Male problem number 3

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I started hearing about this problem from close friends a few years ago. At first I didn’t attach any importance, I didn’t even understand. Men complained that they could not cum.
Recently, another acquaintance became involved with a woman. Or rather, she crushed him when she found out that he was divorced. So, I jokingly supported him, having learned about his new woman, but it turned out that he had not cum for a long time - he couldn’t...
There is a friend for whom it comes out at best every other time. What kind of problem is this?
I myself began to notice that it was becoming more difficult to catch the wave that leads to the finale. I have never experienced this...
We know that the first problem is a decrease in potency.
The second problem is a decrease in libido.
The first and second problems can be corrected quite well.
But the third problem....how to deal with it?
Maybe anyone has something to say about this, speak up. I will be glad to listen and discuss.

[The woman]

There is a suggestion that this is possible due to circumcision. This is true for me, because I had phimosis in early childhood. I started masturbating at the age of 12, and I still can’t help it. This generally resulted in a decrease in sensitivity. With my first woman I could suffer for two or three hours. And contrary to popular opinion - no, it’s not fun at all. You’ll probably get very tired.
Another reason may be in the head. Complexes, stereotypical images and ideas about sex, depression and everything like that. How does this affect your sex life?

[Sorcerer]

Physical reasons
Physical factors here include:

aging;
taking certain medications such as antidepressants, high blood pressure medications, anticonvulsants;
alcohol abuse;
drug addiction;
neurological diseases such as stroke, spinal cord injury, multiple sclerosis;
diabetes;
hypothyroidism;
thrombosis of penile vessels;
complications after surgery, such as prostatectomy.

[Sorcerer]

Psychological reasons
These could be:

problems in the current relationship;
fear of sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy;
anxiety, depression and other disorders;
abuse of pornography;
being raised in an environment where sex is something dirty and taboo.

[PavelNokia]

I’ve heard about this and usually it’s a problem in the head. If a man has been without a woman for a long time, he gets used to jerking off and it’s already difficult to finish with sex. A common situation is that he gets fucked but cannot cum. But you just have to work with your hand and immediately the sperm flies

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Physical reasons
Physical factors here include:

aging;
taking certain medications, such as antidepressants, drugs for high blood pressure, anticonvulsants;
alcohol abuse;
drug addiction;
neurological diseases such as stroke, spinal cord injury, multiple sclerosis;
diabetes;
hypothyroidism; thrombosis of the vessels of the penis;
complications after surgery, for example prostatectomy.

Everyone is in their sixties, everyone is more or less healthy, no one drinks, does not smoke (one in five smokes). Not everyone has pressure.

Psychological reasons
These could be:

problems in the current relationship;
fear of sexually transmitted infections, or pregnancy;
anxiety, depression and other disorders;
abuse of pornography;
being raised in an environment where sex is something dirty and taboo.

This can be excluded completely.

I’ve heard about this and usually it’s a problem in the head. If a man has been without a woman for a long time, he gets used to jerking off and it’s already difficult to finish with sex. A common situation is that he gets fucked but cannot cum. But you just have to work with your hand and the sperm immediately flies

There are no common coincidences either. One only lived for a few months without women. Three have more than one. I have one, but daily sex. None of the above points suits me at all. I’m just starting to feel weak, but I’m the youngest. I have no health problems, I’m in a great mood, I sleep well.
No matter how much I searched on the Internet for something on this problem, I didn’t find anything sensible...
It seems that men have sex after fifty dies in any case, the first two problems are behind the scenes.

[Sorcerer]

No matter how much I looked on the Internet for something on this problem, I didn’t find anything sensible...
It seems that sex in men after fifty dies in any case, the first two problems for

no need to search the Internet and look for self-medication. It may seem to you that your health is ideal, but in fact it may simply not manifest itself, although according to your questions it has already given the first sign. Therefore, you and your friends should not ask questions on a porn forum, but contact a medical institution and see specialists.

