What kind of girl should I look for to start a family?

[romance book]

I would have been silent - I would have passed for more or less smart..

here is an anonymous forum, it’s just interesting to be who we really are, and Why put on a mask of being smart? row of what? For example, you need to be smart at work in a team in order to be promoted in position and in salary.

[niqk]

Belukha, how strikingly different are the words and the inner world of a person! This is what it means to be able to hide
your true face!!!

[Beluga]

you have to be

you have to not be, you have to seem!

[romance book]

"the soul of the company"

I don’t like company at all. Going for a walk with a friend or a friend in the park to chat, I feel more comfortable that way than three of us, or even more so a larger group.

[Mitry]

To start a family, you need to look for the girl who best suits you. So that your cockroaches become friends completely and forever
But seriously, everyone has their own plans for their spouse. Some are looking for a kitchen slave and a sex slave, or vice versa without a pussy but a hard worker. Someone needs a fighting girlfriend. Delicate flower. Replacement mommy. The doll is the envy of everyone. There are countless options, what do you need? =160296 time=1673865636 user_id=12161] This is because of capitalism. Poverty of some, for the sake of luxury of others.

[Beluga]

But seriously, everyone has their own plans for their spouse. Some are looking for a kitchen slave and a sex slave, or vice versa without a pussy but a hard worker. Someone needs a fighting girlfriend. Delicate flower. Replacement mommy. The doll is the envy of everyone. There are countless options, what do you want?

Yes

[Bully Carrie]

Three things: sexual preferences, attitude towards money, and something to laugh about *together*. If only the first point matches, then this is only a mistress, and not for long. If all three match, there is a chance to stay together for a long time.

[The passage]

feminism detected?

)))What in my message indicates feminism?

[Mitry]

)))What in my message indicates feminism?

Nothing, nothing in this if not for the previous ones.
So are you a feminist or not? Or are they now encrypted?
I think the cat is about to get hit on the head, for some reason

[The passage]

)))What in my post indicates feminism?

Nothing, nothing in this if not for the previous ones.
So are you a feminist or not? Or are they now encrypted?
I think the cat is about to get hit on the head, for some reason

))) It depends on the mood. Sometimes I love all men strongly and sincerely, and sometimes I’m a feminist))) I’m generally a person of mood and not always good.

[Beluga]

I think the cat is about to get hit on the head

Sometimes I really miss that smiley

[Whike]

To create a family, you need to choose a girl with whom you will have maximum common ground. My wife and I have been together
for almost 25 years. We dated for 2 years and only then got married. We listen to almost the same music, read the same the same books (and then we discuss them), we watch movies together, we relax together. We know each other like crazy, we know our strengths and weaknesses very well, and that’s why we’ve been together for so long. We’re just not tired of each other, we always have something to talk about, discuss something, decide something. Therefore, in such cases, I always advise you to choose a soul mate with a maximum of common interests!

[romance book]

choose a soul mate with a maximum of common interests!

what if they look completely different? for example, one is small and plump, and the second is thin and long. Will you get used to falling in love?

[Bexed]

Marriage is not a good word in Russia! I think you need to get on your own feet, and then want a family, but you need to approach this issue wisely. Money is now, unfortunately, almost the most important thing with a family, just one word: you need to get the children ready for school causes stress on your wallet, and on yourself.

[romance book]

Money is now, unfortunately, almost the most important thing

Is it really possible to find a pretty girl/woman so that she doesn’t ask a man for money and financially strains her family? and the husband helps a little, or completely supports the entire family economically when his wife is on maternity leave.

[Mitry]

Is it really possible to find a pretty girl/woman so that she doesn’t ask a man for money and financially burdens her family? and the husband helps a little, or completely supports the entire family financially economically when the wife is on maternity leave

Of course it’s possible! And more often on maternity leave, then it will be possible to live on benefits! And if you try really hard, you can even find one that your husband won’t even need to work!

[The passage]

you won’t have to work!

))) You can also rob a bank. If it works out, you won’t have to work, and if it doesn’t work out, you won’t have to work. Ideal option for lazy people)))

[King Bird]

Of course it’s real! And more often on maternity leave, then it will be possible to live on benefits!

Be that as it may, smart girls do just that. They graduate from university, get married, then get a job in a federal or at least municipal enterprise (most importantly, not in business), then immediately fly in and go on maternity leave seriously and for a long time. True, it’s still difficult to “live” on benefits. Enough for bread and porridge, but not much for meat and butter. Bad savings will come out.

