I'm a virgin, but of legal age, please explain...

[Anonymous]

I’m a virgin, but of age, please explain how it turns out that boys excite me, but I’m scared to have sex?
How can this be fixed?
Please help, I still want a family, children, but the process of sex is for me disgusting!

[Peace be upon you]

Mademoiselle, first of all, find a potential partner and don’t look for a prince on a white horse, take a better look at your surroundings. I’m sure there will be a good guy! Secondly, discuss everything with him, don’t be afraid, because you risk staying with the girls, and this is not the best option. Third - ALCOHOL helps. If you need to go unconscious, then so be it. And most importantly, set your priorities correctly - what is more important, your future family or your aversion to sex.

[Hair shirt]

I’m a virgin, but of age, please explain how it turns out that boys excite me but I’m scared to have sex?
How can this be fixed?
Please help, I still want a family, children, but the process of sex disgusts me

I think that the best way would be to simply buy a male prostitute.
Because he will do it in the best possible way and everything will be beautiful and exactly the way you want.
He will help you relax, won’t rush, and will do everything so that everything will be very pleasant. As it should be.

But first, you will have to get really excited. And for this you need to teach your body this.
That is, you need to learn how to cum from masturbation. But I think every girl, just like every guy, of course, does this, and maybe they even do it almost every day.
Well, in general, I think that you need to hire a prostitute and explain everything to him. And then try to get as excited as possible. Maybe he will even help in this matter in any way he can.

That is, before specific direct sex, you must be very excited and must want someone to enter you with their penis.
You have to want it. This is fine. This is inherent in nature and it is at the level of instinct. You just need to not resist this and you need to excite yourself very much.
For this you have ethogenic zones on your chest and pussy.
Excuse me for my French and for the fact that I call a spade a spade.

But if we are talking about sex, then you need to remember that there should be no prohibitions!
That is, the fewer restrictions the better.
That is, this means that You shouldn’t be shy about your partner. This is the first.
And if you are excited enough, then the embarrassment should go away by itself.

If it doesn’t go away and you still can’t help it, then take it member in hand. Touch it.
If you are squeamish, then let him go to the bathroom and return clean and smelling of soap.
But the penis should not be disgusting to you. Try to perceive it as a part of your body.
Touch it in different places, rub it. But not very much. Lubricate it with something so as not to accidentally damage the skin or rub it.

From your touch, the penis will definitely begin to stand up and increase in size. The head will swell. Kiss her. Suck.
And most importantly, don’t rush anywhere and don’t rush things and let your partner take his time too.
Ask your partner to, in turn, touch and caress your pussy.
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Ask him to do it gently and take his time.
Don’t be shy and tell him how to caress your pussy. What exactly and how to touch. That is, so that he does everything the same way as you masturbate with yourself.
That is, he will do everything exactly the same as you do. But only this will be done by him.
If you need to touch your breasts in the process, then let him do it. If you need to lubricate your finger with oil and enter your ass, then tell him about it and let him do it.

That is, do not be shy in any case.
Maybe with It’s easier with a prostitute because it’s very difficult to completely relax with an acquaintance or friend. Or it should be an already familiar partner with whom trust has been achieved.
But where does this trust come from if you haven’t fucked anyone yet and this is all your first time?
So, of course, some kind of a third-party person will be very helpful.

If, nevertheless, you do not accept the option of a prostitute, then for this purpose it is better to find some completely third-party person. Not from your environment, but with whom you are familiar.
But one way or another, it is desirable that this is some kind of adult with obvious sexual experience. Well, for example, some kind of married man.
It is desirable for an intelligent person so that he does not accidentally ruin everything and that in the process he does not lose his temper and simply rape you.

As unfortunate as this is but often men break down in the process of solitude with a woman and get so excited that they break down. For example, a man is in too much of a hurry and the woman somehow slows him down. And he, being very excited, thinks that right now he is being bullied and that right now all these hugs will end with the phrase - let’s go have a smoke - and they break away.
They simply climb in and take the woman by force.
If the woman already has sexual experience, then In the process of this forced sexual intercourse, she is simply aroused naturally and in the end the sex is quite full. With mutual orgasm and the absence of mutual claims.

But if a woman has no sexual experience, or it is very insignificant, then it all ends in tears, mutual reproaches, chafing, unpleasant sensations, both physical and moral.
Therefore, in this entire first sexual experience, salvation and a guarantee that everything will go well is a very strong female arousal.
That is, one must not rush things and achieve strong arousal. Well, just like that, she’s ready to grab someone’s dick and shove it inside herself, even if its owner doesn’t really want it.

Well, in order to achieve such arousal with a partner, you must first learn how to achieve without him.
And I think, and I will even say more - I know that this is possible for any woman without sexual experience.
Any girl is capable of bringing herself to orgasm in private.
Calm atmosphere, a little imagination...

If that doesn’t work, then you can go to one or another site where men flash their dicks on webcams.
Chat with such characters online. Chat with them about sex. All this should excite you.
And this is how you learn to bring yourself to orgasm on your own.

