Is blowjob considered cheating or not?

Unread post by **Alya** » 27 Feb 2022, 02:15

yes or no and why. Everyone’s opinion is interesting!

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Sep 2022, 12:16

Guys! Have group sex with the whole family! And then there will be no betrayal even close!!

Unread post by **King Bird** » 24 Sep 2022, 02:16

Anything done sexually with other people in secret from a regular partner is considered cheating. Everyone knows this, even the unscrupulous ones like me. And those who claim that blowjob or cunnilingus are the same as friendly kisses on the cheek are being hypocrites and setting cancer up for a stone.

Unread post by **Maxim86** » 24 Sep 2022, 05:30

Definitely cheating. Regardless of sex, blowjob or just fucking you. Even virtual on webcam. All sexual foreplay is considered cheating.

Unread post by **King Bird** » 24 Sep 2022, 06:59

Maxim86: ↑24 Sep 2022, 05:30 Even virtual via webcam.

But you may not agree with this. No sexual contact with another partner? No. Is there no risk of bringing an STD into your home? Also no. I know that my wife is talking to someone on the phone, and if I am nearby, she turns off the screen. I don’t bother her and I don’t get into her phone, because I’m a sinner myself, sometimes I had virtual connections. And our sex is excellent and quite varied. Wirth is even useful, it awakens the imagination.

Unread post by **12345** » 24 Sep 2022, 20:34

King Zogu: ↑24 Sep 2022, 02:16 Everything that is done in secret from a regular partner sexually with other people is considered cheating.

I have a slightly different opinion about this .
For example, I love to have sex with a man, or rather, I love to be fucked well sometimes, and a woman cannot help me with this, only a man is needed here, and therefore I do not consider sex with a man to be cheating.

Unread post by **Alpine9000** » 08 Oct 2022, 08:09

alena: ↑01 May 2022, 03:52 I don’t and have never considered it cheating

that is, I had the experience of sucking on the side more than once.

Unread post by **Center** » 08 Oct 2022, 09:53

Natali_Natali: ↑30 Mar 2022, 01:10 it turns out that... today I sucked one man... tomorrow another...

routine

Unread post by **Shamanakas** » 31 Oct 2022, 04:45

Cheating is a matter of betrayal of trust, not sex.

So, if someone engages in oral sex on the side, without telling their other half and knowing that they may not approve, this is treason. Also, for example, going to the movies with someone on the side, without telling your other half and knowing that she herself would like to go together, is also treason, because it is a betrayal of trust. Excuses that "it’s just a blowjob, not sex" are worthless, because ultimately it’s not about the sex itself.

On the other hand, if, for example , the husband knows that his wife sucks on the side and approves of it, then what kind of betrayal is this? It’s the same with full sex.

Unread post by **Petrovich** » 31 Oct 2022, 06:12

Of course it’s cheating......

Unread post by **Porn** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:01

Alya, hello, you’re sexy and smart

Unread post by **The passage** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:12

If the relationship is open, then no. If it’s classic, then yes. The good thing about blowjobs is that you don’t need to undress, you don’t need to use any protection. It takes little time to perform it and there is no need to look for a special place for solitude for a long time. But if it is done in secret from the partner, and the partner did not give his consent, then of course it is cheating.

Unread post by **Populator** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:18

Marinka,
You can immediately see the woman is a dreamer and Dunno.
Venereal diseases can be transmitted through oral sex, including AIDS.

Unread post by **Vic** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:27

Alya,
I think that if without the partner’s consent, then yes, this is cheating.

Unread post by **March** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:33

As far as I remember, as a result of examining the details of B. Clinton’s relationship with M. Lewinsky, the US Congress decided that blowjob is not a sexual act. And since this action is not sexual, then what kind of betrayal is it? Likewise, a simple handshake can be considered treason.

Unread post by **The passage** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:37

Populator: ↑09 Nov 2022, 01:18 Venereal diseases can be transmitted through oral sex, including AIDS.

You have confused the topic. We’re talking about cheating here, not STDs.

Unread post by **March** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:39

Marinka: ↑09 Nov 2022, 01:37
Populator: ↑09 Nov 2022, 01:18 Venereal diseases can be transmitted through oral sex, including AIDS.
You have confused the topic. We’re talking about cheating here, not STDs.

He’s not confused. For him, the topic of STDs dominates any conversation about sex and sexual relationships. "Who’s talking about what..."

