Should cunnilingus be allowed?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 08:37

I’m dating a much older guy. I don’t want to lose my virginity yet. The guy insists on at least cunnilingus, and promises that he won’t demand anything from me in return. If I allow him, will he force me to take a “reciprocal step” - a blowjob, and if I refuse, will he be able to manage in a relationship only with cunnilingus, without his own satisfaction?

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 08:39

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 08:37 I am dating a much older guy. I don’t want to lose my virginity yet. The guy insists on at least cunnilingus, and promises that he won’t demand anything from me in return. If I allow him, will he force me to take a "reciprocal step" - a blowjob, and if I refuse, will he be able to manage in a relationship only with cunnilingus, without his own satisfaction?

And you start with cunnilingus! If you want, you can give a blowjob. And then, maybe, you’ll get your ass... You just have to want it!

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 08:41

And who am I going to give cunnilingus to? I don’t date girls...

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 09:13

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 08:41 And who am I going to perform cunnilingus on? I don’t date girls...

Can you not only do cunnilingus, but also receive it? Want?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 09:33

niqk, you quoted my post, but didn’t read it. ..

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 09:39

On weekends we go to his dacha. I’m afraid that if I don’t allow him anything again, he’ll leave me.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 09:49

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 09:39 On the weekend we go to his dacha. I’m afraid that if I don’t allow him anything again, he will leave me.

So it’s not clear why you don’t allow him anything? You can preserve your virginity and indulge yourself to your heart’s content!

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 10:23

niqk, because I’m afraid that in return he will demand blow job! I asked about this - is it possible to allow cunnilingus, but not give anything in response. Or a grown man can’t stand it?

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 10:31

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 10:23 niqk, because I’m afraid that in return he will demand a blowjob! I asked about this - is it possible to allow cunnilingus, but not give anything in response. Or will a grown man not stand it like that?

You are lovely! I think if you let him do cunnilingus, and also clearly demonstrate how much pleasure you had, then it may not even come to a blowjob! As a last resort, lick his head - naked! - and you will jerk off from the heart! He will cum on you with joy!

Unread post by **Dishonor** » 06 Jul 2021, 10:40

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 10:31 lick his head - naked

I hope this is humorous advice. Licking the head - isn’t that a blowjob? But I’m not ready yet.
T. that is, any man in such a situation will force him to give a blowjob...

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 10:47

For some reason my message is under a different name. Okay it does not matter. It turns out that so far everyone believes that oral sex with him is only possible when it is mutual. And since I’m not ready for a blowjob, then I need to stop dating him myself.

Unread post by **Vladimir** » 06 Jul 2021, 10:52

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 10:47 For some reason my message is under a different name. Okay it does not matter. It turns out that so far everyone believes that oral sex with him is only possible when it is mutual. And since I’m not ready for a blowjob, then I need to stop dating him myself.

If I’m not ready for sex (it doesn’t matter: oral, classic...), then just wait, any guy will understand and won’t force him. And to break up only because of the assumption that he will begin to force you after cunnilingus...

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:05

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 10:47 For some reason my message is under a different name. Okay it does not matter. It turns out that so far everyone believes that oral sex with him is only possible when it is mutual. And since I’m not ready for a blowjob, then I need to stop dating him myself.

Why did you decide that oral sex can only be mutual? There are a lot of options! He gives you cunnilingus! And you allow yourself to be fucked between your tits, between your buttocks, in your navel, armpit, fist... Yes, give him any convenient place and let him rejoice!

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:07

Vladimir, so what is your advice - to allow him cunnilingus, and a categorical "no" to any proposals, or no cunnilingus, and see if he stops communicating with me?

Unread post by **Vladimir** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:10

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 11:07Marina12345

Say directly what you want, without hints, allegories, metaphors... In truth, we like it when our wife/girlfriend speaks directly) If she demands a blowjob, then here draw your conclusion already)

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:15

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 11:05 There are a lot of options! He gives you cunnilingus! And you allow yourself to be fucked between your tits, between your buttocks, in your navel, your armpit, your fist...

