My son found out that I earn money as a prostitute

[Lyudmila76]

Good afternoon, I wanted to ask for advice. I’m 46 years old, I work as an administrator in a sauna, you know, the clients are different, sometimes they order girls, I was also offered, I always refused because I’m married, but water wears away stones and sometimes I began to agree if the clients stayed overnight and there was no one else. In general, I’ve been working in this mode for the last couple of years, everything was fine, and then recently a group of young people were hanging out, I agreed without a second thought, my son’s friends turned out to be and shared this information with him (Now I’m ashamed to look a child in the eye, I don’t know what to do (

[Screams]

The situation is not pleasant, but not fatal either. Explain that this is like entertainment, a temporary weakness. I’m a grown woman and I lead as I please. As the years go by, we don’t get any younger. Somehow it can be like that. Not a little one should understand

[The passage]

I also think that there is nothing wrong with this. Although, of course, you need to talk to your son.

[Nis]

For me, it’s better to just forget this situation and think less about it; over time, my son will forget too.

[Lyudmila76]

Yes, that’s the trouble: I can’t explain it properly, so what if I tell him that I’m doing this for money, he won’t understand me at all.

[The passage]

For me, it’s better to just forget this situation and think less about it; over time, my son will forget too.

How will he forget? When his friends come to the sauna again, they will remind him. We need to talk.

[Puppetry]

Lyudmila76, how old is your son? Is he a little boy? Or lives in a world of pink elephants?

[The passage]

Yes, that’s the trouble: I can’t explain it properly, so what if I tell him that I do this for money, he won’t understand me at all.

n Explain that this is just a job for you.

[Nis]

Well, maybe you’re right, but time is the main tool to forget and not think about it

[The passage]

Well, maybe you’re right, but time is the main tool to forget and not think about it

If your son’s friends liked it, then maybe they will start going every week. I also had a period of sex for money. Not prostitution in its purest form, but a fairly regular part-time job. So after some time regular customers appear. Who wanted me. And how can you just forget if they remind you? If only I change jobs.
But, it’s better to talk. Better for everyone.

[orion76]

Lyudmila76, be sure to talk to your son and explain everything as it is, This will make you feel better, your son is not small and will understand everything

[Lust From Beyond]

Does your husband know about your part-time job? It seems to me that this is a bigger problem than the son. The son should be pleased that his mother is worth something in the eyes of men. I don’t think it’s right to talk to him first; it will feel like you’re the one who wants to focus on this problem. If he talks to you, tell the truth. Why be ashamed? Many girls have sex for gifts, but you for money, which then goes to your son. However, answer, does the husband know and how old is his son?

[Alex would]

Lyudmila76,

Now I’m ashamed to look a child in the eye

If your son’s friends go to saunas and order an aunt for fifty dollars, then the child is clearly not 15 years old and should look at life realistically. The situation is not pleasant, and pretending that nothing happened is hardly right. But making excuses to your son is not the right decision; rather, explain that mom can have her own living space away from the family and dad, even if it’s a little immoral.

[The passage]

Does your husband know about your part-time job? It seems to me that this is a bigger problem than the son. The son should be pleased that his mother is worth something in the eyes of men. I don’t think it’s right to talk to him first; it will feel like you’re the one who wants to focus on this problem. If he talks to you, tell the truth. Why be ashamed? Many girls have sex for gifts, but you for money, which then goes to your son. However, answer, does the husband know and how old is the son?

She did not mention her husband in a single word. This means he is not there or he is aware.

[Lust From Beyond]

She didn’t mention her husband in a single word. This means he is not there or he is aware

"I always refused because I am married". The only mention, but it exists. That’s why I asked the question

[The passage]

She didn’t mention her husband in a single word. This means he is not there or he is aware

"I always refused because I am married". The only mention, but it exists. That’s why I asked the question

You are right. I didn’t read this carefully. Sorry

[bpvtyf]

"and here recently a group of young people were walking, I agreed without a second thought, they turned out to be my son’s friends" 1 question) How did they understand that you were a friend’s mother. 2) you haven’t seen them as friends of your son.

[Lyudmila76]

I’ll answer in order, but there were so many questions, I have a husband, but we practically don’t live together, he’s more and more abroad. Our relationship is bad. No, he doesn’t know. My son, 28, has been living separately for five years, so I don’t know his new friends. Well, as soon as I found out, I kind of explained it, my friends told me about the prostitute who was ordered in the sauna, that there was an administrator. There are no administrators there except me.

[Wool]

Well, when I found out, I kind of explained it, my friends told me about the prostitute they ordered in the sauna, that there was an administrator. There are no administrators there except me.

Logical. We believe

[Fedos]

Is it even worth talking to him about this? In some cases, the son may understand everything this way, but he won’t even want to talk about it with his mother. Let’s just move away from this topic and live as we lived before.

