How could the incompatible be combined in my lover?

[I’m interested in psychology]

One of my novels can’t get out of my head. I wonder if my lover had a split personality or not? So, he was completely in charge in our relationship. He chose the meeting places and often said that when we started living together, he would not allow me to leave the house alone, especially in short dresses. And in general there were many phrases beginning with "I won’t allow". He controlled almost every step I took. He often called me a fool and laughed at me. Before our first intimacy, he gave me detailed instructions on where and what I should shave, what underwear to wear, what hairstyle and makeup to do. He took me very hard, without foreplay, and left a large bruise on my leg. Then he bragged to me about how hard he took me. Before sex and between acts, he sensitively hit his buttocks and pussy with his hand. That is, he is all macho and alpha male. But at the end of our long sexual marathon, he insisted on the cowgirl position. That is, he deliberately allowed my dominance and his own humiliation. And then he humiliated himself even more by giving me cunnilingus and not demanding a blowjob. How can this behavior be explained? Why did this macho allow himself to be humiliated?

[The passage]

One of my novels can’t get out of my head. I wonder if my lover had a split personality or not? So, he was completely in charge in our relationship. He chose the meeting places and often said that when we started living together, he would not allow me to leave the house alone, especially in short dresses. And in general there were many phrases beginning with "I won’t allow". He controlled almost every step I took. He often called me a fool and laughed at me. Before our first intimacy, he gave me detailed instructions on where and what I should shave, what underwear to wear, what hairstyle and makeup to do. He took me very hard, without foreplay, and left a large bruise on my leg. Then he bragged to me about how hard he took me. Before sex and between acts, he sensitively hit his buttocks and pussy with his hand. That is, he is all macho and alpha male. But at the end of our long sexual marathon, he insisted on the cowgirl position. That is, he deliberately allowed my dominance and his own humiliation. And then he humiliated himself even more by giving me cunnilingus and not demanding a blowjob. How can this behavior be explained? Why did this macho allow himself to be humiliated?

He is a switch.

[Wolffr]

Marinka, and where do you find such words. I had to scour the Internet to find out what it was. and here’s what I learned...

Switch - A person who can change positions is not the most popular role in the BDSM community. Hel, the author of the telegram channel “Forget-me-not 18+,” talks about how she builds relationships with sex partners and loved ones, overcoming taboos. You can listen to more about her BDSM experience and sex life in the podcast about sex “Are You Already?” And we remind you that BDSM practices require that participants respect other people’s boundaries and the principle of active consent as much as possible.

[The passage]

Marinka, and where are you saying these words you find. I had to scour the Internet to find out what it was. and here’s what I learned...

Switch - A person who can change positions is not the most popular role in the BDSM community. Hel, the author of the telegram channel “Forget-me-not 18+,” talks about how she builds relationships with sex partners and loved ones, overcoming taboos. You can listen to more about her BDSM experience and sex life in the podcast about sex “Are You Already?” And we remind you that BDSM practices require that participants respect other people’s boundaries and the principle of active consent as much as possible.

Switch is someone who likes to both obey and subjugate. MCH TS is just like that. Judging by her story.
Most people know this word IMHO, and now you know it too))) If you get along with me, you’ll have to google it from time to time, but at least you’ll expand your horizons. New neural connections are formed. Good for the brain)))

[Wolffr]

Marinka, thank you very much for the educational program, live forever, forever study)))

[niqk]

I am interested in psychology, I am more and more amazed at the wildness of your concepts! You are a unique specimen
on our forum. Walk away!

[The passage]

I am interested in psychology, I am more and more amazed at the savagery your concepts! You are a unique specimen
on our forum. Walk away!

I think that TS is quite young. There is little or no experience in sex. Hence the fears, simply wild.

[I’m interested in psychology]

instance

Dominance in sex is my sore point. Moreover, in all articles on the Internet about sex positions, great attention is paid to dominance and humiliation. My fixation on this topic is associated with a feeling of guilt about the fact that I broke off the relationship described in this post. And my obsession is not the most unhealthy on this site. There was a topic here about how a man wanted to rape his ten-year-old daughter. And the topic is about licking your wife’s sperm after your lover. And the topic is about a woman having sex with a dog. I don’t get to that point.

[Wolffr]

There was a topic here about how a man wanted to rape his ten-year-old daughter. And the topic is about licking your wife’s sperm after your lover. And the topic is about a woman having sex with a dog. I don’t get to that point.

these topics are already too much, if not to say that it’s disgusting!!! Whether to dominate or not to dominate in sex should be mutual for a loving couple. What kind of dominance can there be.
Maybe I’m retarded in this, I don’t know.

[I’m interested in psychology]

dominate

So in all the articles on the Internet about sex positions, the greatest attention is paid not to her or his erogenous zones, but to dominance. Maybe this is a fashionable topic now?

[Wolffr]

So in all the articles on the Internet about sex positions, the greatest attention is paid not to her or his erogenous zones, but to dominance. Maybe this is a fashionable topic now?

oh, what can I say...., there are no words, just drool. And who writes these articles, people write them, and most likely feminists, they are like mushrooms after the rain!!!
either checkers or go)

[niqk]

instance

Dominance in sex my sore question. Moreover, in all articles on the Internet about sex positions, great attention is paid to dominance and humiliation. My fixation on this topic is associated with a feeling of guilt about the fact that I broke off the relationship described in this post. And my obsession is not the most unhealthy on this site. There was a topic here about how a man wanted to rape his ten-year-old daughter. And the topic is about licking your wife’s sperm after your lover. And the topic is about a woman having sex with a dog. I don’t get to that point.

A sincere confession from a sincere poor fellow trying to figure something out... Respect and respect!

[I’m interested in psychology]

rather

They are also written by male pickup artists. By the way, the issue of dominance is not raised at all in articles with a medical bias. For example, about positions in which conception occurs better or about positions that are safe during pregnancy. This question does not appear in Wikipedia articles either.

[Wolffr]

They are also written by male pickup artists. By the way, the issue of dominance is not raised at all in articles with a medical bias. For example, about positions in which conception occurs better or about positions that are safe during pregnancy. This question is not in the Wikipedia articles either.

I don’t read such articles at all, it’s better to read Dumas!!!

[niqk]

I’m interested in psychology, and is dominance very important to you? Directly - vital?

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

Most people know this word IMHO,

Nooo)) We are all subordinate, even the dominant ones

[A mermaid]

You yourself connected the incompatible things: sex and humiliation, humiliation and cunnilingus.

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

Mermaid, it would be good to explain what and how not communicating Should I do everything for you??

[Anastasia 2005]

But at the end of our long sexual marathon, I insisted on the cowgirl position. That is, he deliberately allowed my dominance and his own humiliation. And then he humiliated himself even more by giving me cunnilingus and not demanding a blowjob. How can this behavior be explained? Why did this macho allow himself to be humiliated?

Until you understand that no one humiliates anyone, you will ask such stupid questions)

[A mermaid]

Mermaid, it would be nice to explain here , what and how is not connected Everything should be done for you??

What is humiliating about a cowgirl and a cunnilingus?

[Lada R]

Oh, the author of the topic is digging deep,,,, oh, deep

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

Rusalka, I don’t know either))

[opposite]

"The incompatible can be combined..."
The funny thing is that there is nothing incompatible about that guy... Anything is possible in sex between loving people. But without love, yes...they begin to look for deviations in their partner.