How to increase your wife's libido. 45 years.

Unread post by **Konstantin39_2** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:01

Wife fucks well. Moderately relaxed. We do whatever we like in bed. But the desire to start sex itself is weak. Tell me how and how to get it to start...

Unread post by **Bozorova Feruza** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:05

Do you have sex every day?

Unread post by **Konstantin39_2** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:06

Unfortunately no. About 1 time per week

Unread post by **Bozorova Feruza** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:10

Try to seduce her. Say vulgar words.

Unread post by **Konstantin39_2** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:14

I’m trying to turn on porn. Doesn’t want to look.
Maybe there are some medications. I’m not talking about pathogens.

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Bozorova Feruza: ↑24 Sep 2021, 21:10 Try to seduce her. Say vulgar words.

what vulgar words do you recommend?

24 Sep 2021, 21:22

Jealousy helps!
The mention of young females (I am speaking purely from a biological point of view) should include the mechanisms of the desire to procreate

As an alpha female lioness in a pride with young lionesses, she will instantly want to take the most seductive pose

Unread post by **Bozorova Feruza** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:24

Well, it can be different, tell her your wishes only in a ruder way

Unread post by **Konstantin39_2** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:30

Bozorova Feruza: ↑24 Sep 2021, 21:24 it can be different, tell her your wishes only in a rude manner

I am interested in the idea of MFM

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Which phrases do you specifically recommend
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gynecologist_homegrown: ↑24 Sep 2021, 21:22 Jealousy helps!
Mention of young people females (I am purely biological t

How exactly to make her jealous?

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Flir in front of her? What do you suggest?

Unread post by **Bozorova Feruza** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:35

Flirt

Unread post by **Konstantin39_2** » 24 Sep 2021, 21:37

Who should I flirt with? When do we hang out with strangers in the city? With friends? And to what extent should we flirt so as not to get into a scandal?

Unread post by **georg** » 24 Sep 2021, 23:16

strange - at 45 a woman only becomes more active. It’s not for nothing that there is a saying: "At 45, the woman is a berry again!"
That means somewhere there are your mistakes and serious ones. At 45, we had sex every day, or even twice, and you say once a week!
This is now at 59 - sex two, or even three times a week!

Unread post by **Konstantin39_2** » 24 Sep 2021, 23:56

Everyone has mistakes. That’s why I ask.

Unread post by **georg** » 25 Sep 2021, 00:12

It’s difficult to advise something -

without knowing both of you. At one time, our sexual relationship also reached a dead end - neither my wife nor I wanted sex, although everything was fine in family life. So we decided to try swinging. And everything worked out. Not only were there meetings, but after the meetings the sex was like a honeymoon!

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 25 Sep 2021, 01:55

Konstantin39_2: ↑24 Sep 2021, 21:06 Unfortunately no. Once a week approximately

I think that the problem is not with her, but with you. You just stopped turning her on for some reason. It’s difficult to say why exactly and what’s the matter here.

1) First option:
You don’t turn her on and she, not wanting to offend you or offend you, participates in sex with you but only on your initiative. There is another significant indicator - does she become wet when you fuck her or do you just fuck her dry? Or apply lubricant. This is important because if she becomes wet, it means she is still excited and there are already some chances, and there is something to work on to improve the situation.
Well, why don’t you turn her on (if this is the case), then Anything can happen here. For example, many times you seemed to deceive her expectations by cumming earlier and not letting her cum. And in the end she just stopped expecting sex as pleasure because anyway you will cum early and she still won’t cum herself.

2) Second option:
She has everything ok with that. It’s just that someone regularly fucks her somewhere on the side. It happens. And it fucks well! And this is enough for her and this sex is completely incomparable to sex with you. And she is simply fulfilling her marital duty without wanting to develop this topic. Because why? Everything suits her, someone fucks her very well and tasty. She likes. Maybe even this is someone very young, about twenty-five years old with a twenty-centimeter penis and a stone erection. And fucks maybe five sticks in a row. And she’s just blown away by it all. And sex with you is simple and cannot be compared. So she is simply fulfilling her marital duty.

