I don't want my wife

Unread post by **The Lancelot** » 15 Feb 2023, 06:37

My wife and I have been together for 4 years, and for the last six months I haven’t wanted her at all. It seems like she looks super and sex with her is cool. When she starts playing with him, I always get hard. But I myself stopped showing any initiative at all

I used to have a very active sex life, I had 7 partners a week. Maybe I’m just bored, but I don’t want to cheat

Now my wife is sick, I can’t have sex yet and I decided not to masturbate, I’m holding out for two months. Recently I caught myself thinking that I would fuck an overweight cashier from the top five or give it to some guy in the mouth (I had never had such experience before). But the desire to fuck my wife never appeared(

What can be done? How to return passion for my wife?

Unread post by **georg** » 15 Feb 2023, 06:40

Buddy! You are not alone ! I don’t want your wife either!

Unread post by **Minato.sensei** » 15 Feb 2023, 07:18

Maybe try something new? Cuckoldism for example. If you show someone your wife, and as you said, she’ll really want her, and you yourself will understand that you have something that others don’t have, and you might get excited

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Feb 2023, 08:10

Lancelot, it’s called family sex. Spouses get used to each other, the habit gradually extinguishes sexual interest and sex gradually fades away. What to do? Contact specialists about family
relations: psychologists, psychotherapists, andrologists, etc. And from simple means - try to revive interest in
each other. Use sexy lingerie, toys, role-playing games, etc. Try! Good luck!

Unread post by **The Lancelot** » 15 Feb 2023, 08:35

Minato.sensei: 15 Feb 2023, 07:18 if you show someone your wife, and as you said, she will really want her, and you yourself will understand that you have something that others don’t have, you might get excited

No, it’s not mine. Yes, I already know that my wife is fire

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niqk: 15 Feb 2023, 08:10 And a simple means is to try to revive interest in
each other. Use sexy lingerie, toys, role-playing games, etc. Try! Good luck!

I may be a little strange, but I’ve never been turned on by clothes, striptease, etc. I’m not a visual person at all.
Toys are always with us, but I’ll think about role-playing girls and a psychologist. Thanks for the advice

Unread post by **Monstrous** » 15 Feb 2023, 20:46

Everyday life...
Go to work remotely at home together all day.

Another option:
often women at home do not take care of themselves and we see what is not necessary; As a result, interest in a particular person decreases

Unread post by **The Lancelot** » 15 Feb 2023, 23:38

Monster: 15 Feb 2023, 20:46 Go to work remotely at home together all day.

You are a real psychic, but remotely, we work in different rooms

Unread post by **rasaroam** » 15 Feb 2023, 23:48

When you don’t want a wife, it’s not so bad. The real problem is when the wife doesn’t want you

Unread post by **stserge60** » 16 Feb 2023, 00:14

Try living separately for a while. If he is drawn to her, then everything is ok. If you don’t pull it, look for another one.

Unread post by **Scromnaga** » 16 Feb 2023, 00:22

Lancelot: 15 Feb 2023, 06:37 My wife and I have been together for 4 years, and for the last half a year I haven’t wanted her at all. It seems like she looks super and sex with her is cool. When she starts playing with him, I always get hard. But I myself stopped showing any initiative at all

I used to have a very active sex life, I had 7 partners a week. Maybe I’m just bored, but I don’t want to cheat

Now my wife is sick, I can’t have sex yet and I decided not to masturbate, I’m holding out for two months. Recently I caught myself thinking that I would fuck an overweight cashier from the top five or give it to some guy in the mouth (I had never had such experience before). But the desire to fuck my wife never appeared(

What can be done? How to return passion for my wife?

nDecreased libido may be a consequence of decreased testosterone levels. You should get tested.

Unread post by **Rooss** » 16 Feb 2023, 01:40

I also observed such a moment in myself. I resolved the issue with the fantasies that we realize together. You need to learn to imagine your wife in an erotic sense. It’s like a beauty walking down the street, and you thought, if only with her...
But with your wife, this can still be realized!
Cuckoldism, etc. here they recommend... For me, it’s better to go to the left or get a divorce than this.
As for the medical reason... You can get tested for testosterone in any clinic. But since he’s attracted to other women, that’s hardly the issue

Unread post by **Bogotolanet** » 16 Feb 2023, 02:12

Not the desire of the wife and patience for several months abstinence there is a decrease in testosterone levels. And this, in turn, causes a violation of male sexual function. It is recommended to take blood tests. Especially for vitamin D. It’s better not to joke with this.

Unread post by **The Lancelot** » 16 Feb 2023, 02:59

Bogotolanet: 16 Feb 2023, 02:12 Not the desire of the wife and patience for several months abstinence there is a decrease in testosterone levels

I want sex, everything is fine with my libido, and there are no problems with my health . I don’t want sex with my wife

Unread post by **Tamerlane** » 16 Feb 2023, 03:09

Just tired of everyday life. This will pass. Take a break.

Unread post by **Hammer** » 16 Feb 2023, 03:52

Lancelot, in the context of your nickname, maybe you want sex with Elsa?

Unread post by **Serge12345** » 17 Feb 2023, 00:21

If you don’t want sex with your wife, get a divorce. In about 2 years you might want it again. But if she wants to be with you