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I have been living with my wife for 6 years, she is my first. We have very good and regular sex, but recently a strong desire to try something new has begun to overcome us! Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be cheating or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
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Any visit to another woman is treason.
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lambrod, so try something new with your wife)) ))
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lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
You never know what we think, it’s time to think with your own head.
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lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 strong desire to try something new!
Take a bottle of wine and talk to your wife in the evening about all your thoughts, desires, fantasies. Don’t keep everything to yourself. Perhaps she also wants something new.
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Yes, this is cheating.

What if your wife went to a man on call? Would you consider this cheating?
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lambrod,
Treason, and so on and the most base one, once with a prostitute
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lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 I have been living with my wife for 6 years, she is my first. We have very good and regular sex, but recently a strong desire to try something new has begun to overcome us! Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
))) Ahah, what if we write here what it is not treason. Will you go to a prostitute? And then show this topic to your wife?)))
I put the brackets with a smile, but in reality it’s never funny.
Try new things with your wife. Believe me, prostitutes everything is the same as your wife’s.
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Marinka: 09 Jul 2023, 23:10
lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 I have been living with my wife for 6 years, she is my first. We have very good and regular sex, but recently a strong desire to try something new has begun to overcome us! Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
))) Ahah, what if we write here what it is not treason. Will you go to a prostitute? And then show this topic to your wife?)))
I put the brackets with a smile, but in reality it’s never funny.
Try new things with your wife. Believe me, prostitutes everything is the same as your wife.
women do not understand male psychology. The psychology of women is the same for everyone. Psychology of a man I want to try on the other. The question is why on the other. Because the sensations from another woman may be different. Each person has his own character, his own manners in sex. As for purely physiology, there may be a different body odor, body structure. A man’s arousal depends on these factors. That is why it happens that for one woman a man has no value for another. With one, sex turns out great; with the other, you don’t want anything at all.
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Byutiful: 09 Jul 2023, 23:43
Marinka: 09 Jul 2023, 23:10
lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 I have been living with my wife for 6 years, she is my first. We have very good and regular sex, but recently a strong desire to try something new has begun to overcome us! Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
))) Ahah, what if we write here what it is not treason. Will you go to a prostitute? And then show this topic to your wife?)))
I put the brackets with a smile, but in reality it’s never funny.
Try new things with your wife. Believe me, prostitutes everything is the same as your wife.
women do not understand male psychology. The psychology of women is the same for everyone. Psychology of a man I want to try on the other. The question is why on the other. Because the sensations from another woman may be different. Each person has his own character, his own manners in sex. As for purely physiology, there may be a different body odor, body structure. A man’s arousal depends on these factors. That is why it happens that for one woman a man has no value for another. With one, sex turns out great; with the other, you don’t want anything at all.
I understand that sex with another partner will be different in any case, but you can’t try everything . Well, or there is an option to get a divorce and devote your life to this.
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Marinka: 09 Jul 2023, 23:10
lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 I have been living with my wife for 6 years, she is my first. We have very good and regular sex, but recently a strong desire to try something new has begun to overcome us! Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
))) Ahah, what if we write here what it is not treason. Will you go to a prostitute? And then show this topic to your wife?)))
I put the brackets with a smile, but in reality it’s never funny.
Try new things with your wife. Believe me, prostitutes everything is the same as your wife.
are everyone the same weight, height, boob size, butt, arms, legs?)) ).
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lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 .... Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
They think differently, in different ways. It all depends on you and your wife.
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Byutiful: 09 Jul 2023, 23:49
Marinka: 09 Jul 2023, 23:10
lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 I have been living with my wife for 6 years, she is my first. We have very good and regular sex, but recently a strong desire to try something new has begun to overcome us! Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
))) Ahah, what if we write here what it is not treason. Will you go to a prostitute? And then show this topic to your wife?)))
I put the brackets with a smile, but in reality it’s never funny.
Try new things with your wife. Believe me, prostitutes everything is the same as your wife.
are everyone the same weight, height, boob size, butt, arms, legs?)) ).
I haven’t listed everything yet).
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Cheating. For something new, there is no need to look for another person. Try new things together.
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Dear ladies and girls, you just need to try to understand why your man loves you or why he doesn’t want you. And I want to say one more thing. Men and women are figuratively like two planets - Venus and Mars. They are completely different. But as far as people are concerned, sex is the strongest attraction that forces them to unite. But sex is such a thing that not all people are ready to engage in it with each other, and you, as adults, yourself know the answer to why this happens. It happens that frankly finding out what the problem is between husband and wife in sex will simply lead to divorce, which many do not want. Life is not simple and you shouldn’t simplify everything.
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Byutiful: 10 Jul 2023, 00:12 Dear ladies and girls, you just need to try to understand why your man loves you or why he doesn’t want you. And I want to say one more thing. Men and women are figuratively like two planets - Venus and Mars. They are completely different. But as far as people are concerned, sex is the strongest attraction that forces them to unite. But sex is such a thing that not all people are ready to engage in it with each other, and you, as adults, yourself know the answer to why this happens. It happens that frankly finding out what the problem is between husband and wife in sex will simply lead to divorce, which many do not want. Life is not simple and you shouldn’t simplify everything.
You shouldn’t complicate it either, and if there is a problem, you need to solve it. Decide together with your significant other. Through conversations, visits to specialists, experiments.
Prostitutes will not help here.
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If you read the comments, they’re all such angels, they’re all so correct, it’s disgusting... :roll:
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SeRg !$!: 10 Jul 2023, 00:33 read the comments, well, all such angels, all so correct, it’s disgusting...
What should I do?
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Ogest: 10 Jul 2023, 00:39
SeRg !$!: 10 Jul 2023, 00:33 read the comments, well, all such angels, all so correct, it’s disgusting...
nWhat should I do?
Apparently go to a prostitute, then pick up a suitcase with your things from the landing and through thorns to pussies
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An acquaintance fucks a young accountant in the office. He himself is married and does not consider such adultery to be treason. Compares how to go and smoke. And that girl is happy with everything, even though she has a boyfriend. This is how everyone lives with their family, and “smoke” at work.
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 00:41 Apparently go to a prostitute, then pick up a suitcase with your things from the landing and through thorns to pussies
Something sad about this.
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 00:21 It’s also not worth complicating things, and if there is a problem, you need to solve it. Decide together with your significant other. Through conversations, visits to specialists, experiments.
Prostitutes will not help here.
Most men by the age of 30 have a desire to try something else . Even if everything is fine with the wife. This is a purely male fucking property. Therefore, talking to your wife and trying something with your wife is good, but in this case it’s not what a man needs.

