Is blowjob considered cheating or not?

[Alya]

yes or no and why. Everyone’s opinion is interesting!

[alexey.bro]

Of course yes, I wouldn’t want my wife to suck another guy’s dick and then come to me, in turn, I don’t let just anyone who wants to suck, and due to the fact that I fuck a lot of them in taxis, I know that they’re waiting at home my favorite which will satisfy me 100%, why then all this?

[libertine]

I don’t understand people who foam at the mouth and insist that blowjob is not cheating! This is oral sex with another person! Not with my husband! And any sex not with your husband is cheating! If you gave another man a blowjob, then you can be called a waffler, because you love to suck dick! If you give to everyone (right and left), then you are an honest giver. And if you give it for some money, then you are a whore or a prostitute! Everything here is logical and correct!

[Branch]

It doesn’t count with us, but it hasn’t happened with strangers yet

[Tolkala]

It doesn’t count here, but I haven’t done it with strangers yet

whom did you give a blowjob to?

[Branch]

And I did and I do. I’m new here, so I don’t know all the permissions yet, so I can PM you for the details

[King Bird]

I can’t even imagine that someone “touched” my girlfriend except me, I’m the owner. And I don’t play balls with other people’s women.

We had a warm company in the 90s, 3 sometimes 4 married couples. On our birthdays, a crowd of us went to the sauna and played blind man’s buff there, wearing only swimming trunks and swimsuits. And then in the pool to catch up. So I touched other people’s wives, and mine was not left without touching. But, of course, there was no egg rolling at all. Such games are simply exciting, and then at the table the topic of sex was often brought up, of course. We fucked at home, in the evening, each with his wife. As for me - exactly.

[Branch]

No, fuck, of course this is not cheating. Just think, I took it in my mouth from someone else’s man. So I didn’t swallow. Sarcasm if anyone doesn’t understand. Yes, no matter where you gave it to someone else’s man, in front, behind, or in the mouth, treason is treason. Whoever is quietly sucking from their husbands, check their horns, they have not yet begun to grow

In the understanding that was drummed into me: betrayal is a betrayal of the interests of a partner (husband) ). And if my husband likes it when I tell him or when he sees it for himself, then what kind of betrayal is this? After all, a lot is done to please him.
I understand that everyone has their own understanding of this concept, so you shouldn’t judge everyone from your own bell tower.
Sorry, I expressed my opinion)

[Sibiryak89]

No, fuck, of course it’s not cheating. Just think, I took it in my mouth from someone else’s man. So I didn’t swallow. Sarcasm if anyone doesn’t understand. Yes, no matter where you gave it to someone else’s man, in front, behind, or in the mouth, treason is treason. Whoever is quietly sucking from their husbands, check their horns, they have not yet begun to grow

In the understanding that was drummed into me: betrayal is a betrayal of the interests of a partner (husband) ). And if my husband likes it when I tell him or when he sees it for himself, then what kind of betrayal is this? After all, a lot is done to please him.
I understand that everyone has their own understanding of this concept, so you shouldn’t judge everyone from your own bell tower.
Sorry, I expressed my opinion)

Your family, your rules

[Lazobai]

We lived with my wife for 8.5 years, sex was already boring, monotony, she liked one guy at work, secretly corresponded with him, kissed, he matsaled her and somehow by chance I caught her talking to him on the phone, it just happened by chance, phone I never checked, at first of course I created a scandal, we had a fight, she understood everything, she said she almost lost her family, saying she was a fool, and the next day I told her to go to a meeting, have sex, without hesitation she phoned him, he arrived just now, nothing didn’t even give her a present, didn’t treat her or take her anywhere, took her to some guest house, licked her, fucked her, and since there was no water, he came in her mouth, in the evening she told me all this, I was overwhelmed with emotions, jealousy and anger, Of course, an imprint will remain in my heart for the rest of my life, but I love her and don’t be offended by her, because I myself didn’t mind and allowed her to go on a date, as it turned out she was already pregnant for several weeks, maybe this influenced her, or maybe no, in general these are the things that are not done for the sake of love, in the end she went and liked it but nothing more, he did not offer her to live, so only periodically be friends with organisms, while the pregnant woman does not want anything in terms of sex, in general something like that This is how I told my story, I hope someone was interested)

[Kalyaev]

presented his story

What is your outcome? Blowjob cheating? Not?

