A girl experiences pain during penetration

[JackTheJack]

P20 It’s been six months since we started having sex with a girl. She’s 18, they were each other’s first. The first time, of course, she was in pain, but more than six months have passed, and still the pain remains. We always use a condom. It always hurts during penetration, after some time depending on the situation, when it is pleasant, and when the pain does not go away at all. The penis is average, 15-16 cm, normal missionary position. A couple of months after the first time I bought lubricant, it got better, but it still hurts when it penetrates, and then it doesn’t always get better. She doesn’t complain, there’s no need to beg, she seems to want it herself. But I still feel uneasy, I don’t want only me to have fun. There were times when she felt very pleasant, but more often it was either pleasant and painful, or only pain. I don’t know why this could be, she says that it could be because of the condoms, she says that they rub (there was also a moment when I moved my dick around my pussy without a condom and at some point I almost inserted it or even inserted it, but just a little bit, she said that it was very pleasant then), but I doubt it, maybe because this happens irregularly with us (from 1 to 5 times a month), maybe because of the posture, maybe due to the fact that she is not attracted to me (although then there would be nothing), maybe because of my inexperience, maybe she doesn’t relax completely and is afraid or nervous, she’s afraid of getting pregnant every time, even though we’re always just with a condom, and I pull it out as soon as I realize that I’m cumming. I wanted to excite her longer, caress her and everything like that, but if I delay for a long time, then her excitement simply disappears. Did anyone have the same? Maybe someone knows what could be the reason?

[Andrey I]

Alternatively, it could be due to the structure of her vagina. Have you tried different poses? I knew one lady, she had such an entrance that she could only take it doggy style

[JackTheJack]

Recently we wanted to be on top, but it hasn’t happened yet, we want to try different positions if possible

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I’m still thinking, maybe it’s really because of the condom? She says that it somehow rubs, it hurts her as soon as I insert it, but when I inserted it a little without it, she liked it. I just never heard that the problem was in the condom. Could it be that more lubrication is needed or thinner condoms, what do you think?

[Vladimir69]

Maybe someone knows what could be the reason?

I’m not a doctor, but I need to try it myself)))
So - try another rubber, some ultra-thin one, more lubricants...

[JackTheJack]

Nope, only I will try))) Well, thanks for the advice

[Vladimir69]

No, only I will try))) Well, thanks for the advice

I’ll tell you an instructive story:
I have a friend, Edik the greedy...
and Edik the greedy after the story: Edik, you have a gorgeous mistress (WHO HAS BEEN FUCKED IN TURKEY, GERMANS IN IBIZA and so on), share her!
a he answered - no, okay, Edik, you have a gorgeous wife, you don’t want to share your mistress - give him your wife, again no in response... Edik, your mother-in-law has nothing yet - share, he jumped up for joy and shouted - take it , but we don’t tell him, first agree with her, he refuses again... so the funny thing is - I persuaded his wife to say publicly: Edik, don’t be greedy... didn’t listen... as a result - the mistress left, the wife I filed for divorce... and if I hadn’t been greedy, and even if I’d kicked him in the ass, everything would have been normal))))

[JackTheJack]

I have only one, so I’ll be greedy

[Vladimir69]

I have only one, so I’ll be greedy

young and green))))

[JackTheJack]

Well, I don’t want to change anything)

[niqk]

Well, I don’t want to change anything)

That’s right! No need to produce freeloaders!
And with pain you need to go to the doctor. Here we need a specialist sexologist. It’s unlikely that there are such people on the forum...

[JackTheJack]

That’s right! No need to produce freeloaders!
And with pain you need to go to the doctor. Here we need a specialist sexologist. It’s unlikely that there are such people on the forum...

About freeloaders, are you talking about those who like to cheat?
It is clear that there are no specialists here, but you never know, maybe someone had this situation

[niqk]

About freeloaders, are you talking about those who like to cheat?
It is clear that there are no specialists here, but you never know, maybe someone had such a situation

There are no identical situations in sex! Although there are similar ones. But these are very dangerous analogies - you can make such a mess! It’s better to go straight to a specialist, let him deal with you specifically...

[JackTheJack]

There are no identical situations in sex! Although there are similar ones. But these are very dangerous analogies - you can make such a mess! It’s better to go straight to a specialist, let him deal with you specifically...

