I want a man, 20 years older. I need advice!

[What’s wrong with you?]

Good afternoon everyone
I’m 22. I need advice on how to hint to a man (he’s 43-45 years old) that I want him, and how he might react to this?
I often see him at work, he smiles when I pass by, once he whispered something in my ear, but I couldn’t make it out and pretended not to notice. Should I wait until he takes the first step and comes to ask for his phone number?

[Sibiryak89]

I wonder how the story with the man from work ended?

Well, how could it end? Submitted the quarterly report

[Vik.ruba80]

When a man asks a girl. How do you feel about sex? - positive. What kind of sex do you prefer? - any sex except anal. I, as a sexual partner, suit you. - quite
. And they went into the next dorm room. And here this express survey needs to be shortened to the last question.
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[Vert]

Look into his eyes longer?

Most likely it’s unlikely to work. Here we need more direct hints in conversation.

[Amateur123]

Fifochka2222, hello! Are you still here?

[Serg_A]

Fifochka2222, and what if it’s even older?

[niqk]

Fifochka2222, hello! Are you still here?

Well, since you haven’t seen her for six months, that means she’s having a full-on banging with her daddy...

[Beautiful]

Petrovich,
nThanks for the answer,
Here’s another question: wouldn’t you consider a girl easily accessible if she makes the first move?

I wouldn’t consider her easily accessible. I would take this as a sign of attention to me

[With me]

You need to wait for the right moment. And the main thing is not to be afraid. It is better to say and do something and then regret it, than not to do it and regret it.

[Truwor]

My wife also likes men much older than us. - Forgive me, I love you very much, your wife, but I can fully liberate myself sexually only with an adult man who is pleasant to me and who loves and wants me. However, we are talking about one man who is also pleasant to me.

[halide]

Hello, I’m looking for a couple or a girl, I’m 25 years old, write to me, I’m waiting for you

[What’s wrong with you?]

It’s about a man who I also like.

Wow, how did you feel about this? Has your attitude towards your wife changed? How old is he, if it’s not a secret?)

[Serg_A]

Fifochka2222, and if an old man is in good shape, this Doesn’t it turn you off if instead of a belly there are six-pack abs, etc.?

[Truwor]

Wow, how did you feel about this? This was said when we already had a friend-lover, and we already had a fairly stable relationship and regular meetings. It just happened that my wife and I were embarrassed, that my wife was afraid and wouldn’t allow it, but he was experienced, did everything boldly and decisively, his wife couldn’t refuse him anything, and I also allowed him everything with his wife, and his wife liked his determination. He did not ask, he did not ask, he simply informed, causing my wife and I fear, confusion, constraint and incredible excitement. In addition, he had a much more impressive member than mine, which was also important for his wife’s pleasure. Also, his solid financial support for our young family was also important, especially in the eyes of his wife. We met when my wife was 21, I was 24, and he was 38, under very strange circumstances, which is how it all began.

[What’s wrong with you?]

an old man in good shape

of course he doesn’t repel, you ask again
On the contrary, this is an indicator that a man has willpower, health, desire). It’s interesting to snuggle up to something like this, in general)

[irish whip]

Good afternoon everyone
I am 22. I need advice on how to hint to a man (he is 43-45 years old) that I want him, and how he might react to this?
I often see him on at work, smiles when I pass by, once whispered something in my ear, but I couldn’t make it out and pretended not to notice. Should we wait until he takes the first step and comes to find out his phone number?

Well, 6 months have already passed since this message)))) I think that he , either he fed her or he didn’t)))))

[What’s wrong with you?]

or not )))))

Didn’t feed)
Suddenly became cold when she started hinting)

[RealMax]

I suddenly became cold when I started hinting)

Don’t get hung up on just the cold and greedy. There are many other 45 year olds in the world

[What’s wrong with you?]

There are many other 45 year olds in the world

Golden words)

[RealMax]

Well, what’s the big deal?))) Announce a competition to fill the vacant position the men want!

[Andrey Lukashov]

of course it doesn’t repel you, you ask again
On the contrary, this is an indicator that a man has willpower, health, desire). It’s interesting to snuggle up to something like this, in general)

It turns out that if I’m 57 years old and while celebrating a New Year’s corporate party at the end of last year, I couldn’t resist a 21-year-old female employee, then I have no willpower???

[What’s wrong with you?]

couldn’t resist 2

If you set yourself the task of resisting, then you are completely weak-willed))
nBut this is not a situation where you need to deny yourself pleasure
(Ohh, where are such men in my circle...)
But she still seduced, or did you set up wedges?

[Kolovrat]

I don’t understand, the topic was created a year ago, and why didn’t we get laid?

[alts]

I don’t understand, the topic was created a year ago, and why didn’t you get laid?

not with me yet ((

[Slogger]

Interesting story...well, what did you find? Have you met?

[Let’s]

I suddenly became cold when I started hinting)

Don’t get hung up on one cold and greedy person. There are many other 45 year olds in the world

Sometimes it happens that you want a specific person..))) not every 43 year old, but him, no matter how old he is )) In this case, replacement will not work. Well, it will work out more accurately, but it won’t be the same pleasure. If you want meat (or any other dish), don’t replace it with cabbage, but take a piece of meat and eat it)) yes, sometimes you eat something else, but the desire for meat does not disappear)) here, perhaps, it’s the same..

