Is blowjob considered cheating or not?

[Alya]

yes or no and why. Everyone’s opinion is interesting!

[Bully Carrie]

They can agree on an open relationship

There is nothing better in the world
Than teaching a girl to give a blowjob!

[Pierro]

Strange question.

nothing strange..
we are talking about betrayal..
that’s flirting, exchanges of glances, random touches..
Where does sex begin legally???!!

[Kalyaev]

nothing strange..
we are talking about betrayal..
here it is flirting, looking at each other, random touching..
where does sex legally begin???!! n

On sexual desire) in any of its manifestations)
If a person sympathizes with me and responds with desire, then sex is possible there too)

[Pierro]

If a person sympathizes with me, responds with desire

for a lot of people it doesn’t end with sex...
I won’t talk about moral restrictions. . the reason may be ordinary.. cleanliness..)

[Kalyaev]

So I came across unscrupulous people... That’s it)

[Pierro]

So I came across unscrupulous people... All of them)

maybe you are Johnny Depp?
So, not one of them refused?

[Kalyaev]

So I’ve come across unscrupulous people... All)

maybe you are Johnny Depp?
not a single one refused?

No)
More often I refused myself)
No, really, I remember and don’t remember refusals)
At the same time, I didn’t harass) I didn’t try to put him in bed)
Oh damn... I’ll go pour some cognac...

[Pierro]

At the same time, I didn’t harass) I didn’t try to put you in bed)

so, maybe nothing would have worked out.. for you..)
Where does such confidence come from in something that did not happen?)

[Kalyaev]

At the same time, he didn’t harass) didn’t try to put him in bed)

so, maybe nothing would have worked out.. You..)
where did you have such confidence in something that didn’t happen?)

It would have worked out, it would have worked out)
Not 100, but okay, 95 percent sure)
Because there were very different situations) also during correspondence it is clear what a person wants.
Flirting is already a sexual game)

And fate brought me together THREE TIMES so that I could fuck her, but I didn’t give in)

[Pierro]

95 percent sure)

how unsure you are.. wow..)

[Kalyaev]

95 percent sure)

how unsure you are.. bad luck..)

Otherwise they will be called a wanker and a dreamer)

[Pierro]

They will call you otherwise

does it matter what someone calls you?)

[Kalyaev]

Otherwise they will call you

does it matter what someone calls you?)

Anyway, but still)

[Pierro]

All the same, but still)

You are expressing yourself very vaguely..)

[Kalyaev]

All the same, but still)

You are expressing yourself very vaguely..)

happens)

[Xenophon]

Strange question.

nothing strange..
we are talking about treason..
nhere it is flirting, looking at each other, random touching..
Where does sex begin legally???!!

Open the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, Chapter 18. There The concept of sexual intercourse is legally established. There is no legal term sex. Blowjob is sexual intercourse in a perverted form.

[niqk]

Blowjob is sexual intercourse in a perverted form.

Really?!! Just in a perverted, perverted way! I would never have guessed...

[Xenophon]

Blowjob is sexual intercourse in a perverted form.

Really?! Just in a perverted, perverted way! I would never have guessed...

The State Duma guessed it for you.

[niqk]

The State Duma guessed for you.

In the Duma? Did you guess it?! Can they guess?!! Do you know for sure?!!! Wow!!!

[Crossbow]

Treason is associated with the word deception, deception in any of its manifestations. Cheating, in my humble opinion, does not come from a good sex life, if a person does not like intimacy with his partner, it is a question for the person why he or she still sleeps with him.

[Xenophon]

Did they guess for you in the State Duma.

In the Duma? Did you guess it?! Can they guess?!! Do you know for sure?!!! Wow!!!

That was when the Duma was still thinking!

[Tapkin]

Well, what kind of betrayal is this, so... complete self-indulgence!
...so this...suck without hesitation!))))

[Eustace]

Well, what kind of betrayal is this, so... complete self-indulgence!
...so this...suck without hesitation!))))

I think so too. And if you’re shy, close your eyes and suck anyway.