Well, in any case, I won’t dare to perform rituals with a tambourine) And the situation doesn’t seem to be so dire so that only a specialist can help, after all, there was good sex, which means it’s not all that bad. And so, if someone suddenly had it and it helped with lubricant/position/a thinner condom or something else, then that’s great

[Tanushka]

P20 It’s been six months since we started having sex with a girl. She’s 18, they were each other’s first. The first time, of course, she was in pain, but more than six months have passed, and still the pain remains. We always use a condom. It always hurts during penetration, after some time depending on the situation, when it is pleasant, and when the pain does not go away at all. The penis is average, 15-16 cm, normal missionary position. A couple of months after the first time I bought lubricant, it got better, but it still hurts when it penetrates, and then it doesn’t always get better. She doesn’t complain, there’s no need to beg, she seems to want it herself. But I still feel uneasy, I don’t want only me to have fun. There were times when she felt very pleasant, but more often it was either pleasant and painful, or only pain. I don’t know why this could be, she says that it could be because of the condoms, she says that they rub (there was also a moment when I moved my dick around my pussy without a condom and at some point I almost inserted it or even inserted it, but just a little bit, she said that it was very pleasant then), but I doubt it, maybe because this happens irregularly with us (from 1 to 5 times a month), maybe because of the posture, maybe due to the fact that she is not attracted to me (although then there would be nothing), maybe because of my inexperience, maybe she doesn’t relax completely and is afraid or nervous, she’s afraid of getting pregnant every time, even though we’re always just with a condom, and I pull it out as soon as I realize that I’m cumming. I wanted to excite her longer, caress her and everything like that, but if I delay for a long time, then her excitement simply disappears. Did anyone have the same? Maybe someone knows what could be the reason?

Most likely, your girlfriend is not liberated enough in your sex. Because of this, she has a weak, sluggish excitement. It is excitement, and not desire, that is different for a girl, unlike you. She may want sex, but be absolutely cold in body, so to speak. This, again, I repeat, since there was already a similar topic here, it’s all in her head, there’s some kind of spell on something and it’s preventing her from completely relaxing and getting wildly excited. But that’s the only way it needs to be, that’s why it hurts her sometimes. Something is stopping her, either a fear of getting pregnant, or in her youth she didn’t engage with her body sexually - she didn’t bring it to orgasm regularly, didn’t explore her points, intimate areas, in short, most likely she’s so touchy to you, shy and this can also bother her. She should just be flowing all over from the desire to cum, and you didn’t immediately think of some kind of lubricant, that the pussy is just fucking cold, then of course it will be both unpleasant and even painful.
In general, let’s talk about it, so to speak, her body is now together, since she missed this moment at one time herself, there’s no way without it.

[JackTheJack]

Well, a couple of weeks ago I did cunnilingus on her, but I overdid it, I went so far as to say)
Then when they wanted to have sex and I walked in, I already realized that she was really “cold in body” and naturally there was no pain hurt her. Otherwise, I only start this business when I understand that it’s leaking. But as for the spell, it’s quite possible
But again this moment, that when I entered quite a bit without a condom, according to her, it was a hundred times more pleasant than when I start to enter with it, it’s embarrassing

[Tanushka]

Well, a couple of weeks ago I did cunnilingus on her, but I overdid it, I went so far as to say)
Then when they wanted to have sex and I walked in, I already realized that she was really “cold in body” and of course I didn’t want to hurt her. Otherwise, I only start this business when I understand that it’s leaking. But as for the spell, it’s quite possible
But again this moment, that when I entered quite a bit without a condom, according to her, it was a hundred times more pleasant than when I started to enter with it, this is embarrassing

Of course, naturalness is more pleasant. Most likely, she is pinched by the thought of getting pregnant and the rubber bands are greatly in the way. It seems to me that you need to move in this direction.

[Deb]

Have sex without rubber. What is there to be afraid of, especially since you are constant with each other. It’s one thing if you dive from hole to hole, but there’s no way to protect yourself

[JackTheJack]

Have sex without rubber. What is there to be afraid of, especially since you are constant with each other. It’s one thing if you’re diving from hole to hole, but there’s no way without protection

Without rubber it’s not an option, at least for now for sure. She is waiting no less than me for when she can make up her mind, but not yet. She is very afraid of getting knocked up, even though I don’t cum inside even with a condom. She herself is not happy with her panic, but she can’t do anything. I think it’s just up to me to relax her and gain more and more trust so that she understands that there is nothing to be afraid of with me

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Of course, naturalness is more pleasant. Most likely, she is pinched by the thought of getting pregnant and the rubber bands are greatly in the way. It seems to me that you need to move in this direction.

