Girls, what do we have for self-defense?

[Viola]

Inspired by this topic

That’s why I have a traumatic pistol.

Who else has a gas canister, or a stun gun for example?

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

These are all beautiful words. A man lives his ordinary life. Making some plans. He follows a road that he has walked hundreds of times. You don’t feel anything. You’re thinking about what to cook for dinner. About the fact that the child needs to be vaccinated, take tests or report at work. Stop by the service station because something is knocking in the car, or how to stretch the money until salary, and from salary start saving for vacation. There is no fear.
It’s just that one day you end up in the same place and at the same time with a criminal. Coincidence. And whether you are afraid of him or not does not matter. You are his victim and if you have nothing to repel aggression, then your fate is completely in his hands, and if you do, then it’s 50/50.

you wrote, that they attacked you in the entrance, now you have this fear in your subcortex. You may not think about it, you may think about children or work, but fear is in your blood.
You are writing about it now because you are afraid.

This topic is about self-defense. I write something that can be useful in life and one day save a life, and here you are spreading a whole philosophy, plus stereotypes and misconceptions.
The day before yesterday, or three days ago, in Khabarovsk, a man was mauled to death by a dog. 38 years old, went to work in the morning. Here is a grown man who couldn’t even protect himself from aggression. Well, you will say that he was afraid. A week ago, dogs attacked a little girl. She was definitely not afraid of them, but went up to the dog to pet it. There is video from the scene. There was no fear.
We wrote above about the confidence that will stop the aggressor. If this is an adequate person, then he can. But we are dealing with the inadequate ones here. People with mental problems. Normal people will not rape and kill. People under the influence of alcohol and drugs. No amount of confidence will stop them from an act of aggression.
I understand that you have come up with a beautiful version about fear. But fear is a physiological state. It appears at certain moments and goes away when the situation is resolved. There are uncontrollable panic attacks, but this is already a pathology. In such cases, you need to consult a doctor. There are anxiety states - this is also not the norm.
Look through crime reports and you will understand that it is not a matter of fear at all.
There is, of course, the position that if you don’t think about bad things, then nothing will happen to me, but it is even dangerous for mental health. Because stress trains our psyche, forcing it to solve new and new problems in a limited time, and a passive, comfortable state detrains. And, of course, such a position will not be able to protect you and save you from the aggressor.

I don’t need to read the chronicles... there has always been, is and will be a sea of ​​violence in the world, but It’s stupid to be afraid of every bush all your life.
I expressed my opinion, and you can believe me or not, it’s your business.

[Watchman]

A bandit or a rapist, he’s not a duel Pushkin - Dantes, with a warning I’m coming at "you"
He is ready to attack, but you are not.
And even if there was at least a shooting master here and an AK in his pocket , it will hardly help.

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We are not talking about spiders here, but about inadequate aggressive people. Oh, you write that trauma is not needed, but calm is needed.
Your calm will not help you in any way.

I completely agree.. But an injury may not help either. The most important thing in such a situation is not what I have in my purse... an injury or stones... damn it..
the most important thing in such a situation = is whether I can use that injury... and I I know the answer for myself... I won’t be able to shoot from a trauma... it’s realistic that from the first seconds or there, at the very beginning of the "conflict" when time goes by literally seconds... and then.. when already I’ll get the first blow for my “intractability,” then I’ll forget about the injury and the damn stones...
although I could throw a stone... it’s only a damn stone’s use....
I go, damn it "I go".. well, sometimes I visit the "sports club"... my husband goes there regularly.. and I do that sometimes... it’s just that there are such interesting girls who work out there, and in all in the sense that it is sometimes better, for the husband’s own safety, and to control who he is "fighting", "fighting" with in his MMA, or whatever it is correctly called...
Why I.. there There are such “animals” that it’s scary to erase such prana... sometimes they have conversations... well, I listen, too, sometimes.. it’s interesting.. so.. sometimes you can hear from such a person.. how It’s just like that, I can take such blows in the ring, but then a light poke and they knocked me off... i.e. Somewhere in a street fight he was simply "knocked out", or how to put it correctly... a person who is ready to stand up for himself and most importantly is used to doing this....
i.e., if such a guy can be knocked out with one blow , then what can you say for me... to the "ass" I know there will be that trauma in my bag if I’m not ready psychologically to use it (((
conclusion, I come home late, I always call my husband so that he can meet me.. well, sometimes my friends and I can get together to go home if we go in one direction... something like this...

a gas spray is needed like a whistle in a bathhouse, damn it... it doesn’t always help against dogs either.. . although if I fucking spray it in the very face of the person who is attacking me, it might still help... but who the hell will wait for me while I do it.... and yes, on the person under the "stuff" "or a drunk spray has almost no effect at all...
damn.. a whole "letter" turned out... in short, sorry for interfering in something other than my own business... where the hell am I and where is the "reply" " to rapists....