[Pierro]

Open the criminal code of the Russian Federation to chapter 18.

not so literally..
where does sex begin, which can be considered treason? where does "innocence" end?)

[Xenophon]

Open the criminal code of the Russian Federation to chapter 18.

not so literally..
where sex begins, which can be considered treason ? where does "innocence" end?)

I have already written that the concept of betrayal is an exclusively subjective concept. And where innocence ends, each couple decides for themselves. And when you are not yet a couple, then such a concept does not exist at all. If you have just started dating, what kind of betrayal can we talk about? Many people, when choosing a partner, meet with several at once and can afford to do whatever they want. There is no agreement yet. And with whom it will be unknown.

[Christmas_Christmas]

Well, what kind of betrayal is this, so... complete self-indulgence!
...so this...suck without hesitation!))))

damn...
- "Why did you suck him off?...
- "Saved him from depression!"

[Zenit]

I believe that betrayal is when you betray your loved one. A blowjob is not betrayal.

[etc]

You can discuss, but you shouldn’t impose your opinion

What is the difference between discussion and imposition? If, while defending your point of view, you give arguments and make it convincing, does that mean you are imposing your point of view?

[Pierro]

each couple decides

what are you doing?)
that’s exactly how they discuss it: well, if it’s half a penny, then it’s not counting..) )

[Gourmet]

If you just sucked it, then this is not betrayal. If she sucked you off, then of course it’s a betrayal. If you sucked but didn’t swallow, then that’s fifty-fifty

[Pierro]

sucked

sucked

I sucked it, but

what kind of nonsense??))
also write, "if you didn’t take off your bra", "if you didn’t lick your testicle"..

[Gourmet]

what kind of nonsense??))
also write, "if you didn’t take off your bra", "if you didn’t lick your testicle"..

Well yes...it doesn’t count at all

[Branch]

What is the difference between discussion and imposition? If, defending your point of view, you give arguments and make it convincing - does this mean you are imposing your point of view?

I have my own opinion. I don’t mind discussing, but when they tell me that my opinion is wrong, and only their opinion is correct, then I don’t like this situation

[Xenophon]

each couple decides

what are you doing?)
they discuss it just like that: well, if it’s half a head, then innumerable..))

Life is difficult for you. You need a straightforward answer to everything. Therefore, I will answer you directly and sincerely - no!

[Hair shirt]

but when they tell me that my opinion is wrong, and only their opinion is correct, then I don’t like this situation

Well, yes.
nWell, as for the blowjob, what’s there to guess - of course, it’s cheating. But with one caveat - if the other half knows nothing. But if the other half is aware that this happened and reacted normally to it, then it’s not cheating. Or if your significant other was asked - can I say give a blowjob to your friend or your father? And we received an affirmative answer, which means this is not cheating either.

But it should be noted that the night cuckoo always snacks on the daytime cuckoo. That is, if a wife for some reason has the urge to give a blowjob to someone other than her husband, then I think she can easily persuade her husband to do it. And I strongly suspect that you shouldn’t pay attention to your husband’s brutality. In fact, there may be completely different relationships between them. Well, in general, if a woman is weak at the front, and loves this business, then I think there is between them, that is, between husband and wife, there can be any arrangement.

That is, it’s all about the wife. And if someone is lucky with their wife in this sense, then I think that you can agree with her on anything without betraying each other at all, and without wild scenes of jealousy. No divorces over a trifle. Although it is certainly not a trifle when you are unaware that your best friend is fucking your wife. And that the two closest people will fuck you up. And this, of course, is treason and in general it is very, very bad. And I think this should not happen.

But on the other hand, if the spouses agree...
That is, do not lie to each other and call things by their proper names. That is, the wife, let’s say to her husband, admits that she would like to be thoroughly fucked by two men, one of whom is her husband. Or maybe even that there was no husband among these two. She can also express a desire for this to happen somewhere on the side and without her husband. This, of course, is not a very good option for spouses, but why not if she really wants it. But the husband should also have something in return.

