How to get married without being a virgin?

Unread post by **Cheeky Joe** » 06 Dec 2022, 14:16

Who wants to mess with a virgin? What kind of complex is this - she slept with men before me? Are you unsure of yourself?

Unread post by **Alex366** » 06 Dec 2022, 14:17

No matter what kind of virgin she is, you can teach her everything, it’s much cooler than having old aunts.

Unread post by **Ogest** » 06 Dec 2022, 14:21

I like 30+ women more, and they are far from all virgins.

Unread post by **5nica** » 07 Dec 2022, 05:47

The ideal case is described in the Russian classics.
"A widow, but she assures that she is a maiden. For immediately after the wedding, the husband fell ill with trembling of all the limbs."

Unread post by **DON** » 07 Dec 2022, 05:59

I also found out about my wife later, how they had her in the dorm for two days, what they did to her. But this is not a fact of losing love for her, youth, stupidity. Even then I didn’t suspect that she was so right.

Unread post by **The passage** » 07 Dec 2022, 06:02

Some kind of Middle Ages. If a man wants a virgin, he will get a pig in a poke. And then there will be resentment that he wants it, but she doesn’t, or, on the contrary, she fucked him, the poor and unfortunate one.
I didn’t get married as a virgin and I had an interesting past in terms of sex, but the reason for the divorce was not the lack of virginity before the wedding or even my infidelity, but the fact that he got carried away with alcohol, so much so that the bottle replaced him everything in the world.

Unread post by **A mermaid** » 07 Dec 2022, 06:06

It’s not good to lie, no man is worth such humiliation.

Unread post by **somebody** » 07 Dec 2022, 06:07

Can I ask the author of the topic? And you, apparently, should also be a virgin at your own wedding, so as not to lose face in the dirt?

Who said that a man can go out and increase the rating of sex victories, but a girl can’t?

Unread post by **Faustian** » 07 Dec 2022, 06:17

If it is so critical for tradition, then before the wedding you can sew up the hymen. There are nations where the groom’s relatives check the bride’s virginity before the wedding, visually and with their fingers. I also heard people discussing her appearance among themselves.

Unread post by **Shamanakas** » 09 Dec 2022, 03:03

Marinka: 07 Dec 2022, 06:02 Some kind of Middle Ages. If a man wants a virgin, he will get a pig in a poke. And then there will be resentment that he wants it, but she doesn’t, or, on the contrary, she fucked him, the poor and unfortunate one.
I didn’t get married as a virgin and I had an interesting past in terms of sex...

That’s exactly how it is. A virgin is definitely wanted by men who are not confident in themselves, who are afraid that having tried something other than them, the wife will "become dissolute" and get away from them.
A virgin (and a virgin) is really a "cat in bag". Sexual temperament may stupidly not converge. And what? Then live your whole life with a person with whom you have to endure sex? If you definitely want to observe patriarchal traditions, then it’s worth it. If you want a healthy sex life, definitely not.

In practice you need definitely have sex before marriage and be sure to have sex with the person you are going to marry. And in general, you should try more sex before marriage and long-term monogamous relationships in general. Otherwise, they will then think that there is something much better out there on the other side. This applies to both men and women.

I met my wife inexperienced, but she was far from a virgin. And thank God, damn it. By the way, I will tell my growing daughter the same thing: guys who are looking for virgins should be avoided like the plague.

Unread post by **The passage** » 09 Dec 2022, 04:43

Shamanaks: 09 Dec 2022, 03:03
Marinka: 07 Dec 2022, 06:02 Some kind of Middle Ages. If a man wants a virgin, he will get a pig in a poke. And then there will be resentment that he wants it, but she doesn’t, or, on the contrary, she fucked him, the poor and unfortunate one.
I didn’t get married as a virgin and I had an interesting past in terms of sex...

That’s exactly how it is. A virgin is definitely wanted by men who are not confident in themselves, who are afraid that having tried something other than them, the wife will "become dissolute" and get away from them.
A virgin (and a virgin) is really a "cat in bag". Sexual temperament may stupidly not converge. And what? Then live your whole life with a person with whom you have to endure sex? If you definitely want to observe patriarchal traditions, then it’s worth it. If you want a healthy sex life, definitely not.