[Mitry]

Be that as it may, smart girls do this. They graduate from university, get married, then get a job in a federal or at least municipal enterprise (most importantly, not in business), then immediately fly in and go on maternity leave seriously and for a long time. True, it’s still difficult to “live” on benefits. Enough for bread and porridge, but not much for meat and butter. The economy will be bad.

The really smart ones go into law enforcement agencies. The length of service wears off, the stars fall, we retire at 45, the security forces are paid well, the pension is also not bad.

[King Bird]

really smart people go into law enforcement agencies.

They don’t like smart people in law enforcement agencies. They love executives and sycophants.

[Hair shirt]

Is it really possible to find a pretty girl/woman so that she doesn’t ask a man for money and financially burdens her family? and the husband helps a little, or completely supports the entire family financially economically when the wife is on maternity leave.

I don’t understand something. Are you trolling people here in this thread of yours?
On the internet this is called "throwing shit on the fan". You write something like that and a bunch of people’s ass immediately explodes. Are you striving for this? So that now fat women who have “I’m a mother!!!” written on their foreheads would crawl out of their holes and angrily write that such fucking men should be publicly burned at the stake so that others would be embarrassed.
Either castrate them. Also publicly. So that such males don’t breed anymore.
Is this what you are trying to achieve?

About girls and your first post in this topic...
You first think well why you need a permanent girlfriend in one capacity or another - wife, girlfriend, friend.
Something tells me that you are simply tired of jerking off, and you want to somehow have some kind of permanent object that would replace your own fist .

I would like to warn you in advance that family is an expensive pleasure. And if it’s just a matter of the desire to have full access to a living pussy on legs, then I hasten to disappoint you - it’s not worth it. Because the costs are very high. You just can’t handle a family. And it doesn’t even matter what kind of woman we’ll be there. Even if she agrees to everything and was brought especially for you almost from Afghanistan.

First of all, she will give birth to someone for you. And expenses will leave you no choice - no matter how much you earn, it will still not be enough. And this will be the case from birth until adulthood. That is, the next 18-20 years. Do you need all this?
And then this pimply underage child will call you a rodak behind your back and complain to his friends that the rodaks are already completely fucked up. They pry into your personal life and generally cause nothing but problems. And like, when will all this finally end.
And when you turn sixty, it will be waiting for you to finally vacate your living space.

Well, in general, if you just want regular sex and someone to cook delicious food for you, then it’s much easier to find someone for money.
For cooking and cleaning the apartment Once a week you can hire an auntie. She will come twice a week and cook your food and clean your apartment. You will come home from work and on the table there will be a warm saucepan with cutlets covered with a towel and a saucepan with borscht in the refrigerator.

Well, sex problems can also be solved in the same way.
The same site has an Indie section. I think that’s what it’s called. Female students rent housing together and recruit regular clients. A little. Exactly enough to pay for rent and fill the refrigerator for a week. You can become one of our regular customers. The price tag seems to be very reasonable. The most ordinary girl students. Not even prostitutes. You just have to survive somehow. And they survive.

Well, in general, don’t stick your head into this clamp. It’s not worth it if it’s just about regular sex and homemade food. It’s much easier to hire people to do those two things. I’ve met a lot of divorced young men on the Internet on forums and in TV channels. They rejoice in their freedom like children. A couple of years like this having been burned, in the end they somehow go through all this - scandals, divorce and so on.
And then you can’t lure them into this stall with any kind of roll. They have fun as best they can - they go somewhere to live in Tai or somewhere else. They learn languages, write blogs, learn programming so they can work remotely.

Well, in general, they enjoy life and are simply happy that, having gotten into trouble, they were able to escape from it all like that little bun.
Well, In general, don’t think of foolishly getting married. Everything is fine with you now. There is work, there is health, there is youth. Enjoy life, learn languages. But not just like that, but seriously so that later you can speak this or that language. Study for any in-demand profession because you will need money in life. Without them it is very difficult to travel, move around the world, live here and there.

Good luck to you!

[Aion2012Dead]

If I were looking for a girlfriend, I would want her to share my interests. She would be just as uncommunicative and secretive and have her own fantasies, which I would share.
Basically, look for what you have in common and try it.

