Were you nervous before your first sex?

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Were you nervous before your first sex?

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Were you nervous before your first sex?
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everyone worries only if they are not drunk or stoned in the trash. The most important thing here is to approach it lightly and not worry if something goes wrong or there are some other expectations that in reality will not be confirmed. A bad first sex experience that doesn’t go well can be a traumatic experience and cloud subsequent attempts. So if there are strong feelings It’s better to do this with someone more experienced and who will be understanding. I like the tradition when parents take care of the first experience and provide a guide into the world of carnal pleasures, but this is extremely rare.
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dodo: 08 Jan 2023, 02:42 Were you worried before your first sex??
I was not just worried, but even suffered this event several times. Because there was a real panic, and then I lost my virginity quite easily. True, without rose petals, silk sheets and candles. This is how I pictured my first sex in my imagination.
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How about!!! It’s just not the same excitement as, for example, jumping with a parachute for the first time))))
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paganel: 08 Jan 2023, 03:14 But what about!!! It’s just not at all the same excitement as, for example, jumping with a parachute for the first time))))
with a parachute, just the first time is easy, but the second one is more difficult)
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I didn’t have time to worry, since the first sex happened spontaneously.
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Anxiety has already begun long before sex. Complexes are difficult to overcome.... :oops:
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dodo: 08 Jan 2023, 02:42 Were you worried before your first sex?
Well, the admins were completely lazy. Not only that, again the topic is from the "one message" account. So the question is ridiculous. :facepalm:
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Marinka: 08 Jan 2023, 03:12
dodo: 08 Jan 2023, 02:42 Were you worried before your first sex??
I was not just worried, but even suffered this event several times. Because there was a real panic, and then I lost my virginity quite easily. True, without rose petals, silk sheets and candles. This is how I pictured the first sex in my imagination.
Is this why almost all girls have this stereotype? Silk sheets, candles, a gorgeous man and other romanticism)))?
But in fact, the majority either have it in their car or in their hut, and for the most part because they are drunk)
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NewDim: 26 Jan 2023, 03:30 for the most part due to drunkenness)
This is to relieve stress... A little bit... For courage...
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I never asked mine about the first time. She herself doesn’t say anything either, apparently everything wasn’t so rosy. Although later I got a taste for it, I tried almost everything)
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No, I wasn’t worried at all.
The first sex with a woman was after the army, when I came to visit my army friend. He was getting married, and his bride had an older sister. Who just got divorced ;) So she showed me what was what and why.
But even before that, in the army, this friend and I sucked off each other. And then I wasn’t worried either ;)
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Before the first sex I was very worried, because of the anticipation my panties were wet. And he also came in a minute or less..
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Everything was spontaneous... and probably, since I had already met this boy, there were no worries... If only all this had been discussed, etc. and so on. I probably would have been worried the same way, but otherwise my heart was pounding simply from emotions and sensations that came down like an avalanche...)))!!! :angel:
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I sucked my brother’s dick at 7 years old! And at 14 I had my first sex with a girl! My brother taught me how to fuck! I didn’t bother at all!
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Alinochka, How lucky you are!!! Many people had too many fears about sex precisely because they did not have normal sex education. At home, parents kept this topic completely silent, hoping that at school everything would be explained to the child. At school, they generally brushed aside this topic, saying, let the parents take care of it!
As a result, the child learned about sex on the street from friends and girlfriends. And it was an idiotic mixture of illiteracy and wild prejudices! :(
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niqk: 26 Jan 2023, 04:56 Alinochka, How lucky you are!!! Many people had too many fears about sex precisely because they did not have normal sex education. At home, parents kept this topic completely silent, hoping that at school everything would be explained to the child. At school, they generally brushed aside this topic, saying, let the parents take care of it!
As a result, the child learned about sex on the street from friends and girlfriends. And it was an idiotic mixture of illiteracy and
wild prejudices!
I learned a lot for myself from the +18 books that my parents hid there there were also rhymes and fairy tales, with naughty pictures... Therefore, probably for me it was not such a shocking factor, rather the opposite... I was drawn into this pool of passions, then a very young schoolgirl... :oops: :angel:
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Alinochka, and where were you drawn? In what pool?
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niqk: 26 Jan 2023, 05:20 Alinochka, where are you drawn? In what kind of pool?
Well, even on her first page she admitted that for the first time I was in the graduating class, before that there were at first the squeezers, the squeezers, then after one evening, when they had already parted at the entrance and stood one step above him, he hugged me, pressing me to him, and at that moment I felt very clearly how his rebellious feelings rested against me through a thin summer skirt and panties, right into my mysterious triangle, which made my legs spread slightly apart... Our parting then dragged on... Then I admit I did this on purpose...
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