[Lust From Beyond]

I’ll answer in order, but there were so many questions, I have a husband, but we practically don’t live together, he’s more and more abroad. Our relationship is bad. No, he doesn’t know. My son, 28, has been living separately for five years, so I don’t know his new friends. Well, as soon as I found out, I kind of explained it, my friends told me about the prostitute who was ordered in the sauna, that there was an administrator. There are no administrators there except me

Everything sounds plausible and realistic. My personal opinion is that you shouldn’t dwell on what happened. You are all adults. If your son wants to discuss this, you will understand. Maybe this is neutral for him and you are worrying in vain. At least I don’t see any particular reason to condemn you here

[Float]

Well, if your son is 28, then it’s still worth talking, he’s no longer a little boy and should understand everything.

[Maxik90]

Well, if your son is 28, then it’s still worth talking, he’s no longer a little boy and should understand everything.

I don’t know whether he will understand or not. but the guy definitely has one more sexual fantasy. and believe me, this desire is very difficult to cope with

[niqk]

I’ll answer in order, but there were so many questions, I have a husband, but we practically don’t live together, he’s more and more abroad. Our relationship is bad. No, he doesn’t know. My son, 28, has been living separately for five years, so I don’t know his new friends. Well, as soon as I found out, I kind of explained it, my friends told me about the prostitute who was ordered in the sauna, that there was an administrator. There are no administrators there except me.

You definitely need to talk to your son! And explain that there are different professions. Including those related to sex
for money. The guy is no longer little and must understand that his mother also has sexual desire...

[Alyosha]

I’ll answer in order, but there were so many questions, I have a husband, but we practically don’t live together, he’s more and more abroad. Our relationship is bad. No, he doesn’t know. My son, 28, has been living separately for five years, so I don’t know his new friends. Well, as soon as I found out, I kind of explained it, my friends told me about the prostitute who was ordered in the sauna, that there was an administrator. There are no administrators there besides me.

you can try to explain that they say:
"I wanted sex, I haven’t had it for a long time, but here young people are hitting on me, but so as not to spoil the goldfinches and so as not to think that this is possible every time, I took a nominal fee"

[sergey.chirkov]

In fact, the situation is not pleasant and it is difficult to give advice.
If the relationship with your son is still good, I would advise not to stir up what happened and not to discuss anything with your son. Unless, of course, he himself touches on this topic.

[Nis]

I also had a period of sex for money. Not prostitution in its purest form, but a fairly regular part-time job. So after some time regular customers appear. Who wanted me specifically.

And how did you like your part-time job, did you enjoy it?

[The passage]

I also had a period of sex for money. Not prostitution in its purest form, but a fairly regular part-time job. So after some time regular customers appear. Who wanted me specifically.

And how did you like your part-time job, did you enjoy it?

n Rarely does anyone like this kind of part-time work, but I did enjoy it, although not always)

[Shalun70]

Lyudmila76,
Many here advise you talk to your son... but I have a different opinion.... You don’t have to make excuses... They (meaning your men, husband and son) should be ashamed that you found yourself in such a situation.... That this is a marriage. .. who, working abroad, cannot provide his family with money... what kind of son is this who is not interested in how his mother lives... you forgive my French... but if I were in the place of these two idiots... I would burn from shame...
If something like this happened to me... I’m not in I would never reproach my mother, but would fly to her faster than a bullet... asked my dear mother... what do you need? What should I buy you, how can I help you? What can I do to make your life easier... But it all depends on your upbringing... You can only be reproached for not teaching your son to be compassionate, to share with your neighbor and the duty of children towards their parents... Excuse me. .. at the age of 28, one should already understand how much money a person needs for a decent life per month... this is when the second son should be interested in the income of his parents in order to help them at the right time... since... he is everyone... what I have achieved in my FUCKING life I owe to my parents for the rest of their lives...
Well, my advice to my hubby... we need to look for a decent job closer to home... or get married so that the seed is not needed even in a moment of melancholy enough money for the arrival of accommodation and departure back...

Rarely does anyone like such a part-time job, but I did enjoy it, although not always)

nYou are right... more than one woman doesn’t like this... but I won’t judge or condemn anyone... since it happened, it was in a situation of extreme necessity... Judging by your comments, you are an intelligent and well-mannered woman... with a sense of self-worth... but caught in the millstone of life... who has managed to not sink to the bottom of this life...

If the relationship with your son is still good, I would advise not to stir up what happened and do not discuss anything with your son. Unless, of course, he himself touches on this topic.

Just don’t stir things up and make excuses... because it was his fault in that situation!!! But if a guy is not very smart... then most likely he will blame his mother for his shame... Although if at the right moment he had helped his mother... then all this would not have happened... his mother would not have to entertain him for money friends for which they deservedly ridicule their son... And there is only one way out... the son must become a man... and take care of his women and screw them up... honor and dignity either through the law or the fist... but so that it would be effective... And in this situation, only a weakling who has been spoiled beyond belief will look for guilt in the mother... As a rule, at one time he was bought off from the army for his parents’ loot...

Including those related sex
for money. The guy is no longer little and must understand that his mother also has sexual desire...