I think so too, so I want to talk to her as soon as possible and at least buy thinner condoms. Even before that cunnilingus, we had petting, both in clothes, she was lying on her stomach, and I was on top, the other day I said that I would like to try this in real life. Maybe changing her position will help her relax

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The problem is that due to our age and circumstances (in addition to her studies, she often has a little sister) it is not possible to do this regularly. Probably, if it happened more often, it would be easier for her to gradually relax and get used to it.

[Deb]

She is very afraid of getting pregnant, even though I don’t cum inside even with a condom. She herself is not happy with her panic

well, here’s the answer...

Personally, I always managed to take it out on time , so to speak, the hand is trained

Well, the fact that you don’t cum with a condom inside, excuse me, but this is complete nonsense, the whole point is lost of this action.
Although we must pay tribute to some ladies in their narrow-mindedness, when I admitted one madam to Popetsky, she told me that she was afraid of getting pregnant, but I reassured her and poured everything there.

[JackTheJack]

Well, it’s nonsense, it’s not nonsense, the condoms can tear, and that’s why she’s afraid, and no matter what happens. It seems to me that this should pass over time - the more experience, the less fears

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It seems to me that soon people will start asking why I even created this topic if I answer everything myself))

[Deb]

I could, of course, give you an educational program about conception, but it would turn out to be a sheet that hardly anyone will read. Where do you think, young man, does conception take place? And I will say, in the ampullary part of the fallopian tube. Right almost right next to the ovary. So, in order for a girl to get pregnant, your ejaculate needs to travel an oh-so-long journey, and it’s not a fact that it will be successful. In general, the box needs to be filled to capacity. To the very edges, of course, you don’t have to believe me, I don’t claim to be the ultimate truth, but still...

In the end, read together about fertilization, approach it from a scientific point of view . So that you don’t have any doubts.

Unfortunately, many people think that you can get pregnant from a drop of sperm and they think so because of philistine illiteracy.
Learn the equipment and we will give you both sex and a cupcake with raisins.

[JackTheJack]

I understand this very well. But I also understand her fears, because anything can happen, some people miraculously have children after coitus interruptus, and some people’s condoms break and then test positive. What I mean is that everyone has their own fears, even if they are groundless, she herself tells me: “Yes, I understand that nothing should get in, but I’m still afraid that something is going to happen somewhere.” It’s clear that there is nothing good in this fear, but you can’t just get rid of it. And put pressure, like, “Why are you afraid of everything like a fool?” that’s what it is, we need to help a person fight this fear, well, that’s my opinion. Recently I decided to try to teach her to trust me, the first attempt was quite successful

[Deb]

Here I can only wish you success in your hard work

[Tanushka]

Have sex without rubber. What is there to be afraid of, especially since you are constant with each other. It’s one thing if you’re diving from hole to hole, but there’s no way without protection

Without rubber it’s not an option, at least for now for sure. She is waiting no less than me for when she can make up her mind, but not yet. She is very afraid of getting knocked up, even though I don’t cum inside even with a condom. She herself is not happy with her panic, but she can’t do anything. I think it’s just up to me to relax her and gain more and more trust so that she understands that there is nothing to be afraid of with me

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Of course, naturalness is more pleasant. Most likely, she is pinched by the thought of getting pregnant and the rubber bands are greatly in the way. It seems to me that you need to move in this direction.

I think so too, so I want to talk to her as soon as possible and at least buy thinner condoms. Even before that cunnilingus, we had petting, both in clothes, she was lying on her stomach, and I was on top, the other day I said that I would like to try this in real life. Maybe changing her position will help her relax

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The problem is that due to our age and circumstances (in addition to her studies, she often has a little sister) it is not possible to do this regularly. Probably, if it happened more often, it would be easier for her to gradually relax and get used to it

Try the position of the girl on top, let her in this position find the most pleasant position and rhythm for her movements on your penis. She should feel it, let her move her butt, her hips, and figure it out in short.

[JackTheJack]

Thank you It seems to me that it’s worth it, as for me, it’s better to learn everything together than to find some experienced and fearless girl who will knock you down and jump around on the very first night))
But I would not have created this topic if I knew for sure that the problem was precisely this fear. I myself have so many cockroaches in my head that I wonder why she’s in pain - and so many things come to mind: from rubbing with condoms and lack of lubrication to this fear and thoughts "Or maybe I just don’t excite her". That’s why I created this topic, so that from the answers of more experienced people I could at least +- understand whether my thoughts are going in the right direction

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Try the position of the girl on top, let her in this position find the most pleasant position and rhythm of movements on your penis. She should feel it, let her move her butt, her hips, and figure it out in short.