In practice you need definitely have sex before marriage and be sure to have sex with the person you are going to marry. And in general, you should try more sex before marriage and long-term monogamous relationships in general. Otherwise, they will then think that there is something much better out there on the other side. This applies to both men and women.

I met my wife inexperienced, but she was far from a virgin. And thank God, damn it. By the way, I will tell my growing daughter the same thing: guys who are looking for virgins should be avoided like the plague.

I got married early. At 16, at 16 she gave birth to her first child. She came out not only not a virgin, but already pregnant. At 18, when we were legally allowed to start having sex, I already had two children. We were given brochures in kindergarten and elementary school on how to tell children about sexuality, so I read them to the children. I’m not going to learn anything else yet.

Unread post by **Shamanakas** » 09 Dec 2022, 04:50

Marinka: 09 Dec 2022, 04:43 We were given brochures in kindergarten and elementary school on how to tell children about sex life, so I read them to the children. I’m not going to learn anything else yet.

Yes, it’s the same for me. I’m not going to "teach" anything about sex to children, especially practically. But I still answer questions honestly. And I definitely won’t be a prude when my daughter asks me about sex before marriage.

Unread post by **The passage** » 09 Dec 2022, 04:51

Shamanaks: 09 Dec 2022, 04:50
Marinka: 09 Dec 2022, 04:43 We were given brochures in kindergarten and elementary school on how to tell children about sex life, so I read them to the children. I’m not going to learn anything else yet.
Yes, it’s the same for me. I’m not going to "teach" anything about sex to children, especially practically. But I still answer questions honestly. And I definitely won’t be a prude when my daughter asks me about sex before marriage.

I also believe that omissions, or even worse, prohibitions, give rise to unhealthy interest

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 09 Dec 2022, 05:03

Anonymous: 20 Nov 2019, 08:02 Good day) girls, a question for you: how are you going to get married if you are no longer virgins and even if you are virgins but with a bad past?
I’ll tell you a story: I came to a friend’s wedding, the wedding is in full swing , they were waiting for the groom’s aunt) I went to meet her from the airport, brought her to the wedding) everything seemed to be fine, but at one moment the groom’s aunt took the microphone and the following words were heard: excuse me, but I won’t allow my nephew to fool around, the bride is talking to me in She came to Moscow to get stitches. She told me that she had a lot of men and wanted to be a virgin for her groom. So I burned myself. They lifted the bride from the table and led her out of the hall, she ran away in tears, she felt ashamed) Everything secret becomes clear!!! My personal opinion: even after 5 years of living together and having children, if I found out anything about my wife and her past, regardless of whether she got married as a girl or not), I would kick her out of the house and take the children.

cheers our mother is virgin)))

Unread post by **triangle** » 09 Dec 2022, 05:54

svetik125: 09 Dec 2022, 05:03 hurray our mother is virgin)))

The obstetrician at the maternity hospital asked my cousin: "Do you know that you are a virgin?". And this despite the fact that she was actively engaged in vaginal sex from the age of 12.

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 09 Dec 2022, 06:31

triangle: 09 Dec 2022, 05:54
svetik125: 09 Dec 2022, 05:03 hurray our mother is virgin)))
The obstetrician at the maternity hospital asked my cousin: "Do you know that you are a virgin? ". And this despite the fact that she was actively engaged in vaginal sex from the age of 12.

The hymen tends to stretch

Sent after 2 minutes 45 seconds:
A virgin gave birth to Jesus too!

Unread post by **alex503311** » 09 Dec 2022, 06:42

Regarding cheating, there was an article, roughly 10 points:
1) For example, a romantic husband, kisses and caresses, mussy-pussy.
And there was drunkenness at work, the boss took her and fucked her like a whore, so she comes home and romance, goes to work, animal sex.
2) On the contrary, the husband is rude, or just squeezed and fucked, she likes it, but not always, and then the boss has flowers, gifts, caresses, cunnilingus etc.
3) It’s not enough, there were 2-3 mistresses, one of them was ok with her husband, but I fucked her once a week and my husband too, it was calm with my husband, with me she was immediately wet,
that she was surprised that I probably had lubrication.
4) Almost the same, but there’s just a husband, he fucks, there’s a lover and he also fucks, that is, there wasn’t enough sex.
And there There were still options, but there was not only sex, but also a salary and a husband who didn’t want it, etc.

