Strange fetishes a man has when it comes to sex. Or am I fooling myself?

[Polina.N]

The man has strange fetishes in sex. Or is this the norm and I’m fooling myself? Before our first intimacy, he asked me how and at what age I had my first sex. Well, I foolishly told him that the first sex went without blood or much pain. Then we had sex with the current MCH. And he tried to stick his dick into me as deep as possible, despite my protests. Then he complained to me that he wasn’t really inside me, since he managed to penetrate very deeply only four times during the night. And that I am still a virgin, because deep down I have some kind of ring that prevents very deep sexual intercourse. Well, the next time all the sexual acts were very deep. But it was a bit painful for me in some positions. And what I didn’t like most of all was the voluptuousness with which he recalled how I screamed and clenched my teeth in pain. Yes, and he is still disappointed that he could not, as he puts it, tear off this ring in me. That he didn’t see the blood and my tears. And he claims that we still didn’t really have sex, since on the first night only four very deep sexual intercourse took place. When I say: “But on the second night everything was very deep,” he says, “But the first time I wasn’t really into you. And on the second night I couldn’t get enough. So you’re still virgin". And he doesn’t know what else to come up with to get my blood and tears. Question: is this behavior normal for a man? I’ve had partners, but this is the first time I’ve encountered such behavior in bed.

[LadyAutumn]

Question: is this behavior normal for a man?

Not very good. It’s better for you to break up with him, after all, pleasure for both partners is important in sex. And to you, apparently, his interests bring more pain and not pleasure. Masochism is not your fetish with all that it entails.

You can, of course, try to talk to him about this topic and try to convince him to slow down pressure" etc. But most likely this will not give a positive result for you.

[libertine]

Before our first intimacy, he asked me how and at what age I had my first sex. Well, I foolishly told him that the first sex went without blood or much pain.

Either you made up this story, or you didn’t notice the blood (when you were deflowered - she was drooling drunk). Because it is unrealistic for girls to lose their virginity painlessly and without bleeding. Girls take this seriously!

And that I am still a virgin, because deep down I have some kind of ring that prevents very deep sexual intercourse. Well, the next time all the sexual acts were very deep. But it was a bit painful for me in some positions. And what I didn’t like most of all was the voluptuousness with which he recalled how I screamed and clenched my teeth in pain. Yes, and he is still disappointed that he could not, as he puts it, tear off this ring in me. That he didn’t see the blood and my tears. And he claims that we still didn’t really have sex, since on the first night only four very deep sexual intercourse took place. When I say: “But on the second night everything was very deep,” he says, “But the first time I wasn’t really into you. And on the second night I couldn’t get enough. So you’re still virgin". And he doesn’t know what else to come up with to get my blood and tears. Question: is this behavior normal for a man? I have had partners, but this is the first time I have encountered such behavior in bed.

He will fuck you until he breaks this ring (which is already there is no trace of it), because he is apparently aroused by a virgin, he once tore the hymen, and he was very aroused.
What can I say: "Be patient with the Cossack - you will become an ataman!" or tell him (admit) that you are no longer a virgin!

[Polina.N]

Either you made up this story, or you didn’t notice the blood (when you were deflowered, you were drunk and drooling). Because it is unrealistic for girls to lose their virginity painlessly and without bleeding. Girls take this seriously!

There is such a thing as a stretchable hymen. Which stretches and does not tear. Read medical articles on this topic and women’s forums. Defloration without blood and much pain is not such a rare phenomenon. Two of my friends had this too. And during the first sex I was completely sober. After all, men are complete ignoramuses when it comes to female physiology. Your comment once again convinced me of this. And what does this have to do with responsibility on the part of a woman, I don’t understand at all? And my MCH never had virgins, if you believe him.

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Not really. It’s better for you to break up with him, after all, pleasure for both partners is important in sex. And to you, apparently, his interests bring more pain and not pleasure. Masochism is not your fetish with all that it entails.

You can, of course, try to talk to him about this topic and try to convince him to slow down pressure" etc. But most likely this will not give a positive result for you.

So, my man has a penchant for BDSM?

[libertine]

Still, men are complete ignoramuses in female physiology. Your comment once again convinced me of this. And what does this have to do with responsibility on the part of a woman, I don’t understand at all? And my MCH never had virgins, if you believe him.