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no need to search the Internet and look for self-medication. It may seem to you that your health is ideal, but in fact it may simply not manifest itself, although according to your questions it has already given the first sign. Therefore, you and your friends should not ask questions on the porn forum, but go to a medical institution and see specialists

I just wanted to talk about this problem, to hear thoughts. Specialists? It’s not even funny anymore. The Internet is not only social networks, it is statistics, it is science, it is technology. But as I already wrote, it seems that the majority do not live to see the third problem; these comrades only lived to see this problem because they corrected the first two.
Are men over fifty a rarity on the forum?

[Evgenii7519]

I started hearing about this problem from friends close to my age several years ago. At first I didn’t attach any importance, I didn’t even understand. Men complained that they could not cum.
Recently, another acquaintance became involved with a woman. Or rather, she crushed him when she found out that he was divorced. So, I jokingly supported him, having learned about his new woman, but it turned out that he had not cum for a long time - he couldn’t...
There is a friend for whom it comes out at best every other time. What kind of problem is this?
I myself began to notice that it was becoming more difficult to catch the wave that leads to the finale. I have never experienced this...
We know that the first problem is a decrease in potency.
The second problem is a decrease in libido.
The first and second problems can be corrected quite well.
But the third problem....how to deal with it?
Maybe anyone has something to say about this, speak up. I’ll be glad to listen and discuss.

Hmm...maybe the problem is due to frequent masturbation...
Yes, there is such a thing. But a smart girl is not offended by this) she finishes the job with her hand, or, sometimes, catches it in a ring with her fingers at the entrance to the vagina. It turns out that you visit the vagina, but also touch it with your fingers, additional stimulation...

Or maybe masturbation has nothing to do with it... Maybe with age...

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Damn...maybe the problem is due to frequent masturbation...
Yes, there is such a thing. But a smart girl is not offended by this) she finishes the job with her hand, or, sometimes, catches it in a ring with her fingers at the entrance to the vagina. It turns out that you visit the vagina, but also touch it with your fingers, additional stimulation...

Or maybe masturbation has nothing to do with it... Maybe with age

Yes, masturbation has nothing to do with it...I don’t jerk off.
Of course, with age... But I don’t want to give up yet... How old are you?

[career]

We know that the first problem is a decrease in potency.
The second problem is a decrease in libido.

what’s the difference?

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We know that the first problem is a decrease in potency.
The second problem is a decrease in libido.

what’s the difference ?

don’t know the difference between an erection and desire?

[career]

do you know the difference between an erection and desire?

no desire, no erection

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no attraction, no erection

Why did you write this?
You don’t know that the erection usually goes away first ?

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Yes suggestion that this is possible due to circumcision. This is true for me, because I had phimosis in early childhood. I started masturbating at the age of 12, and I still can’t help it. This generally resulted in a decrease in sensitivity. With my first woman I could suffer for two or three hours. And contrary to popular opinion - no, it’s not fun at all. You’ll probably get very tired.
Another reason may be in the head. Complexes, stereotypical images and ideas about sex, depression and everything like that. Oh how this affects your sex life

This all takes place at a young age, and this is a serious problem, but I’m talking about a series of age-related changes. I assume that the third problem will cover after fifty those who were not covered by the first two.

[Stressed]

My husband has been like this since he was young, he stands, but does not cum. I thought this was normal. 4 years ago we decided to improve our health. Changed the diet to low-carbohydrate. I calculated the minerals and took the courses. Added amino acids that are no longer produced by the body. Result: cums 1 to 3 times per night, sex every day. Well, plus side effects, I cured my liver, recovered from a stroke, lost 75 kg. Everything is solvable

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Nadiin,
How old is your husband ?
It can be assumed that your husband had a disruption in the functioning of the body that you coped with.
It is possible that after fifty you will encounter age-related changes, which sooner or later happen, as I understand it, to everyone .
Thank you for describing your case.