[alexey.bro]

What is your result? Blowjob cheating? No?

According to his logic, no, the very fact of desire for another man can already be considered treason.. it’s another matter if they go for it after discussing these points for the sake of experience and experiment to save your relationship

[Lazobai]

explained his story

What is your outcome? Blowjob cheating? No?

With my consent, I think that it is not treason, but personal satisfaction of one’s physiological needs

[evgen001]

When my husband knows, I don’t consider blowjobs, just like any other type of sex, to be cheating. But if this happens secretly, this is definitely treason.

[Tpoo]

No, fuck, of course it’s not cheating. Just think, I took it in my mouth from someone else’s man. So I didn’t swallow. Sarcasm if anyone doesn’t understand. Yes, no matter where you gave it to someone else’s man, in front, behind, or in the mouth, treason is treason. Whoever is quietly sucking from their husbands, check their horns, they have not yet begun to grow

In the understanding that was drummed into me: betrayal is a betrayal of the interests of a partner (husband) ). And if my husband likes it when I tell him or when he sees it for himself, then what kind of betrayal is this? After all, a lot is done to please him.
I understand that everyone has their own understanding of this concept, so you shouldn’t judge everyone from your own bell tower.
Sorry, I expressed my opinion)

My wife and I have been living with elements of an open relationship for a long time. We tried a lot of things. Children grow up, but not with them. My wife has a friend who can lick him for hours and mine likes it. He loves to have a strap-on.
We met with a tranny before. Mine is absolutely crazy about this and loves to watch from the side how we have sex with a tranny, while she herself masturbates. Then he joins us.
If we go on business trips together, then for variety we also arrange threesomes - FFM and MFM.
If you trust and do not deceive, then you can continue to live like this.

[Bully Carrie]

Blowjob is sex. Sex with another partner is cheating. This means that a blowjob with another partner is cheating.

[Bully Carrie]

With my consent, I think that it is not treason, but personal satisfaction of one’s physiological needs

How can this happen? Like, "Honey, I want our accountant at work to suck me off, okay?"

[qwerty13]

Blowjobs and sex in the ass are a common practice between opposite-sex work colleagues when there is no work or the lights are turned off. Is blowjob cheating? Don’t be ridiculous... Just friendship and trust.

[Lazobai]

With my consent, I think that it is not betrayal, but personal satisfaction of my physiological needs

And how can this happen ? Like, "Honey, I want our accountant to suck me off at work, okay?

This may seem strange to you, but it is true, Having lived together for a long time, passion fades away, and people look elsewhere, but no one is going to destroy the family, just variety

[Bully Carrie]

passion fades,

I agree

people are looking on the side,

But this would hurt me. The fact that they are not going to destroy the family looks especially cynical. But everything is imho, of course.

[Lazobai]

passion fades,

I agree

people are looking on the side,

But it would be painful for me.

And who says that it doesn’t hurt and isn’t pleasant for me, it’s over the sediment remains for life

[Bully Carrie]

finally the sediment remains for life

Here. Regarding the question “forgive or be forgiven,” yesterday the topic was just that.

[Lazobai]

of course the sediment remains for life

Here. Regarding the question "forgive or say goodbye", yesterday the topic was just that.

Understand that if a woman or a man wants to take a walk on the side, no one will ever do that doesn’t know, so it’s better for me to come to terms with it and understand than to continue living without knowing it

[etc]

Blowjob is sex. Sex with another partner is cheating. This means that a blowjob with another partner is cheating.

There are agreements between spouses about an open relationship, if there is such an agreement, then it is unlikely that sex or blowjob with another partner is possible call it treason.

[Bully Carrie]

There are agreements between spouses about open relationships

Alas, all these agreements are a bluff and a one-goal game.

[etc]

Alas, all these agreements are a bluff and a one-sided game.

Why is this?

[Bully Carrie]

Why is this?