[Hair shirt]

If I were looking for a girlfriend, I would want her to share my interests. I would be just as uncommunicative and secretive and have my own fantasies, which I would share

Well then you will most likely have to come to terms with the fact that you will not find such a girl and you you’ll have to choose a man.

Because with such parameters you will find a man faster than a woman.
I don’t have a kind of homosexual.
What I mean is that most likely you will find yourself a male friend with such parameters.
Well, sex issues will still have to be resolved somehow differently. Not combining friend and sex in one person.

[Aion2012Dead]

hair shirt,
Ahahahaha
Well, that’s why I wrote - If only!
It’s fine for me, alone.

[romance book]

I don’t understand something. Are you trolling people here in this thread of yours?

no, there was no such idea to troll people. I’m really undecided, but I’m already approaching 40 and I probably need to think about something about having a child.

Something tells me that you’re just tired of jerking off, and you want to then get some kind of permanent object that would replace your own fist.

no, live sex is not very interesting to me, but hugs may be nice.
nMutual assistance, communication, probably so that the girl is pretty and positive, a lighter.
A person with whom it is pleasantly comfortable.

You can hire an auntie to cook and clean the apartment once a week. n

I do it myself, it doesn’t take me a lot of effort and time.

I want to warn you in advance that family is fun expensive.

So I thought, maybe I can focus on a girl who earns a lot herself and just needs a faithful, reliable ally, a friend, an assistant in life.

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What are the advantages of Do you have a permanent girlfriend and a child?
There are many disadvantages, but what are the advantages for a man?

[Hair shirt]

What are the advantages of having a permanent girlfriend and child?
There are many disadvantages, but what are the advantages for a man?

God apparently has a reason for this made both parties enjoy sex. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be able to force anyone to do this.
What I mean is that most people get married simply because they get tired of jerking off all the time, cooking their own food, cleaning the house, doing laundry, and going shopping. And then suddenly someone appears in your life who takes over this whole matter. And not according to a schedule, but everything is completely and voluntary.

Of course, almost all men buy into this. Well, young people even more so. Quite recently, his mother did all this for the young man. And then it all fell on him when he was finally kicked out of the house. And then suddenly the prospect arose that someone would do all this again. Well, regular sex again.

You ask - what about women? Why do they need this voluntary slavery?
The fact is that not all women grab stars from the sky. Not everyone is capable of making a career. And this is due to the fact that you need to study somewhere, pass some difficult exams, possibly change your profession or specialization along the way, get smart, look for some solutions, survive in a hostile work environment. Well, if you become even the smallest boss over someone, then everything is very difficult.

And most people are simply incapable of this. Both trolleybus drivers and cashiers at grocery checkout counters do not work by calling or because they like it. But because a person simply physically does not want to study anything seriously anywhere. Have you often met a female surgeon in your life? Or say, a female foreman at a construction site? Or a combat fighter pilot? This is very rare. And all because all of the above is a very serious topic. You have to study a lot and for a long time, and at the same time not mess up. This is all very difficult.

Well, so...
Most women after graduating from school try to enroll somewhere but fail, or after enrolling they drop out after the first semester. And in orderly rows they go somewhere to the checkout in the store or, if they’re lucky, to the reception. And there they languish, hating everything and everyone. And marriage becomes just a dream. Because I got married and immediately bam - and on maternity leave! This is simply a must first thing.
Put everyone in their place - your husband, his parents, your parents. Damn, now you’ll walk on my line without any help!

And for the next seven years, until she goes to school, this girl is the mistress of her life - when she wants to get up, when she wants to go to bed, what’s in the house he wants it and does it. My husband carries money and is away from home all day. I kicked him out of the house in the morning - and the whole day is at your disposal. Well, yes, clean everything in the house, cook food, feed the kinder and go for a walk. And the whole day goes by. But most girls enjoy all this because there are no bosses, because you are the mistress of your time.

And because you do it all yourself and without coercion. Because if you want, you don’t have to do all this. And no one will say a word to you. And there’s no one to tell it to because the husband comes home completely fucked up at work and doesn’t give a damn if there’s dust on the closet or not. The main thing is to give him something to eat, and not to distract him from some of his household wants. Well, and sex, of course, upon request.
Most girls initially like all this. Especially in contrast to what happened at her job a year ago and another couple or three years before marriage, which it is better not to remember and not to inform her husband. As in those verses - "youth took us on a saber campaign..."