Unread post by **argot** » 14 Jan 2023, 18:08

The first wife was virgin on all sides (17 years old). Six months later, only the ears remained intact. But my mind was blown that I got her intact! The current wife was already married, and there were lovers. I don’t particularly cycle. Pussy has the ability to recover in size, and being fucked means sexy. And before her there was a wife. Also not a virgin and also with a lover. Those who fucked before marriage already know how to please their husband. Incl. It’s better to take someone who’s already fucked up as a wife. At least the sex will be great.

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 21 Mar 2023, 04:41

triangle: 09 Dec 2022, 05:54 The obstetrician asked my cousin at the maternity hospital: "Do you know that you are a virgin?". And this despite the fact that she was actively engaged in vaginal sex from the age of 12.

If she had sex with an adult man from the age of 12, then I won’t believe it, but if with the same age, then it may well be. I have cousins older than me. One is two years old, the second is my age. As a child, the eldest taught the younger by example of me. I was not yet 12 years old. My eldest’s pussy immediately entered completely, the younger one entered completely the next day and also all of it, when the eldest began to bother the youngest that she could not do anything. They both had hymens and remained in place, despite the fact that my pussy was very hard and seemed to be of normal length. I understood later that the small diameter allowed it to pass through the hole in the hymen, which all virgins have and serves to drain menstrual flow.

Unread post by **5nica** » 21 Mar 2023, 05:44

My cousin was officially married three times, not counting temporary hobbies. There are children from everyone.
How to get married without a virgin, obviously she knew exactly

Unread post by **Mr.hamsterrr** » 21 Mar 2023, 05:56

5nica: 21 Mar 2023, 05:44 My cousin was officially married three times, not counting temporary hobbies. There are children from everyone.
How to get married without a virgin, obviously she knew exactly

I no longer I understand how to marry a virgin)) what if he’s worse than a corpse in bed? And you have already put a stamp and wasted the money

Unread post by **Ahtung** » 19 Apr 2023, 07:52

I think the question about marrying a virgin is stupid prejudice. Well, maybe in the Caucasus this is still somehow observed, but maybe there is elementary incompatibility and what then, divorce? A man’s penis can be either small or, on the contrary, big and tear everything there, a girl can also have an uncomfortable pussy (it happened a couple of times, as if you were resting on the floor of a bone and no matter how you look at it, it won’t go in any further) or the pussy is so narrow , that at least you can’t stick it in. Once I was seduced by a friend’s younger sister, she was 18-19 years old, no matter how much we suffered, I didn’t insert it into her, a very narrow pussy, then she gave a blowjob and that’s it, they didn’t try again. Then she married her husband, gave birth, and apparently found the master key to her furry safe. Another question is if you only had 1 partner, sooner or later you will want to try it for comparison, but how to do this? Change? So this is nonsense, you need to marry someone with whom you feel comfortable, so that later you don’t run around with your tongue hanging out in search of satisfaction.

Unread post by **A meow** » 30 Aug 2023, 01:57

Anonymous, Yes, yes... you have a writer in you talent disappears. Keep up the good work.
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It’s just normal to NOT get married as a virgin. Let the future husband know in advance that his betrothed already has some experience in sex, you see, and it will be better to try so as not to lose face in the dirt.
But getting married as a virgin... This will happen for the rest of your life think, "What about others?" These are the kind of marriages that most often break up.

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 30 Aug 2023, 02:35

My wife had 2 marriages before me. So what now? I love her very much, my virginity has nothing to do with it. I’m not a saint myself.

Unread post by **Beluga** » 30 Aug 2023, 02:36

Anonymous: 20 Nov 2019, 08:02 and the following words were said: excuse me, but I won’t allow my nephew to cheat, the bride says she came to Moscow to get stitches. She told me that she had a lot of men, and wants to be a virgin for the groom. So it burned down.

some kind of bullshit

Unread post by **plumber** » 30 Aug 2023, 04:02

My 5 cents...
There is such a thing - LOVE! It’s EVERYTHING: respect, passion, and joy... and girls have a safety net - over time, the entrance to the vagina narrows and you’ll never know whether you’re a girl or not!

Once my wife asked - "Why don’t you fly away with your eggs into me? Otherwise, during childbirth they kicked my pussy " - outer lips - (the child did not come out)...
But I didn’t notice something! I actually didn’t notice anything...