Unread post by **The passage** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:47

March: ↑09 Nov 2022, 01:39 The topic of STDs is dominant for him in any conversation about sex

I gave a blowjob several times when the man’s penis was in a condom. So-so pleasure.
If a person is so afraid of STDs, then maybe he should stop having sex altogether?
I don’t deny the existence of a chance of getting infected during a blowjob, but I’ve done thousands of blowjobs in my life and haven’t gotten infected with anything. Apparently the devil is not as scary as he is portrayed to be.

Unread post by **March** » 09 Nov 2022, 01:49

Marinka: ↑09 Nov 2022, 01:47
March: ↑09 Nov 2022, 01:39 The topic of STDs is dominant for him in any conversation about sex
I gave a blowjob several times when the man’s penis was in a condom. So-so pleasure.
If a person is so afraid of STDs, then maybe he should stop having sex altogether?
I don’t deny the existence of a chance of getting infected during a blowjob, but I’ve done thousands of blowjobs in my life and haven’t gotten infected with anything. Apparently the devil is not as scary as he is painted.

Well, you never know... But a person, perhaps, did it once and picked up something. Now he just can’t calm down.

Unread post by **Doctor_sexy** » 21 Nov 2022, 04:48

Let your girlfriend give someone a blowjob, and then you will see if it’s cheating or not..

Unread post by **Sanek** » 21 Nov 2022, 06:10

Alya, I think it’s 100% cheating. What difference does it make, classic sex or oral. Was another man’s dick inside you? Was! What questions? Moreover, I think that if you just jerk off to someone else’s man, that’s also cheating. But casual sex LJ somehow fits into my head. Although I categorically do not accept homosexuals.

Unread post by **Fat man** » 03 Dec 2022, 09:49

Alya, This is worse than treason. Blowjob and kunta are the holy of holies of two close people. But if you don’t have a young man, then you can give a blowjob to someone he likes, and if he has someone, give it to someone in the mouth, in my opinion, it’s not as mean to your woman as if he were to someone licked. Somehow I say it like this

Unread post by **Mishanja11** » 06 Dec 2022, 01:56

Of course it counts. This is oral sex, and sexual contact on the side is cheating.

Unread post by **Alex366** » 06 Dec 2022, 02:19

No question, a blowjob is possible, this is not cheating)

Unread post by **vlasm** » 23 Nov 2023, 23:20

For me, this is 100% cheating.

Unread post by **Watchman** » 23 Nov 2023, 23:24

Of course yes, if you are already in a relationship with someone else

Unread post by **Manfred** » 23 Nov 2023, 23:27

If your wife sucks others with her mouth and not with her heart, this is not cheating or betrayal.

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 24 Nov 2023, 04:53

Doesn’t count) well, at least for us)

Unread post by **angrove** » 24 Nov 2023, 05:23

If it’s in a condom, then there’s nothing to talk about at all. Sucking ice cream or lollipop is not considered cheating. And if he sucks at the boss, then this is already a production necessity.

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 24 Nov 2023, 05:45

I think the question should be clarified! Cheating on whose part, on the part of the woman giving blowjob or the man)

Unread post by **King Bird** » 24 Nov 2023, 05:48

Yes, like any other sex. If it’s on the sly, then yes. If with permission or approval, then no. Why spread conspiracy theories here?

Unread post by **qazx31** » 24 Nov 2023, 05:52

In my opinion - no. But this depends on the very canons of relationships between people in marriage.

Unread post by **Van** » 24 Nov 2023, 05:57

Alya, my wife considers it cheating.
And I don’t consider it treason.

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 24 Nov 2023, 06:03

Pralna said above!
It’s secretly treason, but we discussed that it’s okay, please, it’s hard to consider it treason)

Unread post by **qwerty18** » 24 Nov 2023, 06:12

Alya: ↑27 Feb 2022, 02:15 Everyone’s opinion is interesting!

Is blowjob cheating? Come on... Even stroking someone else’s wife’s knee is not cheating on your own. And about such a trifle as a blowjob - there’s no question. It’s strange to even think that you will be jealous or abandoned because of a blowjob. Suck it and don’t worry.