Yes, that’s right, and there is a very big difference between training in the gym and sparring and attacking in life.

[Venus]

you wrote that they attacked you in the entrance, now you have this fear in your subcortex. You may not think about it, you may think about children or work, but fear is in your blood.
You are writing about it now because you are afraid.

This topic is about self-defense. I write something that can be useful in life and one day save a life, and here you are spreading a whole philosophy, plus stereotypes and misconceptions.
The day before yesterday, or three days ago, in Khabarovsk, a man was mauled to death by a dog. 38 years old, went to work in the morning. Here is a grown man who couldn’t even protect himself from aggression. Well, you will say that he was afraid. A week ago, dogs attacked a little girl. She was definitely not afraid of them, but went up to the dog to pet it. There is video from the scene. There was no fear.
We wrote above about the confidence that will stop the aggressor. If this is an adequate person, then he can. But we are dealing with the inadequate ones here. People with mental problems. Normal people will not rape and kill. People under the influence of alcohol and drugs. No amount of confidence will stop them from an act of aggression.
I understand that you have come up with a beautiful version about fear. But fear is a physiological state. It appears at certain moments and goes away when the situation is resolved. There are uncontrollable panic attacks, but this is already a pathology. In such cases, you need to consult a doctor. There are anxiety states - this is also not the norm.
Look through crime reports and you will understand that it is not a matter of fear at all.
There is, of course, the position that if you don’t think about bad things, then nothing will happen to me, but it is even dangerous for mental health. Because stress trains our psyche, forcing it to solve new and new problems in a limited time, and a passive, comfortable state detrains. And, of course, such a position will not be able to protect you and save you from the aggressor.

I don’t need to read the chronicles... there has always been, is and will be a sea of ​​violence in the world, but It’s stupid to be afraid of every bush all your life.
I expressed my opinion, and you can believe me or not, it’s your business.

I wrote not about your fears, but how you can protect yourself in case of danger. You prefer passive behavior. I left everything to chance.

[Watchman]

Fortunately, I did not find myself in a situation where the use of any means of self-defense was required. Well, to be honest, how to apply them? For women, this item, a spray can, a shocker, or even an injury, will be in their purse, or even in a backpack, which are convenient and fashionable. So, in a stressful situation, and it will be stressful, well, I won’t have time, I won’t be able to get it and use this product, hanging somewhere at the bottom, and maybe even in a bag, so that it doesn’t leak. So, there are two options: if she’s all beautiful, in a miniskirt or an elegant dress, in heels, in war paint, then go only with a reliable man, for me, with my husband. And in all other situations, somewhere alone, and if not yet in crowded places - dress and make up more simply, in general, do not provoke.

the same is true.. ..even if the injury is in a holster, the rapist will not run after you with his pussy naked for half an hour... he will squeeze you somewhere in an elevator, or a dark corner and you won’t have time to squeak, the same with a robber, he will give you a light hit on the head from behind and come to your senses, it’s good if without an ambulance that’s all self-defense.
But be vigilant, don’t provoke and don’t get involved in adventures, this is true.

[Venus]

A bandit or a rapist, he’s not a duel Pushkin - Dantes, with a warning I’m coming at "you"
He is ready to attack, but you are not.
And if there were at least a shooting master here and in an AK pocket, it will hardly help.

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We are not talking about spiders here, but about inadequate aggressive people. Oh, you write that trauma is not needed, but calm is needed.
Your calm will not help you in any way.

