Masturbation in marriage.

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Do you masturbate while married? Reason, where and when? Aren’t you afraid of getting burned?
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Galinka: 20 Jan 2024, 01:30 This is a common and natural phenomenon. I generally like it when my husband jerks off in front of my face and shoots his hot sperm into my mouth and face
Bastard! In our opinion, in the Kuban way! :shamp:
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Unread post by PavelNokia »

Not married. But if my wife is against my jerking off... then I’ll jerk off in secret))
I have a friend. She once confessed to me that her husband (oh horror!) jerks off. I really asked for advice on what to do, whether it was normal or not. She thought that the problem was with her, she did not satisfy him, and she began to develop a complex. The cockroaches are still in my head. But he calmed her down and explained that they are living well now
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Unread post by Rebus 2 »

Of course I jerk off, it’s a thrill, and even with a strap-on
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Unread post by Andrey Lukashov »

LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50 Do you masturbate while married? Reason, where and when? Aren’t you afraid of getting burned?
Since I got married, it happened several times and a very long time ago. When my wife gave birth to a daughter, the birth was difficult and interrupted, and we were still young. My wife herself came up with the idea of ​​saving herself with a blow job, but I still had to catch up with masturbation.
After everything became normal for my wife, my need for masturbation went away. My wife satisfies all my needs, but I am no longer enough to satisfy her needs.
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My wife and I sometimes jerk ourselves off and look at each other.
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Unread post by Sex coot »

Why not....we can easily be next to each other and masturbate to photos or porn....then of course it all ends with sex....or I like to look at photos of my wife and masturbate...
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Unread post by Viragom »

I masturbate in marriage. The reason is different needs for sex, there is no opportunity and time. I have to where I have to... my wife fired and knows that I’m doing this
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Unread post by Murzik85 »

No problem at all. Well, I want to jerk off, took it and jerked it off. My wife saw it several times and just pretended that nothing special happened. Although I also absolutely don’t give a damn what she saw))) Physiological need. Well, my wife got tired in the evening and took it and jerked it off .Well, there is no way to fuck in the morning - I took it and jerked off!! So to speak, everything is in my hands)))
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I don’t see any problem with this either. If I wanted to, I emptied the tanks manually.
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Unread post by Tamerlane »

LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50 Do you masturbate while married? Reason, where and when? Aren’t you afraid to get burned?
Yes, if the wife can’t for some reason.
Knows that I’m masturbating.
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Unread post by Hmmmm »

I jerk off
My wife doesn’t really want to, and it’s easier this way, I relieved the tension and it’s good.
The wife knows. Well, okay, sometimes I jerk off to my wife)
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Unread post by Rainmaker »

Naturally yes. By the way, I’m almost convinced that my ability to not cum for a long time is due to the fact that I usually don’t jerk quickly, but do everything with feeling and sense.
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I can do it with my husband, we like it
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Unread post by Venus »

IMHO everyone masturbates, regardless of whether they are married or not. Masturbation and sex are completely different things. And, if there is something in sex that we don’t like, something that doesn’t suit us, something that we don’t accept at all, then everyone likes masturbation. We always get an orgasm from masturbation and masturbation does not at all prevent us from having sex.
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Unread post by Coock Old*** »

What is shameful or unnatural about this? I think that this is in the order of things and it does not interfere with marital relations in any sense. I jerked off before marriage, I jerk off after.
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Constantly, sometimes together with my wife we ​​masturbate
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We were doing this last night. Bliss
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I have been married for 10 years. I actively masturbate every day. Masturbating in the bath. This way I relieve stress and tension.
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I love watching my wife masturbate!
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Ded: 05 Feb 2024, 00:07 I love watching my wife masturbate!
and it would be even more pleasant to watch my daughter masturbate.
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I don’t see anything special either.
But. Believe it or not, there are wives and, probably, husbands too - who consider this just bullshit and almost cheating in marriage: like, "How is it that he jerks off? Does that mean he doesn’t need me anymore? " There are such.
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Hooligan Carrie: 05 Feb 2024, 00:59 and, probably, husbands too - who consider this just bullshit and almost cheating in marriage
Yeah, I heard about This. But not in real life, really. Also on the forums - men’s irritation about this and a scandal, and women’s complaints. This is about the same story as jealousy of fantasies during sex. There is indignation on both sides - like "how dare he (she) imagine someone else while having sex with me?!" Again, many masturbate to porn, which, apparently, not everyone likes.
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Hooligan Carrie: 05 Feb 2024, 00:59
But. Believe it or not, there are wives and, probably, husbands too - who consider this just bullshit and almost cheating in marriage: like, "How is it that he jerks off? Does that mean he doesn’t need me anymore? "There are such.
I agree there are such couples. I even know people for whom masturbation in marriage is downright cheating. View porn also treason. Honestly, I don’t understand this. Well, I wanted to, they took it and jerked it off, there’s nothing special about it.
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LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50 Do you masturbate while married? Reason, where and when? Aren’t you afraid of getting burned?
This is normal. In many marriages this is practiced without hesitation. Cause? Life in different rhythms of spouses. When one wants sex, the other partner has no time/tired/no desire. If the relationship between husband and wife is trusting, then this fact is perceived naturally.
My wife and I know about our secret activities with her, but we do not discuss it openly. Although, she and I even have toys in common 🙂
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Unread post by Evgeniy80 »

