My boyfriend goes crazy after drinking alcohol

Unread post by **Anonymous** » 14 Nov 2019, 14:05

Admin anon, thank you Hello, I have a question for everyone.
I’m 22, I have a son, we’ve been dating and living together for a short time, everything is great when he’s sober. As soon as he drinks more than 4 and a half beers, he is blown away, a completely different person and every time he blows my mind, I don’t know why he does this, maybe you can tell me. Either he says that I bring the guys home while he is at work, then he demands my VK password, and when I ask him to give me his password, he also refuses. He can get drunk, close the door with the wrong key and fall asleep, and after work I go to sleep with my mother..
Yesterday he beat up his friend, there is blood all over the apartment, the new sofa is broken, the cat is scared under the sink.
He says, drunk, that he is not worthy of me, that he loves me, but does not trust me, when trust has already disappeared. I know for myself that I didn’t give any reasons, after work I went straight home, on weekends I’m home. I don’t know what to do, but I can’t look at this schizophrenia anymore. Thank you for reading. I hope for adequate comments

Unread post by **Alex** » 18 Oct 2020, 07:00

Well, why do you need such a "treasure"?

Unread post by **Nick** » 18 Oct 2020, 07:13

If he has such questions and accusations for you, that means he is! If he had not changed, he would not have such thoughts in his head.

Unread post by **Lekha 1967** » 18 Oct 2020, 07:45

He’s just jealous because he most likely loves

Unread post by **Denach** » 12 May 2022, 09:01

lekha1967, I agree, but it’s also possible that what Nick, try to leave if you can, otherwise you will have the rest of your life will ruin you and later there will be you

Unread post by **vikylechka75** » 12 May 2022, 09:14

Anonymous, there is no need to torment yourself and endure such insignificance. If he respected those around him, he would not drink. If he understands that it blows his mind. Imagine if there are children and they should look at this? Throw this stuff away

Unread post by **Denach** » 12 May 2022, 09:17

I agree, leave him!

Unread post by **Zhenina** » 14 May 2022, 03:06

4 one and a half rubles! Why do you need a drunk...

Unread post by **Barmaleykin_47** » 14 May 2022, 03:17

While you’re young, leave him, you’ll find someone better and not an alcoholic. It won’t get any better.

Unread post by **Incest slut** » 14 May 2022, 03:42

If you love him and want to move on with your life, try taking him to a narcologist/psychologist and find some solution. If nothing changes, leave him. There’s just a problem: it’s very difficult to get out of such a relationship, he may not leave you alone after breaking up if he gets drunk, and he will definitely get drunk more than once! And there is also a high probability that some kind of "friend" is saying such nasty things about you, well, that you are cheating on him, so when a sober person probably understands that this is nonsense, but when he drinks on him and finds it, apparently, it hurt after all. I had such a story with my boyfriend... He punched his “friend” for not calling me when my boyfriend decided to introduce us to his friend. This asshole didn’t say anything to my face, then only when I left, but smiled and was kind to my face. It’s just that this cretin himself always came across only shabolds who used him, he’s not good for anything more, and the guy and I have been together for many years. But for some time the martyr was still picking my brains after that story, until I asked what was the matter with his constant unfounded nagging, and that’s when he admitted everything.

Unread post by **Vulva** » 14 May 2022, 04:34

For me, even after drinking a little, I feel overwhelmed. I cheated like this several times when I was in a relationshipx

Unread post by **Region** » 14 May 2022, 04:40

Anonymous: ↑14 Nov 2019, 14:05 Admin anon, thank you Hello, I have a question for everyone.
I’m 22, I have a son, we’ve been dating and living together for a short time, everything is great when he’s sober. As soon as he drinks more than 4 and a half beers, he is blown away, a completely different person and every time he blows my mind, I don’t know why he does this, maybe you can tell me. Either he says that I bring the guys home while he is at work, then he demands my VK password, and when I ask him to give me his password, he also refuses. He can get drunk, close the door with the wrong key and fall asleep, and after work I go to sleep with my mother..
Yesterday he beat up his friend, there is blood all over the apartment, the new sofa is broken, the cat is scared under the sink.
He says, drunk, that he is not worthy of me, that he loves me, but does not trust me, when trust has already disappeared. I know for myself that I didn’t give reasons, after work I went straight home, on weekends I’m home. I don’t know what to do, but I can’t look at this schizophrenia anymore. Thank you for reading. I hope for adequate comments

The author needs to run away from such a person without looking back, this will not end well, advice has been given, it’s up to you to decide!

Unread post by **alphabet97** » 14 May 2022, 05:23

Why such happiness? By the way, this idiot can do anything weird. At the same time, remember that domestic violence has been decriminalized. Where to go if God forbid starts beating you?

Unread post by **Vulva** » 14 May 2022, 05:25

alphabet97: ↑14 May 2022, 05:23 Why such happiness? By the way, this idiot can do anything weird. At the same time, remember that domestic violence has been decriminalized. Where to turn if God forbid starts beating you?

It’s not so clear-cut. depending on how and with what and with whom

Unread post by **sevener** » 15 May 2022, 04:50

About love is complete nonsense, there is no smell of love here on either side. Of course, there is no point for a girl to date such a man, he is not able to change, neither a narcologist nor a psychologist will help here. This is for now when he beats a friend, but soon he will start beating a girl, threatening her, spying on her, blackmailing her, etc. It’s better to completely end the relationship with him.
I’ll also add that it wasn’t by chance that I got caught like this. The girl had a need for just such a man, for some it is important that they be beaten, subjected to violence, this is such karma.

Unread post by **decathlon** » 17 May 2022, 08:42

An alternative here is the following: the guy is not confident in himself, maybe he is not strong on his feet, this specifically presses him inside, well, maybe there are other internal inconsistencies... as a result, he drinks to change reality.
partly looks like an inversion dominance... when a guy can’t feel like a guy, and as a result, he doesn’t see any options other than a bottle...

What to do? Either talk to a psychologist, or go away and watch how other young people behave; it is possible that the pattern of behavior is geared towards inversion.

A kind of strong bitch who bends - as a result, who bends is not interesting, and who doesn’t bend - is sent to a well-known address

Unread post by **Amanda** » 17 May 2022, 10:43

Why ruin yourself? Live your life alone
It will be difficult at first, but then everything will get better

Unread post by **Frion1** » 18 May 2022, 06:55

A drunkard won’t do any good, leave the marginalized

My boyfriend goes crazy after drinking alcohol

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