My husband thinks that I cheated on him. How to convince him that it was just flirting?

[Yanochka the sorceress]

A stupid situation happened recently. My former classmate invited my husband and I to her birthday. But just before the celebration, my husband developed a fever, cough and all that. I went there alone. There was some leftist guy there who started hyping me up for sex when everyone got drunk and fell asleep. I said that I was married and therefore I could only give a blowjob. Well, I did it and did it to him, he didn’t finish. He was probably too drunk. Asked for sex again. Then I said again that I was married and could only perform anally. He tried to enter me from behind several times, but it hurt me like crazy. I pushed him away and ran home. I decided to forget about this stupid flirting. But that guy turned out to be too talkative. He spread a rumor about me that I give blowjobs to everyone and give them in the ass. It also reached my husband. He made a scene for me. He started screaming that while he was sick, I cheated on him. Called him all sorts of names. I convinced him that we didn’t have sex with that guy, blowjob and anal are flirting, caresses for high school students. But my husband still stopped talking to me and doesn’t even want sex. What should I do? How can I convince him that I haven’t cheated on him?

[sevener]

People’s concepts of cheating and sex are very different. For some, simply communicating with another man is already treason, but here it is still poking with a member. To make sure it fits well in your butt next time, take some lubricant with you, it comes in disposable bags;)

[Yanochka the sorceress]

sevener, well, my husband will kick me out of the apartment altogether if it happens again.

[SergeiKa]

sevener, well, my husband will kick me out of the apartment altogether if it happens again.

Not at all a fact!... Husband, back to you, and you, to him, in front.... Play along with your husband. Become wiser. You will return everything to normal... Ambitions are treated. But youth will not return. Experience comes with years and a lot of work, not only of the body, but also of the mind. Which many people lack...
If I were in your husband’s place... I would resolve the situation once or twice...

[young lady]

Well, the way you described it, the truth is on the husband’s side, after all. You also gave that guy a blowjob, and even anal it almost came to you. It’s hard to come up with anything against the truth. That is, if you can find that guy (who spilled the beans) and get him to directly tell your husband (maybe again for a blow job) that he “wasn’t telling the truth” when he spread these rumors about you. Well, it’s like I imagined all this when I was drunk. Maybe in this case your husband will believe him and will no longer be offended by you. Although then hostility/quarrel may begin between them, now because that guy is spreading slander about you.

If you can’t do this (with that guy), then try it yourself convince the husband that the guy is "blatantly lying." Insist that he has no evidence. No one saw you or filmed you at that moment?

In general, the ideal option for you would be that your husband would be a so-called cuckold. That is, these are husbands who enjoy the fact that other men have intimate relationships with their wives. Try to somehow test your husband for his tendency to cuckold. What if he turns out to be a "lethal cuckold" - then consider yourself very lucky! Because soon he himself will begin to ask you to cheat on him with other guys.

Well, this is so, by the way... You, of course, know better what your situation is like... there is a situation with my husband. But in any case, you can always find a way out. Good luck with this! )

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Pannochka, but high school students all over the world don’t consider blowjobs and anal to be sex. For them, sex is only penetration into the vagina. That’s what the polls say. And if it’s not sex, that means it’s not cheating?

[young lady]

Right. But this is about your husband. How does he feel about these things? Does he consider this cheating or not? If not, then there is no problem. But if for him any contact you have with another guy is betrayal, then you need to find some suitable way out of the situation.

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Pannochka, but for some reason he considers anal and blowjob sex. Where does he get such wild attitudes?

[SergeiKa]

Yanochka is a sorceress,
Girl! ... You don’t know life... And while you are young, the consensus is that you can find it easily. And this needs to be done today. Tomorrow may be too late. Mistrust at the beginning of life together entails inevitable consequences.
Don’t give a damn about the opinions and rumors of others. Don’t look for excuses in the eyes of your loved one. Be lenient with his screaming gut.... He will get over it and understand. And you need to be a little more careful and move away at least a little from the children’s views of your classmates." Life can raise you to the skies, or it can lower you so much that you won’t go to bed.
n You don’t consider yourself stupid, do you?

[Wool]

Pannochka, but high school students all over the world don’t consider blowjobs and anal to be sex. For them, sex is only penetration into the vagina. That’s what the polls say. And since it’s not sex, that means it’s not cheating?

