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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
Not married. But if my wife is against my jerking off... then I’ll jerk off in secret))
I have a friend. She once confessed to me that her husband (oh horror!) jerks off. I really asked for advice on what to do, whether it was normal or not. She thought that the problem was with her, she did not satisfy him, and she began to develop a complex. The cockroaches are still in my head. But he calmed her down and explained that they are living well now
I have a friend. She once confessed to me that her husband (oh horror!) jerks off. I really asked for advice on what to do, whether it was normal or not. She thought that the problem was with her, she did not satisfy him, and she began to develop a complex. The cockroaches are still in my head. But he calmed her down and explained that they are living well now
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
After everything became normal for my wife, my need for masturbation went away. My wife satisfies all my needs, but I am no longer enough to satisfy her needs.
Since I got married, it happened several times and a very long time ago. When my wife gave birth to a daughter, the birth was difficult and interrupted, and we were still young. My wife herself came up with the idea of saving herself with a blow job, but I still had to catch up with masturbation.
After everything became normal for my wife, my need for masturbation went away. My wife satisfies all my needs, but I am no longer enough to satisfy her needs.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
Why not....we can easily be next to each other and masturbate to photos or porn....then of course it all ends with sex....or I like to look at photos of my wife and masturbate...
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I masturbate in marriage. The reason is different needs for sex, there is no opportunity and time. I have to where I have to... my wife fired and knows that I’m doing this
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
No problem at all. Well, I want to jerk off, took it and jerked it off. My wife saw it several times and just pretended that nothing special happened. Although I also absolutely don’t give a damn what she saw))) Physiological need. Well, my wife got tired in the evening and took it and jerked it off .Well, there is no way to fuck in the morning - I took it and jerked off!! So to speak, everything is in my hands)))
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
I don’t see any problem with this either. If I wanted to, I emptied the tanks manually.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
Knows that I’m masturbating.
Yes, if the wife can’t for some reason.
Knows that I’m masturbating.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
I jerk off
My wife doesn’t really want to, and it’s easier this way, I relieved the tension and it’s good.
The wife knows. Well, okay, sometimes I jerk off to my wife)
My wife doesn’t really want to, and it’s easier this way, I relieved the tension and it’s good.
The wife knows. Well, okay, sometimes I jerk off to my wife)
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Naturally yes. By the way, I’m almost convinced that my ability to not cum for a long time is due to the fact that I usually don’t jerk quickly, but do everything with feeling and sense.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
IMHO everyone masturbates, regardless of whether they are married or not. Masturbation and sex are completely different things. And, if there is something in sex that we don’t like, something that doesn’t suit us, something that we don’t accept at all, then everyone likes masturbation. We always get an orgasm from masturbation and masturbation does not at all prevent us from having sex.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
What is shameful or unnatural about this? I think that this is in the order of things and it does not interfere with marital relations in any sense. I jerked off before marriage, I jerk off after.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
Constantly, sometimes together with my wife we masturbate
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We were doing this last night. Bliss
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
I have been married for 10 years. I actively masturbate every day. Masturbating in the bath. This way I relieve stress and tension.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
I don’t see anything special either.
But. Believe it or not, there are wives and, probably, husbands too - who consider this just bullshit and almost cheating in marriage: like, "How is it that he jerks off? Does that mean he doesn’t need me anymore? " There are such.
But. Believe it or not, there are wives and, probably, husbands too - who consider this just bullshit and almost cheating in marriage: like, "How is it that he jerks off? Does that mean he doesn’t need me anymore? " There are such.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
Yeah, I heard about This. But not in real life, really. Also on the forums - men’s irritation about this and a scandal, and women’s complaints. This is about the same story as jealousy of fantasies during sex. There is indignation on both sides - like "how dare he (she) imagine someone else while having sex with me?!" Again, many masturbate to porn, which, apparently, not everyone likes.Hooligan Carrie: ↑05 Feb 2024, 00:59 and, probably, husbands too - who consider this just bullshit and almost cheating in marriage
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I agree there are such couples. I even know people for whom masturbation in marriage is downright cheating. View porn also treason. Honestly, I don’t understand this. Well, I wanted to, they took it and jerked it off, there’s nothing special about it.Hooligan Carrie: ↑05 Feb 2024, 00:59
But. Believe it or not, there are wives and, probably, husbands too - who consider this just bullshit and almost cheating in marriage: like, "How is it that he jerks off? Does that mean he doesn’t need me anymore? "There are such.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
My wife and I know about our secret activities with her, but we do not discuss it openly. Although, she and I even have toys in common
This is normal. In many marriages this is practiced without hesitation. Cause? Life in different rhythms of spouses. When one wants sex, the other partner has no time/tired/no desire. If the relationship between husband and wife is trusting, then this fact is perceived naturally.
My wife and I know about our secret activities with her, but we do not discuss it openly. Although, she and I even have toys in common
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Yes, I think this is quite normal. My wife and I loved it. I used to tell her and tell me. They liked to do this in the bathroom. Why is there anything shameful about it, it’s even quite pleasant)
We also masturbated with another girl. True, when I went into the bathroom for the first time and she suddenly stopped, she was just... shy. I went in and began to caress her clitoris myself. Well, then she got involved.
We also masturbated with another girl. True, when I went into the bathroom for the first time and she suddenly stopped, she was just... shy. I went in and began to caress her clitoris myself. Well, then she got involved.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
I’m certainly not married, but I’m in a long-term relationship. And we often just masturbate in an embrace, each to himself or mutually, if not too lazy) We jerk off simply because we are tired and simply don’t have the strength for a full-fledged sex scene, but we both want to cum. Or someone wants one, but in response there is silence, so we settle into a hugging position and quietly peacefully reach the end
Moreover, at the beginning of the relationship I gave her first vibrator, they say I’m not always there, so at least you can do this)