And this is not about trade, but simply about the absence of double standards - like I can do it, but you can’t. In this case, the husband can also be told to fuck his wife’s girlfriend. Maybe even in her presence. Or maybe the situation is that a friend called her wife and asked her for her husband to come over and fuck her well this afternoon. And this should not cause wild passions on this score. It’s really all about love.

This all reminds me a little of parental love for their growing children. A mother, let’s say, loves her almost adult son, and she knows that he just brought a girl, locked himself in her room with her, and now he’ll probably fuck her. And mom has conflicting feelings. But smart parents suppress this stupid jealousy. Everything is the same for fathers in relation to their adult schoolgirl daughters.

To some, everything I wrote above will seem wild. But who really thinks so, I simply don’t believe them. I can’t believe that they don’t have a visit somewhere with some distant relative who is openly twirling her ass. And I also don’t believe that this or that woman has never thought dreamily about finally being thoroughly fucked with a good, impressive, elastic penis. It would be better if there were two of them. But both spouses hide this from each other and do nothing but guard each other. Maybe, on the contrary, you need to meet the wishes of the person you really love? Maybe if you really love him, then on the contrary, you yourself will offer what your significant other might want, but is afraid to tell you about it?

But if someone continues to insist that this is all whoreness then answer yourself honestly to this question - let’s say, God forbid, something happens to you and you cannot have sex for six months or even more. What will you do in this situation?
After all, a month, two, maybe even three will pass. But you still have to decide something in this regard. All sorts of toys, masturbation and cunnilingus will still not solve the problem. You will still have to decide something.

And will you really continue to be stupid and pretend that the problem does not exist?
And everything is the same with ordinary spouses. What I mean is that we must admit that this problem still exists between any spouses - that from time to time one of them wants sex with someone else besides the wife or husband. And most couples pretend that this problem does not exist and pretend that it does not exist. But it actually exists.

Although in fact, everything that I’m writing about here is possible, it’s like an iceberg that’s all under water. That is, perhaps many married couples are just meeting each other halfway. And perhaps they are very democratic about each other’s liberties. Well, just think, I gave my boss a blow job today at work. Well, it’s a common thing. Again, she helped him with his problem with the best intentions. And he feels good and most pleased that it has relieved the person’s tension.

[Branch]

As it is now fashionable to say: “too much bukof.” And the whole point comes down to the fact that we agreed.)))

[Hair shirt]

As it is now fashionable to say: "too much bukof". And the whole point comes down to the fact that we agreed.)))

I once came from the army and went straight to my brother. And he got married a year ago. The wife is such a short plump woman with a lush ass and the same tits. And I probably lived with them for about a month. She was at home constantly with her small child, and her brother went to work. And I noted her playful attitude towards me. But somehow it never even occurred to me to do anything in this direction. Well, my brother’s wife treated me very much in her own way, joked and teased me a lot. I asked about girls. If I have girls. Or maybe I never had a girlfriend at all? I’m a deer, I was embarrassed and said that no, there was a girl and everything was fine with that. Well and all that.

But something tells me right now that if I had expressed my interest in my brother’s wife, then maybe she would have persuaded my brother to have sex with me. Judging by the influence she had on him, she could have done it easily. And I think she or her brother would have gotten permission to have sex with me. And the brother doesn’t seem to know anything.
Or the three of them would have organized this business.

I say this because then a family friend appeared in their family. The guy who courted his brother’s wife before she got married. Well, it so happened that she chose her brother. But before him, she lived and slept with this guy for some time. And then I guess a couple of years after the wedding, he started visiting them often. He often stayed overnight with them. He was unmarried and often came to visit them and stayed in the kitchen with them until late. And they left him overnight. I haven’t visited them these days. It’s just that the brother or his wife let it slip out without meaning to.

Well, in general, I think that it is possible and true for many families, blowjob is not cheating at all and that spouses talk about it to each other and they don’t hide it.

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It doesn’t count with us, but it hasn’t happened to strangers yet

And who are they, if it’s not a secret, strangers?

[Branch]

And who are these not strangers, if it’s not a secret?