This is what we also recently came to, that we need to try other positions. At first we just thought about the position on top, the other day we started talking about the same position as during petting. Just haven’t had time to try any of this yet, someone is always at home

[Tanushka]

Thank you It seems to me that it’s worth it, as for me, it’s better to learn everything together than to find some experienced and fearless girl who will knock you down and jump around on the very first night))
But I would not have created this topic if I knew for sure that the problem was precisely this fear. I myself have so many cockroaches in my head that I wonder why she’s in pain - and so many things come to mind: from rubbing with condoms and lack of lubrication to this fear and thoughts "Or maybe I just don’t excite her". That’s why I created this topic, so that from the answers of more experienced people I could at least +- understand whether my thoughts are going in the right direction

What a clever girl!!! I praise you for not abandoning your girl and not changing her like some other thing for others. Everything will work out for you, I believe, for example, damn, I haven’t had anything like this, I would definitely tell you, even though it seems like my friends did too.
But one thing is certain - if she cums for you, it means it’s not in the body, but in the head, in thoughts, in feelings. Here you two need to do some digging, just without emotions and nerves, calmly, maybe even with humor.

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Well, it’s nonsense, the condoms can tear, and that’s why she’s afraid, but no matter what happens. It seems to me that this should pass over time - the more experience, the less fears

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It seems to me that soon people will start asking why I created this topic if I answer everything myself))

If she has a regular cycle, let her try to calculate unfavorable days for pregnancy and have sex with penetration there, so to speak, only on these days. There is a special table.

[JackTheJack]

What a clever girl!!! I praise you for not abandoning your girl and not changing her like some other thing for others. Everything will work out for you, I believe, for example, damn, I haven’t had this happen, I would definitely tell you, although my friends seem to do the same.
But one thing is certain - if she cums for you, it means it’s not in the body, but in the head, in thoughts, in feelings. Here you two need to do some digging, just without emotions and nerves, calmly, maybe even with humor.

If you love, you will never leave, especially from for this)
Thanks for the advice, I just recently thought of taking such a small step towards increasing trust, I used to think that there is no need to rush - the time will come and she will trust herself, but nothing happens for nothing .
And he did it exactly in terms of that same cunnilingus. Usually I did this to her in the usual position, she was on her back, I was at my feet. This time the clothes flew off, I said that I wanted to do cunnilingus, she had already laid down as usual, then I say, “Get up,” she asks, “Why?” I say, “Trust me. Do as I say, I won’t do anything bad." She got scared and said, "What do you want? " She asked a couple of times, I didn’t answer, I just said, "Please, just trust me." She agreed, stood up, and only then did I tell her I said that I wanted her to be on top, at first she was afraid that I would be uncomfortable, I said "Just trust and that’s all". Well, here we go)) I think it was a good step

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If she has a regular cycle, let her try to calculate unfavorable days for pregnancy and have sex with penetration there, so to speak, only on these days. There is a special table.

It’s too early for this, it seems to me, she’s still too afraid of it. I know her, in the best case, I will persuade her to do this, but after that she will be driven and incredibly afraid until these days come, and in the worst case, she will be completely disappointed in me. Well, now the cycle has become unpredictable, it was supposed to start in the first 20 days of August, but it only started on the 27-28, even because of this she was driven, even though we had nothing between the previous cycle and this one

[Tanushka]

What a clever girl!!! I praise you for not abandoning your girl and not changing her like some other thing for others. Everything will work out for you, I believe, for example, damn, I haven’t had this happen, I would definitely tell you, although my friends seem to do the same.
But one thing is certain - if she cums for you, it means it’s not in the body, but in the head, in thoughts, in feelings. Here you two need to do some digging, just without emotions and nerves, calmly, maybe even with humor.

If you love, you will never leave, especially from for this)
Thanks for the advice, I just recently thought of taking such a small step towards increasing trust, I used to think that there is no need to rush - the time will come and she will trust herself, but nothing happens for nothing .
And he did it exactly in terms of that same cunnilingus. Usually I did this to her in the usual position, she was on her back, I was at my feet. This time the clothes flew off, I said that I wanted to do cunnilingus, she had already laid down as usual, then I say, “Get up,” she asks, “Why?” I say, “Trust me. Do as I say, I won’t do anything bad." She got scared and said, "What do you want? " She asked a couple of times, I didn’t answer, I just said, "Please, just trust me." She agreed, stood up, and only then did I tell her I said that I wanted her to be on top, at first she was afraid that I would be uncomfortable, I said "Just trust and that’s all". Well, here we go)) I think it was a good step

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If she has a regular cycle, let her try to calculate unfavorable days for pregnancy and have sex with penetration there, so to speak, only on these days. There is a special table.