If you learn to do this, then it will be much easier with a partner. You just need him to take his time and help you get excited. And maybe even finish before any penetration.
But I’ll say right away that if YOU have no sexual experience, then for starters it would be better if you just get very excited and, as a result, really want him to enter you.
Well, she actually started fucking YOU. That is, to make movements in your pussy back and forth.

If you are very excited, then you will flow very much accordingly. That’s what it’s called. In practice, with strong arousal, the pussy becomes filled with something very similar to mucus. And this is not even a lubricant that is secreted by special glands in YOUR vagina. It’s just mucus that flows and flows out of you all the time you want to fuck like a cat.

Well, so...
Some women cum and then want to be fucked again and again...
And for some, everything works like for men - she’s finished and she doesn’t want it right now and right here. And she needs some time to want it again.
So if you don’t know yourself yet, it’s better to excite yourself very much but not cum.
You can understand that you can already be fucked and you will be pleased by your own feelings.

You should instinctively begin to move your pelvis towards the movements of your partner. Let’s say he caresses your clitoris with his finger, touches the lips on your pussy with his fingers, touches the entrance to the vagina with his finger and strokes it.
And at this time you feel that your body, regardless of you, begins to strive to impale itself on something that is not yet there .
This is observed in almost all highly excited women.

As soon as a woman is strongly irritated, she begins to clearly move her pelvis. This is what you need.
But it should be as if independent of you and uncontrollable. That is, you yourself didn’t even think about twirling your ass. And they touched you by the pussy and you instinctively arched your back towards them.
This is it!

And lastly...
Don’t make sex a means for anything. Don’t mix sex with some kind of morality or lack thereof.
Treat sex as a very powerful means of achieving pleasure.
Morality has absolutely nothing to do with it. You just really wanted to fuck. And you went and did it with someone.

Don’t interfere with love, starting a family and other things.
Appreciate this opportunity before you get married, until You didn’t promise anything to anyone and didn’t sign up for anything.
People actually come to this, but in different ways. And many go for a very long time before finally arriving at this.

Yes, our society is structured in such a way that a man can do it, but a girl can’t. And like a man he remains a man, and a girl becomes a slut.
But this is all hypocrisy. But in fact, the same married women willingly fuck with men, with bosses, on business trips.
With a one hundred percent guarantee that no one will know about it.
Somewhere on a business trip or in a train compartment, or something else where.

Well, the person just wanted it. And there are no obstacles. Because you can’t just have sex at work - everyone will immediately know about it. Shu shu shu...

[Dresscod25]

I am a virgin, but of age, please explain how it is that boys excite me but I’m scared to have sex?
How can this be fixed?
Please help, I still want to family, children, but the process of sex disgusts me

I think that the best way would be to simply buy a male prostitute.
Because he will do it in the best possible way and everything will be beautiful and exactly the way you want.
He will help you relax, won’t rush and will make everything so that everything will be very pleasant. As it should be.

But first, you will have to get really excited. And for this you need to teach your body this.
That is, you need to learn how to cum from masturbation. But I think every girl, just like every guy, of course, does this, and maybe they even do it almost every day.
Well, in general, I think that you need to hire a prostitute and explain everything to him. And then try to get as excited as possible. Maybe he will even help in this matter in any way he can.

That is, before specific direct sex, you must be very excited and must want someone to enter you with their penis.
You have to want it. This is fine. This is inherent in nature and it is at the level of instinct. You just need to not resist this and you need to excite yourself very much.
For this you have ethogenic zones on your chest and pussy.
Excuse me for my French and for the fact that I call a spade a spade.

But if we are talking about sex, then you need to remember that there should be no prohibitions!
That is, the fewer restrictions the better.
That is, this means that You shouldn’t be shy about your partner. This is the first.
And if you are excited enough, then the embarrassment should go away by itself.

If it doesn’t go away and you still can’t help it, then take it member in hand. Touch it.
If you are squeamish, then let him go to the bathroom and return clean and smelling of soap.
But the penis should not be disgusting to you. Try to perceive it as a part of your body.
Touch it in different places, rub it. But not very much. Lubricate it with something so as not to accidentally damage the skin or rub it.

From your touch, the penis will definitely begin to stand up and increase in size. The head will swell. Kiss her. Suck.
And most importantly, don’t rush anywhere and don’t rush things and let your partner take his time too.
Ask your partner to, in turn, touch and caress your pussy.
n
Ask him to do it gently and take his time.
Don’t be shy and tell him how to caress your pussy. What exactly and how to touch. That is, so that he does everything the same way as you masturbate with yourself.
That is, he will do everything exactly the same as you do. But only this will be done by him.
If you need to touch your breasts in the process, then let him do it. If you need to lubricate your finger with oil and enter your ass, then tell him about it and let him do it.