I completely agree.. But an injury may not help either. The most important thing in such a situation is not what I have in my purse... an injury or stones... damn it..
the most important thing in such a situation = is whether I can use that injury... and I I know the answer for myself... I won’t be able to shoot from a trauma... it’s realistic that from the first seconds or there, at the very beginning of the "conflict" when time goes by literally seconds... and then.. when already I’ll get the first blow for my “intractability,” then I’ll forget about the injury and the damn stones...
although I could throw a stone... it’s only a damn stone’s use....
I go, damn it "I go".. well, sometimes I visit the "sports club"... my husband goes there regularly.. and I do that sometimes... it’s just that there are such interesting girls who work out there, and in all in the sense that it is sometimes better, for the husband’s own safety, and to control who he is "fighting", "fighting" with in his MMA, or whatever it is correctly called...
Why I.. there There are such “animals” that it’s scary to erase such prana... sometimes they have conversations... well, I listen, too, sometimes.. it’s interesting.. so.. sometimes you can hear from such a person.. how It’s just like that, I can take such blows in the ring, but then a light poke and they knocked me off... i.e. Somewhere in a street fight he was simply "knocked out", or how to put it correctly.. a person who is ready to stand up for himself and, most importantly, is used to doing this....
that is, if such a guy can be turned off with one blow, then what can one say for me... to the point of "ass" Izvniasyu will be the one trauma in my bag, if I’m not psychologically ready to use it(((
conclusion, I return home late, I always call my husband to meet me.. well, sometimes my friends and I can go home together if we go in the same direction. .. something like this...

a gas spray is needed like a whistle in a bathhouse, damn it... it doesn’t always help against dogs either... although if you damn it spray it in " the very face of the person who is attacking me can and will help... but who the hell will wait for me while I do it... and yes, the spray has almost no effect on a person under the drug or drunk. ..
damn.. the whole "letter" turned out... in short, sorry for interfering in something that was not my own business... where the hell am I and where is the "reply" to rapists....

Yes, exactly, and there is a very big difference between training in the gym and sparring and attacking in life.

It is you who are now making their dirty work easier for criminals and setting up victims for inevitable defeat.
My ex-husband is a policeman. They apprehend criminals. And, the policeman has no superpowers and no one goes against him. I understand that most of the liabilities are here. Those who are too lazy to register and buy a means of self-defense and acquire skills in handling it, and therefore they sing in chorus a song about the inevitability of the inevitable and brush aside any opportunities to change the situation. But you understand that this is not so.

[Eustace]

Who are too lazy to register and buy a means of self-defense and purchase

do you have a permit to carry, or what???

[weak intestine]

I read somewhere that in order to scare away a rapist, a girl needs to crap herself

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I wrote not about my fears, but how you can protect yourself in case of danger.

all your text sheets are saturated with mortal horror... well, you will deceive others, but no self. I have no one to protect myself from, but you have someone to protect yourself from, because you are afraid.

[Venus]

I did not write about my fears, but how you can protect yourself in case of danger.

all your sheets of text are saturated with mortal horror... well, you will deceive others, but not yourself. I have no one to protect myself from, but you have someone to protect yourself from, because you are afraid.

The topic is not about me. Topic about self-defense.

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Who are too lazy to register and buy a means of self-defense and purchase

do you have permission to carry, or what???

I have everything)))

[Eustace]

I have everything)))

strange

[Venus]

I read somewhere that in order to scare off a rapist, a girl needs to shit herself

It’s a good idea, by the way, but what if you don’t want to? Then apparently you need to carry feces with you?)))) and pretend that it just happened

[Murena0314]

Girls, let’s not argue too much and heat up the situation, everyone has their own opinion. As for self-defense, the topic is very slippery, just like our laws. This is how it turns out, God forbid of course: a person was able to defend himself from a scoundrel or several, caused them harm, and as a result, ended up in jail himself. This is such a fine line, it is better that there is no need to use these funds. And what is allowed, injuries, gas, shockers, in my conditions, 9 months of winter, they are of no use. And everything else will be imprisoned.

[Watchman]

My ex-husband is a policeman. They apprehend criminals. And, the policeman has no superpowers and no one goes with him.

When apprehending criminals, he is in the role of a "hunter", the first move is behind him, preparation to him. And the chance of success is undoubtedly higher. Just like a criminal when attacking a victim.
And to make life impossible for any scoundrels, all the same simple rules that are taught from childhood - avoid aggressive companies, do not go into entrance or elevator with strangers, avoid dimly lit places, do not hesitate to ask a man (husband/son/father/brother, etc.) to meet/accompany you, do not skimp on yourself by ordering a taxi.