It’s too early for this, it seems to me, she’s still too afraid of it. I know her, in the best case, I will persuade her to do this, but after that she will be driven and incredibly afraid until these days come, and in the worst case, she will be completely disappointed in me. Well, now the cycle has become unpredictable, it was supposed to start in the first 20 days of August, but it only started on the 27-28, even because of this she was driven, even though we had nothing between the previous cycle and this one

Hmm, damn it, I would have lost my mind from such constant fear! Well, sometimes he won’t hold back his pressure, he’ll get too carried away by my pussy and body, he’ll inject his entire load into it, well, now, he’ll hang himself, we’re all human, I’ll immediately squat down after that so that everything flows out of me, I’ll wash myself, I’ll wash myself thoroughly sour water, that’s all, what can you do? No, well, it’s clear that this is just a last resort. Well, at least in our village, girls get out of this situation using this method.

[Guest_15]

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[odono4ka]

JackTheJack, that’s right - the answer is in her head. Fear of getting pregnant. Try going in without a condom 2 or 3 times. Not more. And look. Here is the answer. After all, it hurts her the first time with a condom?

[JackTheJack]

Ivan62
So many letters))
‌1. I never demanded anything from her. Before our first sex, we dated for 9-10 months, talked about it and I always told her that we would sleep only when she was ready for it and wanted it herself. And so it happened, we came to this together.
‌2. I can enter it completely. Moreover, she and I remember one of the best times, when I entered quite hard and quickly, the bed shook back and forth, just then she really liked it.
‌3. First of all, I respect my girlfriend, otherwise I wouldn’t have met her, so I definitely won’t try with someone else, this is cheating, for me this is unacceptable. Besides, it’s useless. Sex is not something standard, every couple has its own, but to cheat and think that your girlfriend should behave the same as a mistress is, in my opinion, at least strange.
And before her, I didn’t sleep with others, because I always wanted a serious relationship, there wasn’t one before her, and getting laid several times never interested me. I don’t argue, maybe there would have been fewer problems, but still I’m glad that I was her first, and she’s glad that she was my first. This whole thing is subjective, you treat inexperience as something objectively bad and tell everyone that our couple is supposedly an example of the fact that being without experience at our age is a priori bad. But why? Firstly, our couple is not an example; everything turns out differently for everyone. Even given our problem, neither of us regrets that we were each other’s first, we like it. Secondly, it doesn’t seem to me that everyone should have sex with everyone from the age of 14 just to gain experience; whoever wants to, then starts. Why say "Look what problems they have, if you don’t start fucking with everyone early, it will be just as bad for you" I don’t understand at all, let everyone go their own way)

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JackTheJack, that’s right - the answer is in her head. Fear of getting pregnant. Try going in without a condom 2 or 3 times. Not more. And look. Here is the answer. After all, it hurts her the first time with a condom?

As I wrote above, this cannot be done for now, otherwise she will simply close herself off and be driven away. In this matter, you need to gradually fail so that there is confidence that nothing will happen. Thanks for the answer, they told me which direction to go)

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And yes, it hurts with a condom the first time. It became better with lubrication, but the problem did not go away completely

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Well, damn it, I would have already lost my mind from such constant fear! Well, sometimes he won’t hold back his pressure, he’ll get too carried away by my pussy and body, he’ll inject his entire load into it, well, now, he’ll hang himself, we’re all human, I’ll immediately squat down after that so that everything flows out of me, I’ll wash myself, I’ll wash myself thoroughly sour water, that’s all, what can you do? No, well, it’s clear that this is just a last resort. Well, at least in our village, girls get out of this situation using this method.

Well, you have experience, I think, much more than ours, when Once you get used to it, many fears will go away. But only 9 months have passed since the first time, and this does not happen too often, especially the last 3 months. I hope that over time trust and confidence will come (not without my actions, of course)

[Andrey I]

In general, so, author, turn on the video broadcast, and we will all give you tips and guide you on the right path!

[JackTheJack]

In general, author, turn on the video broadcast, and we will all give you tips and guide you on the right path!