Yes, I think this is quite normal. My wife and I loved it. I used to tell her and tell me. They liked to do this in the bathroom. Why is there anything shameful about it, it’s even quite pleasant)
We also masturbated with another girl. True, when I went into the bathroom for the first time and she suddenly stopped, she was just... shy. I went in and began to caress her clitoris myself. Well, then she got involved.
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I’m certainly not married, but I’m in a long-term relationship. And we often just masturbate in an embrace, each to himself or mutually, if not too lazy) We jerk off simply because we are tired and simply don’t have the strength for a full-fledged sex scene, but we both want to cum. Or someone wants one, but in response there is silence, so we settle into a hugging position and quietly peacefully reach the end :roll:
Moreover, at the beginning of the relationship I gave her first vibrator, they say I’m not always there, so at least you can do this)
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Both I and my wife masturbate sometimes. Sometimes we do it opposite each other... there is nothing secret here!
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Oh, what a topic!
I was literally doing this today. I like it so that it’s on the edge, so that the wife almost notices... and also film herself while doing it :clever:
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LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50 Do you masturbate while married? Reason, where and when? Aren’t you afraid of getting burned?
I don’t see anything wrong with that. It happens that you really want it when you’re not around. Yes, and talking on the phone at this moment very well prepares you for the meeting
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Andrey Lukashov: 20 Jan 2024, 02:21 My wife satisfies all my needs, but I am no longer enough to satisfy her needs.
And how do you think you can solve this problem?
What I mean is that this is the beginning of some kind of process, after which something will change in your relationship with your wife. Most likely she will find someone at work. Especially if this is some kind of work related to large territories where it is easy to get lost. Some kind of warehouses, for example. I’ve seen a lot of stories here on this forum about similar relationships between warehouse workers. Like the warehouse team celebrated March 8th. Three married women, four men, two of whom are married. During the celebration, everyone fucked with each other. Everyone visited each other.

Everyone really liked it. Why would that be? And that’s why I liked it because apparently the house wasn’t quite what I wanted. Although I admit that among these three warehouse workers there was one who was satisfied with everything at home in terms of sex. But they just drank - and the pussy went over the bumps! It doesn’t happen to anyone, especially if the team is nice. :-)
Well, in general, I’m just curious - will you do anything in this regard in relation to your wife? Or don’t give a fuck?

Well, as for anonism and masturbation among married people, I think that this is a double-edged thing. On the one hand, it seems to be useful and necessary. On the other hand, for example, you stayed late at work and jerked off in an empty office. And your wife is waiting for you at home and has been thinking about sex all day. And you come like this and you’ve already jerked off and you don’t want to. So what? And you’re like, just prick the dick and let’s feel her clitoris. Well and all that.
And we got to the bed - and she turned on her side and went to sleep. He says I want to sleep. So what!?
And then! She jerked off during the day and doesn’t want anything anymore. At least for now.

So, of course, it seems like there is nothing wrong with masturbation and anonism. But it does confuse spouses a little when one wants it and the other doesn’t. Because I jerked off.
And this really can be a problem. And in this case, you probably still need to convey your desire to your soulmate. And don’t waste it somewhere. Or at least not use this desire only for one. That is, do not forget that you are not alone.
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I work on shift, I miss my wife. When the opportunity arises, why not. I used to have phone sex with my wife and whisper my fantasies to her. I took a video of my jerking off, and she gave me her photos.
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