Because behind these stories of "agreements" there are some kind of forced consent, or depression, or manipulation.

[etc]

Because behind these stories of "agreements" there are some kind of forced consent, or depression, or manipulation.

nAnother option is that a man gets excited when his wife flirts with other men or has some kind of relationship. Personally, I have several friends who dream of or have such relationships. They are obsessed with their wives. How would you characterize such a relationship?
And couples practicing MFM relationships?

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Because behind these stories of "agreements" there are some kind of forced consent, or depression, or manipulation.

There is another option, a man gets excited when his wife flirts with other men or has some relationships. Personally, I have several friends who dream of or have such relationships. They are obsessed with their wives. How would you characterize such relationships?
And couples who practice MFM relationships?

these are cuckolds.. we are not talking about them.

What’s the matter... suck whoever’s pussies you want, what’s the difference?.. it’s a small thing!.. my husband will understand

[etc]

these are cuckolds.. we are not talking about them.

Cuckolds are not spouses is it?)

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are these cuckolds

Do you put labels on them?)

[alexey.bro]

Everyone has their own principles and morals... and it’s not for us to judge them, everyone creates their own life, and decides what is normal for them and what is not...

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

these are cuckolds.. we’re not talking about them.

nCuckolds aren’t spouses or what?)

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these are cuckolds

Are you putting labels?)

Not out of malice, but for the sake of simplifying the topic under discussion... because... when defining "cuckold" everything immediately becomes clear to everyone what the relationship between the spouses is.
I don’t judge. Each hut has its own rattles.

[Bully Carrie]

They are obsessed with their wives

How is that? They’re crazy, how’s that?

[Bully Carrie]

everyone creates their own life,

I agree. It would only be good if these norms were not elevated to an axiom or an absolute.

[Bully Carrie]

a man gets excited when his wife flirts with other men or has some relationships. Personally, I have several friends who dream of or have such relationships.

In this case, the wife simply fulfills her husband’s desire (she doesn’t want to upset her, it depends on him, maybe be). We don’t know how this will turn out in the long term, in 5...10 years. But these are not agreements and open relationships, but precisely the wishes of the husband.

[alexey.bro]

But these are not agreements and open relationships, namely the husband’s wishes.

Or skillful manipulation of him, to find a better one for yourself option)

[etc]

="Hooligan Carrie" post_id=306451 time=1702812101 user_id=18654]
How’s that? How are they crazy?

Because she is the source of his passion. He is not interested in other women. I communicated with a lot of people from different sites, from advertisements, and discovered a lot of new and unusual things.
There are enough of them. More than once during sex with my wife I imagined her with someone else - the passion intensifies many times over. How did I begin to practice such fantasies - my interest in other women faded... Such miracles).

[Venus]

But these are not agreements and open relationships, namely the husband’s wishes.

Or skillful manipulating them in order to find a better option for themselves)

IMHO they begin to look for a better option or just another option, after separation and a complete break in relations. Being in a relationship, no one even thinks about another option. At least women. Until the last moment you hope to somehow glue it together or you just give up and go with the flow, but there are no thoughts about other options.

[etc]

In this case, the wife simply fulfills her husband’s wishes (she doesn’t want to upset her, it depends on him, maybe). We don’t know how this will turn out in the long term, in 5...10 years. But these are not agreements and open relationships, namely the wishes of the husband

You think of things for others).
I had a friend who sent me a video and Photos of his entertainment with his wife. She was 49 years old at that time. Skinny. With two men at once, he then. It didn’t seem to me that she was doing this because of him. In the conversation, he said that she loves with new men - not with the same ones.

[Venus]

In the conversation, he said that she loves

He told you this, and what did she tell you?

[etc]

He told you this, and what did she tell you?

You know, I have a hobby, I write through advertisements for people looking for sex. I’m writing to them to communicate, I’m just interested. I myself am very frank in correspondence or oral communication and, as a rule, people talk a lot about themselves. I’ve been doing this for about two years, there’s not enough communication).
Wrote to couples looking for a man. A woman answered once. My wife was looking for a third man for mzhm! It turns out that this happens too. There were two such cases where the dena herself was looking and one case where the wife was looking for a man so that he would fuck her husband in front of her. There was an out-of-the-ordinary incident; she persistently invited me to come to a large concert hall). They usually begin communication with a demand to show a photo. I always sent and always passed the selection. And then he bred for communication).