Ahahaha , counted))

[Guest_15]

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[JackTheJack]

Again imposing the theme "We need to fuck as much as possible and as early as possible". What is this for? Do you consider your view of relationships to be the only correct one? I have enough examples from which I know that everything is far from the way you are trying to present it. And imagine, some people are not so interested in sex that they look for someone just to fuck. I am interested in sex only as part of a serious relationship that can develop and continue. And these 3-time fucks that you apparently like so much are not interesting to me. Yes, maybe we are “disposable,” as you put it, but I don’t need anything else. I am a one-woman man, I have always been so and, I hope, I will always be so. "A kind of game of hussar roulette - he spun the revolver drum - and to the temple! That is, in the registry office. And come what may." Where is this from? It’s as if we’re not going to rush to the registry office, we’ll live together and if we understand that we feel good with each other, then we’ll go. "It’s a pity for both of you that you are both a little late." "It would be less traumatic for the psyche of both." These two phrases are the funniest. We don’t take antidepressants, we don’t get depressed, to your surprise, apparently, but we enjoy our relationships. I really hope that no one will perceive all this propaganda of endlessly changing partners in search of someone better to have sex with. You’re saying here that “smarter people act differently,” but don’t you think that you’re thinking a little narrowly? I have a clear idea that there are people who want to fuck purely, there are people who want to find a loved one and their future family, and there are people who are not interested in any kind of relationship at all. And all these people are no worse than each other, each has their own priorities and their own path through life. If you are not ridiculing here (and for me it looks exactly like this), then at least you are condemning people like us, for whom the main thing is not sex (sex is awesome, there is nothing to say, but not the main thing), but most importantly - a kindred spirit, with whom You can not only tumble. You say that you feel sorry for us, as if we are suffering from what we have not tried with others. There are people who first want romance, relationships, and then people like you appear and begin to pollute their brains with your beliefs that serious relationships are bullshit, but trying everyone and everyone is just something unearthly. For some reason I don’t go around preaching to anyone that “You fools, don’t dare sleep with more than one girl or guy, it’s bad and ugly,” because it’s extremely stupid to impose your vision on someone. And yes, so that there are no further statements like "Yes, you probably think that the world is such a fairy-tale, you found a girl, you fell in love and in any case you will live happily ever after," but I feel that this is from you is quite to be expected. So, I don’t have any rosy illusions, I understand perfectly well that at any moment people can easily become strangers to each other. But I did, am doing and will do everything so that my girlfriend and I feel good with each other, because I know very well that people can live in perfect harmony without having tried everything at school age and then too. And if suddenly someone who is still only dreaming of a serious relationship reads or listens to such arguments about “poor, suffering” people, just forget it)) I’m sure there are a lot of people now with the same views and goals as you, no you have to listen to no one, follow what you like and believe in

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Oh, yes, in response to some of your statements, here’s another story. In high school, or rather at 11, a classmate began to stick to me, at first she just really wanted to be friends, spend time together, purely outwardly I liked her, but I knew little about her herself, but at school there were not the best rumors about her went. For a couple of months we just talked sometimes, went for walks a couple of times, I myself wanted to meet her more and more, I didn’t give a damn about rumors, you never know who was talking. And at our mutual friend’s birthday party, we talked and decided to start dating. Over the next week we spent all our free time with each other. And the further we went, the more we got to know each other. I realized more and more that this was not mine. She was beautiful, cheerful, kind, open. But I realized that, most likely, nothing serious would come of it; it would be quite possible to drag her into bed if I acted confidently. But if something happens, then I will not be the first and certainly not the last, a couple of months of open relationships, hooking up - and it will all end, what’s the point. Over the course of a week, I formed just such an opinion about her, I realized that I had no use for it, she apparently understood that I was not one of those who would cuddle her, press her in the corners in the first week, hang out with her and her friends, etc., that she didn’t need it either - so we quickly stopped dating and that’s it. This is about falling in love, about how different people can really be, and so on.

[rmt]

P20 It’s been six months since we started having sex with a girl. She’s 18, they were each other’s first. The first time, of course, she was in pain, but more than six months have passed, and still the pain remains. We always use a condom. It always hurts during penetration, after some time depending on the situation, when it is pleasant, and when the pain does not go away at all. The penis is average, 15-16 cm, normal missionary position. A couple of months after the first time I bought lubricant, it got better, but it still hurts when it penetrates, and then it doesn’t always get better. She doesn’t complain, there’s no need to beg, she seems to want it herself. But I still feel uneasy, I don’t want only me to have fun. There were times when she felt very pleasant, but more often it was either pleasant and painful, or only pain. I don’t know why this could be, she says that it could be because of the condoms, she says that they rub (there was also a moment when I moved my dick around my pussy without a condom and at some point I almost inserted it or even inserted it, but just a little bit, she said that it was very pleasant then), but I doubt it, maybe because this happens irregularly with us (from 1 to 5 times a month), maybe because of the posture, maybe due to the fact that she is not attracted to me (although then there would be nothing), maybe because of my inexperience, maybe she doesn’t relax completely and is afraid or nervous, she’s afraid of getting pregnant every time, even though we’re always just with a condom, and I pull it out as soon as I realize that I’m cumming. I wanted to excite her longer, caress her and everything like that, but if I delay for a long time, then her excitement simply disappears. Did anyone have the same? Maybe someone knows what could be the reason?