It all depends on the husband - if he’s a real man, then he’ll kill his wife for even looking to the side :smile001 :
In general, cheating is not even a touch, it can just be communication where someone else is preferred to a husband

[young lady]

for some reason he considers anal and blowjob sex.

Yes, many men think exactly this way: any intimate interaction is cheating. Even a kiss.
But there are also men who consider only vaginal sex, or just blowjob, for example, to be cheating. There are different ones...
Try to convince your husband that oral and anal sex is not cheating. Some husbands are influenced by their beloved wives.

[Eugene1eva]

Pannochka, but high school students all over the world don’t consider blowjobs and anal to be sex. For them, sex is only penetration into the vagina. That’s what the polls say. And since it’s not sex, that means it’s not cheating?

This is the first time I’ve heard this... No, I’ve heard all sorts of jokes, like girls in their youth fuck in the ass and mouth they take it in order to preserve virginity, this is common among some nationalities, let’s not point a finger at these sophisticated girls... But everyone considers it sex. So I would formally consider this case to be treason.

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Yanochka the Sorceress , You say all this so naively... I can just imagine how at that party everyone got drunk, half of the people passed out, but among all of them there were persistent guys with whom you flirt in a doggystyle pose MZHM. With one orally, with the other anally, and at that moment your husband comes to pick you up... Everyone stopped for a second to see who came
after 3 seconds they flirt with you again. And the husband calmly says, “Well, since you’re flirting, then I’ll wait outside the door...
The author, you were so naive, I’m so touched by what you write...

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Eugene1eva, on my friend’s twelfth birthday, our mothers got together and said that they give us the go-ahead for kissing, oral and anal, since this is not sex. Moms said that you can do this even with the first person you meet. After all, this is not sex. This means there are no dangers associated with these activities. And I did all this with guys I barely knew in clubs and discos, and saved my vagina for my husband. and pleased him on his first wedding night with a bloody sheet. I’ll add that doctors yelled and didn’t consider anal sex as sex either. Because when asking your favorite question, “Are you sexually active?” they mean only vaginal contact. So all this is really not treason.

[Wool]

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[Yanochka the sorceress]

Bolbol, who’s in the firebox?

[Tae]

- A-a, she cheated on me!!! What to do??? What to do???
- Take her to the doctor.
- And what will he see there??? Hit counter?

[NitroJ]

Hihi, what a fat troll:3

[Yanochka the sorceress]

NitroJ, what’s wrong with my topic?

[Tamil Sexy 1988]

Blowjob and anal are flirting then what is considered cheating?????

[electrician]

stupid topic, if I fuck someone in the ass or give it in the mouth, then I’m not cheating on it, or what?

[Yanochka the sorceress]

electrician, no, this is not cheating, because it is not sex. Doctors think so too. When they ask the question:"Are you sexually active?" they mean only vaginal penetration.

[NitroJ]

NitroJ , what’s implausible in my topic?

I’m sorry, I’m extremely stupid, how could I even think that could this topic be fake?! I categorically apologize, everything you mentioned above is true, and I was the troll, I managed to say such nonsense and slander a person of honest fate, sorry

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Tamila Sexy, cheating only penetration of the penis into the vagina. Because that’s the only thing that counts as sex. In particular, among high school students and doctors.

[NitroJ]

Tamila Sexy, cheating is only penetration of the penis into the vagina. Because that’s the only thing that counts as sex. In particular, among high school students and doctors.

Sorry, of course, after the previous message I will spoil the picture of the apology, help me understand the basis, that is, there is only vaginal sex, and oral and anal does not exist, that is, if someone is raped anally, it will be flirting, and the prisoners in the zone only flirt?

[electrician]

In particular among high school students and doctors.

Well, if you are a high school student or a doctor, it means you were just flirting when they put a dick in your mouth and ass

[Yanochka the sorceress]

NitroJ, if a girl is raped anally and forced to give a blowjob, but her vagina is not touched, it will be a huge success. After all, the hymen will quietly and peacefully wait in the wings and will break only during the wedding night. Zeki? Don’t even know. In my opinion, everything between men is not sex. This also applies to lesbians.

