Sex with antipathy towards a partner.

[Serg_A]

Briefly. Just yesterday, one of my friends told me that sex with me is just space, but she has no feelings for me.
I was very surprised and said that to hell with her feelings, as well as for her, mine, after all, we are meeting for sex. But she clarified that, like, there should at least be sympathy. To say that I’m crazy is to say nothing, well, that is, if she doesn’t have sympathy for me, and then what does she have, antipathy?

I met N on a dating site, she is beautiful, seems smart, but too reserved and arrogant. Then we met her in a cafe, sat and talked, I immediately noticed that her body immediately reached out to me, but she seemed to hide from me in the fog. I couldn’t understand anything, but when I invited her to meet on neutral territory and communicate with our bodies, she agreed, and when she found out what kind of sex I prefer, she was simply delighted - that’s exactly what she was looking for. During sex, she reacted to me very violently, as if strong electric discharges were endlessly flowing through her. Then, at the end, she always said:"This is space!" - or:"Simply indescribable!"- and so on. The last time, I asked if she had something similar with anyone. She answered me that things have happened, but this has never happened to anyone. But nevertheless, she has strange impressions, and all because the sex is super, and there is no sympathy for me at all... I have now calmed down a little, and noted to myself that I, in fact, initially had no sympathy for her, all pompous, arrogant, and somehow unreal, I don’t like people like that. And now I’m thinking: after such words, I won’t be able to meet with her anymore...

[Sufia]

I don’t know how you can desire a man without sympathy. Very strange lady, I don’t know anyone like her

[Izumi]

Several options came to mind. 1.she was very excited and agreed. sometimes people don’t care who they’re with, just to relieve the tension.
2. As I understand, you have the same preferences in sex, which hooked her.
3. maybe she thought that after sex sympathy would appear, but nothing happened.

well, it’s good, of course, that she immediately told it like it was.

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another option. she might not like something and she decided to alienate him so technically.

[The passage]

at the end, she always said:"This is space!" - or:"Simply indescribable!"

I am all partners I praise my people and also tell everyone that anything happened, but you are undoubtedly better than everyone else. This lifts men’s mood, self-esteem and also raises the penis)))

but she has no feelings for me

n This is distancing. Perhaps she didn’t like it and she’s carefully and tactfully pushing you to stop dating her or to understand when she refuses to meet her why this happened.
Well, or she liked you, something skipped a beat and she is afraid of falling in love. You’re married.
Because I don’t really believe in sex without sympathy. If only under the influence of alcohol or drugs, when the state is not sane. In other cases, there should be sympathy.

[Serg_A]

I praise all my partners and also tell everyone that anything has happened, but you are undoubtedly the best. It raises men’s mood, self-esteem and also raises the penis)))

Now it’s clear why all the girls thank me for sex, and I actually thought that I’m super

[The passage]

I praise all my partners and also tell everyone that anything has happened, but you are undoubtedly the best. It raises men’s mood, self-esteem and also raises the penis)))

Now it’s clear why all the girls thank me for sex, and I actually thought that I’m super

You super) Don’t even doubt it)))

[Mud hammer]

Now it’s clear why all the girls thank me for sex, and I really thought that I was super

Girls should also be thanked for sex. Always kiss and say that she is the best. And not to immediately turn away or start getting ready.

[Serg_A]

1.she was very excited and agreed. sometimes people don’t care who they’re with, just to relieve the tension

Yes, I was excited, but I was also very afraid, so we had sex a few days later. She is some kind of astrologer, psychologist, regressologist, probably calculating a favorable day. By the way, she told me when we met that today is a favorable day, some planet has moved somewhere.

[fuck]

It was the other way around for me with a girl I was dating with HIV and I didn’t dare to fuck her so we broke up and didn’t fuck her

[Serg_A]

It was the other way around for me with a girl I was dating with HIV and I didn’t dare to fuck her and we broke up and didn’t fuck her

Did she tell you that herself?

