Tell me what to do?

[Couscous]

In short, this is the topic. I’m straight, but I have the following desires:
I like that my wife caresses my ass. But she only lightly, with a finger or tongue. I would like her to strap on me sometimes, she doesn’t seem to mind, but she doesn’t seem to be for it either. She says this is strange, yet she is ready to try everything. What should I do? I also dream that she would dominate during cunnilingus, be downright dominant.
One more question: I’m a terrible libertine and she’s not very active in this regard. How to untie her hands and head so that she is relaxed?

And the last question: we don’t have regular sex. Either yes or no.
I’m really, really excited. And he began to cum quickly. 5-10 minutes maximum (even though I am circumcised). How to fix this matter?

[Woman]

I would like her to strap on me sometimes

read my topic - unstrap your lover, many people told their stories and advice there..

[seriously]

Hello, there is only one answer, no way. Until she herself wants nothing to change, I spoke with mine many times on these topics, the answer is: a categorical refusal, like only whores do this. She had a lot of things in her youth, but everyone just used her, in general, I was the first to do it. You have to beg for a blowjob for a long time, and even if he does, fuck off. The use of toys is a change later, some kind of initiative movement on her part’Are you saying I’m not like that? And we have been together for 12 years.

[Polyansky]

Kusikusi,
hello
in short, a drop wears away a stone. When you have sex, very unobtrusively suggest what you would like to do.
Divide your wish lists into leading wish lists.
go ahead and talk about it, say that you’re pleased with it, that it’s such a feature.
no attacks.
you’ll finish quickly about it. in which cases?