How do you think you can persuade your husband to have such a relationship?

Unread post by **Kitten** » 18 Jul 2022, 09:25

The opinion of men on this matter is interesting. I understand that many here fantasize about this, but in reality few people have experience!
I have been married for almost 14 years. There are problems in sex with my husband. There were betrayals on my part, even separation. We talk about such relationships, but everything is in words. How to provoke at least some movement. The question about betrayal is closed, it’s all complicated, and she promised not to cheat. I don’t want blackmail either, I want his wishes. I understand that this is nonsense, but this also happens in life.

Unread post by **Elf Cat** » 18 Jul 2022, 09:27

Kitten,
It’s a little less clear nothing.
What do you want to persuade?

Unread post by **Concerned** » 18 Jul 2022, 09:29

Show him relevant porn, ask if he liked it.
If your husband loves you, he won’t be able to refuse you. There is no place for selfishness in love.

Unread post by **Kitten** » 18 Jul 2022, 09:32

Gato Elfo,
To relationships in sexwife-cuckold format. I thought that the topic was posted in a certain category and this would not raise questions)

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Concerned , We watch together. Sometimes he says he likes it, sometimes he says no, and it’s all wrong. He is simply "correct". Although he also has his own desires, he suppresses them.

Unread post by **VladBlack** » 18 Jul 2022, 09:38

Good evening.
Advice: find a family friend to put you at ease and introduce your husband to the topic.
I don’t see any other options if you’ve already tried everything together and the result is zero.

Unread post by **Anm** » 18 Jul 2022, 09:52

or separate and everyone live their own lives

Unread post by **Kitten** » 18 Jul 2022, 09:55

Anm,
Sometimes it’s much easier to say than to do. I won’t find such a man. You won’t get far with naked sex alone. I know, I tried it.
Thanks for the advice.

Unread post by **VladBlack** » 18 Jul 2022, 10:21

Then you need to liberate your man.
You need to act and try all options.
There is a goal

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Unread post by **New** » 18 Jul 2022, 12:00

Does he often stay home alone?

Unread post by **The wall** » 18 Jul 2022, 12:08

I think if there is no predisposition to such relationships, then it is difficult to involve...(((

Unread post by **Kitten** » 18 Jul 2022, 12:13

Stien,
Thank you for your opinion ..
I’m afraid of this too

Unread post by **The wall** » 18 Jul 2022, 12:16

I kept convincing my wife to fuck me and watch me suck. And she tells me I don’t like this and that’s it. So I fuck on the side.

Unread post by **Faust** » 18 Jul 2022, 12:19

Why would you humiliate your husband during sexual intercourse? Why would he attend when he himself will not participate, and why would he know that you are cheating on him? Imagine, tomorrow he will bring home 8 girls and say that now these are his wives, just like you. What will your reaction be? Will you live in a harem? Probably, if a person does not want to, there is no way to force him or convince him.

Unread post by **Kitten** » 18 Jul 2022, 12:24

Faust,
Thank you for your opinion.

Unread post by **The wall** » 18 Jul 2022, 12:33

Kitten, I would definitely be persuaded
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Kitten, What exactly do you want most in this relationship?

Unread post by **BOmD** » 18 Jul 2022, 13:15

I think it’s too late to change anything. The so-called "open relationship" is sought initially. And you have to be very lucky that after 15 years of a normal relationship, your partner would agree to this. Alas. My personal opinion, of course.

Unread post by **Capricorn** » 19 Jul 2022, 00:22

Maybe that’s all he needs. But

Unread post by **I stagger** » 19 Jul 2022, 00:32

This is inherent in many men, but it is necessary for a man to get a buzz from it, strong arousal.
It happened to me. I was on the beach looking at a girl without a bra and out of spite, mine took off hers. I even went swimming without it. I I was nervous and jealous, but she didn’t pay attention to me before the quarrel. I somehow got very excited, it wasn’t my penis that got hard, but a strong moral excitement.
Then she admitted that she was turned on by the fact that men and I were looking at her breasts admitted that he was also excited. This was the beginning.
You also need to dictate your nerves. Show off your charms in front of other men. Well, then frank conversations are needed. Write to me if anything happens

Unread post by **Kitten** » 19 Jul 2022, 01:00

Capricorn,
What-but? ! Unless of course it’s a secret)

Unread post by **Slv3rF0x** » 19 Jul 2022, 01:28

I myself inclined myself towards such a relationship. About two years. She flatly refused to listen. Then I agreed with her that I would simply tell similar fantasies during sex, so that I could talk it out with her, and not hide fantasies from her and withdraw more and more into myself. Thus, little by little he “sharpened the stone.” I dreamed that sooner or later someone would start hitting on her. And at some point this happened. And when her future lover began to show signs of attention to her, she decided to play along with him. And throughout the entire period of courtship she told me and asked if I was tired, if I was jealous, if I would stop loving her later. First blowjob she did it to him after writing to me, asking if I was really ready.
In your situation, I think you should initially be prepared that your husband will want someone on the side and not be jealous. The key to such a relationship is trust and communication with each other. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.

