I live in a big city. Very big. In a fairly safe area of this big city. This area is really safe and there are practically no robberies or any other similar things.◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊: ↑24 Jul 2022, 19:24 Can you read!? I wrote to you about UNDEFECTING clothes! And not about a walk in the evening, but for example, a woman returns from work and is only thinking about returning home quickly.
It is also completely safe to go to the park after midnight in this area just to take a walk. And it’s not deserted, there are a lot of people just walking, people playing sports, some riding electric scooters on the bike paths, just groups of young people. But at the same time, no one bullies, does not offend anyone, does not yell in a bad voice and does not provoke others...
And yet the people living in this area all adhere to certain rules. Well, just so as to not pull the devil’s tail, as they say. Near the exit from the metro before crossing after eleven, as a rule, there are a couple of people standing and waiting for someone. Typically someone female. It’s just that this someone returns home late and they always meet him so that they can walk home together.
Secondly, late in the evening, no one will ever enter the entrance with someone. Especially if this someone is unfamiliar.
How many times have I noticed that young people of Asian appearance wait late at night for the girls working as saleswomen and manicurists in a shopping center near the metro station to finish work. They just sit and wait for them to finish work so that they can return home together.
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No woman would think of going there alone for a walk in the evening. Between the two of us there are as many people there as you like. But no one dares to go there alone. Well, except maybe those who are involved in sports and who run. And even then, all these people run mostly during daylight hours.
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If someone stays late at a party, they will escort him to the metro. Or they go outside to put them in a called taxi.
Although I will repeat once again - the area where I live is very safe. Nothing has ever happened there and everything is peaceful and orderly and no one bothers anyone and in general there is no bullshit in principle. Nobody needs problems and everyone is busy with their own affairs and no one bothers anyone to live. Because they don’t interfere with each other with their wishes or moralizing. And no one tells anyone what he should do and what not.
In fact, as a rule, the basis of this or that conflict is when someone did something, but the other didn’t like it because he thinks that it’s his insults.
So no one tells anyone anything about what he should do and what not. If someone throws a piece of paper, no one will immediately insistently advise him to pick it up and generally tell him that throwing pieces of paper is prohibited and that it is bad. Someone will say that it is clean where there is no litter, but I will say that it is clean where there is a person who is paid to keep it clean. And you can throw papers as much as you like, but in the morning the janitor will come out and collect all these papers, bottles, bags of chips and other garbage. And it’s not scary if someone threw a piece of paper because it will be taken away tomorrow and nothing bad will happen.
And it’s better for the adviser to go and do something other than treat others. For example, solving your personal problems, which are probably completely complete. Let’s at least start with how much he earns and why he can’t afford many things in this life. Well, for example, to have a good expensive new foreign car. Three-room apartment with expensive furniture. And so on and so forth.
But teaching others that you shouldn’t throw pieces of paper on the street is, of course, easier.
Well, in general, I mean that even in the safest place You can find adventures on your ass if you don’t follow basic safety rules and if you neglect them. And these rules exist in any big or small city. And those who live there know these rules and try not to break them. Just out of habit, just in case.
For example, I will never talk to someone on the street whom I don’t know. Even if someone calls out to me or asks me for something, I will simply pass by in silence.
The rule of safety in the area and in the city where I live is that I decide who I can help on the street, or with someone to talk to, or someone to ask about something.
And if someone calls out to you and wants something from you on the street, it’s better to pass by in silence. And if someone really needs something, he can always go to the nearest store, go into it and ask the staff there what he needs. That is, in the place where there is a crowd of people, where there are cameras. Where it’s essentially safe.
And returning to the topic...
I think it’s just your mother, she’s probably completely out of her depth and thinks that the rules of a big (or small) city they are not for her. And what if something happens, she herself will fight off and that the devil is not her brother.
By the way, an anecdote on the topic...

Far East ...
A village on the edge of the taiga...
The wife runs to her husband and screams - a tiger attacked her mother-in-law!!!
And the husband calmly answers - He attacked himself - let him he fights back.