[Serg_A]

2. As I understand, you have the same preferences in sex, which hooked her.

Yes. Although I’m not sure I know her sexual preferences. Perhaps these are her preferences in sex with someone else’s man. But she really had a blast.

[fuck]

yes she warned me

[Izumi]

Serg_A, in general there are a lot of options)) you end up won’t you see her anymore?

[Serg_A]

Serg_A, in general there are a lot of options) ) in the end you won’t see her anymore?

Well, after such words, all desire disappeared. Now I don’t call or write to her.

[Bro]

Then, at the end, she always said:"This is space!" - or:"Simply indescribable!"- and so on.

it seems like a grown boy, but you still believe it
Smart girls tell everyone that

[Natali91]

When there is a “feeling” for a partner, it’s one thing. If not, just sex. Satisfying a need.

[Serg_A]

When there is a "feeling" for a partner, it is one thing. If not, just sex. Satisfying a need.

That would suit me just fine. I told her that there was no need to worry, we were just having sex and nothing personal. And she told me: “Well, there should be at least some kind of sympathy, but there isn’t.”

[Serg_A]

Then, at the end, she always said: "This is space!" - or: "Simply indescribable!", - and so on.

it seems like a grown boy, but you still believe it
Smart girls tell everyone that

Why say this to someone you don’t like? Instead of saying: “Sex with you is great, but I don’t like you,” wouldn’t it be better to say: “I don’t like you, and sex with you is complete bullshit!”?

[Bro]

Serg_A, yes, they tell everyone that because they are manipulators . Usually for the future, you never know how you can be used.

[Serg_A]

This is distancing. Perhaps she didn’t like it and she is carefully and tactfully pushing you to stop dating her or to understand when she refuses to meet, why this happened

nFrom the very beginning, she kept her distance with all her might, but at the same time she created such a fog that I thought that she was a member of some secret society, or rather its head. I’m not kidding here, I actually thought that she had some kind of section where she organizes hikes, teaches people yoga, physical and spiritual improvement. But it turned out that there was none of this, and even when we met, I realized that for some reason she was afraid of me, damn psychologist...

[King Bird]

if she doesn’t have sympathy for me, what then does she have, antipathy?

Not necessarily. There is a third option - indifference. Which, in my opinion, is also not great. Of course, what’s going on in this lady’s head with her pseudosciences and yogis is a mystery, but that doesn’t usually happen. Especially for women, this is generally some kind of nonsense.

And if there really is antipathy, then even from my male point of view - well, then how can we fuck? If I see a woman, and she is either unkempt, or drunk, or simply of such an appearance or age that she wouldn’t fit in the army, then I just won’t be able to stand up to her. If there is no antipathy or sympathy, but simply, roughly speaking, he is hungry (as often happened in winter in his youth), then all will be well. But still, something is missing. Even a slight depression may appear later. And women are more emotional in nature (as a rule), and this manifests itself even more sharply in them.

[The passage]

This is distancing. Perhaps she didn’t like it and she is carefully and tactfully pushing you to stop dating her or to understand when she refuses to meet, why this happened

nFrom the very beginning, she kept her distance with all her might, but at the same time she created such a fog that I thought that she was a member of some secret society, or rather its head. I’m not kidding here, I actually thought that she had some kind of section where she organizes hikes, teaches people yoga, physical and spiritual improvement. But it turned out that there was none of this, and even when we met, I realized that for some reason she was afraid of me, damn psychologist...

What are you doing Are you breaking your brain? Forget about her and that’s it)))

[Serg_A]

Optional. There is a third option - indifference

Yes, it may well be, because she herself said that for sympathy you need more communication, but she herself stops it communication, we write to each other only when we meet, and that’s it. Well, even before the first meeting, I reassured her that everything would be fine. That nothing will happen to her, well, that is, I worked with her as a psychologist)
When meeting, she now behaves arrogantly, keeps her distance, and only in bed becomes a woman.