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Good idea, by the way, but what if you don’t want to? Then apparently you need to carry feces with you?)))) and pretend that it just happened

Spread the feces in advance in suspicious places )))))

[Venus]

avoid aggressive companies, do not enter the entrance or elevator with strangers, avoid dimly lit places, do not hesitate to ask a man (husband/son/father/brother, etc.) to meet/accompany you, do not skimp on yourself when ordering taxi.

I was raped in my own entrance.

Detaining criminals, he is in the role of a "hunter", followed by the first move, preparation for it.

n He is a local police officer. All his work, the main one, is conversations and filling out papers. There is no preparation in advance and all acts of aggression are spontaneous and equally unexpected.

[Watchman]

I was raped in my own entrance

I sympathize.

He is a local police officer. All his work, the main one, is conversations and filling out paperwork.

Then what kind of criminals are we talking about? Drunks, Drug Addicts and Family Parasites...and again, going out to address a scandal and a fight, he is already ready for this...but if the preparation is insufficient or something does not go according to plan (a rowdy drunk from the 33rd bought a sawn-off shotgun, and the district police officer I didn’t find out about this) everything is more likely to end sadly for the district police officer.

[Venus]

I was raped in my own entrance

I sympathize.

He is a local police officer. All his work, the main one, is conversations and filling out paperwork.

Then what kind of criminals are we talking about? Drunks, Drug Addicts and Family Parasites...and again, going out to address a scandal and a fight, he is already ready for this...but if the preparation is insufficient or something does not go according to plan (a rowdy drunk from the 33rd bought a sawn-off shotgun, and the district police officer I didn’t know about this) everything is more likely to end sadly for the district police officer too.

It may end, or it may not end, but for you, unarmed - it will be without options.

[Watchman]

for you, unarmed, there will be no options.

And I am unarmed and will not go to sort out a domestic scandal, I am not a district police officer. And the district police officer should also be on the way out be prepared for the worst case scenario, be careful, collected and careful.

[Venus]

for you, unarmed, there will be no options.

And I am unarmed and will not go to sort out a domestic scandal, I am not a district police officer. And the district police officer The way out is also to be prepared for the worst case scenario, to be careful, collected and neat.

Here you go, smart girl. I. I don’t leave the house unarmed.

[Watchman]

for you, unarmed, there will be no options.

And I am unarmed and will not go to sort out a domestic scandal, I am not a local police officer .And the precinct officer should also be prepared for the worst case scenario when going out, be careful, collected and careful.

Here you go, smart girl. I. I don’t leave the house unarmed.

A weapon is always in your hand and ready to use? Do you point it at everyone who is approaching and take aim?

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for you, unarmed, there will be no options.

And I am unarmed and will not go to sort out a domestic scandal , I’m not a district police officer. And when a district police officer goes out, he should also be prepared for the worst case scenario, be careful, collected and careful.

Here you go, smart girl. I. I don’t leave the house unarmed.

I hope it will never be useful.

[Venus]

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Here you go, smart girl. I. I don’t leave the house unarmed.

A weapon is always in your hand and ready to use? Do you point it at everyone who is approaching and take aim?

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Here you go, smart girl. I. I don’t leave the house unarmed.

I hope it never comes in handy.

n Do the police always have guns in their hands?

[Watchman]

Do the police always have a weapon in their hand?

When detaining a criminal, especially a dangerous or especially dangerous one, there must also be means of armor protection.

[Venus]

I hope it will never be useful.

I have already shot from it more than once. I wrote in some topic. The guy on the road forced me to stop and broke my headlight with a bat. I don’t know if he would have touched me, but he would have definitely smashed the whole car if I hadn’t fired into the air, then at his feet. How to act in such cases? Lock myself in the car and wait for the police, because just as he broke my headlight, he will break the glass, and then my head, and they will give him 7 years, and they will bury me. Oh, I don’t want that.
It’s just that you have situations described here for children. Don’t go out late, don’t go alone, avoid suspicious people. In life, an inadequate person will find you.

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Do the police always have a weapon in their hand?