She would probably start dating you too. But perhaps you simply do not have time to bring her to at least the beginning of a good arousal and end up long before she gets even a little excited. Well, in general, it’s good that you only need to enter her after she wants it. And not when you get hard. Good sex is the icing on the cake. When the people got excited to the point of impossibility and were all fidgeting in place, wanting someone to finally shove something somewhere.

Or if you shove it right away, then you need to be prepared for the fact that then you have to fuck for a long time and persistently expecting that in the process she will finally get aroused from the stimulation of the vagina and from the process itself. But in any case, this is not a couple of minutes, but fifteen or twenty minutes. Again, all this time there should be a very good boner.

3) Third option:
This is the one that you will probably like the most. That is, this is when no one fucks her on the side and the point is simply that somewhere at some stage you simply did not notice how you lost something in your sex. That is, you continued to fussily poke into her and did not notice that she stopped liking it. I still don’t believe that a woman can stop wanting sex. This doesn’t happen. It’s just that she found some kind of compromise for herself in the current situation, and if no one fucks her on the side, then she simply decided to sacrifice sex for the sake of preserving your relationship.

Next...
I think that you both need to stop being hypocrites and just start calling a spade a spade. That is, to get each other to be honest about this issue. So that she honestly tells what’s going on and why she doesn’t have fun. But first you need to achieve trust and sincerity from each other. To approach this issue from the position that both of you are not deceiving each other and that you are sincere to each other. That is, under no circumstances lie to each other. And the most important thing is that neither you nor she feel falsehood in each other’s words or that someone is not saying something.

And you yourself will also have to not lie to her about something because the game is Gates alone won’t work. You will lie to her, she will feel it and will lie to you in return and you will never achieve anything. And you need to achieve the following...
You need her to honestly say what she misses during sex. And talk about the fact that it would be nice to restore lost sensuality and excitability. And think with her about what ways there are for this. Do you think people are engaged in swinging or arrange MFM or FFM because they are crazy about fat or someone is bored?
No! People solve exactly the same problems by trying to solve them not on the side, but by being honest with each other.

I think that you need to achieve sincerity with your wife and invite her to try to look for a solution this problem. Explain to her that you shouldn’t leave everything as it is, and that sex is cool and before you become old, you shouldn’t deprive each other of such a cool thing as sex. And that you want her to regain her sensuality and excitability. This isn’t about fertility. I think if tomorrow, right before her period, some twenty-year-old guy pumps sperm to the brim into your wife, then your wife will get knocked up and everything will be fine with it. This isn’t about fertility. And the fact is that she gave up on herself. And it is precisely this problem that needs to be solved.

And it can be solved either by you together or separately.
Separately, this is when you, say, send her alone somewhere for a couple of weeks to Thailand or somewhere else on the warm sea. One. And demonstratively put several packs of condoms in her suitcase. And tell her that you are not jealous of her and that you want her to have a good rest and not think about anything, and that you love her and want only the best for her. And that her main task on the trip is to regain this sensuality and excitability of hers.

And I think she will figure it out on her own there. No one there will stand over her soul, and there is no one she knows who could be afraid that gossip will spread later. I was in Tai. People meet people there right on the bus or right on the beach. And no one has a complex. A woman herself approaches a lonely man she likes on the beach and invites him to apply sun cream on himself. I myself have seen this happen several times. She lies down on a towel with her stomach down and he smears cream all over her body. She then asks to lubricate both her ass and the insides of her legs too. And in addition, while lying down, she lowers her panties to her knees.

He smears cream on her ass, she asks to smear more on the inner parts of her legs and spreads her legs and the halves of her labia majora become visible. Sometimes the girls themselves ask, saying - this is good, and even higher, please. He touches the labia majora of her pussy and she says - yes, yes, like that, good. The guy in his swimming trunks has a joint that reaches the ceiling. And the woman pretends that everything is fine and nothing special happened.
Someone pays attention to the man’s boner and begins to jokingly discuss this topic, pulling down his trunks and looking in there. And then they both laugh.

As a rule, from that moment they both go into the sea to swim, and then leave the beach together. And I think that from now on your wife’s sensuality will be fine. And I think that with the guy she meets on the beach she will have normal sex and I think she will start flowing already on the beach. And all her thoughts will be about only one thing - about the upcoming sex with this guy she met on the beach.