[Serg_A]

This is distancing. Perhaps she didn’t like it and she is carefully and tactfully pushing you to stop dating her or to understand when she refuses to meet, why this happened

nFrom the very beginning, she kept her distance with all her might, but at the same time she created such a fog that I thought that she was a member of some secret society, or rather its head. I’m not kidding here, I actually thought that she had some kind of section where she organizes hikes, teaches people yoga, physical and spiritual improvement. But it turned out that there was none of this, and even when we met, I realized that for some reason she was afraid of me, damn psychologist...

What are you doing Are you breaking your brain? Forget about her and that’s it)))

Well, this is the first time a woman confessed to me that she doesn’t love me...

[The passage]

At meetings now he behaves arrogantly,

And what is arrogance?

[Serg_A]

At meetings now he behaves arrogantly,

And what is arrogance?

Well, somehow there is no cordiality in her, I start hugging, so she condescendingly: “Okay, okay, hug me. You want it.” I never allowed a kiss on the lips...

[King Bird]

A kiss on the lips was never allowed at all...

In short, for her you are something like a talking fucking machine. Uninteresting as a person. I had an experience with one girl, we had almost completely identical patterns of sex, including perversions, but as people we were different and alien to each other in every way. And outside the bed they argued or simply lost mutual interest. I had to run away. But no one was offended.

[Helga]

Serg_A, Could this be manipulation? After all, if her behavior hurt you, maybe that’s what she was aiming for? Through such behavior, they can cause a reaction in you, hook you and try to take you away from the family. Still, she liked it in bed. It really looks like manipulation, I bet.

[King Bird]

try to take him away from the family

Everything is clear, except for this. For what?

[Helga]

Well, somehow there is no cordiality in her, I start hugging her, so she says condescendingly: “Okay, okay, hug me. You want it.” I never allowed a kiss on the lips at all...

Now, you can feel the game and manipulation. She is trying to get you to feel some kind of emotion. He wants to tie him to himself, through a swing, creates a deficit of himself (hugs, if you want, kisses are not allowed...). It’s not for me to give advice, but I would stop communicating.

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King Zogu , Judging by all the factors known to us, for me, this is the most real reason for such behavior. Wants to get it. Hunting for a man.

[Bully Carrie]

Maybe the girl’s hormones are going crazy? Will it cool down? (I’m even afraid to stutter about pregnancy...)
Dating for great sex, just for the sake of it, and that’s all - I completely understand and support it.
In general, it would be much easier if we didn’t love our partners as much as we sometimes get ourselves into.

[Bully Carrie]

Hunting a man

Come on Who hunts like that!

[Helga]

Hooligan Carrie, Everyone has their own hunting style.

[Serg_A]

Serg_A, But this can’t be , manipulation? After all, if her behavior hurt you, maybe that’s what she was aiming for? Through such behavior, they can cause a reaction in you, hook you and try to take you away from the family. Still, she liked it in bed. It really looks like manipulation, I bet.

Helga, this looks like some kind of manipulation, especially since she is a psychologist, but that’s what she’s for, a manipulator must communicate with his victim, but we don’t communicate at all)

[King Bird]

Wants to get him.

I am new to curriculum vitae Serg_A, is there anything to fight for? If there is a lot of money, no alimony, good heredity, etc. You see. what am I talking about? Otherwise, is the game worth the candle?

[Serg_A]

Maybe the girl’s hormones are going crazy? Will it cool down? (I’m even afraid to stutter about pregnancy....)

Hooligan Carrie, pregnancy from cunnilingus, I somehow didn’t think about it. How it proceeds, without complications ?

In general, it would be much easier if If we didn’t love our partners as much as we sometimes get ourselves into

Hooligan Carrie, exactly!

[Helga]

Serg_A, especially since she is a psychologist. And what disappears from the radar is what they call “causing a lack of communication,” so that a person begins to get bored, not understanding what happened, why the distance happened. In general, this is a real practice, familiar to me, they did the same to me. And the words that everything was fantastic, but there were no feelings, are also quite a manipulative device. Of course, it’s up to you to decide, but for me, it’s better to break off communication with her now, before you get even more bogged down.