And then I have another question. What if it’s not sex, but a massage? Is it cheating to go to a masseuse for a body massage? There seems to be no sex there (if in Russia), but there is satisfaction. Again, crush the other assholes. But not sex :pardon:
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Didudo: 10 Jul 2023, 00:42 An acquaintance fucks a young accountant in the office. He himself is married and does not consider such adultery to be treason. Compares how to go and smoke. And that girl is happy with everything, even though she has a boyfriend. This is how everyone lives with their family, and at work they “smoke”
You know, when he finds out that his wife is “smoking” with a neighbor , perhaps he will change his mind. Although the family may be such that the wife doesn’t care who he “smokes” with, she brings money into the house and it’s good, but otherwise she’s on her own.
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Marinka,
And how sweet you are ladies are shaking cuckolding their husbands))) so there is no need to pretend to be nuns here :cat1:
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Didudo: 10 Jul 2023, 00:42 and at work they “smoke”
this is called "whoredom"
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 00:21 It’s also not worth complicating things, and if there is a problem, you need to solve it. Decide together with your significant other. Through conversations, visits to specialists, experiments.
Prostitutes will not help here.
Most men by the age of 30 have a desire to try something else . Even if everything is fine with the wife. This is a purely male fucking property. Therefore, talking to your wife and trying something with your wife is good, but in this case it’s not what a man needs.

And then I have another question. What if it’s not sex, but a massage? Is it cheating to go to a masseuse for a body massage? There seems to be no sex there (if in Russia), but there is satisfaction. Again, crush the other assholes. But not sex :pardon:
No matter how banal and cliche it may sound, everything is individual.
I often read about temperament. The men complain that they got the log. But perhaps this is precisely what triples them. This is the wife’s temperament, in everything else, except pastels.
For example, I am very temperamental, you won’t get bored in bed with me, but temperament is not only sex. This is also a brain drain and I can hit plates during a showdown, and on a man’s head.
It’s the same with betrayal, with jealousy. I think that it is a very rare woman who will approve of such a massage. Well, if the husband went there specifically to get sexual satisfaction.
Women are possessive. But the consequences of such a trip will be different for different couples. Someone’s wife will cry silently, not talk, worry, not sleep at night, but won’t say anything. As for me, the consequences will be unpredictable. I’ll even say more - the prognosis is not favorable.
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 00:58 You know, when he finds out that his wife is “smoking” with a neighbor, he may change his mind. Although the family may be such that the wife doesn’t care who he “smokes” with, he brings money into the house and it’s good, but otherwise they’re on their own
We also talked on this topic, his argument - as long as he doesn’t know, and if he wants to go left, he still won’t know and won’t be able to prevent it. The main thing is to live peacefully. That’s the whole aesthetics of relationships

