First marriage - a rehearsal?

[Gudgeon]

niqk, I don’t walk on them. No need. Some of my friends, as far as I’m concerned, are ordinary charlottes, spouting banalities with a smart look

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

niqk, I don’t walk on them . No need. Some of my friends, as for me, are ordinary charlottes, spouting banalities with a smart look

I thought your opinion is always balanced and reasonable, but it turned out that this is not always the case they devalued the helping profession, which actually saved many lives.. what do psychologists do, for example, on helplines who work with suicides?.. or children who have survived violence?. . - their help is priceless..

[niqk]

niqk, I don’t walk on them . No need. Some of my friends, as for me, are ordinary charlottes, spouting banalities with a smart look

I see! "Of course, I haven’t read Pasternak, but I condemn it with all my heart"!

[Aion2012Dead]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊,
It’s usually not psychologists who work on helplines.
And all sorts of no-names or volunteers, it would be strange for a psychologist to answer every panic and depressive call.
For a suicide - no one will help - he decided everything for himself.
For those who on the verge of suicide - all sorts of conversations can really help.
For children who have suffered violence, no telephone conversations will help, only qualified help from psychologists over a long period of time.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊ ,
It’s not usually psychologists who work on helplines.
And all sorts of no-names or volunteers, it would be strange for a psychologist to answer every panic and depressive call.
For a suicide - no one will help - he decided everything for himself.
For those who on the verge of suicide - all sorts of conversations can really help.
For children who have suffered violence, no telephone conversations will help, only qualified help from psychologists over a long time.

so what? Does this mean that psychology does not exist?

[Aion2012Dead]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊,
Yes, of course it exists.
It’s just that it will only be useful to those who themselves want its help.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊ ,
Yes, of course it exists.
It’s just that it will only be useful to those who themselves want its help.

of course it would be different can not.

[Beluga]

first marriage rehearsal
first children rehearsal
first lover or mistress, second, third
club of lovers over 40-50-60
bam performance, hmm why so gloomy scenery, music, and where exactly are they carrying me feet first?
here they are carrying flowers, which means the role was a success!

[Gudgeon]

valued the helping profession, which really saved the lives of many..

That really valuable - you can’t devalue it with a few phrases. Try to devalue medicine, physics or mathematics with disbelief.
About psychology - anything that does not have a clear theoretical basis is not a science. Doctors - psychotherapists and psychiatrists - save and help. And the psychologist is not even a doctor. I actually do not deny psychology as such, but today, it seems to me, it is very crude, it is more reminiscent of blindly shying away than a purposeful action with a guaranteed result or even a highly probable result. But I didn’t really hide my opinion about practicing psychologists... they mainly help themselves improve their financial situation by exploiting a person’s natural desire to get rid of negative feelings. The vast majority of them. I admit that somewhere, in principle, there are those who can and want to help, but not everyone and not always... And they have a very convenient proposition: “Well, if it didn’t help, it means the person himself didn’t want to.” . A kind of disclaimer of responsibility while still on the shore.
However, I do not impose my opinion on this matter on anyone. If someone thinks that psychologists are helping him, that’s good, that’s their business. Any method is good if it works at least sometimes (with the exception of destructive, destructive ones, such as alcohol and drugs).

[niqk]

Gudgeon, from your comment it is clear that in psychology you - no boom-boom. First, read the textbook
psychology for teacher training colleges. It’s affordable enough to get started...

[Gudgeon]

niqk, I will not convince you otherwise. I don’t have such a goal.

[Serge12345]

My wife and I have been together for 35 years. There was never a thought about divorce.

[Watchman]

was that the case with you?.. tell us?

fortunately no, but There are fools and fools who cut their wrists and jump out of the windows if LOVE leaves them, but in fact they went to the toilet and mashed a goose there or squeezed a peach and LOVE lets go.

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it’s all the same that this money is for children

this money is needed to take the new tsatsu for a walk and flavor her dumplings

[Omut46]

Married for 14 years. I believe that marriage should be one and for life