Unread post by **Kitten** » 19 Jul 2022, 01:33

Slv3rF0x,

Thank you)
I also hope that everything will work out in the end.

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 19 Jul 2022, 03:04

Kitten,
Try playing with it ass, accustom him to a strap-on, and then I think he will be more flexible)))

Unread post by **Kitten** » 19 Jul 2022, 03:08

Sibiryak89,
This is in progress) strapon It’s still difficult, but I’ve been playing with his butt with my fingers for a long time)

Unread post by **The wall** » 19 Jul 2022, 03:23

Kitten, Lucky your husband. So he will get used to the role of a girl...)))

Unread post by **I stagger** » 19 Jul 2022, 03:55

Kitten: ↑18 Jul 2022, 09:55,

It’s certainly important to have a good relationship, love, live in perfect harmony and then in complete trust, it’s just a highlight if both like to try such sexual relationships. Unfortunately, few people agree to them, and whoever agrees, few people can live a good family life with. I started such a relationship with my first one, but she fell in love with someone else and the family broke up. Then, no matter how much I looked, I couldn’t find anything normal in the family and my sex life was like that, because I just don’t want to live with a lady without brakes either

Unread post by **Petrtmn** » 19 Jul 2022, 04:19

Try going to a swingers party

Unread post by **RomanS** » 19 Jul 2022, 04:35

Slv3rF0x, great advice. Now I’m also at the stage of getting my wife to take the first steps towards meeting a man. She had a lover, but he was elderly and the meetings were secret. I immediately figured out what was what, but put off the conversation until later. Later he admitted that I knew everything and didn’t mind. She was hostile at first, but then calmed down. But over time, their meetings faded away. And she cooled down on this topic. Now I’m trying to rekindle this in her, but there’s not enough man to pursue her. It seems like he wants to become a sexwife, and breaks down. But frank conversations between husband and wife will help overcome this.

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 19 Jul 2022, 04:58

Kitten: ↑19 Jul 2022, 03:08 Sibiryak89,
nThis is in progress) strapon it’s still difficult, but I’ve been playing with his butt with my fingers for a long time)

Play more often so that he gets drawn in, so that he gets excited about it and during the games ask if you would like to try it live, etc.))), promotion for dialogue

Unread post by **Slv3rF0x** » 19 Jul 2022, 05:26

You can also approach the issue from the point of view of prostate massage. Over the years, it will be useful for any man. And whoever has tried it knows how pleasant the warmth is from there. This was the first time I had this done in a clinic. The doctor advised me to try it when I was treating something simple. A sister came to the procedure and inserted the device for about 10 minutes. In first time was a little awkward, but then I liked it.
Or maybe my wife’s lover and I will massage each other’s prostates))

Unread post by **Kitten** » 19 Jul 2022, 06:25

Thank you all) it’s nice to hear adequate advice))

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 19 Jul 2022, 06:58

Kitten, many women start by inviting another woman into bed .Agree with a friend to help. Organize a party without informing your husband. Start making out with her, invite your husband to participate. He should like it. The second step will be inviting a couple. You will have an argument, saying that I arranged a friend for you so that you can feel good , now come and meet me. And then it will be easier. This is from personal experience with women and their husbands.

Unread post by **Kitten** » 19 Jul 2022, 07:08

Tolqala,

I don’t have such a friend, and my husband refuses this format) he understands perfectly well that I will demand it later)
But thanks for the advice)

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 19 Jul 2022, 07:12

Kitten, I told you to do this without his knowledge. During a party, with wine. Any man will get aroused and want another woman if she is naked. My friend did this. When they started playing with a friend, she simply told her husband to sit closer and she and her friend took the initiative in your hands and undress him. No man will run away from this.

Unread post by **Avada Kedavra** » 19 Jul 2022, 08:01

First, suggest the format of zhmzh. You don’t even have to propose it, but implement it. For example, when a friend came to spend the night and so on. After that it’s easier to talk. On the terms, we made you happy, now I want it too.

Unread post by **Kitten** » 19 Jul 2022, 08:07

Okay, I’ll try to find such a "girlfriend")

Unread post by **Topchik** » 19 Jul 2022, 08:38

And you fisting have you tried it yet?
If not, then it’s time to start trying.
And you can also hit the ass with a scribbler. And then the fantasy will run wild.

Unread post by **Capricorn** » 19 Jul 2022, 14:06

Kitten, But maybe he jerks off on the quiet and doesn’t fuck you . Every man needs to let off steam, at least a couple of times a week. You can change the location. A hotel room or rented apartment. A new place always adds spice to a relationship. But these are all my thoughts. And what thoughts and goals you have are not completely clear. Little information.

Unread post by **steppe cat** » 17 Aug 2022, 13:36

Kitten!
I think you should excite your husband, confess to him again your love for him and... talk about your wild desire to have sex with other men.
At the same time, the main argument for the husband should be that , Your skills in sex will become the envy of your husband from other men.