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Didudo: 10 Jul 2023, 01:16 this is called "whoredom"
whatever you call everyone’s attitude towards this and their cockroaches
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I don’t know, but it seems to me that most women are monogamous, unlike men. Most men are polygamous, it’s nature’s way. To reproduce and preserve offspring from a larger number of females uh women. I wasn’t married, but there is a permanent knight and I’m not sure that I would like to know where he is on the side and who he ennobles *x)
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Cheating or not cheating, only you and your wife decide. In my humble opinion - treason.
But it happened, I read opinions even on this forum that blowjob and anal are not considered treason. It’s not in the pussy. What kind of betrayal is this? But your opinion, the opinion of forum members and your wife’s opinion on this fact may differ radically. In general, I am a supporter of all experiments with my other half. Yes, she doesn’t want to now, but I’m not running away from this. But everyone has their own truth.
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Any physical contacts for sexual purposes without the knowledge of your spouse, even a civil one, if there is no prior agreement between you on these contacts with an outside partner, is always treason.
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Touch-a-Love: 10 Jul 2023, 02:15 Any physical contacts for sexual purposes without the knowledge of your spouse, even a civil one, if there is no prior agreement between you on these contacts with an outside partner, is always treason.
If I smack a colleague like that at a corporate party, is that cheating?
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everyone is looking at the consequences, not the root cause...
and this, in my opinion, is the main mistake.
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Markul: 10 Jul 2023, 02:20 If I smack a colleague like that at a corporate party, is that treason?
"It’s normal to smack me like that" - what does that mean? Translate into Russian, please. I roughly understand what this is about, but it would be better to be more specific.

Why?
She asked for this so strongly that it was impossible to refuse?
Is a colleague better than his wife in terms of physical characteristics?
Or were they simply under the influence of alcohol, without realizing their actions?
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Touch-a-Love: 10 Jul 2023, 02:30 Or were they simply under the influence of alcohol, without realizing their actions?
That’s right, there was no intercourse (if what), he just let his hands go a little, and in response they were only happy about it.
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 01:08
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 00:21 It’s also not worth complicating things, and if there is a problem, you need to solve it. Decide together with your significant other. Through conversations, visits to specialists, experiments.
Prostitutes will not help here.
Most men by the age of 30 have a desire to try something else . Even if everything is fine with the wife. This is a purely male fucking property. Therefore, talking to your wife and trying something with your wife is good, but in this case it’s not what a man needs.

And then I have another question. What if it’s not sex, but a massage? Is it cheating to go to a masseuse for a body massage? There seems to be no sex there (if in Russia), but there is satisfaction. Again, crush the other assholes. But not sex :pardon:
No matter how banal and cliche it may sound, everything is individual.
I often read about temperament. The men complain that they got the log. But perhaps this is precisely what triples them. This is the wife’s temperament, in everything else, except pastels.
For example, I am very temperamental, you won’t get bored in bed with me, but temperament is not only sex. This is also a brain drain and I can hit plates during a showdown, and on a man’s head.
It’s the same with betrayal, with jealousy. I think that it is a very rare woman who will approve of such a massage. Well, if the husband went there specifically to get sexual satisfaction.
Women are possessive. But the consequences of such a trip will be different for different couples. Someone’s wife will cry silently, not talk, worry, not sleep at night, but won’t say anything. As for me, the consequences will be unpredictable. I’ll even say more - the forecast is not favorable.
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 00:21 It’s also not worth complicating things, and if there is a problem, you need to solve it. Decide together with your significant other. Through conversations, visits to specialists, experiments.
Prostitutes will not help here.
Most men by the age of 30 have a desire to try something else . Even if everything is fine with the wife. This is a purely male fucking property. Therefore, talking to your wife and trying something with your wife is good, but in this case it’s not what a man needs.