P20 It’s been six months since we started having sex with a girl. She’s 18, they were each other’s first. The first time, of course, she was in pain, but more than six months have passed, and still the pain remains. We always use a condom. It always hurts during penetration, after some time depending on the situation, when it is pleasant, and when the pain does not go away at all. The penis is average, 15-16 cm, normal missionary position. A couple of months after the first time I bought lubricant, it got better, but it still hurts when it penetrates, and then it doesn’t always get better. She doesn’t complain, there’s no need to beg, she seems to want it herself. But I still feel uneasy, I don’t want only me to have fun. There were times when she felt very pleasant, but more often it was either pleasant and painful, or only pain. I don’t know why this could be, she says that it could be because of the condoms, she says that they rub (there was also a moment when I moved my dick around my pussy without a condom and at some point I almost inserted it or even inserted it, but just a little bit, she said that it was very pleasant then), but I doubt it, maybe because this happens irregularly with us (from 1 to 5 times a month), maybe because of the posture, maybe due to the fact that she is not attracted to me (although then there would be nothing), maybe because of my inexperience, maybe she doesn’t relax completely and is afraid or nervous, she’s afraid of getting pregnant every time, even though we’re always just with a condom, and I pull it out as soon as I realize that I’m cumming. I wanted to excite her longer, caress her and everything like that, but if I delay for a long time, then her excitement simply disappears. Did anyone have the same? Maybe someone knows what could be the reason?

It’s most likely one of two things. She has a stretchable hymen and does not tear, but stretches every time. I had a friend who remained a virgin until she gave birth. And it was she who was in pain every time. And the husband did not believe that she married him as a girl.
2. She has a narrow vagina. The so-called mouse eye, and yours is thick enough for her. Here it is better to use no condom, but with lubricant. Then you will feel it yourself at the entrance. It goes in easily for half the head, but then it’s like a hard ring around it and you have to make an effort to get it in. At this time, it’s clear that she doesn’t feel very good. There are two options here. It’s good to cook it, including relaxing, but you have a problem with this. And secondly, stretch gradually. Don’t rush inside right away. And this is also a problem when you are young. It’s hard to hold back. It is advisable to do it lightly, but more often. The less pain there is, the faster he will begin to relax.
And it would be advisable to persuade him to let him look at the hymen. Although it will probably be shy here, since you are new to a relationship. Convince me to play gynecologist a little.

[JackTheJack]

It’s more likely one of two things. She has a stretchable hymen and does not tear, but stretches every time. I had a friend who remained a virgin until she gave birth. And it was she who was in pain every time. And the husband did not believe that she married him as a girl.
2. She has a narrow vagina. The so-called mouse eye, and yours is thick enough for her. Here it is better to use no condom, but with lubricant. Then you will feel it yourself at the entrance. It goes in easily for half the head, but then it’s like a hard ring around it and you have to make an effort to get it in. At this time, it’s clear that she doesn’t feel very good. There are two options here. It’s good to cook it, including relaxing, but you have a problem with this. And secondly, stretch gradually. Don’t rush inside right away. And this is also a problem when you are young. It’s hard to hold back. It is advisable to do it lightly, but more often. The less pain there is, the faster he will begin to relax.
And it would be advisable to persuade him to let him look at the hymen. Although it will probably be shy here, since you are new to a relationship. Convince me to play gynecologist a little.

