My husband thinks that I cheated on him. How to convince him that it was just flirting?

[hello. I don’t hear]

Why do gynecologists, when they ask "Are you sexually active?" only mean vaginal contact? It turns out that for them everything else is not cheating and not sex.

The doctor won’t ask you whether you are fucking or getting fucked in the ass? How should they ask

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Well, you could ask "Do you practice sexual contacts"? After a positive answer, they could ask "Which ones exactly?"

[NitroJ]

Well, you could ask "Do you practice sexual contacts"? After a positive answer, they could ask "Which ones exactly?"

They can’t ask such nonsense, what kind of nonsense "Do you practice sexual contacts, what kind" ", because there is only "vaginal contact", and other contacts are just flirting!

[Center]

after all, there is only "vaginal contact", and other contacts are just flirting!

:ROFL:

[Yanochka the sorceress]

They can’t ask such nonsense, what kind of nonsense "Do you practice sexual contacts, what kind", because there is only "vaginal contact", and other contacts are just flirting!

It turns out that for them everything else is not sex.

[Sibiryak89]

Pannochka, but high school students all over the world don’t consider blowjobs and anal to be sex. For them, sex is only penetration into the vagina. That’s what the polls say. And if it’s not sex, that means it’s not cheating?

High school students, yes, but you’ve already finished school))), in a family, if the husband thinks it’s cheating, that means treason. Moreover, everyone knows that he is a cuckold or they think so... In short, you’re knocked up. And cheating is any type of sex against the will of the husband. He didn’t give you consent...

[Nandandaar]

Let’s summarize: 1. I went without my husband to a party where there would be left-wing men; 2. Sucked some devil; 3. Gave it in the ass;
When "the roasted rooster arrived" she began to "excuse herself" saying that I didn’t cheat on you, "in the mouth" and "in the ass" this is not cheating. You’re a complete whore. This is not how decent people treat their husbands. I think you hit him in all the holes, and maybe not only him. You make excuses for yourself.

[A mermaid]

In my opinion, most people consider blowjobs and anal to be more intimate

[Bars450]

]Yanochka is a sorceress, because these are gynecologists, not proctologists and dentists

[Onism]

And betrayal is any type of sex against the will of the husband. He did not give you consent...

I agree with this position 100%.
And the rest generally looks like a made-up story. The husband there is clearly not a cuckold, and after such statements he is still Yanochka the sorceress , I didn’t nail it down, it’s not clear...

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Yanochka the sorceress, well, I can tell you that for my wife even a kiss would be considered treason, and I’m generally silent about blowjob or anal.

[Simon777]

I was drunk.

that is, you don’t remember what happened?

[Maximum]

If my wife I would have sucked the left guy, not only would I not have forgiven her!!! I would have driven her to hell with all her guts with a filthy broom!!! What the hell are school games? Why the hell did you play at school? You sucked everyone in a row or something? what kind of stereotype is that this is not treason? With such an opinion, you can go give everyone in Roma and suck left and right and say this is not treasonOr even better, get drunk, then tell your husband I don’t remember anything, that means it’s not cheating!!!!

[ScrewFIX]

Yanochka is a sorceress, try and buy your guilt with your actions, pamper his

[Alpine9000]

after all, high school students all over the world do not consider blowjobs and anal to be sex.

and you didn’t think that if the husband was right and left of everyone women anally and orally. So you will be opposite?

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And so you are just a waffle.

[aleksey.malashihin]

Well, this is treason in its purest form. There’s nothing to talk about here

[San4eS]

The author clearly has a "knocked-down" focus on the concepts of betrayal and sex))) Sexual intercourse involves the interaction of the genital organs of both partners, both mutually and on the part of one of them. He didn’t poke you in the ass and mouth with a carrot!? Specifically, he stuck his penis)))) By the way anal sex - this is quite sex, just like blowjob))) You can ask a sexologist! A gynecologist deals with pussy) a proctologist with glasses, an otolaryngologist with a throat)))) And believe me, if you ask everyone: “Is blowjob, anal or vaginal sex cheating?” They will answer: “Yes!” And through all this can be successfully tolerated, almost all venereal diseases))) - you can find out from a venereologist).

[Passenger 161]

Yanochka is a sorceress, and in fact a whore, in fact just an angel. It’s funny.

[MaleFor]

Indeed, a topic has not been so fun for a long time...

[Alex431]

A stupid situation happened recently. My former classmate invited my husband and I to her birthday. But just before the celebration, my husband developed a fever, cough and all that. I went there alone. There was some leftist guy there who started hyping me up for sex when everyone got drunk and fell asleep. I said that I was married and therefore I could only give a blowjob. Well, I did it and did it to him, he didn’t finish. He was probably too drunk. Asked for sex again. Then I said again that I was married and could only perform anally. He tried to enter me from behind several times, but it hurt me like crazy. I pushed him away and ran home. I decided to forget about this stupid flirting. But that guy turned out to be too talkative. He spread a rumor about me that I give blowjobs to everyone and give them in the ass. It also reached my husband. He made a scene for me. He started screaming that while he was sick, I cheated on him. Called him all sorts of names. I convinced him that we didn’t have sex with that guy, blowjob and anal are flirting, caresses for high school students. But my husband still stopped talking to me and doesn’t even want sex. What should I do? How can I convince him that I haven’t cheated on him?

strange flirting like blowjob and anal . In my concept, flirting is standing around smiling, or at most hugging.

[silver_fox]

Yanochka the sorceress, well, there you go! In general, normal masculine boys are very nervous about probabilities like “when you kiss your wife, think about whether you are sucking your neighbor’s dick?” Take my word for it - VERY NERVOUS. You are very lucky that your boy is phlegmatic enough not to stick a knife into you somewhere tricky... Get ready for a divorce.

[Shalun70]

Interesting opinions about betrayal on the Internet...
www.youtube.com/ embed/pk4mVTUxzgg

[Shalun70]

Satya • Does my husband have the moral right to cheat if I cheated on him
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https://youtu.be/Xtt-DXACA- 8
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https://youtu.be/BhCjuO2jdq4

[Favorit337]

I think so too, you changed - when you decided to take it in your mouth and then give it to your ass!