And then I have another question. What if it’s not sex, but a massage? Is it cheating to go to a masseuse for a body massage? There seems to be no sex there (if in Russia), but there is satisfaction. Again, crush the other assholes. But not sex :pardon:
No matter how banal and cliche it may sound, everything is individual.
I often read about temperament. The men complain that they got the log. But perhaps this is precisely what triples them. This is the wife’s temperament, in everything else, except pastels.
For example, I am very temperamental, you won’t get bored in bed with me, but temperament is not only sex. This is also a brain drain and I can hit plates during a showdown, and on a man’s head.
It’s the same with betrayal, with jealousy. I think that it is a very rare woman who will approve of such a massage. Well, if the husband went there specifically to get sexual satisfaction.
Women are possessive. But the consequences of such a trip will be different for different couples. Someone’s wife will cry silently, not talk, worry, not sleep at night, but won’t say anything. As for me, the consequences will be unpredictable. I’ll even say more - the prognosis is not favorable.
The main thing is that your man knows this in advance, he will then think about it, I think whether this pleasure is worth breaking dishes and his head)) )

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Most men by the age of 30 have a desire to try something else. Even if everything is fine with the wife. This is a purely male fucking property. Therefore, talking to your wife and trying something with your wife is good, but in this case it’s not what a man needs.

And then I have another question. What if it’s not sex, but a massage? Is it cheating to go to a masseuse for a body massage? There seems to be no sex there (if in Russia), but there is satisfaction. Again, crush the other assholes. But not sex :pardon:
No matter how banal and cliche it may sound, everything is individual.
I often read about temperament. The men complain that they got the log. But perhaps this is precisely what triples them. This is the wife’s temperament, in everything else, except pastels.
For example, I am very temperamental, you won’t get bored in bed with me, but temperament is not only sex. This is also a brain drain and I can hit plates during a showdown, and on a man’s head.
It’s the same with betrayal, with jealousy. I think that it is a very rare woman who will approve of such a massage. Well, if the husband went there specifically to get sexual satisfaction.
Women are possessive. But the consequences of such a trip will be different for different couples. Someone’s wife will cry silently, not talk, worry, not sleep at night, but won’t say anything. As for me, the consequences will be unpredictable. I’ll even say more - the forecast is not favorable.
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Most men by the age of 30 have a desire to try something else. Even if everything is fine with the wife. This is a purely male fucking property. Therefore, talking to your wife and trying something with your wife is good, but in this case it’s not what a man needs.

And then I have another question. What if it’s not sex, but a massage? Is it cheating to go to a masseuse for a body massage? There seems to be no sex there (if in Russia), but there is satisfaction. Again, crush the other assholes. But not sex :pardon:
No matter how banal and cliche it may sound, everything is individual.
I often read about temperament. The men complain that they got the log. But perhaps this is precisely what triples them. This is the wife’s temperament, in everything else, except pastels.
For example, I am very temperamental, you won’t get bored in bed with me, but temperament is not only sex. This is also a brain drain and I can hit plates during a showdown, and on a man’s head.
It’s the same with betrayal, with jealousy. I think that it is a very rare woman who will approve of such a massage. Well, if the husband went there specifically to get sexual satisfaction.
Women are possessive. But the consequences of such a trip will be different for different couples. Someone’s wife will cry silently, not talk, worry, not sleep at night, but won’t say anything. As for me, the consequences will be unpredictable. I’ll even say more - the prognosis is not favorable.
The main thing is that your man knows this in advance, he will then think about it, I think whether this pleasure is worth breaking dishes and his head)) )
from my own experience I will say it’s hard to live with a woman who owns her, and if she’s also so temperamental that she breaks dishes, it’s a nightmare). But this is a pattern and stereotype: not all women are owners. I don’t think it’s worth speaking on my own behalf for everyone. Each person has his own view and approach to different life situations.
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SeRg !$!: 10 Jul 2023, 02:23 everyone is looking at the consequences, not the root cause...
and this, in my opinion, is the main mistake.
So the author had a question - do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason? There is not a word about the root cause. I wanted something new, betrayal or not. Everything is answered factually)))
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lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 Do you consider going to a prostitute to be treason

