the next topic, about MZHM, how did you like it.

[A meow]

They call you if it’s heroin

What about heroin in tablets? And he helps? I really didn’t think so! I meant stimulants, all sorts of Viagra...

[Mitry]

a man needs to stimulate your clitoris with his hand during frictions. Comfortable in a doggy position

Where did you read that? You need to have a hand like an orangutan, and not just reach, but perform the right actions. Theorist! This can be done if the partner takes a vertical position, but then it will no longer be doggystyle and not everyone will have enough penis length to continue coitus
If we are to stimulate the clitoris during frictions, then in positions where the woman is lying, on her back or side, and the man is in a sitting position.

He listened to me and said that he would improve. If it’s important to me, he’s willing to try what I want and how I want it. I literally forced him to talk, and I don’t understand why it’s difficult for him to talk about it. But the ice has broken)
Let’s see what comes of it.

Men in general don’t like to talk about this.
Congratulations on touched by ice
Keep us updated on further developments
What will you try, if it’s not a secret?

[Serg_A]

They call you if it’s heroin

What about heroin in tablets? And he helps? I really didn’t think so! I meant stimulants, all sorts of Viagra...

There is no addiction to Viagra and similar drugs.

[Serg_A]

They call you if it’s heroin

What about heroin in tablets? And he helps? I really didn’t think so! I meant stimulants, all sorts of Viagra...

Calling, if it’s heroin

And what about heroin in tablets? And he helps? I really didn’t think so! I meant stimulants, all sorts of Viagra...

There is no addiction to Viagra and similar drugs.

But there are side effects. And there are contraindications.

[Let’s]

He listened to me and said that he would improve. If this is important to me, he is ready to try what I want and how I want.

Can you share what you agreed on? Just wondering. What is he ready for?

[attentive1]

Where did you read this? You need to have a hand like an orangutan, and not just reach, but perform the right actions. Theorist! This

I am a practitioner Quite convenient!
https://i.postimg.cc/pT8wrSps/sp-4-5-2-500x384.png
Все же мы дрочера развлекаем.Ага,меняться будет мужик к пенсии...но в худшую сторону.

[Mitry]

I am a practitioner Quite comfortable!

Yeah, my legs are also compressed well well

[attentive1]

Yeah, the legs are also compressed, well, well
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Obviously I wasn’t looking for a picture with legs spread Well, it’s convenient???
Let’s better discuss the author. Is he a wanker or not?
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[Mitry]

Well, it’s convenient???
Let’s better discuss the author. Is he a wanker or not?

It’s less inconvenient.
Author or wanker or not 50/50
https://i.postimg.cc/nhRNkDNn/sp-19-20-500x384.png

https://i.postimg.cc/T3YZg97k/sp-19-23-500x384.png
Вот так удобно

[attentive1]

Well, let’s ask the author to provide a video recording of their sex from a hidden camera. We’ll gather a consultation and determine whether the man cums quickly or everything is fine. and the lady doesn’t know what she wants

[Mitry]

Well, let’s ask the author to provide

Well, ask, what’s stopping you?

[Hammer]

Next time the dreamer will write that the man has already been cured with lingonberry leaves. In general, it’s stupid to ask why a boner at 42 is not like at 22. Nature takes its toll. About MFM - an obvious fantasy. And most importantly, none a real woman wouldn’t call her private place a hole, like this sci-fi masturbator.