Marinka: 21 Sep 2023, 12:58
I wanted to see how you wrote to a man on this forum that he was either a man or a woman with a non-traditional orientation. Because so far it turns out that you don’t believe everyone, as you wrote above, but only women. This is what sexism is.
How can I trust men and not believe women when I am not sure whether a woman or a man under one nickname or another? When I equally admit that there can be both a woman and a man. You yourself are proof of this - who wrote that you have a couple of male nicknames and that you will probably switch to them now.
And how can I believe some and not believe others when it is not at all clear who is there under this or that nickname - woman or man?
It’s just that with this online communication on the Internet there are a lot of permissions. The only thing that can be completely determined is that whoever is talking to you is a native Russian speaker or not. Because a foreigner is immediately registered because of the poor Russian language and because of the mass of errors in its use and spelling.
Everything else is complete uncertainty. And there is no choice - don’t like it? Don’t communicate, no one is forcing you. And if you communicate, then accept everything as it is. And it’s stupid to trust what this or that character writes under this or that nickname. It can be anyone and he can write for any purpose and anything. And no one can stop him from doing this.
Well, on certain forums they simply ban or tinder posts for something. For politics, for swearing, for trolling, or simply the moderator is better for it. When I wrote it’s worth it, it’s not sexism. I also meant for a woman that she, too, can have a better standing from this.
I was just joking about your phobia about sexism right now.
And in general it’s stupid in my opinion look to be offended by certain visitors on forums who write something about you that you don’t like. The method is very simple - just add their nickname to the ban list and you won’t see their messages even if they respond to your posts. In fact, this is simply done if you really don’t want to see their posts about you.
And in general. As I remember right now, we were taught as editorial interns in the information department that if readers scold you for your writing, that’s good. If they praise, that’s also good. It’s bad if no one reacts to it. This is about the fact that you once wrote to me that someone here once hated you and it bothered you very much. As I understand it, it can be very annoying when some group of visitors complains about you to the moderator and he bans you.
You just got out of the ban and wrote a couple of messages - they again all complained about you and you banned again. Well yes. But this is not the case here. What problems then!? Put someone you don’t like on your ban list and move on with your life in peace.