Can you imagine another partner during sex?

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Strecoza: 26 Jan 2024, 01:08 I don’t know. Probably for the same reason why you watch porn or pictures with naked girls. Why are you watching porn?)))
Sex is one thing,
Watching porn is another,
And masturbation is in general, the third.

All these things can exist both separately and together.

I watch porn (and almost always only soft and solo) because that it brings me aesthetic pleasure to “feed my eyes.” And I don’t watch it often - once or twice a week, and I don’t always masturbate to it, 50/50.

When I have sex with my beloved, I think only about her and myself. This is our contact and why should I keep someone else in my head?

You are developing a stereotype that everyone here is a character who has fallen to the bottom of instincts, who has no morals, no taste, no taste for life principles.

You shouldn’t paint everyone with the same brush, even though sometimes you want to do it.
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A painful topic for me.
Quite often I imagine someone else.
Either his cousin, whom he never fucked in her youth, or an abstract schoolgirl-slut, or someone else....

Of course, this doesn’t always happen , but it happens.
Unfortunately, I agree with the opinion that this is not good.
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I never imagined. Maybe because sex was with those with whom you wanted sex? Therefore, there was no need to replace the partner’s fantasy with someone else?🤔
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I can imagine how a crowd of people are pulling mine, and I’m one of the queue :cat1:
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Keep_the change: 26 Jan 2024, 20:19 You develop a stereotype that all the characters here have fallen to the bottom of instincts
Instincts have no bottom and I don’t develop any stereotypes here . There are people here who honestly write that I am like this and there are characters who, at every opportunity, never tire of repeating that I am not like that.
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I don’t represent anyone.
In order not to finish for a long time, I imagine something distracting - some pieces of iron:
more often - a metal fence of the tram and trolleybus control;
or the inside of a motorcycle exhaust system... or just watching/listening to TV.
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It happens that I imagine my ex-girlfriend, my first love, we broke up for like 15 years.
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Hooligan Carrie: 25 Jan 2024, 00:45 I wonder who my man imagines during sex? ....It’s better not to know.....
I don’t imagine anyone at all, I just go into sensations. If I start imagining, it seems to me that I’ll get distracted and not finish.
If you’re on this site, it’s already clear that you’re fantasizing and what you’re imagining and who you’re imagining, just don’t tell me that you are madly in love with your only husband.
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Venus,

When I fuck my wife, I imagine that I’m doing it with her daughters...
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