Any connections that the spouse does not know about and does not approve of is treason. Talk to your wife when she’s in the mood. Maybe start with swinging or just have sex in the presence of someone else. If both like it, then you can develop this topic.
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Byutiful: 10 Jul 2023, 02:49 not all women are possessive.
If she doesn’t have feelings for you, then of course she’s purple. Well, what’s the point of living and suffering all your life?
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I myself was in a similar situation - my wife didn’t want what I wanted, plus she considered some things to be shameful perversion. Yes, I started going to prostitutes, yes, I definitely consider this treason. But I couldn’t “stifle” my desires within myself, hide them, I went and realized them. It didn’t save my marriage, and I didn’t even hope for it... Of course, you need to talk to your partner... but often, we believe that we know them, our partners, very well and think that " to this, he/she will definitely not agree.... this is true and not true, sometimes we invent problems for ourselves. Millions of men go to prostitutes and continue to live in marriage without worry, the choice is always up to each individual person
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lambrod: 09 Jul 2023, 19:23 I have been living with my wife for 6 years, she is my first. We have very good and regular sex, but recently a strong desire to try something new has begun to overcome us! Thoughts about a prostitute creep in. Do you consider going to a prostitute to be cheating or is it just a way to satisfy your sexual needs?
If you want to greatly diversify your sex life, it makes sense to have group sex with the same
married couples. Very quickly, such a good company will become something like a family, where no one will distinguish between someone else’s husband or someone else’s wife. Everyone will be their own! But a prostitute will never become one of her own...
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Marinka: 10 Jul 2023, 05:05
Byutiful: 10 Jul 2023, 02:49 not all women are possessive.
If she doesn’t have feelings for you, then of course she’s purple. Well, what’s the purpose of living and suffering all your life?
it’s to make dying easier)). As they say, I was exhausted) Or I was exhausted). Someone goes ahead, someone lives according to their conscience or according to their concepts. What is good for one is hell for another. Circumstances dictate our way of behavior and life. Adapt and exist with these circumstances. And also principles and past experience correct our actions.
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Sex with a prostitute I don’t consider it treason. It’s like watching porn, only interactive. The fact that we ONE TIME immerse parts of our body in another person will not turn the world upside down. Everyone needs an outlet and a sense of newness.
Betrayal is in the head. If you fall in love with this prostitute and meet regularly - this is treason. Emotional betrayal.

There was a thing, I lived with a silent man, and I was his first woman. So, on the contrary, I wanted him to go to the left, compare and understand that I am the best))
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A prostitute is also cheating, there are no options, and if you think that prostitutes You will get some new sensations or a buzz from a new body, then it is unlikely that it will be an empty purely mechanical process, so to speak, without feelings, sensations from the series - you are fucking a mattress, even if she turns on voice acting. It’s better to take your wife to add something to your intimate life, and the buzz will be real, not fake, and there will be no betrayal.
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Hooligan Carrie: 10 Jul 2023, 06:23 Sex with a prostituteI don’t consider it treason. It’s like watching porn, only interactive. The fact that we ONE TIME immerse parts of our body in another person will not turn the world upside down. Everyone needs an outlet and a sense of newness.
Betrayal is in the head. If you fall in love with this prostitute and meet regularly - this is treason. Emotional betrayal.

There was a thing, I lived with a silent man, and I was his first woman. So, on the contrary, I wanted him to go to the left, compare and understand that I am the best))
It even became interesting: did you go? compared? did you draw any conclusions? How did it all end for you?
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niqk, No, I didn’t go, as far as I know.
How do most novels end? I went to someone else, ce la vie.
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Hooligan Carrie: 10 Jul 2023, 07:52 niqk , No, I didn’t, as far as I know.
How do most novels end? I went to someone else, ce la vie.
And how was your trip successful? Or... :bel_flag:
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I understand TS. Well, look. Let’s say I I want to try something new. Well, for example, double penetration, or some kind of maildom....
But I’m not sure that it will work, and I’m not sure that my husband will be able to do it the way I fantasize.
And with an outsider, and even more experienced, you can try. If I screw up and it doesn’t work out. - and to hell with him, we will never meet again.
And I won’t upset my husband, and I’ll try something new)
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niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 07:56 was your trip successful?
Yes, there was a beautiful novel, you can’t help it.
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Hooligan Carrie: 10 Jul 2023, 08:05
niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 07:56 was your trip successful?
Yes, there was a beautiful novel, you can’t help it.
And this romance still continues? Or...
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SeRg !$!: 10 Jul 2023, 00:58 Marinka ,
And how much do you lovely ladies shake your head cuckolding your husbands))) so there is no need to pretend to be a nun here :cat1:
Where have you seen goats without horns? The default goat should have horns :cat1:
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