My relative’s husband constantly vomits from the throat / entrance to the uterus - such a ring / until he bleeds (despite the fact that his wife is 2- and once she gave birth, the pussy should be stretched).
As soon as it ruptures, the woman gets sick... It’s a complete disgrace! I’m at a loss as to which cream to use....

Unread post by **loving** » 30 Aug 2023, 09:08

For me personally, it doesn’t matter at all whether my virginity matters or not, what difference does it make?

Unread post by **helgg** » 30 Aug 2023, 09:27

What does "wedding" have to do with it anyway? And before the wedding - no, no? Just walk and look at the moon? Or maybe I’ll see her for the first time right at the wedding?

No, I can’t do that. I need to try. What if we don’t have the same temperaments? I need a wife not only to give birth to children. I should communicate with her, live, love each other. In Indian villages, the groom meets the bride only after the wedding.

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Aug 2023, 09:38

lubitel69: 30 Aug 2023, 09:08 Personally, for me, it doesn’t matter at all whether the hymen makes any difference.

Hmm, but with a hymen there are more hemorrhoids. The first time often turns out to be very traumatic for a girl...

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 03 Nov 2023, 08:02

Alexsss: 30 Aug 2023, 02:35 My wife had 2 marriages before me. So what now? I love her very much, my virginity has nothing to do with it at all. I’m not a saint myself.

U Both my first wife and my second were never married before me, but I didn’t get caught with my virginity either. The second, while still a student, had sexual relations with an Ethiopian, who had a dick so be healthy. When she was with me for the first time, the vagina was tight and pleasant. 24 years have passed, our daughter is already a mother herself, my wife’s place is still as tight as before.

Unread post by **alex56** » 03 Nov 2023, 09:07

a woman is the same person with her own fantasies and desires. and if husbands demand a virgin, then for their part they must also be virgins!!!!

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 03 Nov 2023, 10:02

alex56: 03 Nov 2023, 09:07 a woman is the same person with her own fantasies and desires. and if husbands demand a virgin, then for their part they must also be virgins!!!!

When I got married, I certainly would like my wife to not be with anyone before me but both the first and second wives were already, as they say, used. The second wife knew a lot about sex and did not hide it. I began to imagine how she had sex with someone else before me and this excited me. So we came to the conclusion that we let a stranger into our intimate life.
Now it doesn’t matter to me whether I married a girl or not.

Unread post by **Minato.sensei** » 04 Nov 2023, 07:40

Anonymous: 20 Nov 2019, 08:02 Good day) girls, a question for you: how are you going to get married if you are no longer virgins and even if you are virgins but with a bad past?
I’ll tell you a story: I came to a friend’s wedding, the wedding is in full swing , they were waiting for the groom’s aunt) I went to meet her from the airport, brought her to the wedding) everything seemed to be fine, but at one moment the groom’s aunt took the microphone and the following words were heard: excuse me, but I won’t allow my nephew to fool around, the bride is talking to me in She came to Moscow to get stitches. She told me that she had a lot of men and wanted to be a virgin for her groom. So I burned myself. They lifted the bride from the table and led her out of the hall, she ran away in tears, she felt ashamed) Everything secret becomes clear!!! My personal opinion: even after 5 years of living together and having children, if I found out anything about my wife and her past, regardless of whether she got married as a girl or not), I would kick her out of the house and take the children.

Damn, this is terrible, I can’t imagine it happening here.

Unread post by **Xenophon** » 04 Nov 2023, 07:49

Minato.sensei: 04 Nov 2023, 07:40
Anonymous: 20 Nov 2019, 08:02 Good day) girls, a question for you: how are you going to get married if you are no longer virgins and even if you are virgins but with a bad past?
I’ll tell you a story: I came to wedding to a friend, the wedding was in full swing, they were waiting for the groom’s aunt) I went to meet her from the airport, brought her to the wedding) everything seemed to be fine, but at one moment the groom’s aunt took the microphone and the following words were heard: excuse me, but I’m screwing my nephew I won’t allow it, the bride says she came to Moscow to get stitches. She told me that she had a lot of men, but she wants to be a virgin for the groom. So I burned myself. They lifted the bride from the table and led her out of the hall, she ran away in tears, she felt ashamed) Everything secret becomes clear!!! My personal opinion: even after 5 years of living together and having children, if I found out anything about my wife and her past, regardless of whether she got married as a girl or not), I would kick her out of the house and take the children.
Damn, this is kind of cruel, I can’t imagine something like this happening here.