It may be, of course, that I’m wrong and the reason for this behavior is different...

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King Zogu, I also don’t know about the availability of money, alimony and inheritance. But why not? A healthy man, in the prime of his life, so to speak... Not a drunk, not a drug addict. Sex is fantastic. Quite a good option.

[Serg_A]

Now, you can really feel the game and manipulation. She is trying to get you to feel some kind of emotion. He wants to tie him to himself, through a swing, creates a deficit of himself (hugs, if you want, kisses are not allowed...). It’s not for me to give advice, but I would stop communicating

Hunting a man

Come on Who hunts like that!

Here Now one of my friends wrote to me on WhatsApp that she herself periodically does this to men. And she said that she was a hunter, well, in the sense of stirring up interest in herself...

[Helga]

Serg_A, Wow, I feel like it smells like a game.

[Serg_A]

Wants to get it.

I’m new to curriculum vitae Serg_A, is there anything to fight for? If there is a lot of money, no alimony, good heredity, etc. You see. what am I talking about? Otherwise, is the game worth the candle?

I can say that she noticed that I am not greedy.

[Serg_A]

Serg_A, Wow, I feel it , smells like a game.

Holy shit!!! I was looking and thinking one thing, but it turned out to be something completely different! )))

[Helga]

Serg_A, and that’s just what she said. What else she, in her points, noticed in you, we don’t know.

yes, and the fact that she brought you down from heaven to earth, in the sense that she was not as fascinated by you as everything, "hit me on the head with a bag of dust"... Straightforward, it’s read..., which deliberately belittled your importance, in your own eyes.

Maybe we are wrong, although, It still looks like this option. In any case, keep your eyes open for her.

[Serg_A]

Serg_A, and that’s just what what she said. What else she, in her points, noticed in you, we don’t know.

yes, and the fact that she brought you down from heaven to earth, in the sense that she was not as fascinated by you as everything, "hit me on the head with a bag of dust"... Straightforward, it’s read..., which deliberately belittled your importance, in your own eyes.

Maybe we are wrong, although, It still looks like this option. In any case, keep your eyes open for her.

Then I’ll just quietly disappear...

[niqk]

Serg_A, Wow , I feel like it smells like a game.

Holy shit!!! I was looking and thinking one thing, but it turned out to be something completely different! )))

There are people who like to fuck partners who are disgusting to them! This woman makes him sick, but the whole thrill of it is to fuck her. One of my acquaintances, while drunk, opened up about how he enjoyed fucking all sorts of homeless people! And the scarier and dirtier the woman, the greater the thrill!!! He is all so polished, with a cool perfume, prosperous... And she is a motherfucker...

[Helga]

Serg_A, yes, this is the best option.

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niqk, well, for women it’s a little different. Maybe there is someone who can do the same with the homeless. But, in most cases, our perception is slightly different.

[Serg_A]

Serg_A, Wow, I feel it smells like a game.

Holy shit!!! I was looking and thinking one thing, but it turned out to be something completely different! )))

There are people who like to fuck partners who are disgusting to them! This woman makes him sick, but the whole thrill of it is to fuck her. One of my acquaintances, while drunk, opened up about how he enjoyed fucking all sorts of homeless people! And the scarier and dirtier the woman, the greater the thrill!!! He is all so polished, with a cool perfume, prosperous... And she is a motherfucker...

Thank you, niqk, for thinking that I look like a homeless person !

[niqk]

Serg_A, I think in her eyes you are somewhere at this level...

[niqk]

niqk[/ref], well, for women it’s a little different. Maybe there is someone who can do the same with the homeless. But, in most cases, our perception is a little different.

Maybe differently, but quite similar... By the way, you’ve probably seen couples , where she is a beauty all over herself, and
he is some kind of bastard. And I thought: what did she find in him?!! And just the opposite...

[Helga]

niqk, Hmm... as they say, purquois na ., maybe you’re right...

[niqk]

niqk, Hmm... how they say, purkua pa., maybe you’re right...

Or maybe not... Life is such a tricky thing...