Interesting options, thanks for the advice

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Don’t rush inside right away. And this is also a problem when you are young. It’s hard to hold back. Preferably lightly, but more often

This is also interesting. On the contrary, it’s more pleasant for her when it’s deeper

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[Fedor Prokopyev]

I inserted penetration into my girlfriend, it was light, she moaned.
And then the pink horse got out

[JackTheJack]

And it makes sense that then you wouldn’t create a topic here with the title "Pain in a girl during penetration"

Here, you know, the whole city can fuck, get into bed with another girl - and problems may arise that have not happened with any other, you can’t guess. Everyone has an individual body, everyone needs their own approach, everyone is different

[rmt]

[This is also interesting. On the contrary, it’s more pleasant for her when it’s deeper]
Maybe purely psychologically. Like, just fuck to the fullest. Maybe the cervix is ​​sensitive, maybe you just like the way it walks and feels inside you. That’s not the point. And the fact is that it hurts. When she gets tired of it, she starts kicking away from sex. Or even be afraid. Do you need it?
First, find out where she is hurt. At the entrance or inside. Maybe the position is wrong or you’re sticking it too deep. Or maybe there’s some kind of erosion there, a bend, or something worse. Ugh, ugh. Then see a gynecologist for treatment. Or maybe just a spasm due to fear. It’s easy for them too. We had a case at the port where a couple were taken out of an empty tank. They couldn’t find a better place to retire to. And then, to their misfortune, a lineman or someone else hit the tank. Well, that’s it - it jammed. An ambulance was called.

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[JackTheJack]

Maybe purely psychologically. Like, just fuck to the fullest. Maybe the cervix is ​​sensitive, maybe you just like the way it walks and feels inside you. That’s not the point. And the fact is that it hurts. When she gets tired of it, she starts kicking away from sex. Or even be afraid. Do you need it?
First, find out where she is hurt. At the entrance or inside. Maybe the position is wrong or you’re sticking it too deep. Or maybe there’s some kind of erosion there, a bend, or something worse. Ugh, ugh. Then see a gynecologist for treatment. Or maybe just a spasm due to fear. It’s easy for them too. We had a case at the port where a couple were taken out of an empty tank. They couldn’t find a better place to retire to. And then, to their misfortune, a lineman or someone else hit the tank. Well, that’s it - it jammed. They called an ambulance.

Of course, I don’t need this and need to do something. So I want to try everything when I have the opportunity. As for the pain, it’s not 100%, but it looks like it’s at the entrance. The first time it was natural that the further it went, the more painful it became. But then it became mostly when I just entered

[in Peru]

Lubrication and more. And more practice. If it doesn’t help and the pain doesn’t decrease over time, then see a gynecologist to rule out various sores

[Affectionate]

rmt, The cervix cannot be sensitive; no innervation (no nerve endings).

[rmt]

rmt, The cervix cannot be sensitive, there is no innervation (no nerve endings).

well, yes, that’s what they say in books.)
In real life, I had a woman small in stature, she loved to play with each other with her hands during the texting session. So her cervix is ​​shallow and she can easily reach it with her middle finger. Such an elastic, even rather hard, tubercle with a dimple in the middle. So when you caress it with your finger in a circle and lightly touch it in the middle, it increases in size. It inflates like a small balloon and is softer to the touch. She feels good.
But of course you don’t forget about other sensitive areas. 😁

[Affectionate]

rmt, There is no innervation of the cervix! Therefore, when I do hysterography, I grab the cervix with bullet forceps on both sides (this means I pierce it deeply until it bleeds), pull it to the entrance to the vagina and inject a contrast agent into the cervical canal ("dimple in the middle")! In this case, no anesthesia is used, the woman does not feel anything! And it was pleasant for your lady because she was excited and any manipulation of the genitals was pleasant for her, including touching the cervix!

[alena]

the first time it was very painful, I had a very narrow one, it infuriated me, the guy was much older and his shaft was not long but very thick, and it was very painful, the first time nothing worked for me

[rmt]

rmt, There is no innervation of the cervix! Therefore, when I do hysterography, I grab the cervix with bullet forceps on both sides (this means I pierce it deeply until it bleeds), pull it to the entrance to the vagina and inject a contrast agent into the cervical canal ("dimple in the middle")! In this case, no anesthesia is used, the woman does not feel anything! And it was pleasant for your lady because she was excited and any manipulation of the genitals was pleasant for her, including touching the cervix!

Uhh! How groovy you are, though. ))
Somehow I really wanted to meet and patronize you a little.)
I completely trust you as a specialist, but you still missed one point. The response to "manipulation" is with this tubercle.
PS. Although this woman is in another city now, we maintain contact via WhatsApp. If you want, I can ask and clarify. If anything, establish contact with you, if desired. For example, in telegram. "Purely for scientific purposes." )

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the first time it was very painful, I was very narrow, it infuriated me , the guy was much older and his trunk was not long but very thick, and it was very painful, the first time nothing worked for me

M-yes . This is where you can sympathize. The guy was a little unlucky. (
In every sense.

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