[Bully Carrie]

It didn’t seem to me that she was doing this because of him

You also think for others, don’t you?

In the conversation he said , that she loves with new men - not with the same ones.

"What the rabbit thought, no one knew" (c)

[etc]

You also think for others, don’t you?

Not really. I asked (we talked on WhatsApp), are you dating the same people? He said - no, she loves with new ones. Do you think she does this to please him or does she like it herself?
I asked him a question - does she like it herself? He said yes, and that her passion for sex had increased in recent years.

[Venus]

He told you this, and what did she tell you?

You know, I have a hobby, I write through advertisements for people looking for sex. I’m writing to them to communicate, I’m just interested. I myself am very frank in correspondence or oral communication and, as a rule, people talk a lot about themselves. I’ve been doing this for about two years, there’s not enough communication).
Wrote to couples looking for a man. A woman answered once. Dena was looking for a third person for mfm! It turns out that this happens too. There were two such cases where the dena herself was looking and one case where the wife was looking for a man so that he would fuck her husband in front of her. There was an out-of-the-ordinary incident; she persistently invited me to come to a large concert hall). They usually begin communication with a demand to show a photo. I always sent and always passed the selection. And then he encouraged me to communicate).

If you communicated a lot, then tell me why this happens? What is the trigger? At what point does a man become aroused by his wife’s sex with other men?

[Bully Carrie]

Do you think she is doing this to please him

Quite possibly.

I asked him a question - does she like it herself? He said yes

HE said

[etc]

If you communicated a lot, then tell us why this happens? What is the trigger? At what point does a man begin to be aroused by his wife’s sex with other men?

Thanks for the question!
I myself have been racking my brains for a long time about this topic and the answer didn’t find what serves as a trigger?
Perhaps jealousy increases adrenaline levels.,. It’s not clear further...
Biologists say that sex is opioids.
Maybe endorphin and adrenaline are an explosive mixture?
You can also consider that the value and status of a wife in the eyes of her husband increases if other men pay attention to her, look after her, show signs of attention...

I had a case with his first wife, I described it here. It described that unexpectedly I arranged for her to have sex with our friend. My head was spinning with extreme excitement. After that, I woke up all night from excitement and fucked her - 7 times a night! And further sex for a month was kind of desperate. He tore her furiously. She later said that she had never experienced such pleasure from sex
This is such an unexpected side of human nature).
My wife liked everything, including the unexpected sex with another man, and especially the crazy sex with me after that.

[Branch]

Each hut has its own rattles. How many people have so many opinions? You can discuss, but you shouldn’t impose your opinion.

[Pierro]

Blowjob is sex.

where does sex begin?

[Xenophon]

Treason is an entirely subjective concept. When a man and woman decide to live together, they enter into an unspoken agreement that governs their relationship.
They can agree on an open relationship, they can agree on the possibility of all kinds of MFM, etc. Therefore, for a couple in a traditional relationship, of course, sucking someone else’s pussy is cheating. In MFM relationships, this is a natural event.
There may be various options. The main thing is to avoid any ambiguities when concluding such an agreement.
I have a friend who lived in an open relationship with her husband for 20 years. They lived, so to speak, in love and harmony. And suddenly she finds out that for almost all these 20 years her husband had a constant mistress. The result is scandal, resentment and an impending divorce. The logic is mind blowing. We didn’t agree that way. Fuck left and right - that’s it, please! And so that one constant is treason and betrayal!

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Blowjob is sex.

where does sex begin?

Strange question. In my head, of course!

[Christmas_Christmas]

They can agree on an open relationship

There is nothing better in the world
Than teaching a girl to give a blowjob!

[Branch]

There is nothing better in the world
Than teaching a girl to give a blowjob!

They didn’t teach me, I tried it and liked it))) By the way, I’m not ashamed of it)