[Stressed]

He is now 48 and I see, but he feels only improvements, confirmed by tests

[Pistonio]

In fact, it’s very scary. And the worst thing is the understanding that what if this is forever! I encountered this last year, around the summer. First, libido and desire for sex disappeared. I was on vacation in the summer, went to the village, my wife worked in the city. I had to jerk off every other day. My wife sometimes sent photos and videos with toys. I got up without any problems, jerk off everything is fine.
But something went wrong.
The desire for sex has disappeared, the penis is standing after the wife’s caresses, it seems normal, but there is no desire. You cum without pleasure. And after half a year I began to notice that when I finished, I stopped feeling orgasm. Just sperm flows out and I don’t feel anything, and there’s not enough sperm, it’s clear that there’s no libido, and there’s not enough sperm.
Lifestyle, average, not on proper nutrition. But I abuse beer almost every evening.
I understand that this is very scary for me. I don’t know what to do. I bought Dapoxitin, but even it is powerless. Although you take a pill before sex, and an hour and a half of sex is guaranteed. But it doesn’t help here. What to do?

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I bought Dapoxitin, but even it is powerless. Although you take a pill before sex, and an hour and a half of sex is guaranteed. But it doesn’t help here. What to do?

Dapoxetine is used to prevent premature ejaculation. On the contrary, it seems to reduce libido and orgasm, like an antidepressant by inhibiting the reuptake of serotonin.
First, you need to check the hormones: thyroid hormones, testosterone, estradiol, prolactin.
They say beer raises estradiol. If so, then it in turn raises prolactin, and prolactin suppresses libido.
Is your weight normal? Is there fat? Fat raises estradiol, aromatizing testosterone.
Do you take antidepressants?

[Fargal94]

I had such crap when I walked to the left, but everything was fine with my wife. Right off the top of my head)

[Pistonio]

Dapoxetine is used to prevent premature ejaculation. On the contrary, it seems to reduce libido and orgasm, like an antidepressant by inhibiting the reuptake of serotonin.
First, you need to check the hormones: thyroid hormones, testosterone, estradiol, prolactin.
They say beer raises estradiol. If so, then it, in turn, raises prolactin, and prolactin suppresses libido.
Is your weight normal? Is there fat? Fat raises estradiol, aromatizing testosterone.
Do you take antidepressants?

I took Dapoxetine at the beginning of last year, due to the fact that I finished a little faster than wife. There were no problems with potency and libido.
My weight has been about 93-95 kg for several years, I can see my penis, my stomach does not hang down. Didn’t take any medications at all. Only beer in the evenings, I won’t get a hangover. I work during the day, beer in the evening, 4-5 liters.

[Fargal94]

Dapoxetine is used to prevent premature ejaculation. On the contrary, it seems to reduce libido and orgasm, like an antidepressant by inhibiting the reuptake of serotonin.
First, you need to check the hormones: thyroid hormones, testosterone, estradiol, prolactin.
They say beer raises estradiol. If so, then it, in turn, raises prolactin, and prolactin suppresses libido.
Is your weight normal? Is there fat? Fat raises estradiol, aromatizing testosterone.
Do you take antidepressants?

For several years my weight has been about 93-95 kg, I can see my penis, my stomach is not hangs down. Didn’t take any medications at all. Only beer in the evenings, I won’t get a hangover. I work all day, beer in the evening, 4-5 liters.

My friend, beer makes itself known, especially in such quantities! I’m not going to play the righteous man, but think about it, the choice is yours!

[Stressed]

But I abuse beer almost every evening.

Dear, you yourself answered all the questions, but it increases the level of female hormones in the male body, which when leads, only visually, to an enlargement of the abdomen and breasts. And about the internal processes of the whole organism, we can briefly say that you do not protect it. Find an alternative to beer!

[Monstrous]

beer in the evening, 4-5 liters.

Is there any error? 4-5 l... Isn’t the order of the numbers confusing?
Try drinking Proproten-100 for a month to prevent the desire to swell in the evening. Of course, beer is a good accomplice to idleness, it makes you feel relaxed, a kind of free cheese - not every mouse sees a mousetrap.

[Fargal94]

But I abuse beer almost every evening.

Dear, you yourself answered all the questions, but it increases the level of female hormones in the male body, which leads, only visually, to an enlargement of the abdomen and chest. And about the internal processes of the whole organism, we can briefly say that you do not protect it. Find an alternative to beer!

Here are the words of a wise woman, listen to them!

