Important clarification under the spoiler.
n- I love this creature and I can’t live without it, it will live with us, we have van love, relationships and all that.
Your actions? What do you think? What will you do?


Something familiar...Markul: 28 Aug 2023, 05:05 I came across an interesting thought, I suggest discussing it.
Important clarification under the spoiler.Your coming of age(or close to it) the child brought home something resembling a person: dyed or with an incomprehensible haircut, wildly dressed, smoking and drinking (maybe smoking), not studying or working, and says: - I love this creature and I can’t live without it, it will live with us, we have van love, relationships and all that.
Your actions? What do you think? What will you do?
I’ll tell you that a good friend of ours has just such a situation. Such a child appeared in the house. The only problem is, my son is exactly the same, if not worse. That’s how they live...Markul: 28 Aug 2023, 05:05 I came across an interesting thought, I suggest discussing it.
Important clarification under the spoiler. nn Your age (or close to it) child brought home something resembling a person: dyed or with an incomprehensible haircut, wildly dressed, smoking and drinking (maybe smoking), not studying or working, and says:
- I love this creature and I can’t live without it, it will live with us, with us van love , relationships and all that.
Your actions? What do you think? What will you do?

Why did it lead?Markul: 28 Aug 2023, 05:05 a child brought home something resembling a person: dyed or with an incomprehensible haircut, wildly dressed, smoking and drinking (maybe smoking), not studying or working, and says:




Logical. But what if the child after this goes to live and live in the attic or basement? And extends to the handle?



unfortunately, it will end like this anyway(I don’t know the way out(Hooligan Carrie: 28 Aug 2023, 07:19Logical. But what if the child after this goes to live and live in the attic or basement? And it expands to the handle?



This is the worst scenario.Hooligan Carrie: 28 Aug 2023, 07:19 But what if your own child then goes to live and live in the attic or basement? And it expands to the handle?

The main thing is that your child does not become like that. Hate won’t help. Even those who were raised in prosperous families become drug addicts.Markul: 28 Aug 2023, 10:41 There is only one way out - to instill a fierce hatred of drug addicts and other clearly destructive individuals.

I agree about education, but there should be hatred towards drugs.Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 10:50 The main thing is that your child does not become like this. Hate won’t help. Even those who were raised in prosperous families become drug addicts.
The main thing is that the child trusts you. When he becomes a teenager, it is necessary to transfer the relationship from the teacher-student format to the friends format.

How do you imagine this? Describe it. How will you vaccinate it and what will be the expected result?Markul: 28 Aug 2023, 10:55I agree about education, but there should be hatred towards drugs.Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 10:50 The main thing is that your child does not become like this. Hate won’t help. Even those who were raised in prosperous families become drug addicts.
The main thing is that the child trusts you. When he becomes a teenager, it is necessary to transfer the relationship from the teacher-student format to the friends format.

It takes a long time to explain the whole pedagogical process, but in relation to drug addicts this is what I do.Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 11:02 Describe. How will you vaccinate it and what will be the expected result?

Well, I can only wish you that the result meets all your expectations or, as it is fashionable to say now, that the result exceeds expectations)

Thank you for your support. As a result, I’m sure))Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 11:11 Well, I can only wish you that the result meets all your expectations, or as it is fashionable to say now, that the result exceeds expectations)











We need to do a whole study here.


I see that you took this issue seriously. Bring me a penguin from there, or better yet two. So that he could have a penguin friend here.

Yes, I have already saved 40 rubles. I could have gone to the store today, but the rain ruined my plans. Maybe I saved another 200 rubles.
So this is prohibited now.Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 13:24 I see that you took this issue seriously. Bring me a penguin from there, or better yet two. So that he can have a penguin friend here.

Ogest: 28 Aug 2023, 13:29Yes, I have already saved 40 rubles. I could have gone to the store today, but the rain ruined my plans. Maybe I saved another 200 rubles.
So this is prohibited now.Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 13:24 I see that you took this issue seriously. Bring me a penguin from there, or better yet two. So that he can have a penguin friend here.
n You are smuggling. Make a second and third bottom in your suitcase.Ogest: 28 Aug 2023, 13:29Yes, I have already saved 40 rubles. I could have gone to the store today, but the rain ruined my plans. Maybe I saved another 200 rubles.
So this is prohibited now.Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 13:24 I see that you took this issue seriously. Bring me a penguin from there, or better yet two. So that he can have a penguin friend here.




Keep the elephant seal for yourself, and bring me the penguins. Two.

Cruise to Antarctica “the world of icebergs and penguins” for 11 days 8,895 dollars.

If you save 40 rubles every day, then in 50 years you will save it. I will already be 81 years old. I don’t need two penguins. One will be enough.


Then stop putting it off. Go spend this 40 rubles and don’t deny yourself anything else.

I’ll go tomorrow. I hope the discount hasn’t ended.Marinka: 28 Aug 2023, 14:00 Then stop putting it off. Go spend this 40 rubles and don’t deny yourself anything else.




That is, everything depends on your son or daughter falling in love - you didn’t specify - with this creature? I would try this tactic. I would make fun of behavior patterns and habits that would never arise in your family; they look unacceptable, comical and disgusting. In no case with malice, but with sincere laughter.Markul: 28 Aug 2023, 20:00 Let’s return to the discussion of the topic.
The child brought home his "love", but "love" looks very marginal. Your actions


Put yourself in your son’s shoes. Would you enjoy jokes like this?Manfred: 29 Aug 2023, 01:15That is, everything depends on your son or daughter falling in love - you didn’t specify - with this creature? I would try this tactic. I would make fun of behavior patterns and habits that would never arise in your family; they look unacceptable, comical and disgusting. In no case with malice, but with sincere laughter.Markul: 28 Aug 2023, 20:00 Let’s return to the discussion of the topic.
The child brought home his "love", but "love" looks very marginal. Your actions
Justified ridicule is a good cure for falling in love. Your child must see for himself the foreignness of the proposed candidate.
Or have you already tried this?

From here... And here we were worried.
Of course they are unpleasant. But until he regained his sight. Then I would just thank my parents.