Mom married dad's best friend 4 months after dad died. Is this normal at all???

Unread post by **SuperSanya2006** » 24 Apr 2022, 06:39

When dad was dying, he asked his best friend Uncle Yura to take care of our family. And when dad died, he married my mom. About ten years ago he had a wife, Aunt Nina, she and his mother were friends, but then they divorced and he lived alone. I thought they got married so that he would live with us and help us, but they lived in my grandmother’s one-room apartment for almost a year. And my grandmother lived with me in our four-room apartment. Mom wanted them to move in with us right away, but Uncle Yura said that they needed to get to know each other better, so they needed to live separately. Then they moved in with us, and everything was fine, Uncle Yura talked to me as usual. He has known me since birth. But on Friday I just went crazy. I came home, and they were fucking in my mother’s room. Screams could be heard throughout the entire apartment. Then they finished, came out, saw me, Uncle Yura was shy, and my mother came to my room and began to say that he was her husband, everything was fine, etc.
Is this normal at all??? Uncle Yura was a witness at the wedding of mom and dad, they have known each other for a very long time, they took care of dad together, mom was his wife’s friend. In my opinion, this is impossible, it’s almost like betrayal of your father. That is, both his wife and his best friend passed it on

Unread post by **niqk** » 24 Apr 2022, 07:33

Well, your head is a mess, boy! Uncle Yura treated you like a family member, and you went looking for betrayal!
Your mother also has sexual needs and she got married, and didn’t pick up a random stranger. And you
accuse her of treason! Your dad asked her friend to take care of the family - and you personally! And you condemn your father’s decision and are looking for something vicious! I think you’re just a little pig...

Unread post by **SuperSanya2006** » 24 Apr 2022, 10:05

He asked him to take care of our family, and not sleep with my mother. And so it turns out he betrayed his friend

Unread post by **niqk** » 24 Apr 2022, 10:14

SuperSanya2006: 24 Apr 2022, 10:05 He asked him to take care of our family, and not sleep with my mother. And so it turns out he betrayed his friend

I explained everything to you. As you grow up, you will understand how dense your concepts are...

Unread post by **Night Len** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:40

SuperSanya2006: 24 Apr 2022, 10:05 He asked him to take care of our family, and not sleep with my mother. And so it turns out he betrayed his friend

don’t be stupid!

Unread post by **Barmaleykin_47** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:47

SuperSanya2006, you can’t bring dad back, you’ll have to come to terms with it, and life goes on. If, as you write, your dad passed away 4 months ago, then not enough time has passed for everything to settle down in your head. Breathe out and live brother!

Unread post by **Semyon Semyonich** » 09 Jun 2022, 08:27

Mom needs to go to a monastery, uncle needs to become a hermit, but first you need to stop jerking off. To understand their problems.

Unread post by **georg** » 09 Jun 2022, 09:05

Semyon Semyonich: 09 Jun 2022, 08:27 but first you need to stop jerking off

then such fantasies won’t get into your mentally stupid head!
It seems to me that this is the same idiot that he recently wrote - how he came from a vocational school and his neighbor fries his mother...
The style is painfully similar!
And the grown-ups fell for it!!!

Unread post by **Semyon Semyonich** » 09 Jun 2022, 09:13

So he created a thread here
Is it normal to marry your best friend’s wife 4 months after his death?

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 27 Oct 2022, 23:32

Why... should mom go to a monastery because of your hysteria....? Don’t interfere with your mother’s happiness... You won’t get your dad out of the magic anyway....

Unread post by **arelav** » 28 Oct 2022, 00:05

A completely normal situation. There are many similar examples in life.

Unread post by **in Peru** » 30 Nov 2023, 09:42

I’m sorry for your loss.

I hope everything is fine with you now and you have found a common language with each other. Life still goes on and my mother also wants to feel like a woman 100%. I understand that this is hard to accept.