Sent after 5 minutes 49 seconds: I’m not a doctor or a high school student, an electrician. But I did flirt. After all, I didn’t let a stranger into my vagina.

[NitroJ]

I agree, you’re damn right

[Eugene1eva]

Yanochka the sorceress, Of course, there is some meaning in your words. Well, at least based on the fact that since a girl cannot get pregnant from anal sex and oral sex, then this is not sex. But betrayal is a little different. This is not only the dry fact of penetration of someone else’s penis into the vagina of a loved one, there is a spiritual component... and on the other hand, if your husband knew how you feel about sex and what flirting means to you, then why is he indignant now? Did your husband know before what flirting meant to you?

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Eugene1eva, we always disagreed. He considered blowjob and anal sex, but I thought it was something like kissing or flirting.

[Andrey69rus]

Yanochka the sorceress, any bodily contact and flirting with the opposite sex is considered treason, of course, it’s different for everyone, but if I were my husband, I would send you somewhere else)

[Eugene1eva]

any physical contact and flirting with the opposite sex is considered cheating, of course it’s different for everyone, but if I were my husband, I would send you to much further)

And I would also advise this couple to separate if they have so many radically different views on life.

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Eugene1eva, we always disagreed. He considered blowjob and anal to be sex, and I thought that it was something like a kiss or flirting.

strange of course... what did he think when he married you? If he knew your views on sex, then this is all to be expected.
I said above, you better separate, otherwise you will suffer all your life.

[Anonym99]

The wife is satisfied orally and is ready for anal sex, after which she says that there was no sex, which means there was no infidelity. She’s just looking for an excuse.

[Center]

How old are you both?

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Center, I’m 22, he’s 25.

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Anonymous, but high school students and gynecologists don’t consider all this sex.

[AnnaTera]

Ahah, I laughed)) they troll so cruelly, and everyone is discussing it seriously)

Music girls, this is either a very fat troll, or a stupid fool-slut) but there are such people)

[hello. I don’t hear]

sevener, well, my husband will kick me out of the apartment altogether if it happens again.

Acquaintances, my husband found out that her friend Seryoga is fucking her, Her husband was fucked up and she said that this wouldn’t happen again.
We were at a city festival. They met there by chance, Seryoga offered to fuck her, she said that she promised her husband she wouldn’t fuck with others anymore. Seryoga, oh well and left. She said, you will be the exception. Seryoga took her to the forest and fucked her.

[Wool]

she said, you will be an exception

Well done wife, although she doesn’t give it to everyone in a row and that’s okay

[NitroJ]

Ahaha, I laughed)) they troll so cruelly, but everyone is discussing it seriously)

Music, this is either a very fat troll, or a stupid fool-slut) but there are such people) n

Well, the whole site here is like that, there’s nothing to do here other than laugh:3 If they had been more careful, they would have found heaps of real stories with insights and fap content from really "a little sloppy" people...

[Simon777]

did you like giving that guy a blowjob?

[Yanochka the sorceress]

I don’t even know, Simon. She was drunk.

[Anonym99]

I was drunk.

is this an excuse for you? drink and fuck whoever I want, but then sober pretend that you are different? admit that you like to sleep with different people

[Lust]

I can’t believe the story at all

[ilmir]

Well, I think your chances are zero. Unless you mow down, I was in the trash, I didn’t understand anything, when I came to my senses, the penis was already in my mouth. But he was so small, not like yours

[cream]

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[georg]

I read it, mastered it - what WILD nonsense!!!!

[Andrey57115]

Blowjob and anal are not cheating, I will definitely tell this joke to my wife

[Bars450]

Stop the ground, I’ll get off. Holy shit, blowjob and anal are not considered cheating

[Lust]

Yes, this is a clear rush to amuse people

[Yanochka the sorceress]

Blowjob and anal are not cheating, I will definitely tell this joke to my wife

But gynecologists don’t consider this sex. When they ask “Are you sexually active?”, they mean only vaginal contact. So this is not cheating.

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Stop the ground, I’ll get off. Holy shit, blowjobs and anal are not considered cheating

Why do gynecologists, when they ask “Are you sexually active?” do they mean only vaginal contact? It turns out that for them everything else is not cheating and not sex.

[georg]

hmmm.... No comments here!