About the advantages for a man...
They are obvious - there is no need to cook, wash, clean the house, or go shopping.
Regular sex is two.
Next...
If something happens to you, maybe someone will carry you to the hospital or, God forbid, where the packages are.
I was once in the hospital with one problem. So they came to the neighbors’ ward with parcels. There were five or six people in the room. And for two weeks, only one wife came to the neighbors. Well, sometimes and very rarely some relatives. Well, who definitely wasn’t there were children, friends, colleagues, drinking buddies.

Well, what other advantages...
A huge advantage can be the fact that you and your wife are fucking friends in life. Real ones. And when you don’t leak your wife to your friends. In the sense that do not share anything intimate with your wife. Or you don’t scold her with your friends and don’t discuss how hands-on she is and how she fucked you up about this or that. Well, she, too, accordingly, does not wash your bones for hours on the phone with her friends.
It is very rare for this to be the case. Because there is a very big temptation to do this even if you are really good friends.

Well, in general, this is an obvious plus when you are the closest friends with her and when among your friends there is no one closer than her. That is, you trust and believe in her more than anyone else. For example, some friend of yours told you - I fucked your wife yesterday at the dacha. I’m sorry.
You to your wife. And she will either say - well, yes, that’s how it is. I don’t know how it happened.
Or he will say - no, it didn’t happen. Let him not be a pussy. And you should believe her and not your friend. And believe without a doubt. And if you don’t believe it, it means you are not friends at all, but are simply entertaining yourself with such thoughts.

Next...
Don’t count children as advantages. These are all downsides. Do you think why, as a rule, grandparents love their grandchildren so much? Yes, because they were disappointed at one time by their children. And all because they wanted to manipulate and command their children at one time. And they sent them to hell in due time. And that was the end of it. And then the grandchildren appeared - and it reaches out to you and sincerely rejoices at you. And all this is so cute and so unlike your grown children with whom you have no mutual understanding for a long time.

Once upon a time before the revolution, in Russian families it was customary for boys at the age of fourteen to be sent to the family relatives for further education. He turned 14 years old and was sent to the family of his uncle, his father’s brother. And you won’t be spoiled there, I don’t want any snot, I don’t want that. If something can flog you.

Well, in general, don’t build any illusions about children. All cuteness until the age of seven. And for some it may be earlier. And just as it went to school, that’s how it all ends. He already has his own life, which is mostly incomprehensible to you. And you, too, will not have time to deal with this kinder of yours. These are illusions so common that they say give me a son. But most fathers have absolutely no time for this son. From dark to dark, father is at work. He comes home, eats in front of the TV and goes to bed because tomorrow he has to get up early for work again.

Well, if they force you and your son to go for a walk in the park on the weekend. I often see these Sunday fathers on Saturdays and Sundays. They are immediately visible to the naked eye. They feel very unusual with this baby stroller and look around wildly. Well, it’s as if they put a woman’s dress on him and put him in heels.

What can I advise you...
Look for a female friend. Not a female to give birth to a child and not a housewife, but a friend. Well, as if it were your friend, but only female. Let’s say you have a male friend. Truly a good and very close friend. You rent a house together with him. Both of you are not gay and of normal orientation. You won’t be interested in those questions that interest you now in relation to a woman - does she need me if I don’t earn enough?
So ask yourself - does your friend, the man with whom you both share the rent, need you? do you earn little?

You say - what nonsense!? What does money have to do with it!?
It’s the same here. You are looking for a female friend. Forget the money! It’s even better that you are not rich. Because if you were well off, a bunch of different mercantile female people would attack you. And so if you find a female friend then it’s true will be your friend. Who will need you and not your money or apartment.

[romance book]

If something happens to you, maybe someone will take you to the hospital or, God forbid, somewhere else.

Yes, exactly, I know this . I was in the hospital, and there was only one nurse for everyone and either didn’t give a fuck or was busy, and very rarely came into our room, but I felt very bad, and I had questions, and I couldn’t ask them to anyone. I could have died like that, and she would have come to the ward 4 hours later and seen me dead.
According to the law, only official wives were written there.

You won’t be spoiled there, I don’t want any snot, I don’t want that. If anything, he can flog him.