Or there is a second option...
This is to sincerely talk to your wife and together come to a decision to try a threesome with some other guy. But here is a very important point - she should like this man simply on the level of her own - someone else’s. But this is not enough. He should suit her based on his tactical and technical characteristics. That is, he must have a decent-sized penis, at least 18 centimeters, and a good boner.
I think it’s better to look for applicants among students. Firstly, it’s easier with young people. A grown man may not like it later because of some problems. And with relatively young people, no matter what gender they are, male or female, it’s easier with them.

First, the three of us will meet somewhere in a cafe and chat on all sorts of different topics. Maybe even not touch the topic of sex at all. And just look at each other. And then if the wife likes the young man, invite him home. Definitely, definitely have a good drink. And everyone has a drink. For you, your wife, and your boyfriend. This is necessary to somehow relax and stop perceiving the current situation as something unusual. And then proceed according to the situation. The first constraint is very difficult to overcome. But you can somehow defuse the situation. Let’s say play spin the bottle. Everyone understands everything and, in principle, should play along with each other in such a situation.

When they undress in this way, you can again start making wishes with the help of a bottle. But everyone must understand that desires must be adequate. Let’s tell your wife that you probably don’t need to make a wish for you to kiss the invited student. Well, if you happen to make a wish, then you probably don’t need to make your first wish for your wife to give a blowjob to a student. I think a kiss will be enough for now for now. Well, then you can announce a break and offer to drink again and then continue.

And I think after some time all three will finally be ready for some kind of feat and they themselves will want to continue the banquet, so to speak, and increasing rates. And it will actually be possible to order as a desire for the wife to jerk off the student’s penis. Or have the student spread his wife’s labia majora with his penis and move the head of his penis over the clitoris. But so as not to enter the pussy.
And then continue to play spin the bottle for wishes.

The purpose of this whole action is actually for all three to get very excited. And my wife too. Actually, this is what everything was started for. It’s not even about sex. Although, of course, you should both fuck your wife properly. So that her legs would give way. And it is advisable to fuck her separately. That is, so that the second one does not interfere with the wife’s concentration on her feelings and so that one fucks her, while the second one waits in the chair for his turn. And as soon as one finishes, the second one should be ready to continue and try to fuck her for as long as possible. And as soon as he finishes, the one who was resting should already be fully armed and ready to continue.

And thus both wives need to throw five or six sticks without stopping. Once, when I was twenty-five years old, I made a very strong impression on one unapproachable girl by throwing five sticks at her in a row without pulling out. I remember she was sooooo impressed by this fact and for quite a long time she did not refuse me sex on demand. She really liked this thing.

So you, too, first need to both arouse your wife very much. So that she squeals like a cat in her desire to be urgently penetrated by a well-standing dick. And of course, then meet all her expectations from the upcoming sex. That is, fuck her so that she is happy. This can usually be seen in a woman’s eyes when she has been fucked very well. This sparkle in the eyes cannot be confused with anything else!

And if she likes everything, then her attitude towards the guy you invited will be completely different. He will become a good friend to her from now on. And if you wish, you can repeat it later.

Well, and then somehow move on based on the fact that you have returned your sensuality. That everything is fine with my wife. And that we need to somehow move on and somehow adjust our lives based on present realities. And think about whether you can continue to fuck just the two of you or whether you still need a third one from time to time. But the most important thing is that you solved the problem and stayed together and did not run away. And no one got anyone on the side. This is the main thing. Well, the fact that from time to time you fuck with someone in a threesome is not scary and it’s normal.

The main thing is not to wag your tongue once again to your friends and girlfriends. You need to agree on this in advance and not talk to either you or your wife. Let this be your common secret.

Unread post by **Oasis** » 25 Sep 2021, 08:22

Try to diversify with toys....

Unread post by **Guest_15** » 25 Sep 2021, 12:59

Voha: ↑25 Sep 2021, 08:22 Try to diversify with toys

The advice is, of course, good, but not very feasible. Because then you need a whole assortment of these toys and try them all until your wife likes one particular one. They are all different toys. And all of them actually bear little resemblance to a real penis in their tactile sensations. Therefore, if you buy one or two of some toys, then with a very high probability they both will not fit and the conclusion will be drawn that they tried it and didn’t like it. Although in fact, the toys were either of poor quality or somehow used incorrectly.