Unread post by **Pol66** » 24 Nov 2023, 06:43

Diavolo: ↑25 Apr 2022, 03:01 Mine went to visit a married friend in another city, and her ex was there, I called her, I heard men’s voices there, I wonder what’s going on there. Then I call again, she picks up the phone and says that everything is fine, I hear the voice of her ex Olya, come here, I’m waiting for where your mouth is, and she hangs up. The caller is not available. I call her friend’s husband, he says her friend has come, she allows them, they’ve been in the room for an hour, I ask him to see what they’re doing there, he says he’s sitting and she’s sucking him, I say stop them, he’s not, figure it out yourself, I’m calling my friend she she says it’s normal, don’t worry.

There was a similar situation, although she admitted it herself, apparently she has that kind of conscience! Well, I didn’t bother and worry about it, since we all have the right to choose our own pleasure!

Unread post by **etc** » 24 Nov 2023, 06:45

I heard the opinion - if by accident, then it’s not treason).

Unread post by **qwerty18** » 24 Nov 2023, 06:54

vvm: ↑24 Nov 2023, 06:45 I heard the opinion - if by accident, then it is not treason).

Exactly! And if you accidentally kill, it’s not murder.

Unread post by **etc** » 24 Nov 2023, 06:58

qwerty18: ↑24 Nov 2023, 06:54
vvm: ↑24 Nov 2023, 06:45 I heard the opinion - if by accident, then it is not treason).
Exactly! And if you accidentally kill, it’s not murder.

Unintentionally, that is.

Unread post by **fuck** » 24 Nov 2023, 07:07

If the blowjob is to yourself then no it’s not cheating

Unread post by **qwerty18** » 24 Nov 2023, 07:10

niki77: ↑24 Nov 2023, 07:07 If you give yourself a blowjob, then no, it’s not cheating

This was the first sensible thought for today, which I read on the forum.

Unread post by **BeachBunny** » 24 Nov 2023, 07:53

Natali_Natali: ↑30 Mar 2022, 01:10 I don’t want to offend anyone, everyone has the right to their own opinion on this issue, but I believe that whatever you call it, any relationship with someone else’s man, if your husband\boyfriend doesn’t know about it.. . then this will be betrayal.. and not only in his eyes, but also in the eyes of the girl herself... I’m not saying that I’m a saint there and I haven’t had such situations... but I’m not specifically looking for anyone on the side.. but in life all sorts of cases happen... and sometimes it turns out that a banal blowjob can... let’s say save\help me in "not easy" situations.. but still this is treason and I never talk about such cases I’ll tell my boyfriend. And it turns out that if you follow the logic of forum members and forum members... that a blow job is not cheating... then it turns out that... today I sucked off one... tomorrow another... in a week they can easily finger me. .. in the entrance there.. I don’t know... and then what, in general it’s possible to get laid or something....
Again... I’m talking now about couples where the husband is not in the know " not cheating on your wife\girlfriend... I just know many men who are very turned on by this behavior of their wives\girlfriends... well, this is a completely different case

I periodically come across this opinion, not often, but still, that cheating is cheating, but if the guy/husband doesn’t know, then it seems like it’s not cheating anymore, everything seems to be normal. What the hell and how this nonsense fits into a woman’s head, I can’t understand

Unread post by **King Bird** » 24 Nov 2023, 08:16

vvm: ↑24 Nov 2023, 06:58
qwerty18: ↑24 Nov 2023, 06:54
vvm: ↑24 Nov 2023, 06:45 I heard the opinion - if by accident, then it is not treason).
Exactly! And if you accidentally kill, it’s not murder.
Unintentionally, that is.

nColleague, well, yes... But you can’t explain this crap to your wife.

Unread post by **Xenophon** » 24 Nov 2023, 08:24

Treason is when something changes. What changes during a blow job? Absolutely nothing? Also, nothing changes with any other sex. Everything remains in place. But if your wife took your car without asking and crashed it. This is treason, this is treason! Or, God forbid, I bought myself a fur coat with the help of your credit card!

Unread post by **etc** » 24 Nov 2023, 08:30

King Zogu: ↑24 Nov 2023, 08:16 Colleague, well, yes... But you can explain this crap to your wife

This is what my wife told me, if unintentionally (passion , case, lost control), then this is not treason. It can happen to anyone.