Moreover, at the beginning of the relationship I gave her first vibrator, they say I’m not always there, so at least you can do this)
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
Both I and my wife masturbate sometimes. Sometimes we do it opposite each other... there is nothing secret here!
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Oh, what a topic!
I was literally doing this today. I like it so that it’s on the edge, so that the wife almost notices... and also film herself while doing it
I was literally doing this today. I like it so that it’s on the edge, so that the wife almost notices... and also film herself while doing it

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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
I don’t see anything wrong with that. It happens that you really want it when you’re not around. Yes, and talking on the phone at this moment very well prepares you for the meeting
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What I mean is that this is the beginning of some kind of process, after which something will change in your relationship with your wife. Most likely she will find someone at work. Especially if this is some kind of work related to large territories where it is easy to get lost. Some kind of warehouses, for example. I’ve seen a lot of stories here on this forum about similar relationships between warehouse workers. Like the warehouse team celebrated March 8th. Three married women, four men, two of whom are married. During the celebration, everyone fucked with each other. Everyone visited each other.
Everyone really liked it. Why would that be? And that’s why I liked it because apparently the house wasn’t quite what I wanted. Although I admit that among these three warehouse workers there was one who was satisfied with everything at home in terms of sex. But they just drank - and the pussy went over the bumps! It doesn’t happen to anyone, especially if the team is nice.
Well, in general, I’m just curious - will you do anything in this regard in relation to your wife? Or don’t give a fuck?
Well, as for anonism and masturbation among married people, I think that this is a double-edged thing. On the one hand, it seems to be useful and necessary. On the other hand, for example, you stayed late at work and jerked off in an empty office. And your wife is waiting for you at home and has been thinking about sex all day. And you come like this and you’ve already jerked off and you don’t want to. So what? And you’re like, just prick the dick and let’s feel her clitoris. Well and all that.
And we got to the bed - and she turned on her side and went to sleep. He says I want to sleep. So what!?
And then! She jerked off during the day and doesn’t want anything anymore. At least for now.
So, of course, it seems like there is nothing wrong with masturbation and anonism. But it does confuse spouses a little when one wants it and the other doesn’t. Because I jerked off.
And this really can be a problem. And in this case, you probably still need to convey your desire to your soulmate. And don’t waste it somewhere. Or at least not use this desire only for one. That is, do not forget that you are not alone.
And how do you think you can solve this problem?Andrey Lukashov: ↑20 Jan 2024, 02:21 My wife satisfies all my needs, but I am no longer enough to satisfy her needs.
What I mean is that this is the beginning of some kind of process, after which something will change in your relationship with your wife. Most likely she will find someone at work. Especially if this is some kind of work related to large territories where it is easy to get lost. Some kind of warehouses, for example. I’ve seen a lot of stories here on this forum about similar relationships between warehouse workers. Like the warehouse team celebrated March 8th. Three married women, four men, two of whom are married. During the celebration, everyone fucked with each other. Everyone visited each other.
Everyone really liked it. Why would that be? And that’s why I liked it because apparently the house wasn’t quite what I wanted. Although I admit that among these three warehouse workers there was one who was satisfied with everything at home in terms of sex. But they just drank - and the pussy went over the bumps! It doesn’t happen to anyone, especially if the team is nice.

Well, in general, I’m just curious - will you do anything in this regard in relation to your wife? Or don’t give a fuck?
Well, as for anonism and masturbation among married people, I think that this is a double-edged thing. On the one hand, it seems to be useful and necessary. On the other hand, for example, you stayed late at work and jerked off in an empty office. And your wife is waiting for you at home and has been thinking about sex all day. And you come like this and you’ve already jerked off and you don’t want to. So what? And you’re like, just prick the dick and let’s feel her clitoris. Well and all that.
And we got to the bed - and she turned on her side and went to sleep. He says I want to sleep. So what!?
And then! She jerked off during the day and doesn’t want anything anymore. At least for now.
So, of course, it seems like there is nothing wrong with masturbation and anonism. But it does confuse spouses a little when one wants it and the other doesn’t. Because I jerked off.
And this really can be a problem. And in this case, you probably still need to convey your desire to your soulmate. And don’t waste it somewhere. Or at least not use this desire only for one. That is, do not forget that you are not alone.
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Re: Masturbation in marriage.
I work on shift, I miss my wife. When the opportunity arises, why not. I used to have phone sex with my wife and whisper my fantasies to her. I took a video of my jerking off, and she gave me her photos.
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