It’s clear that men are profane in the female body and everything connected with them. America has been discovered! I’m freaking out! Well, tell me then, do you have such a hymen? Stretching? Or are you missing something? You wrote your question here, didn’t fully tell all the details, and you want us to fantasize and come up with something here?
If you didn’t understand about responsibility, then I feel sorry for you! Here you are a PROFAN!

[Polina.N]

It’s clear that men are profane in the female body and everything connected with them. America has been discovered! I’m freaking out! Well, tell me then, do you have such a hymen? Stretching? Or are you missing something? You wrote your question here, didn’t fully tell all the details, and you want us to fantasize and come up with something here?
If you didn’t understand about responsibility, then I feel sorry for you! Here you are a PROFAN!

It’s clear that men are profane in the female body and everything connected with them. America has been discovered! I’m freaking out! Well, tell me then, do you have such a hymen? Stretching? Or are you missing something? You wrote your question here, didn’t fully tell all the details, and you want us to fantasize and come up with something here?
If you didn’t understand about responsibility, then I feel sorry for you! Here you are a PROFAN!

I have a stretchable hymen. What does responsibility have to do with bleeding during first sex?

[niqk]

Polina.N,

Yes, girls sometimes have very stretchable hymens that break only during childbirth. You’re not the only one...
And you better not mess with this guy. According to your text, he is a fool! And even with claims! You will suffer with this for the rest of your life. What for?

[dva2dva]

I can’t say anything about your hymen, how your first sex was, etc. But I can say one thing for sure. If your boyfriend tries to hurt you during sex, and you don’t like it, then you need to leave him. Otherwise, until you show him the blood, he will not calm down. But then he will find another reason, that something is wrong with you, either with anal, or fellatio is not the same, and will try to push it deeper into your throat.. It’s up to you, but if your boyfriend doesn’t bring pleasure, you need to quit with him.

[Polina.N]

Yes, girls sometimes have very stretchable hymens that break only during childbirth. You’re not the only one...
And you better not mess with this guy. According to your text, he is a fool! And even with claims! You will suffer with this for the rest of your life. What for?

Thank you very much for your wise, useful answer. Yes, it turns out, indeed, a man with oddities. And if they appeared at the very beginning of sexual life, it will only get worse.

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I can’t say anything about your hymen, how your first sex was, etc. But I can say one thing for sure. If your boyfriend tries to hurt you during sex, and you don’t like it, then you need to leave him. Otherwise, until you show him the blood, he will not calm down. But then he will find another reason, that something is wrong with you, either with anal, or fellatio is not the same, and will try to push it deeper into your throat.. It’s up to you, but if your boyfriend doesn’t bring pleasure, you need to stop with him.

Yes, sex and other aspects of relationships bring me rather negative emotions. And sometimes MCH even scares me. And this is just the beginning.

[libertine]

Responsibility has anything to do with bleeding during first sex?

Because it is unrealistic to lose your virginity painlessly and without bleeding girls. Girls take this responsibility responsibly!

That’s why! Am I wrong that girls by nature take deflowering responsibly? And they will notice in any case - blood, feel pain and so on...

[dva2dva]

Yes, sex and other aspects of relationships bring me rather negative emotions. And sometimes MCH even scares me. And this is just the beginning.
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And you ask the question, are you cheating yourself?
Answer yourself the question - do you need it? Such a relationship? And what is the prospect?
In general, relationships, especially in the initial stage, should please and bring pleasure. And it doesn’t matter from sex or just from walking or being next to each other. After all, in the future, the euphoria passes, feelings dull, what remains is at least respect, habit, maybe love, but different, not the same as in the first months.. And if your young man already scares you at the very beginning, then imagine what will happen in the future ? Well, probably the most harmless thing is that they simply won’t take you into account and won’t respect you. I won’t write about bad things. So ask yourself the question - is it necessary?

[chains]

Yes, sometimes girls have very stretchable hymens that break only during childbirth

How to get pregnant without tearing the hymen? Through the navel?

[bam]

What nonsense, it seems like a made up story, or the guy is a clueless guy.))