My dad could freak out and hit him on the head with his palm with anger. Now, as an adult, I understand that dad doesn’t know how to speak or negotiate, but you need to be able to do this and trust to communicate with your child as friends. Not everyone has a bad relationship between parent and son.

More recently, his mother did all this for a young man. And then it all fell on him when he was finally kicked out of the house. And then suddenly the prospect arose that someone would do all this again. Well, regular sex again.

After college I went to work and live alone, learned how to cook, do household chores, I’m a housekeeper myself, and for many years I’ve been living alone and never lived with a girl. Therefore, for me this is a dubious plus, cooking, washing, cleaning. I rarely do cleaning myself, I don’t care about cleanliness and dust.

And marriage becomes just a dream. Because I got married and immediately bam - and on maternity leave!

One married friend told me that at home with a small child she gets twice as tired as she would if she worked in the office, and no longer meets with friends. And before, she worked in the office and met with friends after work.

What can I advise you...
Look for a female friend.

What if she doesn’t look very good? but in terms of communication everything is fine, and it is quite possible to be friends and communicate. Will you get used to falling in love?
Appearance is important to me, but perhaps if there is a long-term relationship, appearance will fade into the background.

Sometimes it seems that a BUSINESS WOMAN woman is suitable for me. Who makes good money, but hates cooking. There are women who buy expensive cars, and just like in sports, they try to be cooler and show off in front of everyone. Some women, even in sports, understand something about football. Lots of energy want sex often. I like positive, cheerful lighters.

And I’m a wimp, a homebody who knows how to cook, I don’t care about sports, football, I have no desire to show off and buy expensive cars. Low energy and sex is not particularly important. The same unemotional mumblers like me are not particularly attractive.

Or is it bad when two different people are together.

[Hair shirt]

Or is it bad when two different people are together.

What could be the motivation of the woman you picture in your imagination? I mean a businesswoman?
She is used to commanding, she is used to solving problems. Why does she need you?
Everything she needs she can buy or order.

You now remind me of a male Cinderella.
That Cinderella who dreams of a prince . It’s just not clear why the prince needs this Cinderella?
He can fuck whoever he wants anyway.

Cinderella can offer friendship to the prince?
And how does Cinderella know what kind of friend the prince needs?
Cinderella can offer her love?
And how Does Cinderella have such selective love for the prince? What the hell!?
And why exactly the prince and not someone else?

Well, in general, don’t look for easy ways and freebies. You behave like those same mercantile women who, as you write above, do not pay attention to you and do not see you as a man.

[The passage]

Vasyanitsa, I haven’t read your opuses for a long time. I am very glad that you still registered on this forum.

[Hair shirt]

Vasyanitsa, I haven’t read your opuses for a long time. I’m very glad that you still registered on this forum

Why are you so happy about this?
Usually people on this forum were very happy about this fact moderators. For some reason.
Maybe the comrade major there gives them a bonus for everyone who registers?
Are you by any chance a moderator?
What do you care if I registered or not?
For example, I don’t care whether you registered or not . And this makes any other visitor neither warm nor cold.

[Gourmet]

It’s better to marry deaf and dumb people and not virgins

[The passage]

Why are you so happy about this?

))) Can’t you be happy?)))

Usually the moderators on this forum were very happy about this fact. For some reason.

))) You see. Everyone is glad to see you)))

What does it matter to you whether I registered or not?
For example, I don’t care whether you registered or not. And this makes any other visitor neither warm nor cold

))) Did you get up on the wrong foot today? Lie down and stand with the other one. Should help)))

[BeachBunny]

If a woman wants you, she will take the initiative and even pay for you.

This is true, but there is a nuance. Only if a girl has normal self-esteem, is self-sufficient, full-fledged, does not have serious complexes and psychological blocks, then she can really take the initiative, including the first one, give gifts, invite somewhere, even pay for a guy/man, but such in principle, very little, so you shouldn’t count on it.

[romance book]

Well, what other advantages...
A huge advantage can be the fact that you and your wife are fucking friends in life. Real.