Of the listed options, it is still acceptable for me to "play" " with his dick in his hand. But wouldn’t that make him hotter? And how to agree on this in advance, to say directly: “You lick me, and I’ll do everything for you with my hand”? Won’t he be offended?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:18

Vladimir: ↑06 Jul 2021, 11:10 Tell me directly what you want,

I want to continue meeting with him, but without sex for now. But apparently I’m ready for cunnilingus. Definitely not for a blow job.

Unread post by **Vladimir** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:22

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 11:18 I want to continue dating him, but without sex for now. But apparently I’m ready for cunnilingus. Definitely not for a blowjob.

God, just say so, I want cunnilingus but without sex, because...) everything will be fine)

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:31

My friends generally advise me to get drunk at the dacha and see how it goes. But then he will consider me a whore? If I do something to him while drunk...

Unread post by **Vladimir** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:36

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 11:31 Friends generally advise getting drunk at the dacha, and that’s how it goes. But then he will consider me a whore? If I do something to him while drunk...

I can’t say anything, I’m not your guy)

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:43

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 11:31 Friends generally advise getting drunk at the dacha, and that’s how it goes. But then he will consider me a whore? If I do something to him when I’m drunk...

Whatever, you shouldn’t get drunk! You can break such wood! Sometimes you don’t even expect that you’re capable of this!

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 11:56

niqk, and without alcohol, offer him my hand with him"play"? I’m afraid that out of embarrassment I won’t be the first to offer this to him.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:03

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 11:56 niqk, how can he do without alcohol? offer my hand to "play" with him? I’m afraid that out of embarrassment I won’t be the first to offer him this.

Baby, have you never dated boys? Why should you offer anything? The boy will offer, and you must accept or refuse and direct his activity in the direction you want! For example, point to your pussy and make it clear about cunnilingus. And take his dignity into your tender hands and
give him pleasure! Silently! Without any offers! Remember - you are the queen of the ball!

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:09

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:03 Have you never met boys

I have, but so far there has been nothing but kisses.
How can I take it in my hand if I’m always wearing it? Should I unbutton his jeans while kissing? Well, then the same question again - who will he consider me to be, a whore?

Unread post by **Vladimir** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:16

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:09 I met, but so far there was nothing except kisses.
How can I take it in my hand if I’m always wearing it? Should I unbutton his jeans while kissing? Well, then again the same question - who will he consider me to be, a whore?

Don’t think anything, you’re imposing these thoughts on yourself, you’re not ready for sex, don’t have sex, but someday you will return to this issue and I hope by that time you will have more courage. I wish you success

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:30

Vladimir: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:16Good luck to you

Thank you. But I’ll probably go to the dacha anyway. Until Saturday, I’ll listen to my friends and read advice on the forums. It’s not just comic nonsense that people write here, someone advises serious things.
In the end, if I come to the dacha and change my mind about allowing him anything, he won’t rape me.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:35

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:09 I met, but so far there was nothing except kisses.
How can I take it in my hand if I’m always wearing it? Should I unbutton his jeans while kissing? Well, then again the same question - who will he consider me to be, a whore?

Dear girl, how old is your boyfriend?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:37

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:35 How old is your boyfriend?

About 40. Divorced, lives alone.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:43

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:37 About 40. Divorced, lives alone.

Hospedya! So why are you, my dear, racking your brains?! He is an experienced man and knows how to treat girls! Especially with young people! Give him completely
all the initiative! Just warn me that you are bye! - Do you want to remain a girl? And for bold experiments - bye! - not ready! That’s all! And accept the pleasure
quite passively...

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:49

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:43 Give him completely
all the initiative! Just warn me that you are bye! - you want to remain a girl!

Well, that is. allow me to undress myself and give me cunnilingus? And then say that I’ll play with my hand, but nothing more?

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 12:53

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:49 Well, that is. allow me to undress myself and give me cunnilingus? And then say that I’ll play with my hand, but nothing more?

Why do you think that he will definitely undress you? Did you hint to him about something?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:09

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 12:53 why do you think that he will definitely undress you?

I have already undressed in front of him at his request. He said that he really liked admiring me. At the same time, I only looked, did not touch.
Therefore, if it comes to cunnilingus, of course he will undress.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:10

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:09 I have already undressed in front of him at his request. He said that he really liked admiring me. At the same time, I only looked, did not touch.
Therefore, if it comes to cunnilingus, of course he will undress.

