My secret fantasies and desires

[Marquis de Sade]

So marriage, on the contrary, should act as an ally, and not as a limiter)
A partner is a partner; in order to go through life with him, he should not be a lock that forces you to “be patient” and limits you, because in this case there is one partner will always sacrifice his desires for the sake of another, and the only prospects left are to live like this and endure his whole life, change or break up. The prospects are generally so-so.
Although this is nothing, there are couples in which one partner does not trust the other so much that he is afraid to even share his desires, this is generally the end.

[Christmas_Christmas]

So marriage, on the contrary, should act as an ally, not a limiter)

I’m not arguing... .. it’s just one thing to “play” with your husband in bed, and a completely different thing to “live” in such “games”... These are already different “songs”, and absolutely.... Restrain yourself_ this doesn’t mean having sex with the lights off..

I don’t deny that “thematic” marriages exist... they happen, albeit rarely.. but most often you have to choose or "Games" or family...

[Marquis de Sade]

I’m not arguing..... it’s just one thing to “play” with your husband in bed, and a completely different thing to “live” in such “games”... These are already different.” songs", and absolutely.... Holding back doesn’t mean having sex with the lights off...

I don’t deny that "thematic" marriages exist... they happen , although rare.. but most often you need to choose either "Games" or family...

I agree with you that most people have to choose between desires and family, that’s why it’s sad.

[Christmas_Christmas]

Marquis de Sade,

here... "ordinary" thematic family, after the birth of a child....

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[Sex coot]

I don’t know where I got such desires, but I was always turned on by thoughts about submission and humiliation in sex... And not even in sex, but in general... And I’m not some kind of "downtrodden" and "cluttered" girl... I would say, quite the opposite... But fantasies about submission and humiliation have visited me since childhood.. Not since kindergarten, of course... But since school... since the 7th or 8th grade when I already “understood what was what” and although I hadn’t tried anything yet, I fantasized and dreamed “to the fullest.”... No one bullied me at school, didn’t put pressure on me... nothing like that... But I fantasized and dreamed very often about just such relationships...
Of course, fantasies change a little with age, but still, for the most part, they are about this. Fantasies about public humiliation and submission in public... For example, one of the fantasies... Some kind of club or cozy cafe... a small group has gathered there... celebrating some event... everyone is smartly dressed.. drinking and having a snack.... talking about their own things there or maintaining a general conversation... well, like at any gatherings...
At first, I, too, was smartly dressed at the holiday... but then... the person with whom I came here ... it can be either a man or a woman... orders me to undress... right here in front of everyone... and he\she has power over me and I have no right to disobey and am forced to do everything they tell me.. .when I find myself completely naked... then everyone falls silent at first... they seem to be in shock... they still know me as a “successful and unapproachable” girl, and then suddenly this... at first I still don’t understand how to behave ... but then.. seeing that I myself follow all the orders, that no one is forcing me.. they become bolder... and begin to touch me... they themselves begin to order me... while calling me the dirtiest words... they spank there... across the face of the chest, butt... not hard... but in order to humiliate me even more... some of the guests are braver, they themselves begin to give me orders... someone films everything that happens on the phone... . and then... after a while, they start blackmailing me with these photos and videos..... and I follow further orders, fearing that these photos will be shown to all my friends and colleagues.. I’m sinking lower and lower...
Sorry, I won’t write down the details of everything they will do to me.... but in general something like this... and this is my most harmless fantasy)))

Very sexy fantasy...

[angrove]

You don’t always need to be guided by your partners’ fantasies.
After the divorce, I started looking for candidates for new relationships on a dating site. And one of them, in bed, told me that she had a desire for me to rape her brutally, like a game. He says, I’ll put on something simpler, and you’ll tear my clothes and all that, only harsher... In general, having figured out what was what, he escorted her out and broke off communication. Because then, when she writes a statement, I could end up being raped, without an apartment, a car or pants. The police will not listen to my babble about performances and fantasies, but will consider me based on the fact.
In general, if anyone encounters similar desires and fantasies, it is better not to be fooled.

[Christmas_Christmas]

You don’t always need to be guided by your partners’ fantasies.
After the divorce, I started looking for candidates for new relationships on a dating site. And one of them, in bed, told me that she had a desire for me to rape her brutally, like a game. He says, I’ll put on something simpler, and you’ll tear my clothes and all that, only harsher... In general, having figured out what was what, he escorted her out and broke off communication. Because then, when she writes a statement, I could end up being raped, without an apartment, a car or pants. The police will not listen to my babble about performances and fantasies, but will consider me based on the fact.
In general, if anyone encounters similar desires and fantasies, it is better not to be fooled.

You are now talking about some kind of extreme... . It’s one thing to have fantasies that a girl or a married woman wants to realize, with her husband or with a person with whom she has a long-term relationship...
What is this for now.... if you are looking for a girl to realize your fantasies. dating site...
She also suggested to you in a correspondence on social networks that you rudely rape her, or on the first date?)))...
although damn... well, where am I going? .. especially since on dating sites or through dating sitesyou really shouldn’t choose a partner to realize your fantasies...

[angrove]

she suggested to you in a correspondence on social networks that you roughly rape her, or on the first date?)))...

.... on the third date ...---...

[Christmas_Christmas]

in a correspondence on social networks did she suggest that you roughly rape her, or on the first date?)))...

... . on the third date...---...

well, on the third date, that’s normal))))... I on the third date I already rode in Mercedes and Jaguars... in the trunk)))....

[angrove]

on the third date I was already riding in Mercedes and Jaguars... in the trunk)))....

.... I’m embarrassed to ask, but is riding in trunks like the fulfillment of your sexual desires, or.... does it happen by itself?...

[Christmas_Christmas]

.... I’m embarrassed to ask, but riding in trunks is like the fulfillment of your sexual desires, or....

or)) )... I was just joking...

[alexnikit]

Natalie - you are a very interesting girl, reading your posts is a pleasure. You describe your experiences so sincerely.....
I had a girl with similar desires and fantasies, it’s a pity I didn’t appreciate them....

[Christmas_Christmas]

Natalie - you are a very interesting girl, reading your posts is a pleasure. You describe your experiences so sincerely.....

thank you very much for your feedback)))...

[in Peru]

A very interesting fantasy, talk to your husband so that he actively dominates you. Does he share the humiliation in public? You can, for example, start with a relatively harmless humiliation on the beach, so that there is a minimum of taking off clothes)

[Hamster]

Natali_Natali, as I understand your fantasy. It also turns me on to be humiliated by my wife. One of the fantasies was that my wife invited her friends, three or four, to our house, in general they organized a kind of bachelorette party. The table is set on our veranda. They are sitting chatting, then my wife speaks loudly, saying, dear, it’s time to serve it. I walk from the kitchen onto the veranda, I’m wearing women’s clothes, I’m wearing makeup and a wig. I’m holding a tray with hot food. The girls are shocked by my appearance. But my wife says that only girls can be at the bachelorette party and laughs. Everyone relaxes and the evening is in full swing.
Then one of the guests asks that God is also a girl with a skirt? They take my skirt and see me wearing erotic lingerie with a cut on the butt and an anal plug in the butt. Then they start to worry