Weird things about family sex

Unread post by **Desert1** » 09 Jul 2022, 06:14

This is the topic. For me, the emotions of my partner during sex are of great importance. Moans and orgasms are very exciting. I always want to do something new and spicy. I try more to please and I enjoy it myself. My wife, on the contrary, concentrates more on herself and her feelings. It seems to be the norm, but in the end she never has the desire to do something for her partner herself, to experiment. Slowly you get tired of the game of "one goal" and it seems that you do not evoke reciprocal desires in it. When it becomes completely unpleasant, I start a relationship on the side and get what I’m missing with my mistress. So the question arises - Are all people like this? Some people like to deliver, and some people like to receive?

Unread post by **Gunter** » 09 Jul 2022, 06:34

There may be many answers, but it’s better to talk to your wife in C. Perhaps she wants something that you don’t have in sex and what you do is not particularly interesting to her, but she doesn’t want to tell you and develop the topic. Or maybe there is a lover on the side from whom he gets high and there is no interest in you for development in sex. Or maybe she’s happy with everything. There may be reasons for the sea. It’s better to talk to your wife during sex, then her language will be more frank.
Finding a woman for your family who will be a good wife, a business partner in work and a perverted whore in bed, all in one is rare. If you have money, you can simply buy such a woman who will be your wife and read your thoughts and wear a mask at your request. There are such women.

Unread post by **Meleon** » 12 Jun 2023, 08:16

The situation is similar to the author of the topic, and there were conversations and variety and her sex with a toy girl, but all these are temporary actions and everything is returning to a quiet course. Apparently, after becoming mothers, girls become more responsible, sometimes too much. But I don’t lose heart, I try to kindle the fires of passion and diversity, I won’t hide the fact that sometimes I take emotions on the side for this)

Unread post by **Vert** » 12 Jun 2023, 08:31

Different things happen in relationships. But for me, the mistress is superfluous.

Unread post by **Arianna** » 12 Jun 2023, 08:36

Desert1: 09 Jul 2022, 06:14 I try more to please and I get a kick out of it. My wife, on the contrary, concentrates more on herself and her feelings. It seems to be the norm, but in the end she never has the desire to do something for her partner herself, to experiment

And what would you like for did she do, specifically?

Unread post by **Young Spring** » 12 Jun 2023, 08:41

If you take on the role of the dominant one, then offer it yourself, and then whether your other half agrees to it or not depends on her.
Modesty adorns a woman.

Unread post by **Meleon** » 12 Jun 2023, 09:20

Vert: 12 Jun 2023, 08:31 Different things happen in relationships. But in my opinion, a mistress is superfluous.

Sometimes this is the only way not to make a mess at home. Anything can happen in life. And mistresses save families, believe me.

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Young Spring: 12 Jun 2023, 08:41 If you take on the role of the dominant one, then offer it yourself, and then whether your other half agrees to it or not depends on her.
Modesty adorns a woman.

Modesty in bed should be just a light veil hiding a passionate fiery lioness...

Unread post by **Avalet** » 12 Jun 2023, 09:37

There were different ladies, now I’m married to the same one as you, but in memories of one for whom the desire to please me was just as important as it was for me for her.
Koryakov is written, but the essence seems to be perceptible

Unread post by **Arianna** » 12 Jun 2023, 10:58

Meleon: 12 Jun 2023, 09:22 mistresses save families, believe me

I wouldn’t need a family saved at the expense of a mistress

Unread post by **Meleon** » 12 Jun 2023, 11:00

Most likely, you wouldn’t even know about it)

Unread post by **Arianna** » 12 Jun 2023, 11:12

Meleon, everything secret becomes clear)
If you want to go to your mistress, then you don’t need to save your family, you need to go look for your happiness elsewhere. And a family saved by a mistress is not a family, but one name

Unread post by **Meleon** » 12 Jun 2023, 11:16

Arianna, There is a good saying about this, with which I once had the opportunity to encounter a similar conversation..."Don’t draw conclusions without knowing the facts, anything can happen in life..."

Unread post by **Arianna** » 12 Jun 2023, 11:31

Meleon,
I probably understand what are you talking about, but! I can’t imagine a good reason for cheating, and a reason to keep the family together while having an affair. In order not to upset your wife, it is better to let her be upset right away than to realize in months/years how long a person has spat in her soul and wasted her best years. For the sake of children - also bullshit. Children need a happy father and a happy mother, even if they are separated. I knew that my father was cheating on my mother, at first I did not support the decision to divorce, but after a year I realized that it was the best thing they could do. Get rid of quarrels, clarifications, and concealments about why mom is crying and dad is not at home. I don’t know what other reasons there could be changes, but not divergence. Maybe it’s convenience. At home, a woman rustles about household chores, the children are fed, there is no need to share housing, why change anything? ♀️

Unread post by **Meleon** » 12 Jun 2023, 11:36

Arianna, And who said that I or she couldn’t become happy again? She made her mistakes, I made mine. And now, based on the experience of trial and error, we have learned to listen to each other and be there, warming each other. This happens too)

Unread post by **Arianna** » 12 Jun 2023, 11:50

Meleon, please tell us your story, maybe even a separate one topic? I’m not being sarcastic, just wondering

Unread post by **Meleon** » 12 Jun 2023, 11:51

Arianna, Definitely but a little later, maybe in PM.