I can’t cum for a long time. How to cum faster?

[Pridakon]

Good luck, gentlemen, forum members!
I live and this is not the first relationship that has a global problem:
- I can’t cum quickly, like most (in 3-15 minutes). My copulations always take 40-90 minutes (abstaining from jerking off does not change the situation, and the jerking itself does not last much less). I have never experienced problems with erection - again, on the contrary, it’s a stake.
- My libido, it seems, has been off the charts since birth. I would like to fuck, interrupting only for sleep, food and shower.
- The girls are delighted for the first week, of course, but then I literally fuck them and they avoid me. This is how my first marriage broke up when, in the 4th year, I had sex less than 10 times in the entire year (yes, in a year)!

Question for male homo sapiens sapiens: how to cum faster? I understand that all advertising is aimed at prolongation, but I’m doing the opposite here. Even urologists don’t believe me.

Question for female homo sapiens sapiens: how to keep your libido in this mode and soften the blow?