[Vartislav]

Most guys, especially young ones, are stupid when it comes to sex. Yes, he has a fetish - to show what a powerful powerful penis he has, otherwise, God forbid, the girl will not understand or appreciate it. And it is possible that he really has a penis that is too large or too long for your anatomy. Too big is not always good. And if you don’t know how to use this club, then this is generally a dangerous instrument of torture. In this case, a man experienced in sex will ask how much a woman enjoys such deep penetration or will notice it (which is extremely rare in general). Girls are often embarrassed to say that they feel pain and discomfort. They are afraid to upset their partner, they have a complex that “I’m somehow different.” And the mouflon continues to enjoy the moment and thinks that moaning and biting his lips is a manifestation of his girlfriend’s passion and buzz. Yes, many people think so! They are also proud of it.
Here one must not be shy to say softly and delicately that everything is not quite the same or not at all as he imagines. Tell a young guy that he can satisfy a woman without horse movements. Try not to hurt his pride - men are vulnerable, like delicate roses. Look for comfortable and pleasant poses and actions together. Sex is also creativity and patience in searching. But do not tolerate pain and inconvenience. Good luck!

[LadyAutumn]

That is, my man has a penchant for BDSM?

No, in the BDSM theme everything is somewhat different, although yes at first glance the situation described above "hints" at this.

Rather, he has a manic desire to "be a cool macha." And in his mind, this is fucking women with his dick as deep and hard as possible. And he does not understand that for a woman this does not always bring pleasure, but rather the opposite.

Perhaps some complexes and fears of seeming "insolvent" also influence.

[Dick666Dick]

It’s more like a complex. Unrealized fantasies. If you are uncomfortable with him, leave him) He is not the last man in the world

[Danafil]

I think it’s worth parting with him, there are too many kinks for the first time. And the jumps are kind of scary for you.

[Polina.N]

And you ask the question, are you cheating yourself?
Answer yourself the question - do you need it? Such a relationship? And what is the prospect?
In general, relationships, especially in the initial stage, should please and bring pleasure. And it doesn’t matter from sex or just from walking or being next to each other. After all, in the future, the euphoria passes, feelings dull, what remains is at least respect, habit, maybe love, but different, not the same as in the first months.. And if your young man already scares you at the very beginning, then imagine what will happen in the future ? Well, probably the most harmless thing is that they simply won’t take you into account and won’t respect you. I won’t write about bad things. So ask yourself the question - is it necessary?

The relationship brought joy only in the first week, when there was no sex yet. And after the first intimacy and his strange fetishes, the relationship became rather disturbing.

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I think it’s worth parting with it, there are too many kinks for the first time. And the jumps are kind of scary for you.

Yes, no matter how much I explain that the hymen is on the outside, he still wants to tear something... it’s deep inside. Otherwise, I might end up in the hospital if he succeeds.

[lanaaas341]

Man strange fetishesin sex. Or is this the norm and I’m fooling myself? Before our first intimacy, he asked me how and at what age I had my first sex. Well, I foolishly told him that the first sex went without blood or much pain. Then we had sex with the current MCH. And he tried to stick his dick into me as deep as possible, despite my protests. Then he complained to me that he wasn’t really inside me, since he managed to penetrate very deeply only four times during the night. And that I am still a virgin, because deep down I have some kind of ring that prevents very deep sexual intercourse. Well, the next time all the sexual acts were very deep. But it was a bit painful for me in some positions. And what I didn’t like most of all was the voluptuousness with which he recalled how I screamed and clenched my teeth in pain. Yes, and he is still disappointed that he could not, as he puts it, tear off this ring in me. That he didn’t see the blood and my tears. And he claims that we still didn’t really have sex, since on the first night only four very deep sexual intercourse took place. When I say: “But on the second night everything was very deep,” he says, “But the first time I wasn’t really into you. And on the second night I couldn’t get enough. So you’re still virgin". And he doesn’t know what else to come up with to get my blood and tears. Question: is this behavior normal for a man? I’ve had partners, but this is the first time I’ve encountered such behavior in bed.

Perhaps like me....I, too, was deflowered only by the fourth man...

[Polina.N]

Perhaps like me....I, too, was deflowered only by the fourth man...

Miracles and that’s all. And above, the man in the comments claims that if the girl did not bleed during the first sex, she approached the issue irresponsibly, since she was drunk and did not notice anything. But first sex cannot be bloodless. That’s how irresponsible we are.