A wanker’s fantasy . He has neither a wife nor children. And there is no aunt either. The guy jerked off!

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 04 Nov 2023, 08:04

Ksenofont,
I agree.
Most likely the fantasies of wankers from the mountains.

Unread post by **Sorcerer** » 04 Nov 2023, 08:20

I think it’s a really stupid question. Nowadays, no one is chasing or setting conditions that the bride should be a virgin. Everyone had a sex life, there were wives, girlfriends, and so on. Chastity is no longer in fashion. Even religion has already adapted to the current reality, even the priests themselves advise using condoms. There are exceptions, like Muslims, and even then not everywhere

04 Nov 2023, 09:22

It so happened that I broke my wife’s virginity. She was 15. She turned 16 and married. We’ve been married for 30 years. But..!!!!!! I was the first but far from the only one.

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 04 Nov 2023, 10:27

Sorcerer: 04 Nov 2023, 08:20 I think this is a stupid question. Nowadays, no one is chasing or setting conditions that the bride should be a virgin. Everyone had a sex life, there were wives, girlfriends, and so on. Chastity is no longer in fashion. Even religion has already adapted to the current reality, even the priests themselves advise using condoms. There are exceptions, like Muslims, and even then not everywhere. someone smacked. Now I don’t think about it anymore, especially since while we were together for many years, she had sexual intercourse with other men. In any case, I am not ashamed of my wife.

Unread post by **PrematureCum** » 04 Nov 2023, 15:23

I’m even glad that I got a wife with a lot of experience. I myself was a late virgin with problems and needed the help of an experienced woman. In addition, past partners treated her poorly and even beat her. And I treat her with respect in everyday life and try to please her in bed. She really appreciates this contrast and holds on to me tighter.

Unread post by **weak intestine** » 12 Feb 2024, 02:29

What difference does it make whether a virgin or not, the main thing is that the farts are good and tasty

Unread post by **Varian_Rin** » 12 Feb 2024, 02:32

Ogest: 06 Dec 2022, 14:03 I would prefer to marry an experienced woman with a past. I’m no longer interested in virgins.

I’ve ruined all the topics with this. Dude, you need treatment

Unread post by **Ogest** » 12 Feb 2024, 13:57

Varian_Rin: 12 Feb 2024, 02:32 all the topics have been trashed by this. Dude, you need to get treatment

What don’t you like?

Unread post by **Varian_Rin** » 12 Feb 2024, 14:42

Ogest: 12 Feb 2024, 13:57
Varian_Rin: 12 Feb 2024, 02:32 all topics are trashed with this. Dude, you need treatment
What don’t you like?

what the hell? it was a weak intestine, I quoted his message

Unread post by **Connecting rod** » 12 Feb 2024, 14:47

Varian_Rin: 12 Feb 2024, 14:42
Ogest: 12 Feb 2024, 13:57
Varian_Rin: 12 Feb 2024, 02:32 I’ve ruined all the topics with this. Dude, you need treatment
What don’t you like?
what the hell? it was weak intestine, his message was quoted

so you ended up addressing the wrong subscriber) From the outside, it also seemed to me that you were addressing August. And Weak Gut... I understand that he is a troll. But so primitive and predictable that I don’t know

Unread post by **Ogest** » 12 Feb 2024, 14:54

Varian_Rin: 12 Feb 2024, 14:42 what the hell? it was a weak intestine, his message was quoted

I already thought that love for experienced women was a reason for treatment.

Unread post by **Yurik** » 17 Feb 2024, 23:14

Andrey Lukashov: 04 Nov 2023, 10:27 I don’t know about anyone, but I still immediately had a bad feeling in my soul that someone had hit my wife before me....

I, too, when I met my then future wife, she looked like a child herself. I didn’t even dare to touch her before the wedding :) Then I think that I was already getting ready to get married anyway, and it also happened that we spent the night together at the dacha. Imagine my surprise that she was no longer a girl. She herself noticed my confusion, immediately blushed, and then began to do what she could. And I immediately didn’t care that I wasn’t her first

Unread post by **Sidor** » 18 Feb 2024, 00:11

The personal life of my woman does not interest me. Anyone who says anything bad about her will get punched in the snout.