The boy is an adult... and must understand without words that this is his jamb... It’s not enough that mom is humble in front of clients, so you all want to humiliate mom by forcing her to make excuses for the fact that she was trying to earn a decent life... Why don’t you want to call him to account? Why should mom be bothered by such a part-time job while he is drinking tea in a warm apartment and snacking on donuts... which he earned thanks to the blog that at one time his mother gave him life upbringing and education for which he could achieve what he achieved.. Maybe it’s time for my son to give back what he invested in it? That is, to fulfill his filial duty... which he had not thought about before...? But it would be nice for you, a respected commentator, to advise his son... to ask him from his father... why he cannot provide his beloved woman with money and affection in a decent amount so that she does not have to take early shifts in the bathhouse...
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We are all too good at condemning a weak woman... to understand... and make her life worthy no matter what is the lot of strong men... it’s on them that the earth rests.....

[Livrik]

Let your son fuck you and his friends in a crowd in the sauna, first let your friends fuck you in front of his eyes, and last let him enter your already bruised vagina)

[The passage]

Let your son fuck you and his friends in a crowd in the sauna, first let your friends fuck you in front of his eyes, and last let him enter your already bruised vagina)

This is more like not advice, but your imagination)

[Tanya]

I don’t know, of course, but I wouldn’t explain anything, because all such conversations turn into accusations and excuses. The son, who is no longer a child, will want to understand, he will understand, but if he doesn’t want to, no talk will save him.
The desire to “work” in the previous format is there, work, no, quit, everything is in your hands. Those same friends will come again, so let them come if they want, I don’t see any problems with them. If they come with their son, then no one will force this company to serve you. A holy place is never empty; others will serve it.
You need to live with your own pleasure and mind....

[niqk]

Reasonable words from a reasonable woman!

[jonny_t]

I still don’t understand, so my son already asked for work? Well, how do you know that your son knows? If they ask, then there has already been some kind of conversation.
Or is this just another fantasy, of which there are many.

Sent after 9 seconds:
I still don’t understand, so did your son already ask for work? Well, how do you know that your son knows? If they ask, then there has already been some kind of conversation.
Or is this just another fantasy, of which there are many here.

[Kazankot]

I still don’t understand, so my son already asked for work? Well, how do you know that your son knows? If they ask, then we already had some kind of conversation.

I just wanted to write about it how did you find out what his friends told him ?

[Kirill.sennikov]

Lyudmila76, and my son had some kind of sexual habits in your side?

[Say]

I wouldn’t say or explain anything. It’s none of his business. You are an adult and you decide how to behave. Let him look after himself, because if you dig, you can find a lot for everyone. Raising a problem and trying to explain something to him, you will then return to this conversation and think: “I shouldn’t have said that...” A little time will pass and everything will be forgotten. Agree, everyone has had different moments in life and only you remember them, and everyone else has forgotten over time. Maybe someone will remember, but it doesn’t matter.

[paganel]

Nothing to do. Live for yourself!)

[niqk]

Do nothing. Live for yourself!)

It won’t work like that anymore. Her son is already aware of her life...

[Tosha]

I’m looking for fans of the incest theme. Write to tg, @SYMUSITY

[Tanya]

Do nothing. Live for yourself!)

It won’t work like that anymore. The son is already aware of her life...

So what, he knows and knows. If he wants to understand, he will understand; if he doesn’t want to, it means he can’t change anything.... That’s why he just has to live his life. He hasn’t been a child for a long time and therefore you can’t adapt to him.

[@tanks4]

Complete nonsense.
This is a fairy tale +18

[aryamari]

Explain that for you this is just a job.

Work, like a waitress in a cafe, or a cleaner, is a service industry.

[Serg_A]

Explain that for you this is just a job.

Working like a waitress in a cafe or a cleaner is a service industry .

Do you think waitresses in cafes don’t earn extra money like that?

[aryamari]

Serg_A, I don’t know, anything can happen

[RealMax]

Nothing is ever forgotten. But there is no need to report. What’s wrong with this? Everyone has his own path. It’s like meeting your husband or wife on this site. Everyone bears their share of responsibility for everything that happens to two (or three)

Sent after 5 minutes 13 seconds:
AryaMari, maybe, but it only happens if there is interest

[Serg_A]

Explain that for you this is just a job.

Working like a waitress in a cafe or a cleaner is a service industry .

Actually, yes, this is a job, but for some it’s a calling, and something tells me that the calling to be a prostitute is much more common than callings from other service sectors)))

[aryamari]

RealMax, sometimes things happen that are of no interest at all no, and no one knows what might happen when and to whom.

[RealMax]

AryaMari, the trouble is that any event from our life is inevitable. Otherwise it wouldn’t have happened. And every effect has a reason. Just because we don’t see it doesn’t mean there is no reason. It just means that we are simply not able to see.

Sent after 5 minutes 14 seconds:
AryaMari, remember Sherlock Holmes)) you can restore the cause of any "happening" by knowing the laws of cause and effect and unbiased thinking. And then everything falls into place)))

[niqk]

RealMax, even if everything is objectively in its place, but the general assessment of all this is purely subjective!