Is blowjob considered cheating or not?

[Alya]

yes or no and why. Everyone’s opinion is interesting!

[lanaaas341]

By giving a blowjob, a woman not only specifically cheats on her husband, she thereby also humiliates him......

[Jolly Roger]

No matter what she says and no matter how she makes excuses, a blow job is treason with all that it entails.

[Lenok]

blowjob is cheating

and cunnilingus? When is LiveJournal? If married.

[Jolly Roger]

and cunnilingus? When is LiveJournal? If they are married.

Here everything will depend on the husband. From the way he "looks" at lesbian relationships. There are men who do not consider sex with a woman to be cheating at all. There is the opposite. I’ll say for myself that I don’t even know what to answer. Probably a lot would depend on the “stranger” woman. Who is she? A random person or, for example, a friend of his wife. With a random woman it’s one “alignment,” but with a friend everything will be different. If there is cheating with a close friend, then it will always be with a “story” of why it came to this. Again, mutual friends, colleagues. I doubt that in this case the betrayal will remain a secret. And this is a continuation of the "story".
In short, I can’t answer. But I definitely wouldn’t get a divorce.

[Lenok]

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In short, I can’t answer.

clear and understandable)

[Andrew495]

It seems to me that blowjob is not exactly the same for a man and a woman. Still, for a man it’s just pleasure. And for a woman this is probably the most confidential and intimate contact. Therefore, I think that for a man this is most likely not considered treason, but for a woman it will most likely be considered treason.

[lanaaas341]

No matter what she says and no matter how she makes excuses, but a blow job is treason with all that it entails.

What excuse can there be?!

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It seems to me that blowjob is not exactly the same for a man and a woman. Still, for a man it’s just pleasure. And for a woman this is probably the most confidential and intimate contact. Therefore, I think that for a man this is most likely not considered cheating, but for a woman it will most likely be considered cheating.

I agree....

[Jolly Roger]

What excuse can there be?!

I completely agree. There can be no excuse

[param]

Well, I like this I think that if my husband gets a blowjob + I’ll also be in the know, then it’s not cheating! And if I give someone a blowjob, that’s already cheating! You can also assume about cunnilingus))) If they do it to me, then this is not cheating, but if my husband does it to someone, then it is cheating))))

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

You can also assume about cunnilingus))) If they do it to me, then this is not cheating, but if my husband does it to someone, then it is cheating))))

Because cunnilingus without continuation is less common than just a blowjob

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

By giving a blowjob, a woman not only specifically cheats on her husband, she also humiliates him......

Depends on which side you look at. She sucks so as not to truly cheat, although she herself wants to, but cannot due to her convictions. Yes, it happens that they accept the male concept that this is undersex. The husband would not agree, so all the married people who sucked did not ask. ))

[King Bird]

By giving a blowjob, a woman not only specifically cheats on her husband, she thereby also humiliates him......

And if a man makes a cunnilingus to the left? Can this also be considered? Or are there options?

It seems to me that blowjob is not exactly the same for a man and a woman. Still, for a man it’s just pleasure. And for a woman this is probably the most confidential and intimate contact. Therefore, I think that for a man this is most likely not considered cheating, but for a woman it will most likely be considered cheating.

I’m not sure. I know a story where a husband, while doing an interesting business, kept meeting with business partners in the sauna. Naturally, girls were invited. With the wife’s permission, the prostitutes gave that husband a blowjob. Of course, go and try to check, but nevertheless, that guy even told his friends when he was drunk that he didn’t cheat on his wife, just a blowjob and only with her permission.
I heard the opinion of one of my married friends. She had not seen such close and confidential contacts in blowjobs (and in cunnilingus, for that matter). She treated oral sex easily and simply, saying "I just really love suck and really love it when they lick me." But kissing on the lips was a more spiritual and intimate process for her than even sex. In particular, she freaked out when her father-in-law or one of her husband’s friends tried to kiss her.

You can also assume about cunnilingus))) If they do it to me, then it’s not cheating, but if my husband does it to someone, it’s cheating)) ))

Such girlish double standards towards us .

[Joker27]

everything is cheating if it is not discussed with each other

[Profixx11]

It is clear that it is treason, but I always say that it is not

[lanaaas341]

By giving a blowjob, a woman not only specifically cheats on her husband, she thereby also humiliates him......

