Marinka: 02 Feb 2023, 06:48
My message has already been edited, the description of my appearance was removed, and if you don’t understand, I said goodbye to you in the last message. Thank you for not being lazy to write so many letters. It may not be informative, but at least it’s not boring. I am leaving not from you, but from the forum. This should have been done a few days ago and I was even planning to do it, but I changed my mind. I’m like that, I can change my mind five times in five minutes. But you still have to leave. I’m tired of arguing. All the best to you.
First of all, these are not so many letters. You say orders of magnitude more in a conversation in a couple of minutes. You just never wondered what if your chatter on the phone was translated into text, how many pages of this same text would be produced. And here I will simply be an example of brevity against this background.
Again, perhaps it seems to you that there is a lot of text because you are trying on yourself how much time it will take you to write the same amount. If you type with two or four fingers of both hands, then yes, there is a lot of text and it will take a long time to type.
Now imagine that you can type with a ten-finger touch method? And what do you type quickly enough and can even manage to type from dictation? And from this position there is not so much text. And here the main thing is different - whether it is interesting to read or not.
But here again there is no need to judge by yourself. Some are interested, some are not. And if, say, I wrote so much text to you in a personal message and it turned out that this text is not interesting to you, then yes, this is of course unnecessary.
But here, on this forum, people write not only personally You, as well as other forum visitors. And not even to those who wrote something here, but also to those who read but did not respond. I just read it. Look at the statistics of certain topics. That is, the number of views. This is the number that has read this topic. And when you write that there is a lot of text or that this text is not interesting, then you need to add that this is your personal opinion. And that in fact there are still a huge number of people whose opinions are unknown.
In general, the specificity of forums is such that the number of people simply reading greatly exceeds the number of those who write something on certain forums.
And whether a particular topic is interesting or not can be judged by the traffic. That is, by the number of visits. For example, we can safely say that on this forum a very popular topic is dedicated to incest.
And finally, about communication itself. Is it worth communicating or not, and most importantly with whom. I understand this: if you don’t respect a person, then you don’t need to communicate with him. It’s actually very simple - you don’t like a person, so don’t communicate with him. And everyone will be happy. But if you continue to communicate with someone who is unpleasant or not interesting to you, then everything that follows turns out to be your own fault.
For some reason you began to provoke (nowadays it’s called trolling) the person you dislike to communicate. The person reacted somehow, your ass exploded. Screams, insults.
But all this could have been avoided. That is, just don’t communicate.
But sometimes it happens that you have to communicate and you have no choice and you have to communicate with people you don’t like. And it is precisely in these cases that it helps a lot that your parents once gave you the most valuable thing that can be given to you besides money - a good education.
It’s a good one, and not just a high school education. A good education requires the ability to connect cases, the ability to go on stage and talk about something in front of a large audience for at least half an hour. Without stumbling, without words of parasites, and without pauses when in the process I forgot what I wanted to say.
All this is called a broad outlook. This is when you have to be ready to talk about a wide variety of things. If you want to talk about music, let’s talk about music, if you have the opportunity and desire, you can even sit down right here and now and play four hands. Do you want to talk about opera? You can talk about the opera - discuss what happened last time and where Netrebko sang and what she is doing now and where she is. And what’s going on at LaScala now? And if you want, you can even sing something with your baritone.
Because you were taught this, because you completed a year-long vocal course. Because you have a good voice and you know musical notation and can sing according to the notes. And this is not for you to yell in a hoarse voice at the dacha to someone’s accordion. And all this is solely so that you can communicate somewhere.
And after each communication, do not break into hysterics and then say that everyone around you is some kind of fagot, and you are the only one among them DArtagnan.