When detaining a criminal, especially a dangerous or especially dangerous one, there must also be availability of armor protection.

They don’t do this. They work with people who sometimes behave inappropriately. Everything is like in ordinary life.

[Watchman]

An adequate person on the road forced me to stop and broke my headlight with a bat

I wrote above about adequate people, but in such a situation the means of protection are good, you had time to prepare to the situation while he was hitting the headlights, etc.

[alexandrovich.dmitry]

An adequate person on the road forced me to stop and broke my headlight with a bat. I don’t know if he would have touched me, but he would have definitely smashed the whole car if I hadn’t fired into the air, then at his feet

And share for information, a statement to the police and the result of an administrative/criminal case.
The damage to personal property is evident, which is how it ended in your western.

[Venus]

An adequate person on the road forced me to stop and broke my headlight with a bat

I wrote above about adequate people, but in such a situation the means of protection are good, you have there was time to prepare for the situation while he was hitting the headlights, etc.

You see.

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Adequate on the road forced stopped and broke my headlight with a bat. I don’t know if he would have touched me, but he would have definitely smashed the whole car if I hadn’t fired into the air, then at his feet

And share for information, a statement to the police and the result of an administrative/criminal case.
There was damage to personal property, which is how it ended in your western.

There was a whole bunch of stuff, from gross traffic violations to hooliganism . Small. I did not file a statement with the police, he compensated me for everything on the spot. The police officers both arrived and left. Apparently it is possible without statements.

[alexandrovich.dmitry]

I didn’t file a statement with the police, he compensated me for everything on the spot

That is, it turns out that you can take your soul away, intimidate a person, damage property and, most importantly, there was enough money for compensation.
And you could spend the amount of compensation on a lawyer and sue you for using a traumatic weapon.

[Venus]

I didn’t file a statement with the police, he compensated me for everything on the spot

That is, it turns out you can take your soul away, intimidate person, damage property, and most importantly, have enough money for compensation.
Or you could spend the amount of compensation on a lawyer and sue you for using a traumatic weapon.

I didn’t file a statement with the police, he compensated me for everything on the spot

That is, it turns out that you can take your soul away, intimidate a person, damage property and, most importantly, there was enough money for compensation.
Or you could spend the amount of compensation on a lawyer and sue you for using a traumatic weapon.

It is possible, the police explained to me that most likely there would be no criminal case and they offered to negotiate on the spot. Yes, I didn’t want any criminal case.
And what kind of nonsense are you writing about a trial for using a traumatic pistol? He was with a bat, I could not only shoot in the air, but also shoot him in the leg. On the video recorder you can see how he breaks my headlight and you can hear how he threatens to break my head.
I think he was glad that he escaped with a slight fright. While we were waiting for the police and he was lying buried in the asphalt, he probably said goodbye to freedom many times. The police drove to us for an hour, if not more. He and I smoked half a pack of cigarettes during this time. He was in the car and he was smoking mine too.

[alexandrovich.dmitry]

video recorder visible

Link to video?

[Venus]

video recorder visible

Link to video?

I wrote a DVR. On the DVR. I have a DVR.

[alexandrovich.dmitry]

he was lying buried in the asphalt, probably saying goodbye to freedom many times. The police drove to us for an hour, if not more. He and I smoked half a pack of cigarettes during this time. He was in the car and he was smoking mine too.

seriously!? They held me at gunpoint for an hour, they allowed me to smoke, I smoked lying down? Strecoza" post_id="323217" time="1705669123" user_id="15698"> I wrote a DVR . On the DVR. I have a DVR.

[weak intestine]

It’s a good idea, by the way, but what if you don’t want to? Then apparently you need to carry feces with you?))))

If you don’t have the courage to defend yourself, then be scared shitless)) and don’t go poop if something is expected - that is potentially dangerous. Ideally, after pooping, don’t go anywhere that day.

