How to get rid of tormenting baseless jealousy?

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 How to get rid of tormenting baseless jealousy?

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On Friday, my boyfriend and I were at my friend’s birthday party, and my boyfriend was staring at her other friend Tanya. And she noticed this and started making eyes at him. Of all of us, the birthday girl’s friends, she is the tallest, the largest, and looks not like us 20-25, but 30 years old. Although she is younger than me, she looks 5 years older. Her breasts and butt are large. They were sitting opposite and I saw him staring straight at her. Then she went outside to smoke with another friend, and mine followed them, although he doesn’t even smoke. Then they returned and she also started making eyes at him and smiling. And now I’m torn with jealousy. I went to VKontakte and saw that he had added her as a friend. And damn it, I understand that he’s still with me, and liking the photos doesn’t mean anything, but I’m really jealous. Most likely this is due to lack of self-confidence. I’m short and don’t have big ones like hers. Apparently my subconscious tells me that I am inferior to her in everything. Although I look much younger, it’s still the same. And this is for a girl I saw once in my life. This has never happened before! So what should I do???
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Give the guy a hit on the head. So that he doesn’t stare at other women. Well, she too. So that she doesn’t make eyes...
If the guy was in love. He wouldn’t pay attention to other girls...
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As long as I’ve known him, this is the first time this has happened to him. There were a lot of girls there, and he was staring at Tanya. Although she looks older than us and is large herself
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YanaMahaon99: 05 Jun 2024, 08:50 As long as I’ve known him, this is the first time this has happened to him. There were a lot of girls there, and he was staring at Tanya. Although she looks older than us and is large in her own right
Well...maybe magic...she bewitched him...
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YanaMahaon99: 05 Jun 2024, 08:21 On Friday, my boyfriend and I were at my friend’s birthday party, and my boyfriend was staring at her other friend Tanya. And she noticed this and started making eyes at him. Of all of us, the birthday girl’s friends, she is the tallest, the largest, and looks not like us 20-25, but 30 years old. Although she is younger than me, she looks 5 years older. Her breasts and butt are large. They were sitting opposite and I saw him staring straight at her. Then she went outside to smoke with another friend, and mine followed them, although he doesn’t even smoke. Then they returned and she also started making eyes at him and smiling. And now I’m torn with jealousy. I went to VKontakte and saw that he had added her as a friend. And damn it, I understand that he’s still with me, and liking the photos doesn’t mean anything, but I’m really jealous. Most likely this is due to lack of self-confidence. I’m short and don’t have big ones like hers. Apparently my subconscious tells me that I am inferior to her in everything. Although I look much younger, it’s still the same. And this is for a girl I saw once in my life. This has never happened before! This is what I should do???
In this case, jealousy is not groundless. Make an appointment with her and tell her that you will rip out all her hair if she doesn’t leave your side.
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YanaMahaon99: 05 Jun 2024, 08:21 Most likely this is due to lack of self-confidence
Solve this problem first. And jealousy will disappear, and your men will stop staring at others
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YanaMahaon99, sometimes he is a substitute along the way...
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Venus: 05 Jun 2024, 09:59 YanaMahaon99, along the way sometimes he is a substitute
What substitution?!
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Venus: 05 Jun 2024, 09:59 Agree to meet with her and tell her that you will pull out all her hair if she doesn’t leave you alone
This won’t help at all. First, we need to eliminate the problem of self-doubt and stop judging everyone by “younger and older.” You need to focus on your strengths!! And be “smart” in sex!!
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Anatolich: 05 Jun 2024, 11:58
Venus: 05 Jun 2024, 09:59 Agree to meet her and tell her that you will pull out all her hair if she doesn’t leave yours
This is definitely not will help. First, we need to eliminate the problem of self-doubt and stop judging everyone by “younger and older.” You need to focus on your strengths!! And to be “smart” in sex!!
Her boyfriend is flirting with someone else, and she is unsure of herself?
You in In a store near your home, a cunning and unscrupulous saleswoman will cheat, and you will delve into yourself and think why she is cheating you? Will you focus on your strengths? Will the buyer be smart? Believe me, she will shortchange you until you threaten... this saleswoman.
While TS is delving into herself, her boyfriend will be taken away from her.
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