Unread post by **Alexander 19** » 24 Nov 2023, 09:28

Alya: ↑27 Feb 2022, 02:15 yes or no and why. An interesting opinion everyone!

doesn’t count, I would like a girl who would take someone else’s mouth in front of me, but what if and her face was still covered in sperm, if it were someone else’s, I would go completely crazy from owning such a girl

26 Nov 2023, 02:24

BeachBunny,
I won’t speak for all the girls, but treason, whatever you call it, is treason. But again, I don’t judge anyone and I don’t impose anything on anyone. For everyone, at least once, and maybe more, in life “something” will happen that in the end she/he will end up in such a situation. situations.
And now, telling your significant other about this, again, is an entirely individual matter. We are all not saints, and as they say, we only live once.... Damn, I myself know so many guys who behave, let’s say, not ideally in relationships, but they demand almost a standard of fidelity from their wives\girlfriends .... it’s just that for some reason it’s believed that if a guy cheats on the side, he’s almost a hero, but a girl, if she stumbles once... then immediately - damn.
Once again, everything is purely individual, but it may still happen that "treason" will find you on its own, how can you not hide from it..
Just imagine... summer... night... sea.. the only lighting is a fire on the shore and the headlights of cars that illuminate the shore.... Almost all the barbecue has already been eaten, but there is no alcohol left at all.. But no one is going to bed yet.. I want “adventures”.... for the umpteenth time everyone went swimming in the sea... Again, "fussing".. a game... of kvacha or just everyone being foolish... guys pester girls in the water... you no longer understand who is where and who is whose)))) ... I mean without sex.. they just "touch" each other in the water..
Well, one of the girls, knowing that she is "bottom" by nature, pays more attention than others. .. without going overboard... but just wondering and it excites.....
And imagine the horror. when I realized that the game suddenly ended and I was left alone in the water... Just at one fine moment, the whole company came out of the water, and they just forgot about me... damn it... and I no longer had the strength to swim to the end... and it seems like there is no tide... but for some reason it seems that the water is constantly rising because I can’t even hold on to the “bridge”.. there were several of them in the water... I no longer have the strength... and I won’t swim to the shore myself ...
in short... it wasn’t my boyfriend who came after me, but... damn it, someone else’s boy, and mine still didn’t understand that he came out of the sea alone, without me...
Later, on the shore I had "betrayal"....Although it wasn’t even treason on my part. but something else....
Yes, and people don’t need to judge me, because not only was I not married then, but I hadn’t even met my husband yet

Unread post by **Pierro** » 26 Nov 2023, 08:01

Alya: ↑27 Feb 2022, 02:15 yes or no and why.

if there are two condoms, then no.
because.

Unread post by **BeachBunny** » 26 Nov 2023, 10:34

Natali_Natali, I don’t understand people who demand fidelity from a couple when they themselves do not possess such a quality, and gender does not play a role. In your specific case, you can say there was no betrayal, "your" guy came out of the water without you, but would he even be yours?)

Natali_Natali: ↑26 Nov 2023, 02:24 Again "fuss".. game.. in kvacha or everyone is just being stupid... guys pester girls in the water... you don’t even understand who is where and who is whose))))... I mean without sex.. they just “touch” each other in the water. .

I can’t even imagine my girlfriend being “touched” by anyone except me, I’m possessive. And I don’t play balls with other people’s women.
Betrayal is almost always determined by thinking and lifestyle, and is also a conscious choice; betrayal is extremely rarely an accident.

26 Nov 2023, 10:39

BeachBunny,
Well at that moment , he was probably my boyfriend... at least I thought so then)))
So there was cheating.. probably.. Although now it doesn’t matter anymore.. I just cited a real-life example as an example
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And about the fact that you can’t imagine anyone touching your girlfriend except you.... I don’t know... just when you swim in the sea at night without clothes... i.e. absolutely... and then you sit by the fire in the same form... and after drinking alcohol... then... Okay.. I’m just so crazy that I used to swim naked... now I don’t do such things ...

Unread post by **BeachBunny** » 26 Nov 2023, 10:48

Natali_Natali, I understand you. From my point of view, if someone fucks you right in front of your boyfriend, then either he is your boyfriend only formally, or your boyfriend is a cuckold who likes it. As for the situation when you were “forgotten” in the water, and even while intoxicated, this also means that your boyfriend is “yours” only formally, just as you are “his.”
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Natali_Natali : ↑26 Nov 2023, 10:43 And about the fact that you can’t imagine anyone touching your girlfriend except you.... I don’t know... just when you swim in the sea at night without clothes... i.e. absolutely... and then you sit by the fire in the same form... and after drinking alcohol... then... Okay.. I’m just so crazy that I used to swim naked... now I don’t do such things ...

I did a lot of things before that I don’t do now) Please note, I didn’t say a word to you about your naked swimming, I’m basically neutral about this I relate.

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