[Christmas_Christmas]

Ideal - after pooping, don’t go anywhere that day

damn.... that is, according to you, I need to go to work .... without pooping.... not to mention "other events".... in principle, it may not be difficult... but I may not meet a maniac... damn it, it’s better not to never to celebrate... it’s not like a maniac, it’s not the New Year for me to celebrate.... I just go to work every day... and what should I endure now?... and if it’s no longer possible... damn then what? maybe... no, I can put a tampon in there..... maybe it will help me last until the end of the working day... the only question is, is it really worth it?
Then it’s better not to wash... for years for example... it’s not that a maniac won’t approach... but you can also earn money... there were insects there among the hidden people..... I went to them and after half an hour they were "clean"..
true side effect... they won’t be able to enter the apartment for a long time either)))
just kidding.... if anything

[Venus]

It’s a good idea, by the way, but what if you don’t want to? Then apparently you need to carry feces with you?))))

If you don’t have the courage to defend yourself, then be scared shitless)) and don’t go poop if something is expected - that is potentially dangerous. Ideally, after pooping, do not go anywhere that day

))) Take a laxative the day before)))) To be sure)))

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You You can also upload the video to your computer, transfer it to YouTube and attach the video to a message.

))) What else can I upload?)))

[Viola]

I. I don’t leave the house unarmed.

tell me where you carry your gun, well, it’s a heavy, very heavy piece of iron?

[Venus]

And. I don’t leave the house unarmed.

tell me where you carry your gun, well, it’s a heavy, very heavy piece of iron?

I have a regular, sports backpack. I buy them at Dicatlon, the ones that don’t get wet. I have all my things there.

[Flowers]

I read somewhere that in order to scare away a rapist, a girl needs to shit herself

If it’s about violence, then yes. For 99.9%, the desire + opportunity will disappear instantly (and/or write down). I would also suggest immediately inducing vomiting, because in a second and a half, pulling out from somewhere any means of protection recommended above, then putting it on alert and starting to use it only happens in the movies. And two fingers, as has been the custom since ancient times, are easy to piss on and put in your mouth in 0.1 second. Moreover, it is precisely to burp at oneself, stimulating the rapist’s maximum attraction to the victim. It’s also a good idea to quickly foam at the mouth, roll your eyes, hum, twirl your arms and look like the singer Linda.

[RANGE_]

Viola, Strecoza,
Where do composure and calm come from?
Without internal aggression, external aggression will not take place.
There are plenty of examples.
And one of the visible and largest is happening right now before the eyes of the whole world.

I have been studying the topic of aggression/violence for exactly 20 years. Both in theory (studying various situations using the examples of other people), and in practice - I myself received soup, and I know where these “legs” grow from.

Somehow a brick is just it doesn’t fall on your head.
Someone will say: it’s still falling. And he will blame the one who dropped the brick on the victim’s head.
And finally, aggression is only an external element. She is always and only outside.
Yes?
So?;)

No!

Yes, we are all so fluffy on the outside, and what’s going on inside?

I will give examples from films (with good and realistic plots and scenarios) with rape scenes -
"Voroshilov shooter" and "Brother".

It is clear that this is not reality, but as a vivid example of where “suddenly” and “suddenly” rape can appear.

Question for the female half : Did you catch the essence of the personalities of those raped?

Aggression = violence.

Two victims from different films themselves came to this. But not completely themselves.

And now look.

In the first case, the naive girl could not refuse, somewhere psychologically downtrodden (and her mother is generally a harlot) and save I couldn’t keep my boundaries. Young and naive. She has not yet broken away from her mother, although her mother has broken away from her, leaving her to be raised by her grandfather.
The girl inside herself considered it unnecessary for her mother (feelings of guilt are a reason for internal aggression).
On the other hand, the girl felt pity for being abandoned (already aggression against herself). And those scum (also aggressive - there is a lot of pride, that is, exaltation) who raped her took advantage of this unconsciously. Like how a sailor and a sailor see each other from afar.

In the case of the film "Brother" - a more understandable and simpler situation.
Here you can describe it briefly.

Madame is used to being a victim of her husband who drinks and beats her.
And even when she was asked to change her life, she did not agree to it. This is internal aggression - self-violence.

You can buy a whole arsenal for self-defense, but until you understand yourself and stop your bazaar-station in your head, nothing will work out.

Here is the answer - where does composure and calm come from? Both with and without weapons.

[Viola]

You can buy a whole arsenal for self-defense, but until you understand yourself and stop your bazaar-station in your head, nothing will work out.

I don’t understand what you’re talking about, what kind of composure, what kind of bazaar-station, I already said that I used a gas canister against the dog, the dog’s owner then took it on a leash and left, as for the traumatic pistol, I don’t believe that Dragonfly just shoots in the air, she wrote about this, and for this they can take away your weapons license.