Unread post by **Coffee** » 12 Sep 2022, 22:22

Tolqala: ↑19 Jul 2022, 06:58 Kitten, many women start by inviting another woman into bed. Agree with a friend to help. Organize a party without informing your husband. Start making out with her, invite your husband to participate. He should like it. The second step will be to invite a couple. You have there will be an argument, they say, I set up a friend for you, so that you feel good, now go and meet me. And then it will be easier. This is from personal experience with women and their husbands.

Yes, this option definitely works.

Unread post by **sptlh** » 12 Sep 2022, 22:28

If it works out, then it’s probably to persuade him. And this will create additional stress. Apparently, he doesn’t just want it. In general, it is not in the nature of a man to share a woman. Rather, on the contrary, he is aimed at other people’s women. So swing is probably his limit, and it’s not a fact that he wants to.

Unread post by **Marinaa** » 12 Sep 2022, 22:32

Compliment him, tell him how courageous and strong he is, that he is the best in your life, how great he is at sex...

Unread post by **Chalk** » 12 Sep 2022, 23:32

Kitten, The first thing you need is to sit down at the table like this called "negotiations", talk, explain the situation, say that yes, she promised not to cheat, but the body needs it, and if the essence is a whore, then without sex I’m climbing to the ceiling!
You need to make it clear that a sexwife/cuckold relationship is not cheating, it is rather an addition to the relationship, new feelings, bright emotions, excitement!
This is what will reboot the relationship!
You need to approach the conversation correctly!
You can rock it from afar, constantly talk about it, watch the corresponding porn with him, and say that this is very exciting, let’s try! At the same time, the most important thing is to say that you love him very much, and you don’t want to do this without him, but exclusively with him! Try

Unread post by **Violent** » 13 Sep 2022, 00:40

How to persuade. Be strong friends. This is the main thing.

Unread post by **12345** » 15 Sep 2022, 19:20

Kitten: ↑18 Jul 2022, 09:25 The opinion of men on this matter is interesting. I understand that many here fantasize about this, but in reality few people have experience!
I have been married for almost 14 years. There are problems in sex with my husband. There were betrayals on my part, even separation. We talk about such relationships, but everything is in words. How to provoke at least some movement. The question about betrayal is closed, it’s all complicated, and she promised not to cheat. I don’t want blackmail either, I want his wishes. I understand that this is nonsense, but this also happens in life.

Only a frank heart-to-heart conversation, the main thing is that you love each other, without love this is not possible.

Unread post by **Andrewv** » 15 Sep 2022, 19:49

Kitten: ↑18 Jul 2022, 09:25 The opinion of men on this matter is interesting. I understand that many here fantasize about this, but in reality few people have experience!
I have been married for almost 14 years. There are problems in sex with my husband. There were betrayals on my part, even separation. We talk about such relationships, but everything is in words. How to provoke at least some movement. The question about betrayal is closed, it’s all complicated, and she promised not to cheat. I don’t want blackmail either, I want his wishes. I understand that it’s nonsense, but this also happens in life.

and we have the opposite situation, I can’t persuade my wife to the sexwife-cuckold format, although mzhm often happens here .

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 15 Sep 2022, 19:59

Kitten,
Sea holidays, there are a lot of strangers but adequate people who are also not averse to fooling around, go with your husband and there offer to relax your soul and body

I succeeded, there was an episode on vacation, and acquaintance immediately cut off.

Unread post by **Sweep** » 15 Sep 2022, 20:09

Uran7: ↑19 Jul 2022, 00:32 Flashing charms in front of other men. Well, then frank conversations are needed

my husband also provokes me to this himself and it excites him very much and he takes advantage of it, I I think if my husband likes it, then it’s normal.

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Sibiryak89: ↑15 Sep 2022, 19:59 Relax by the sea, there are a lot of strangers but adequate people who are also not averse to fooling around, go with your husband and there offer to relax your soul and body

rest with a topic with whom you don’t get away, it can be a place for many experiments and if it doesn’t work out, it’s easier to forget.

Unread post by **I stagger** » 16 Sep 2022, 03:40

If your husband likes it when other men see your charms, then you need to go further, say that you dreamed about someone dragging your breasts in front of him, and he allowed him. See what he says.

Unread post by **Vartislav** » 21 Sep 2022, 13:45

Any debauchery must be persuaded (husband or wife) during arousal - that is, during sex. And act delicately - do not go too far. A premature visit to a swing event can only put you off - well, if only from swing. The molester must be a psychologist and diplomat. Make the victim offer you what you want. And you will even become sad, embarrassed... And you will slowly warm up and feed this desire. What would you like? For example, I’m not your wife, but some whore... And you would... what would you decide on? Only for fun... Only in fantasies.. What are your most shameless fantasies? And And (all this talk during a slow blowjob) Well, describe... how it should be...

Unread post by **Mihaaa 4** » 08 Nov 2022, 18:05

As I understand it, you don’t have enough sex, but your husband is either not interested in it or doesn’t need it at all. everything is just talk. I need to get her interested, my wife is also a conservative when it comes to sex and it’s difficult to get her interested in any kind of diversity.

How do you think you can persuade your husband to have such a relationship?

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