I’ll post someone else’s post here:
One person wrote:

I’m 34, We need a woman in the 18-25 category. Forgive me, but a self-respecting Man will not consider something serious with a woman over 25.
Especially a Man who, considering his age, is something of himself.
Let her be much younger than me, and let her have other interests. I shouldn’t be interested in a girl. Because there is no woman (girl) with whom it would be more interesting than with male comrades, friends, associates and like-minded people. It’s just a matter of fact. A woman can give birth even at 50 years old, but the likelihood of having healthy children is reduced significantly! But personally, I don’t need it. If I am ready to invest resources for 18 years in this child and create favorable conditions for his development, then why should I risk his development and expose him to potential danger during the first 9 months? The female body is a very finely tuned mechanism. It’s not for nothing that women over 25 in maternity hospitals are given the status of old-timers. Our ancestors did not even live to this age, let alone bear children. Saying that a woman can give birth after 35 is like saying that a person can run at 70. Yes, in fact he can, but....
Everything has its time, friend. I think you won’t be able to find a woman who would connect her life with a man who, until he was 35, hung out, relaxed and lazed around, and then suddenly realized that he needed to go to university (+ - 5 years), and then make a career (+ - 10 years) . This is practically unrealistic and unlikely. Because by the age of 35 you need to get all the big shots, experience, connections, knowledge and skills. A man must mature as a person and a personality by the age of 35 because he will be responsible for the well-being of the family, and a woman until 20 (24 but this is the limit) must maintain her purity, love, tenderness, affection, trust and ability to attach. It doesn’t work any other way. Exceptions are possible of course, but this is how it is in the database.

[SweetyBaby]

What kind of family can there be if you can’t support it while on maternity leave? Probably, here it’s either to forget about the family, or to somehow forget about laziness and start working and earning money. If not for a potential wife and child, then it will definitely be useful for yourself))

[Ogest]

I’ll post someone else’s post here:
One person wrote:

He’s some kind of woodpecker.

[racer]

I’ll post someone else’s post here:
One person wrote:

He’s some kind of woodpecker.

This is what a typical prince looks like...a heartbreaking sight

[Ogest]

This is what a typical prince looks like...a heartbreaking sight

But in fact, no one needs him.

[romance book]

What kind of family can there be if you cannot support while on maternity leave?

I can support. And yet, at work, the employer pays money

[romance book]

First of all, I am looking for someone who will be crazy about me) and she should also attract me externally and not repel me in any way. And everything else like occupation, interests, income level, presence of children, location of residence, age - everything is bullshit, if I like it, nothing will stop me except indifference)

What is materially acceptable for you? So that you would pay for a girl everywhere (cafes, restaurants, rental housing, trips to the sea, fur coats, boots, beauty salons). If you are generous, then a girl may love you very much for your money and generosity.

[Christmas_Christmas]

Then what kind of girl should I look for?

Look for the right one and no one else...
He is not happy who has a lot of good things, but the one whose wife is faithful)))

[Hammer]

I realized it too late. Now you will get 3rd grade and substandard.

[romance book]

I realized it too late

why is it late?

[alexey.bro]

Hammer, what does grade 3 mean?)

[Hammer]

Hammer that does that mean grade 3?)

I’m talking about appearance. I won’t send examples of photos.

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why is it late?

Okay. It’s a little late, let’s put it this way.

[sevener]

there is no woman (girl) with whom it would be more interesting than with comrades, friends

100% gay. You probably like sex with these comrades more.

Because by the age of 35 you need to get all the big shots

A very backward view of the world, some kind of offended and a downcast man.

[romance book]

100% gay. You probably like sex with these comrades more.

These are not my words, but a quote from one guy from another forum.

Okay. It’s a little late, let’s put it this way.

Are you talking about my age? what 35

[vladlen]

I have always adhered to the belief that advice comes well from people who, by their own example, can prove in practice their competence in the matter.
I have been married to a peer from the north of Russia for just over 14 years, we have 3 years together children together, came to me not a virgin, but without children. He brought her to the south (naked), before her there were three, 4 "one-night stands", after her there were one or three whores from a dating site. All! The rest, short affairs - without sex (didn’t follow through, not interesting).
So here’s my personal advice based on my experience:
0. I think it’s not worth getting married (I myself am officially married). Because this is not freedom. You don’t need to bind yourself to this.
1. Baba must take the initiative. Take the first step or at least take progressive steps towards you in parallel with yours towards her.
2. It should be useful to you. If you see that she is trying to clean or doesn’t cook, life won’t last.
3. If she fucks you up even a little, that’s it, it’s not the way to go!
4. Baba should listen to you, you should be head and shoulders above in many matters. Respect you and follow you (and not your mother, sister, friend).
5. It is advisable that you move her to a place away from you. Desirable, very desirable
6. She must be the youngest in the family and this family must have 3 brothers and sisters. The elder brother is a must
7. She must be at least a little religious. Or conscientious. Yes, you don’t have to be like that, but it’s very desirable for her!