[LadyAutumn]

Yes, no matter how much I explain that the hymen is on the outside, he still wants to tear something deep inside.

nApparently the boy doesn’t understand how “there” everything works - that’s okay. But the fact that he does not listen to your explanation and believes that he is the only one right is sad. I don’t think a relationship with him will bring you anything good.

[lanaaas341]

Perhaps like me....I, too, was deflowered only by the fourth man...

nMiracles and that’s all. And above, the man in the comments claims that if the girl did not bleed during the first sex, she approached the issue irresponsibly, since she was drunk and did not notice anything. But first sex cannot be bloodless. That’s how irresponsible we are.

These are not miracles! This is physiology...

[Polina.N]

Apparently the boy doesn’t understand how “there” everything works - that’s okay. But the fact that he does not listen to your explanation and believes that he is the only one right is sad. I don’t think that a relationship with him will bring you anything good.

By the way, "the boy" is forty-four years old. He was married twice, and had a lot of affairs. But, it’s true, he used to have very experienced partners in whom his penis literally fell through. They were still tall and plump. Maybe this also has some effect.

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This is more like complexes. Unrealized fantasies. If you are uncomfortable with him, leave him) He is not the last man in the world

Maybe it’s a matter of unrealized fantasies. He never had a virgin. On the contrary, there were very experienced partners who had everything in common.

[LadyAutumn]

By the way, "the boy" is forty-four years old. He was married twice, and had a lot of affairs. But, it’s true, he used to have very experienced partners in whom his penis literally fell through. They were still tall and plump. Maybe this also has some effect.

I could quite get used to it, yes. Especially if his partners liked it. So I got it into my head that you too will like it.

You, of course, decide, but in such a situation, after all the attempts to explain what and why "wrong", I would run away from losing his slippers... Why do you need a relationship in which sex does not give you pleasure?

[Polina.N]

Most guys, especially young ones, are stupid when it comes to sex. Yes, he has a fetish - to show what a powerful powerful penis he has, otherwise, God forbid, the girl will not understand or appreciate it. And it is possible that he really has a penis that is too large or too long for your anatomy. Too big is not always good. And if you don’t know how to use this club, then this is generally a dangerous instrument of torture. In this case, a man experienced in sex will ask how much a woman enjoys such deep penetration or will notice it (which is extremely rare in general). Girls are often embarrassed to say that they feel pain and discomfort. They are afraid to upset their partner, they have a complex that “I’m somehow different.” And the mouflon continues to enjoy the moment and thinks that moaning and biting his lips is a manifestation of his girlfriend’s passion and buzz. Yes, many people think so! They are also proud of it.
Here one must not be shy to say softly and delicately that everything is not quite the same or not at all as he imagines. Tell a young guy that he can satisfy a woman without horse movements. Try not to hurt his pride - men are vulnerable, like delicate roses. Look for comfortable and pleasant poses and actions together. Sex is also creativity and patience in searching. But do not tolerate pain and inconvenience. Good luck!

The funny thing is that he is already very middle-aged. And there is no point in convincing him of anything.

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I could quite get used to it, yes. Especially if his partners liked it. So I got it into my head that you too will like it.

You, of course, decide, but in such a situation, after all the attempts to explain what and why "wrong", I would run away from losing his slippers...

I could quite get used to it, yes. Especially if his partners liked it. So I got it into my head that you too will like it.

You, of course, decide, but in such a situation, after all the attempts to explain what and why "wrong", I would run away from losing his slippers...

Yes, especially since our problems are not only related to sex.

[LadyAutumn]

Polina.N, especially if there are problems not only in sex, it’s better to break up. I hope that everything will be fine with you, and a normal partner will appear - and not just for sex

[Polina.N]

How to get pregnant without breaking your hymen? Through the navel?

At one time, a classmate of mine managed to get pregnant from petting without penetration. There is a hole in the hymen for the outflow of menstrual blood. Well, the hymen can simply stretch even after many full-fledged sexual intercourses. And I’m not the only one, judging by the comments. So you can get pregnant with a stretched or even intact (as in the case of my classmate) hymen.

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Polina.N, especially if there are problems not only in sex, it’s better to break up. I hope that everything will be fine with you, and a normal partner will appear - and not just for sex

Thank you very much!

[Vartislav]

If you’re not young, then it’s hopeless. He will be ashamed to admit that he does not know something about this matter. He will start blaming you.