Not strangers, these are family members)))

[alexey.bro]

Not strangers, these are family members)))

Your family is my family

[Hair shirt]

Not strangers, these are family members)))

Did you give your son a blowjob?
In general, I personally have an understanding attitude towards mothers who are like then they meet their sons halfway, and instead of banning everything wholesale, they somehow help them in this matter. I think this is love, and not this parental hypocrisy when they pretend that there is no problem.

[Branch]

I don’t mind, but I don’t have children yet ((((

[Hair shirt]

I don’t mind, but I don’t have children yet((((

And who else besides your husband did you give a blowjob in the family?

You write - "It doesn’t count with us. We haven’t had it with strangers yet."
We are all intrigued here - if you have a blowjob with betrayal doesn’t count, then there should be some precedents? Surely that’s true?
And who in the family did you give a blowjob that is not considered cheating except your husband?
Your husband’s brother?

[Pierro]

Life is difficult for you.

not at all, I am satisfied with the accepted standards of behavior..)
a person’s system of limitations is formed under the influence of the environment..
and even if you have your own ideas about boundaries... you cannot help but follow the rules of the community)

[Branch]

We are all intrigued here

Everyone didn’t write to me, so let’s not talk about everyone))
And at home everyone gets their share of attention and affection)))

[Tolkala]

yes or no and why. An interesting opinion everyone!

if a blowjob with a condom is not considered cheating!

[Branch]

yes or no and why. An interesting opinion everyone!

if a blowjob with a condom is not considered cheating!

Is this like a rubber sucker? So you can puke

[Tapkin]

but when they tell me that my opinion is wrong, and only their opinion is correct, then I don’t like this situation

Well, yes.
Well, as for the blowjob, what’s there to guess - of course, it’s treason. But with one caveat - if the other half knows nothing. But if the other half is aware that this happened and reacted normally to it, then it’s not cheating. Or if your significant other was asked - can I say give a blowjob to your friend or your father? And we received an affirmative answer, which means this is not cheating either.

But it should be noted that the night cuckoo always snacks on the daytime cuckoo. That is, if a wife for some reason has the urge to give a blowjob to someone other than her husband, then I think she can easily persuade her husband to do it. And I strongly suspect that you shouldn’t pay attention to your husband’s brutality. In fact, there may be completely different relationships between them. Well, in general, if a woman is weak at the front, and loves this business, then I think there is between them, that is, between husband and wife, there can be any arrangement.

That is, it’s all about the wife. And if someone is lucky with their wife in this sense, then I think that you can agree with her on anything without betraying each other at all, and without wild scenes of jealousy. No divorces over a trifle. Although it is certainly not a trifle when you are unaware that your best friend is fucking your wife. And that the two closest people will fuck you up. And this, of course, is treason and in general it is very, very bad. And I think this should not happen.

But on the other hand, if the spouses agree...
That is, do not lie to each other and call things by their proper names. That is, the wife, let’s say to her husband, admits that she would like to be thoroughly fucked by two men, one of whom is her husband. Or maybe even that there was no husband among these two. She can also express a desire for this to happen somewhere on the side and without her husband. This, of course, is not a very good option for spouses, but why not if she really wants it. But the husband should also have something in return.

And this is not about trade, but simply about the absence of double standards - like I can do it, but you can’t. In this case, the husband can also be told to fuck his wife’s girlfriend. Maybe even in her presence. Or maybe the situation is that a friend called her wife and asked her for her husband to come over and fuck her well this afternoon. And this should not cause wild passions on this score. It’s really all about love.

This all reminds me a little of parental love for their growing children. A mother, let’s say, loves her almost adult son, and she knows that he just brought a girl, locked himself in her room with her, and now he’ll probably fuck her. And mom has conflicting feelings. But smart parents suppress this stupid jealousy. Everything is the same for fathers in relation to their adult schoolgirl daughters.

To some, everything I wrote above will seem wild. But who really thinks so, I simply don’t believe them. I can’t believe that they don’t have a visit somewhere with some distant relative who is openly twirling her ass. And I also don’t believe that this or that woman has never thought dreamily about finally being thoroughly fucked with a good, impressive, elastic penis. It would be better if there were two of them. But both spouses hide this from each other and do nothing but guard each other. Maybe, on the contrary, you need to meet the wishes of the person you really love? Maybe if you really love him, then on the contrary, you yourself will offer what your significant other might want, but is afraid to tell you about it?