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I took Dapoxetine at the beginning of last year, due to the fact that I finished a little faster than my wife. There were no problems with potency and libido.
My weight for several years was about 93-95 kg, I can see my penis, my stomach does not hang down. Didn’t take any medications at all. Only beer in the evenings, I won’t get a hangover. I work all day, beer in the evening, 4-5 liters

How tall are you? Waist? 4-5 liters is a lot...

[Fargal94]

What is your height? Waist? 4-5 liters is a lot...

That’s a LOT!

[Pistonio]

Are there any errors? 4-5 l... Isn’t the order of the numbers confusing?
Try drinking "Proproten-100" for a month to prevent the desire to swell in the evening. Of course, beer is a good helper of idleness, it makes you relax, it’s like free cheese - not every mouse sees a mousetrap

I wouldn’t say that beer is free cheese, on average 13-15 thousand per month were spent on beer, and in the summer all 23 thousand money.

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I wouldn’t say that beer is free cheese, on average 13-15 thousand were spent on beer per month, and in the summer all 23 thousand of money

It took a while , the beer actually frothed).

[Fargal94]

For a year, just a normal resort with my wife and a great vacation!

[red_fox]

Men complained that they couldn’t come.

There is such a thing. It’s not that it’s impossible to cum, but it takes much longer and the sensations have become as if erased. Like a very thick condom.
Even interest in sex has decreased. I read that there are a lot of reasons, incl. chronic diseases. What can we do, we will live with it.

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I read that there are a lot of reasons, incl. chronic diseases

And what are the reasons?

[red_fox]

And what are the reasons?

Diseases that lead to loss of sensitivity:
• Balanoposthitis - inflammatory processes in the extreme flesh and the head itself. This is mainly due to phimosis - a narrowed foreskin that prevents the front part of the penis from fully opening. Inflammation leads to pathological changes in nerve endings. • Diabetes mellitus or its severe complication – diabetic polyneuropathy, which provokes pathology of nerve cells due to metabolic failure.
• Chronic inflammation of the prostate gland (prostatitis), accompanied by a feeling of slight numbness of the head, blurred orgasm, and disappearance of natural lubrication.
• Damage to the central nervous system (multiple sclerosis, syringomyelia).
• Cardiovascular diseases associated with impaired blood circulation and tissue nutrition.
• Problems in the lumbosacral spine (the genital centers are located there). Most often these are hernias located near nerve fibers, as well as osteochondrosis.
• Damage to nerve endings (frostbite, blows, pinched head). Under such circumstances, it is very difficult to answer the question: how to increase the sensitivity of the head; only a doctor can answer it. It can decrease due to smoking, drugs, and alcohol consumption. Long-term intoxication damages the nerve tissues of the brain responsible for sexual sensations. Even a single dose of alcohol can lead to a lack of orgasm with any type of stimulation.

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Diseases that lead to loss of sensitivity

The listed is not common... These are all diseases and injuries. Doctors don’t know the reason.
I recently came across an article that looked at an increase in serotonin levels as a cause of age-related anorgasmia.

[red_fox]

The listed is not common..

Well, why, it is common: prostatitis, cardiovascular diseases, problems in the lumbosacral spine. The latter is generally the scourge of office workers, prostatitis affects all layers.

No, of course I understand that on this forum everything is done three times a day and every day (the wife, the mistress and her goat) and they don’t have prostatitis, but the majority of them don’t sit here.

[etc]

Well, why, it’s common: prostatitis, cardiovascular diseases, problems in the lumbosacral spine. The latter is generally the scourge of office workers, prostatitis affects all layers

When I had prostatitis, I only ran to the toilet often, but jerked off and fucked with the same frequency .
These diseases can disrupt orgasmic function, but, as a rule, do not.
I have none of the above, but I feel weakened, like my peers who have retained potency and attraction. That’s why I don’t pay attention to diseases as a cause.

No, of course I understand that everyone on this forum three times a day and every day (wife, mistress and her goat) does not have prostatitis, but the majority of people do not sit here.

Different needs meet, and some exaggerate. But not everyone has prostatitis, and not everyone has prostatitis that disrupts their function.
Our doctors are also smart people, sometimes there is not enough evil for their narrow-mindedness. They learn the protocols and, as if in blinders, they sit and treat, and sometimes cripple.