Again, many toys are specifically rubber and feel unpleasant and cold to the touch. And in addition, they are still very hard everywhere. After all, a penis is actually hard only on the inside. And outside and specifically in different places it is soft and warm. And again there is a frenulum on the head of the penis. The head itself is very plastic. It takes and changes its shape as it moves into the vagina. And the rubber penis is all hard and cold, and you might as well stick a shovel handle into your pussy. Well, what do you think a woman will feel if a handle from a rake or shovel is inserted there, even if not deeply?

Unread post by **Oasis** » 25 Sep 2021, 13:38

I meant toys not as a substitute for a penis, but as an addition
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Unread post by **Guest_15** » 26 Sep 2021, 02:52

Voha: ↑25 Sep 2021, 13:38 I meant toys not as a substitute for a penis, but as an addition

For example...

Unread post by **Alexb** » 26 Sep 2021, 04:56

When my wife and I feel sad (everyday life and quarantine are stuck), we go to Berlin (we haven’t been for more than a year and were sad) for a few days. There we usually visit 2 sometimes 3 sex clubs, and go to the sauna. The sensations last for several months.

Unread post by **Konstantin39_2** » 26 Sep 2021, 09:39

Voha: ↑25 Sep 2021, 08:22 Try to diversify with toys....

There are toys. Not everyone likes it

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Sep 2021, 10:41

Try role-playing games with your wife! A little imagination and from the same Little Red Riding Hood you can make a porn series! Take a risk, you won’t regret it!

Unread post by **viktor.shestakov** » 28 Sep 2021, 03:58

Konstantin39_2, female Viagra or fly, work very well in connection with alcohol, but try this first, maybe it will blow your mind

Unread post by **Copies** » 01 Oct 2021, 07:25

I bet on option 2

Unread post by **Madp** » 03 Dec 2021, 07:06

The question is how your life is organized... Do you have free time for sex? How often does such time happen (when no one is bothering you or it’s not too late, etc., everyone has their own limitations.) and if such free time happens quite often, and the implementation of this time is low, then yes, there is a problem. Possibly hormonal, by the way.

Unread post by **Guest_15** » 03 Dec 2021, 07:28

Konstantin39_2: ↑24 Sep 2021, 21:01 The wife fucks well. Moderately relaxed. We do whatever we like in bed. But the desire to start sex itself is weak. Tell me how and how to get her to start...

Find a longer and thicker penis. And that it would stand longer. And I think the libido will return and everything will be fine.
I think that the whole point is that, due to her and your physiological characteristics, she has ceased to fully feel penetration into herself.

For good measure, you should send her to Turkey alone and buy her condoms yourself and tell her in no uncertain terms that you want her to be happy and that’s why you are sending her alone to Turkey. This trip will shake her up quite noticeably.
This situation is completely real. Well, imagine that your potency has begun to disappear. You and your wife went to the doctor and he clearly said that you need to somehow diversify your sex. And that you need a woman with tighter genitals so that the feeling of penetration into the vagina returns to you.

And now imagine what choice your wife has in this case - or out of spite and jealousy sit and stupidly wait until your standstill stops altogether. Or how about starting by packing your suitcase and sending one somewhere to a rest home with parting words so that you will definitely fuck someone there in the rest home. And moreover, that they would find a permanent mistress there during this trip. Which then you could go and fuck regularly once a week. And maybe even invite her home if she agrees.

And here I think that it’s all about trusting each other. If you and your wife trust each other unconditionally, then of course you want only the best for each other. And of course, you are interested in both of you being healthy and happy. And if for this you need a bigger and thicker penis, or a tighter pussy, then why can’t you go for it for the sake of each other’s happiness?

Well, in general, I think that if people love each other and want each other only good things for each other, and if they trust each other, then sex with someone for the sake of happiness and health is a completely acceptable thing.

Unread post by **niqk** » 03 Dec 2021, 07:32

Hmm, libido may return, but the wife may leave! To that. who is longer, and thicker, and costs longer...

Unread post by **Sweet pepper** » 03 Dec 2021, 12:17

Everything is very individual in each specific case. Various cockroaches

How to increase your wife's libido. 45 years.

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