well, it’s not a mandatory point
her pussy should look like my wife’s in the photo.
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In general, the topic is some kind of wild radicals. Crazy feminists and crazy mama’s boys who have watched enough videos of the men’s movement on YouTube.
I can advise the author to go to a psychologist, it is difficult to get normal advice on such a forum.
I will still write my opinion for adequate people.
1. A woman really needs to be chosen based on her interests. Life is yours, if you want to engage in debauchery, do it, if you want to be a righteous man or a saint, be it. Just don’t lie to yourself and don’t shift responsibility.
Everyone before marriage sees and knows that the wife will cheat and the woman sees and feels that the man will beat her. Simply because of an unhealthy psyche, people strive for suffering. Masochism is the most common phenomenon in our world, and selfishness, of course.
2. It doesn’t matter how much you earn, if you want a family, start a family, sometimes the family motivates you to work more, build a business, and sometimes it demotivates you, then you’ll just get drunk and send your child to an orphanage. I don’t recommend it, I’m just saying that it’s definitely not worth listening to sick people and saving money for women like the local Marinka.
3. Specifically for the author. If you don’t have a ugly face, there really is no problem meeting and living with a good, sexy woman. Can be found with any character, she may or may not want children.
The problems of finding a woman are 100% far-fetched. It’s just that in the same way a man gets high from his own experiences, this is a bad and unhealthy type of masturbation.
It was rightly written here that in order to be loved, wanted and respected, you need to have all this for yourself!
And damn it - this is not a stupid philosophy, not banter or a joke. If you want something, just do it! If you don’t do something, it means you just want to whine and suffer. A person always does only what he wants, this is the highest truth;)
- Specifically, what I recommend:
Any sport, running, skiing, wrestling, yoga, swimming, any absolutely sport, the main thing active. But not in order to meet a woman, but in order to make your head feel a little better and have more energy.
Dating. - quantity always decides. It doesn’t matter where you meet, on the street, in a bar, at a sex party or in a temple. You can always meet the right woman for you, your love!
Of course, the easiest way to meet people is in a club of similar interests - you like books in a book club, movies in a cinema club, you like picking your nose - I’m sure this is the club for you there will be one with your soul mate. The main thing is not to be afraid to experiment.
The tender has left the Russian Federation and if you are from there, then there are a lot, thousands of ways to quickly get to know a huge number of people and no less effectively than in the tender and even super communication skills are not required.
At least, at a minimum, write a couple of meaningful sentences about yourself and your interests, take a decent photo and you won’t have to do anything else.
Ps: I’ll repeat it again. Any choice you make is fine. The main thing is to honestly admit to yourself what you want, without trying to seem correct or cool or anything else. As soon as you honestly name or write on a piece of paper your main desires, everything will become easy and obvious, rest assured;) If you have any questions, you can write in a PM;)

[romance book]

I think it’s not worth getting married (I myself am officially married). Because this is not freedom. There is no need to bind yourself to this.

Are there any advantages from an official marriage for a man? For example, if she is an official wife, she can come to the hospital to see you, otherwise they won’t let you in. maybe there are other cases. You can probably lose a lot of girls if you refuse them official marriage.

that she tries to clean or doesn’t cook

I can clean and cook myself. But why do I need a wife, it’s probably to communicate, hug, caress, massage each other, go to entertainment together, help each other in different situations, trust and fidelity.

She must be the youngest in a family and this family must have at least 3 brothers and sisters. The elder brother is a must

well, to find such conditions is rare. It’s unlikely to match. and why exactly to have an older brother? What if she is an older sister?

You really need to choose a woman based on your interests.

People’s interests probably change every year, every two years?
And girls often have girlish interests, for example, going to boring galleries, museums, some historical places on excursions to the sea. Guys are usually not interested in this.
Guys often discuss cars, football, construction repairs, equipment.

Everyone before marriage sees and knows that the wife will cheat and the woman sees and feels that the man will beat her .

I don’t really understand, who is this about? In our family, our parents never had any beatings or betrayals.