Linking movements to sex and jerking off, is this treatable?

[Nikname]

Hi all. Recently, my sex partner and I discussed the topic that it is difficult or impossible to come without certain positions or movements. For example, in order to cum, she needs to make movements with her hands reminiscent of masturbation, while I was caressing her! I had something similar when they brought each other down with their hands. Or, for example, a simple blowjob. Well, I don’t cum from him, I can only cum by fucking my partner in the mouth, making reciprocating movements with my pelvis! Moreover, if my knees are straight, then I’ll fucking cum. How many times have I tried interesting places, a forest, changing rooms, a balcony or something where you have to stand, I won’t end up useless with straight legs. Sex in the forest was only successful when I got on my knees and my partner did it with cancer. Does anyone else have problems like this and is there a cure?

[Arbitrator]

There is such a thing; by developing a similar habit, I significantly increased the time of the act itself. Each time I began to tune in to the same conditions when finishing, always the same rhythm of movement, concentration on the same thing.
It’s not that I couldn’t finish without it at all, but nevertheless, without it now quickly and I won’t cum easily. I can’t say for sure about getting cured (is this a disease at all?), but I would try to change my habit, for example, I would focus on something else. Something like licking the nipples while finishing, stimulating the prostate or anus. Whatever comes to your mind. In any case, I think that it’s not possible to simply get rid of this kind of psychological anchors, unless you change them.
And it’s best to contact a sexologist or psychologist if this bothers you, or whatever doctors are involved these kinds of problems.