That is, do not be shy in any case.
Maybe with It’s easier with a prostitute because it’s very difficult to completely relax with an acquaintance or friend. Or it should be an already familiar partner with whom trust has been achieved.
But where does this trust come from if you haven’t fucked anyone yet and this is all your first time?
So, of course, some kind of a third-party person will be very helpful.

If, nevertheless, you do not accept the option of a prostitute, then for this purpose it is better to find some completely third-party person. Not from your environment, but with whom you are familiar.
But one way or another, it is desirable that this is some kind of adult with obvious sexual experience. Well, for example, some kind of married man.
It is desirable for an intelligent person so that he does not accidentally ruin everything and that in the process he does not lose his temper and simply rape you.

As unfortunate as this is but often men break down in the process of solitude with a woman and get so excited that they break down. For example, a man is in too much of a hurry and the woman somehow slows him down. And he, being very excited, thinks that right now he is being bullied and that right now all these hugs will end with the phrase - let’s go have a smoke - and they break away.
They simply climb in and take the woman by force.
If the woman already has sexual experience, then In the process of this forced sexual intercourse, she is simply aroused naturally and in the end the sex is quite full. With mutual orgasm and the absence of mutual claims.

But if a woman has no sexual experience, or it is very insignificant, then it all ends in tears, mutual reproaches, chafing, unpleasant sensations, both physical and moral.
Therefore, in this entire first sexual experience, salvation and a guarantee that everything will go well is a very strong female arousal.
That is, one must not rush things and achieve strong arousal. Well, just like that, she’s ready to grab someone’s dick and shove it inside herself, even if its owner doesn’t really want it.

Well, in order to achieve such arousal with a partner, you must first learn how to achieve without him.
And I think, and I will even say more - I know that this is possible for any woman without sexual experience.
Any girl is capable of bringing herself to orgasm in private.
Calm atmosphere, a little imagination...

If that doesn’t work, then you can go to one or another site where men flash their dicks on webcams.
Chat with such characters online. Chat with them about sex. All this should excite you.
And this is how you learn to bring yourself to orgasm on your own.

If you learn to do this, then it will be much easier with a partner. You just need him to take his time and help you get excited. And maybe even finish before any penetration.
But I’ll say right away that if YOU have no sexual experience, then for starters it would be better if you just get very excited and, as a result, really want him to enter you.
Well, she actually started fucking YOU. That is, to make movements in your pussy back and forth.

If you are very excited, then you will flow very much accordingly. That’s what it’s called. In practice, with strong arousal, the pussy becomes filled with something very similar to mucus. And this is not even a lubricant that is secreted by special glands in YOUR vagina. It’s just mucus that flows and flows out of you all the time you want to fuck like a cat.

Well, so...
Some women cum and then want to be fucked again and again...
And for some, everything works like for men - she’s finished and she doesn’t want it right now and right here. And she needs some time to want it again.
So if you don’t know yourself yet, it’s better to excite yourself very much but not cum.
You can understand that you can already be fucked and you will be pleased by your own feelings.

You should instinctively begin to move your pelvis towards the movements of your partner. Let’s say he caresses your clitoris with his finger, touches the lips on your pussy with his fingers, touches the entrance to the vagina with his finger and strokes it.
And at this time you feel that your body, regardless of you, begins to strive to impale itself on something that is not yet there .
This is observed in almost all highly excited women.

As soon as a woman is strongly irritated, she begins to clearly move her pelvis. This is what you need.
But it should be as if independent of you and uncontrollable. That is, you yourself didn’t even think about twirling your ass. And they touched you by the pussy and you instinctively arched your back towards them.
This is it!

And lastly...
Don’t make sex a means for anything. Don’t mix sex with some kind of morality or lack thereof.
Treat sex as a very powerful means of achieving pleasure.
Morality has absolutely nothing to do with it. You just really wanted to fuck. And you went and did it with someone.

Don’t interfere with love, starting a family and other things.
Appreciate this opportunity before you get married, until You didn’t promise anything to anyone and didn’t sign up for anything.
People actually come to this, but in different ways. And many go for a very long time before finally arriving at this.

Yes, our society is structured in such a way that a man can do it, but a girl can’t. And like a man he remains a man, and a girl becomes a slut.
But this is all hypocrisy. But in fact, the same married women willingly fuck with men, with bosses, on business trips.
With a one hundred percent guarantee that no one will know about it.
Somewhere on a business trip or in a train compartment, or something else where.

Well, the person just wanted it. And there are no obstacles. Because you can’t just have sex at work - everyone will immediately know about it. Shu shu shu...

Yes, there is a whole guide here! Well done! I hope this really helps her

[niqk]

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[Alinka]

Girl! Fall head over heels in love first! And only then will you think about virginity! Never put the cart before the horse...

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[niqk]

Alinochka! You’re so smart! How great you thought of everything!

[Masters]

My niece decided this, if not now, then later, it’s not a fact that I’ll make up my mind soon and have made up my mind, but you have to decide for yourself and get ready for this step

[niqk]

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