Depends on which side you look at. She sucks so as not to truly cheat, although she herself wants to, but cannot due to her convictions. Yes, it happens that they accept the male concept that this is undersex. The husband would not agree, so all the married people who sucked did not ask. ))

Do you think that blowjob is not sex? What do you think is real?

[Denchik42]

Yes, it seems easy for many present to scratch their horns

[Swarmin]

Personally, I don’t consider this cheating. I had a friend, she also didn’t consider it cheating, just like anal) that’s why she sucked me off every night and fucked me in the anal)

[Vasya 43]

suck friends, I don’t see anything like that here and I think that this is not cheating, but I had a girlfriend, we met and once relaxed with friends at my place and she came, well, we are in yours and she was alone, actually, we drank cognac and when all the survivors started talking about chicks and so on, I sat down on my knees and then the penis began to SWELL, she felt it, says you want it, of course she said in front of everyone, well, I’m drunk, you can bend them too, she answered that it’s not a problem if I’m the opposite, but I said that it’s just a blowjob and that’s it I said loudly that Olya would give us all one by one a blow job, I came in her mouth, she swallowed it then to her friends while she was a dog, I got hard again and I said that I won’t let guys fuck without offense, but blowing is the norm when they were over, I dragged her to bedroom and there he answered in full, well, when we met in the room, she always gave them and me a BLOWJOB

[niqk]

Everyone has their own opinion. And everyone has it right. Therefore, there is no need to bother. If you don’t count blowjob, cunnilingus, anal, BDSM, etc., etc. treason means it is not treason. So - a minor prank. Be naughty more and more!...

[romannaich]

Lenok, I think not if the partner is pretty

[Hmmmm]

suck off friends, I don’t see anything like that here

Fucked up.
More than 10 years on various forums, but this is the most vague fantasy story)))

[Gourmet]

If only for half a bump...then it’s not cheating)))

[Barsuk70]

But these are not agreements and open relationships, namely the husband’s wishes.

...Or the wife’s wishes.

[Lenok]

Roman3325, не поняла))

[0dlb0]

the most indistinct fantasy story

Yes, even punctuation marks will not clarify the situation. )

[romannaich]

Lenok, well, if the girl’s friend is cute and sexy totkuni LJ is not treason

[in Peru]

No, of course not, it’s like a handshake))

[v2024]

Mine gives blowjobs to Friends and not only to Friends, and not only blowjobs....
They ate by mutual consent, that a blowjob, that they fucked is not cheating...

[Zhenechka]

AND I LOVE GIVING A BLOWJOB TO A FRIEND....I TRIED IT ONCE AND NOW I CAN’T STOP! A FRIEND LIKES....

[alexey.bro]

Cheating is a lie, now, as for me, many people are already trying different things, if you are both aware of your actions, then what kind of betrayal is this? This is already a new experience

[hides]

I don’t consider blowjobs to be treason, and I don’t even consider sex in a condom to be treason if the wife does not hide this fact. It’s just physiology.

[Tsverg]

The question is rather philosophical: what is considered treason? How do we define the concept of "betrayal", then there will be no questions))
For example, mutual sympathy and interest arise between a couple, they begin to spend more time talking to each other, and this is due to (count in damage) time spent in the family, to the detriment of caring for the family. And there is no sexual contact between them. Would this be treason?
And if sexual contact just happened between them, once and nothing more, and they don’t remember, is this treason?

[alex503311]

I don’t consider blowjobs to be treason, and I don’t even consider sex in a condom to be treason if the wife does not hide this fact. It’s just physiology.

It’s not cheating, she was just fucked like a chick, and gangbang too, they just let her friend go in a circle and poured in about half of her liters of sperm

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With my permission, once a friend was fucked by a girl, I was not happy that without asking me. But if she asked and gave herself to me in front of me, then she wouldn’t say a word.
About a blowjob, then yes, they use her, but between her legs, they fuck her in the mouth, in principle it doesn’t matter.
nAs for oral, if the girl (woman) said only a blowjob, I would agree,
but this and cunnilingus can be done to her, plus mutual masturbation. and you can have a controlled vibrator and let her sausage, like in the video, with In my opinion, a cat, where she cums probably 10 times.