[Venus]

You can buy a whole arsenal for self-defense, but until you understand yourself and stop your bazaar-station in your head, nothing will work out.

I don’t understand what you are talking about, what kind of composure, what kind of bazaar-station, I already said that I used a gas canister against the dog, the dog’s owner then took it on a leash and left, as for the traumatic pistol, I I don’t believe that Dragonfly just shoots in the air, she wrote about this, and for this they can take away your weapons license.

What is a bazaar -railway station? Is it a bazaar at a train station or a station at a bazaar?
The license is issued for six months. If you have not purchased a weapon during this time, you will have to register for a new one. What kind of gas spray do you have, what is it called?

[Christmas_Christmas]

People, either it seemed to me, or... but if it didn’t seem, then attacks and nit-picking on the respected Strecoza, in vain... why do you think that a girl, in principle, is not able to fight back, or the respected Dragonfly, in particular, cannot fight back...

When I wrote that I couldn’t, I spoke only for myself. I can’t, another can’t, a third...
Well, Stekoza is able to stand up for herself... damn it, does she have to make excuses now? or what? some kind of nonsense to be honest.
The main thing is that she will be able to notice the owl’s means of protection...

[RANGE_]

I don’t understand what you’re talking about, what kind of composure, what kind of bazaar-station, I already said that I used gas canister against the dog, the owner of the dog

Yes, forgive me, help me...Moved from the simple to the deep and broad - in matter there are gross, God forgive me, rape of a woman’s body and personality.
Men, if anything, are also raped. Both in hallways and in elevators.
And they break teeth with dominoes, and then...
How do you like this horror?

Here on the forum I wrote that I don’t start a new relationship without ending the former ones.
I’m boring! And until I convey to you what I meant, then, bitch (this is not for you), I will not calm down.

What should girls use for self-defense and what does composure and the bazaar station have to do with it?

Pecal or pepper spray - here you have to focus on the taste of a dog or a maniac. Some people like olives, and some like sweet or spicy paprika.

But all these mainstream fetish amulets (electric shockers, gas guns, revolvers) work - surprisingly, but true. True, at some point they misfire, and you stop believing in it.
But the fact is that it is not these fetishes-amulets that bear your faith in safety and a sense of security, but you yourself and your thoughts, feelings attitude towards myself and the surrounding (and threatening to someone) world.

Since childhood, I have experienced repeated attacks by a pack of dogs.
No, they didn’t bite.
I bit later, and then, a small mongrel, an asphalt sweeper, with its blunt teeth, it couldn’t really hurt me. They simply surrounded him and did not allow him to take a step with his barking and fanged mouths. I was afraid and cried, and didn’t know what to do. And these are medium-sized dogs.

A child is a child, and it doesn’t matter who he is by gender when he is in relative danger.

What was I missing then? Take a step and come what may. Moreover, I didn’t do anything bad to these dogs. And there were no such thoughts.
And these "barking evil ones" caused me fear and a latent feeling of guilt. With such crap inside me (bazaar-station in my head - fear and guilt) composure could not arise.
Fear is an instinctive and useful thing. Guardian of our integrity, life and health. Protects from all sorts of troubles.
But when fear/the watchman demands an increase in his salary, think about who you believe. He knows how to sell dearly...the illusion of danger.

Each person has advantages and disadvantages. We are not perfect.
But what we focus our attention on is where we will get a lottery ball called “Life”.

[natalya.harita]

There is pepper spray in the bag and it has never been used for its intended purpose.

[Venus]

Since childhood, I have experienced repeated attacks by a pack of dogs.

))) Ah, dogs love me and have always loved me, since childhood. Even the most aggressive ones began to caress me. This is because dogs sense a good person. Instinctively.

[RANGE_]

Oh, dogs love me and have always loved me, since childhood. Even the most aggressive ones began to caress me. This is because dogs sense a good person. Instinctively.

So the pack that attacked me was the same.
On the way to school there was an enterprise where these dogs lived and guarded, 5-6 of them. I was studying at the beginning then. For the first two years it was a pain to pass by that enterprise. And what’s most interesting is that they only attacked children. They yapped at adults from afar.
My parents and other children’s parents went to complain to the director of the enterprise, but the effect was temporary. The most restless dogs broke into the street under the closed gate.
In the third year, these angry dogs disappeared, and only the grown-up puppies remained. The latter, when they grew up, did not attack anyone, they even barked rarely)).

