How to help my girlfriend become more relaxed

[Evil_donut]

Hello everyone!
I’ve been dating a girl for a year now, we get along great, soul to soul.
She is a little inhibited when it comes to sex, she can’t have sex when the light is on, she asks not to look at her pussy or how she sucks. This may sound strange, but she is shy about her ass and does not show it even in panties.
How can I make her more relaxed, so that at least we fuck in the light, and she flaunts her beautiful ass around the house

[Timuryai]

By example

[Cucumber]

She is a little inhibited when it comes to sex, she can’t have sex when the light is on, she asks not to look at her pussy or how she sucks. This may sound strange, but she is shy about her butt and does not show it even in panties.

As a rule, all our thoughts are from childhood. Talk, try to dig out the reason for such “modesty,” what specifically worries her, i.e., what kind of reaction she “expects” in response to someone seeing her butt. But, unfortunately, you will not remove the entire problem. Most likely, she will become less shy, but only about you.

P.s I heard such an opinion/feedback that for additional confidence, partners need to break this shyness of their body one at a time. Alternatively, there are various massage parlors with not exactly massage services. They say it helps you look at yourself from a completely different perspective.

Good luck!

[sevener]

It is very difficult to correct this over the years. You can work with a psychologist, but often it is not very effective and takes a very long time. Problems 100% from childhood, some kind of violence, physical or mental, or perhaps parents instilled from an early age that everything needs to be closed, etc. It’s good that he at least sucks, otherwise I met a lot of people who were disgusted with sucking, etc. There were those who couldn’t suck, but they liked anal, and vice versa.

[Voland]

Of course, there is a psychological factor here, a person has a very strong complex, you need to talk a lot about it, find the right words and in no case insist by force, say how beautiful she is and sprinkle a lot of compliments on her most intimate places, and over time you will be rewarded for your efforts

[Evil_donut]

I heard such an opinion/feedback that for additional confidence, partners need to break this shyness of their body one at a time

Yesterday we managed to take a small step forward: During sex, I told the girl to help herself with her hand. She did not resist and stroked her clitoris. I hope in the future we will be able to conquer new heights of lust (in our understanding :))

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Tell her often and a lot of the most exciting and tender compliments, shower her with them. Say that it is vital for you to see her ass, otherwise you feel physically ill without this contemplation, without contemplating her body under the light) kiss gently exactly those places that she diligently covers. kiss and say all sorts of endearments, for example, to her butt, how soft, tender and touching it is)) in general, bathe your girl in love, tenderness and care, and your efforts will certainly pay off.

[Mickey Mouse]

Is it worth helping? Some people like to contemplate the process of sex itself, while others are probably worried that they don’t see it, but only feel it. She doesn’t want to change you so that you do this with your eyes closed. Everyone has their own shortcomings.

[brush]

Praise her more often, compliment her butt and figure, have sex during the day or in the morning when you don’t even need to turn on the light!)

[weak intestine]

Teach her to fart deliciously erotically, it’s liberating