How to explain the process of conception to a child

[Nick]

My 9-year-old son asks for a brother or sister, and constantly asks how we will make it?, or where we will get it? I don’t want to tell him about storks, or about cabbage, I want to tell him the truth as it is, in fact, somehow carefully, so that in the future he will not have any psychological trauma about this if he finds out about this somewhere on the street, or at school. Just how can I tell him about this, that dad has a penis and dad inserts his penis into my female organ, that is, into my vagina, and tell him everything in order. Who can share their experience?

[Venus]

My 9-year-old son asks for a brother or sister, and constantly asks how we will make it?, or where we will get it? I don’t want to tell him about storks, or about cabbage, I want to tell him the truth as it really is, how- then be careful so that in the future he does not have any psychological trauma about this if he finds out this somewhere on the street, or at school. Just how can I tell him about this, that dad has a penis and dad inserts his penis into my female organ, that is, into my vagina, and tell him everything in order. Who can share their experience?

))) Ahaha. At the age of 9, children already know where children come from)))

[loving]

I remember when I was a child, my parents told me that the Stork brought it, and somehow in my childhood no questions arose and there were no conversations on this topic

[Andrey Lukashov]

My 9-year-old son asks for a brother or sister, and constantly asks how we will make it?, or where we will get it? I don’t want to tell him about storks, or about cabbage, I want to tell him the truth as it really is, how- then be careful so that in the future he does not have any psychological trauma about this if he finds out this somewhere on the street, or at school. Just how can I tell him about this, that dad has a penis and dad inserts his penis into my female organ, that is, into my vagina, and tell him everything in order. Who can share their experience?

What is there to explain? It’s better to immediately show Everything is perceived visually much easier

[Wanderer]

One old joke on the topic.
Mom in the kitchen at the new stove. A child comes in.
- Mom, I’ve been wanting to ask you something important for a long time...
- Ask dad.
He leaves to see dad.
- Dad, I have one difficult question...
- Oh yes! At your age you should already know this. You see, when a bee flies to a flower...
- No, dad, I want to ask why there is a red light on the new stove?
- How do I know, ask an electrician!
He goes to his mother.
- Well, dad, did he explain to you?
- He said to ask an electrician!

[Venus]

Here’s what I found:
The age at which it is appropriate to start a conversation about sex depends on the child’s personality. Some children actively explore their bodies and sensations, while others show no interest. The average age for conversation is six years and a little later. It is better not to postpone the conversation beyond 9–10 years.
General rules for talking about where children come from:

Initiate the dialogue yourself.
Use examples, to talk about sexual relationships: situations from life (for example, a child met a pregnant woman on the street), films, books, advertising (the child saw a scene of a passionate kiss).
Do not rush into details, focus on the child’s age and interest to the topic. The younger the child, the less information he needs.
Tell the truth. It is important for parents to forget about euphemisms and “childish” names of genital organs, and not to tell tales about storks and cabbage. It is necessary to explain bodily processes to the child simply, but in detail, without concealment or softening. In addition, the truth is respect for the child and the basis for a trusting relationship with him.
Don’t forget about feelings. Talk about them and help your child understand what he himself may feel, what you feel in relationships with the opposite sex.
Any question on sex education topics should receive an immediate answer. It should not contain inventions and fables, appeals to religion, mythology, esotericism, or philosophy. Only specific knowledge of anatomy. You see burning eyes and hear endless questions - tell us more, get additional books and initiate such conversations yourself. If the child is bored, it means it’s not time yet, give minimal information.

[Tanya]

My 9-year-old son asks for a brother or sister, and constantly asks how we will make it?, or where we will get it? I don’t want to tell him about storks, or about cabbage, I want to tell him the truth as it really is, how- then be careful so that in the future he does not have any psychological trauma about this if he finds out this somewhere on the street, or at school. Just how can I tell him about this, that dad has a penis and dad inserts his penis into my female organ, that is, into my vagina, and tell him everything in order. Who can share their experience?

Well, and also add clarity for the truth....

[Eustace]

Nikkka, I’m 9 years old, everything in the yard they told me that I could also teach Oldov something!!!

[Venus]

Nikkka, I’m 9 years old , in the yard they told everything in such a way that I could also teach Oldov something!!!

))) By the time I was 9 years old, all the boys I knew showed their pussy))) and even let me touch .
porn was also shown on phones)))

[loving]

None of my parents told me) I learned from the boys at school who showed porn cards

[Tanya]

And I saw the first naked man only at the university. And at school she was a diligent girl.

[PrematureCum]

The first time my mother explained it to me was when I was 7 years old, without details. I only understood that the male organ was inserted into the female one, and then I was not very interested in the details.
A few years later, she told me that soon a thick white liquid would come out of my penis - sperm and children would appear from it.

[Tanya]

A few years later she told me that soon a thick white liquid would come out of my penis - sperm and children would come from it.

Sex education. The basics so to speak.

[Tapkin]

I understand that I’m the only one here who figured it all out on my own
!))))
*years old like this at 30

[Eustace]

I understand that I’m the only one here who figured it all out on my own
!))))
*years old like this at 30

what time!!! what a stupid boy!!!

[BUGOR]

When I was a child, my mother told me that she found it in cabbage in the garden.

[Tapkin]

I understand that I’m the only one here who figured it all out on my own
!))))
*years old like this at 30
:facepalm:

what time!!! what a stupid boy!!!

nHey..me too, I found an indigo boy!)))

[Pilgrim]

By the age of 9, all the boys I knew showed their pussy))) and even let me touch it.
they showed porn on their phones too)))

Oh God, they even showed it on the phone, I feel like a dinosaur, when growing up even an ordinary telephone in an apartment was very rare, but even without the Internet and phones, with samizdat in short supply, we also knew a lot at that age... :oops :

[Venus]

By the age of 9, all the boys I knew showed their pussy))) and even let me touch it.
they also showed porn on their phones)))

Oh God, they even showed it on the phone, I feel like a dinosaur, when growing up even an ordinary telephone in an apartment was very rare, but even without the Internet and telephones, with samizdat in short supply, we also knew a lot at that age...

I think that there is no fundamental difference where they saw who))) The main thing is that they saw)) I’m 9 years was in 2001. There were no smartphones yet, but there were push-button ones with small screens. The boys showed a lot of murders. It was so creepy, and one woman was beaten and a huge stone was thrown on her head, then I couldn’t sleep... this picture was in front of my eyes.
I now understand why many people hate murder. They have been accustomed to them since childhood...