And since childhood, I have been playing with dogs with pleasure. We had a car park next to our house, where the same guard mongrels lived. And there were a couple of dogs living in our yard. The residents of the house fed them, and in bad weather and in winter they were allowed into the entrance. And I played with these dogs, stroked them without fear, sometimes I would treat them to a cutlet, sometimes to some sausage.
There was one small black dog with a stump of his front paw. I treated him in a special way - most often I fed him.

A few years later, after moving to another area, there was an idea to get a dog, but my parents flatly refused: "A cat is okay. And then, if you take care of it yourself. And there is no place for a dog in an apartment." The parents got a dog when they left the city and began to live in a private house. They had a smart dog, but he was very emotional)). He broke off the chain three times (the collar broke) when strangers entered the yard. Once a neighbor was bitten when she went into her parents’ yard to pick up a runaway chicken. But first, Buddy killed the chicken, and then he got to the neighbor - she swung a stick at him. My parents didn’t see any of this, everything was from the words of a neighbor. I had to compensate for the damage...with chickens.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Since childhood, I have experienced repeated attacks by a pack of dogs.

))) Ah, dogs love me and have always loved me , since childhood. Even the most aggressive ones began to caress me. This is because dogs sense a good person. Instinctively.

a controversial statement... considering that Hitler also loved dogs very much, and they loved him... I think Hitler was sure that he was a very good person. .

[Venus]

Since childhood, I have experienced repeated attacks by a pack of dogs.

))) Oh, dogs love me and have always loved me, since childhood. Even the most aggressive ones began to caress me. This is because dogs sense a good person. Instinctively.

a controversial statement... considering that Hitler also loved dogs very much, and they loved him... I think Hitler was sure that he was a very good person. .

))) Were you familiar with him?

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And, dogs love me and have always loved me, since childhood. Even the most aggressive ones began to caress me. This is because dogs sense a good person. Instinctively.

So the pack that attacked me was the same.
On the way to school there was an enterprise where these dogs lived and guarded, 5-6 of them. I was studying at the beginning then. For the first two years it was a pain to pass by that enterprise. And what’s most interesting is that they only attacked children. They yapped at adults from afar.
My parents and other children’s parents went to complain to the director of the enterprise, but the effect was temporary. The most restless dogs broke into the street under the closed gate.
In the third year, these angry dogs disappeared, and only the grown-up puppies remained. The latter, when they grew up, did not attack anyone, they even barked rarely)).

And since childhood, I have been playing with dogs with pleasure. We had a car park next to our house, where the same guard mongrels lived. And there were a couple of dogs living in our yard. The residents of the house fed them, and in bad weather and in winter they were allowed into the entrance. And I played with these dogs, stroked them without fear, sometimes I would treat them to a cutlet, sometimes to some sausage.
There was one small black dog with a stump of his front paw. I treated him in a special way - most often I fed him.

A few years later, after moving to another area, there was an idea to get a dog, but my parents flatly refused: "A cat is okay. And then, if you take care of it yourself. And there is no place for a dog in an apartment."
The parents got a dog when they left the city and began to live in a private house. They had a smart dog, but he was very emotional)). He broke off the chain three times (the collar broke) when strangers entered the yard. Once a neighbor was bitten when she went into her parents’ yard to pick up a runaway chicken. But first, Buddy killed the chicken, and then he got to the neighbor - she swung a stick at him. My parents didn’t see any of this, everything was from the words of a neighbor. I had to compensate for the damage...with chickens.

))) Now no one is stopping you from getting a dog)))

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

))) Were you familiar with him?

No.. but I know more about him than about you.. although no.. if you read carefully forum and you can learn something about you.

[Venus]

))) Did you know him?

No.. but I know more about him than about you.. although no.. if you read carefully forum and you can learn something about you.

))) Read

[Pierro]

Dragonfly Aloizovna..))

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here you are carried away..)

[Venus]

here you are carried away..

I don’t know why she’s been nervous for the third day and takes it out on me. Maybe she’s in some trouble