But if someone continues to insist that this is all whoreness then answer yourself honestly to this question - let’s say, God forbid, something happens to you and you cannot have sex for six months or even more. What will you do in this situation?
After all, a month, two, maybe even three will pass. But you still have to decide something in this regard. All kinds of toys, masturbation and cunnilingus still won’t solve the problem. You will still have to decide something.

And will you really continue to be stupid and pretend that the problem does not exist?
And everything is the same with ordinary spouses. What I mean is that we must admit that this problem still exists between any spouses - that from time to time one of them wants sex with someone else besides the wife or husband. And most couples pretend that this problem does not exist and pretend that it does not exist. But it actually exists.

Although in fact, everything that I’m writing about here is possible, it’s like an iceberg that’s all under water. That is, perhaps many married couples are just meeting each other halfway. And perhaps they are very democratic about each other’s liberties. Well, just think, I gave my boss a blow job today at work. Well, it’s a common thing. Again, she helped him with his problem with the best intentions. And he feels good and most pleased that it has relieved the person’s tension.

Halfway, he went to get VALIDOL!((

[Hair shirt]

Halfway, went to get VALIDOL!((

These are just my assumptions based on my observations and thoughts on this topic. I do not claim that everything is exactly That’s the way it is. But something tells me that I’m not far from the truth. There are simply no statistics on this matter - but where can I get it? So no one can tell how things really are. We all only see the consequences when someone has set someone on fire. Why would this be if both spouses claim that everything is fine with them, and that they are all so correct, and none of them even think about anything like that. allowed. And then after the divorce, one of the spouses will find out all the details about their other half - with whom, when and how many times

And in general, in my opinion, pretend that there is no problem, and. Convincing everyone otherwise is not the best way to solve the problem. And the problem exists in any marital relationship. And it lies in the fact that each of the spouses wants to fuck, or have sex with someone from their mutual acquaintances. And sometimes it happens by accident. In most cases, people are intensely hypocritical about this, and stupidly say that everything suits them. But in fact, from time to time they hang out with someone at work. Many of those present here wrote about who and how many times they fucked at work. But these women are someone’s wives. And these wives will never admit that today, on their own initiative, they fucked with someone at work.

And the same thing applies to men. From their position, if a woman sleeps with someone at work, then she is a slut and a piece of trash. But if he fucked someone at work, then he is a hero-lover. What the hell?!? I think first of all you need to be honest with your other half. And don’t fuck each other up.
Then you too will be paid in the same coin. But in practice, this results in the fact that we simply need to come to an agreement with each other. But most importantly, without lies and hypocrisy.

[PavelNokia]

Not strangers, these are family members)))

Did you give your son a blow job?
In general, I personally have an understanding attitude towards mothers who in this matter they somehow meet their sons halfway, and instead of banning everything wholesale, they somehow help them in this matter. I think this is love, and not this parental hypocrisy when they pretend that there is no problem.

getting a blowjob for your son? talk about it so calmly)

[Alex cut4]

Message by Alya » February 28, 2022, 01:09

It’s not even a shame. And this is surprising. After I performed a blowjob on a man I didn’t know, in the park, after finishing, he noticed that another man was watching us and told me about it. But he didn’t allow me to get up from my knees, he called that other man and invited him to take advantage of me in the same way, giving him my place and deciding everything for me, i.e. Nobody asked me!
Surprisingly, I didn’t experience any feelings of indignation or any awkward sensations associated with “betrayal,” I just obediently satisfied this man’s lust. The first one, a man, did not look, offering me and giving way to another, he simply went his way.
P.S I did not feel and do not feel any sense of shame or betrayal. That’s why it’s interesting how others feel about their other half’s blowjob with others.
Last edited by Alya on February 28, 2022, 01:56, edited 1 time in total.

I like kissing my wife after guys cum in her mouth