Did you ask him for cunnilingus?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:12

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:10 did you ask him for cunnilingus?

No! He insists! This is where my post started...

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:18

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:12 No! He insists! This is where my post began...

He never touched you - he just looked at you? Does he insist on cunnilingus? Quite strange... And he insists on a blowjob?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:25

niqk, just watched while I was naked, so that don’t scare. And so he kisses me, and touches me through my clothes, and strokes my legs, and between my legs. But I don’t let him get into his panties. That’s why he asks for cunnilingus and promises that he will stop there.
But we already decided that I would play with him with my hand.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:29

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:25 niqk, just watched while I she was naked so as not to scare her. And so he kisses me, and touches me through my clothes, and strokes my legs, and between my legs. But I don’t let him get into his panties. That’s why he asks for cunnilingus and promises that he will stop there.
But we have already decided that I will play with him with my hand.

So I’m telling you - lead the process! But not directly, but indirectly. Direct his actions towards your interests. Do you want cunnilingus?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:34

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:18 And he insists on a blowjob

When we first met and he gave me a lift for the first time, he reached under my skirt. I said I was a virgin. Then he suggested it in my mouth. I refused, I was offended, and he didn’t talk about blowjobs anymore.
But I understand that after cunnilingus I will return to this topic.

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:36

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:29Do you want cunnilingus?

I don’t know, probably yes. All my friends advise me to try it.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:37

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:34 When we first met and he gave me a lift for the first time, he reached under my skirt. I said I was a virgin. Then he suggested it in my mouth. I refused, I was offended, and he didn’t talk about blowjobs anymore.
But I understand that after cunnilingus he will return to this topic.

And if he returns, you turn him around. Like, I’m not ready yet! Bye! I can somehow agree to cunnilingus, but not to a blowjob. Bye! Then, someday... we can have a look...

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:42

niqk, I hope it will be so. If only my hand was enough for him to satisfy. The girls say nothing complicated, the guys are always happy after that.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:44

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:42 niqk, I hope it will be so . If only my hand was enough for him to satisfy. The girls say nothing complicated, the guys are always happy after that.

Curious, have you never masturbated to a guy?

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:46

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:44 Curious, have you never masturbated to a guy?

Of course not. I’m telling you, I only kissed people my age. Well, I watched porn, of course.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:51

Marina12345: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:46
Of course not. I’m telling you, I only kissed people my age. Well, I watched porn, of course.

Well, porn is a good help... The main thing, don’t forget: you are the Prom Queen!
nBy the way, write how everything goes for you...

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 13:57

niqk: ↑06 Jul 2021, 13:51 By the way, write how everything goes for you...

When I return from the dacha, I will definitely write. It will be on Sun or Mon. I hope my friend doesn’t read this site, otherwise I would die of shame for this correspondence...

Unread post by **Guest** » 06 Jul 2021, 14:04

And I believe that after cunnilingus you will be inclined to have sex, because after it, if you do it correctly, you will get an orgasm. And with a hand - this is good for a peer, but not like a 40-year-old man. This won’t be enough for him. And if it’s not a secret, how old are you?

Unread post by **Guest** » 06 Jul 2021, 14:07

Many men get their way... you understand, and then they leave, what the girl feels at that moment he will no longer care. There were a lot of acquaintances who played who would deprive the most virgins... animals in a word, and the fact that he saw you naked... this is step 1... cunnilingus the second... am I wrong? The continuation will be clear... after all will do cunnilingus once, then with 10 and then eventually for sex

Unread post by **Guest** » 06 Jul 2021, 14:08

And don’t forget in the minds of many men there are no - that means yes...

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 14:28

Guest: ↑06 Jul 2021, 14:04 If it’s not a secret, how old are you?

It’s no secret, everything here is anonymous - I finished 10th grade.

Unread post by **Marina 12345** » 06 Jul 2021, 14:32

Guest: ↑06 Jul 2021, 14:07 in the end he will scam you for sex

We have been communicating for 2 months, but he didn’t rape me. And in general he never did anything against my wishes.

Should cunnilingus be allowed?

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