[What’s wrong with you?]

you want a specific person

You are so right

[Let’s]

We don’t know many of the details here. But I wonder what hints they made and how, that he immediately cooled off?

[What’s wrong with you?]

what hints were made and how

She walked past, looked into his eyes, smiled at him, and he smiled back. From afar, he kept looking sideways, then he would lower his head, then he would look again...
I was waiting for him to talk to me, let’s say hello. And then he stopped smiling when we said hello. But he started saying “bye” instead of “goodbye” (the most interesting thing is that I had a note in my pocket with a number, but the meaning, the man’s face changed, he became somewhat serious)
I understand how stupid it all sounds . I could have taken the first step. And then I was transferred, I don’t see him anymore.
P.s. In my practice, only 1 man, 25 years older , understood the hints, spoke up himself, and began to take some actions. The rest are drifting or something

[A. Omelchenko]

Thank you, I had fun))
But still, how to give a man the green light? Look into his eyes a little longer? Sorry if the question

I think everything is much simpler, you just need to be more frank and be the first to go "to the meeting"! And if you are not “ugly,” then I don’t think that a man will refuse a girl, and a young one at that!

[Let’s]

Many factors. One of them is that he may be married and have a relationship on the side, which is fraught, at a minimum, with the collapse of the family. Therefore, sensing your interest in him, I immediately decided to cool off. Well, this is purely a guess. Well, you can also come up with different assumptions, but we still won’t know what’s really there))

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I don’t think that a man will refuse a girl, and a young one at that

If a man thinks with his head and not with instinct, he will refuse. One of the reasons I wrote above. If a man is free, then yes, he is unlikely to refuse.

[What’s wrong with you?]

sensing your interest in him, I immediately decided to cool down

And it feels as if they are putting you on a steep slope) raising your self-esteem

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nhe can be married and have a relationship

most likely you are right)

[A. Omelchenko]

If a man thinks with his head and not with instinct, he will refuse. One of the reasons I wrote above. If a man is free, then yes, he is unlikely to refuse.

I lived for 20 years in a village where everyone knew about everything almost the next day and if sex between them will not become the "property" of others and will not be blackmail on the part of partners, then you should not "sweat", and if these conditions are not met, then you should think about it! But all this depends on the circumstances.

[Let’s]

feels as if they are putting you on a steep slope) raise your self-esteem

To raise self-esteem, he would probably agree to sleep with you. Well, this is to emphasize to yourself that a young girl wants you and you are still wow.. Just like a young guy of 15-17 years old, sleeping with a woman of 30-40 years old, also greatly increases the importance))) but not sleeping, but in fact, don’t even begin, it’s something else. Anyway. It’s a pity that your desire was not satisfied, but maybe it’s even for the better.))

[Vert]

There may be different options here. Perhaps he really is afraid of rumors later. Or maybe he thinks that it just seemed to him and in fact there were no hints. Is there no way to see him somehow in order to give him more pronounced hints?

[What’s wrong with you?]

raising self-esteem, he would probably agree to sleep with you. This is to emphasize to yourself that a young girl wants you and you are still great.

And yes, most likely, everything that is done is for the better)
Thank you for explaining, it’s always interesting to listen to a man’s opinion, and not to “make things up”

[Let’s]

It’s always interesting to listen to a man’s opinion, and not to “overthink

You are always welcome)) if you need another man’s opinion, write, do not hesitate (sincerely and without tricks))))

[niqk]

Fifochka2222, in fact, the situation is quite clear: serious a respectable person will not run after every skirt that smiles at him. He has his own life, where everything is already set up. Wife, family, children, career,
good earnings... So what? All this down to the tail of some waxwing, who got the idea to flirt?
And who, having played with a man and pumped up her self-esteem, will go to hustle the next one? Yes, what for such fools and adventures!

[What’s wrong with you?]

All this is down to the tail of some waxwing, which got into the head of flirting

You made me feel guilty

[government38]

there was a similar situation with a colleague, in short, a new employee and immediately drew attention to me, this manifested itself with a smile, a compliment, she could specially come and say hello to me in the department first, ask where he was, if he was sick, if everything was fine, :cat2 :, she melted my heart, flirting began, they began to communicate, made signs of attention, it came to kisses, hugs, etc., next to her I felt warmth, intrigue, attention, bought her gifts, went to lunch together for snacks, quarreled, got offended, made up, I remember how I ran to work in the morning to see her as soon as possible, but after one corporate party everything collapsed, a man appeared who collected incriminating evidence, the photos and videos were ambiguous, but they would have been enough to try to break up families, she immediately realized that I I was scared of something, I put the brakes on the relationship, she realized that I was chickening out and buried everything, it was okay for now, my wife saw the incriminating evidence, she began to suspect, she stopped trusting the truth, it was quickly forgotten, now this friend has found another guy.
the best office romance, so that guys, don’t pull the cat by the balls, be bolder.

[Serg_A]

a man appeared who collected incriminating evidence, the photos and videos were ambiguous, but they would have been enough to try to break up families

And in a dark corridor, take him by the throat Have you tried it?

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She walked by, looked into his eyes, smiled at him, and he smiled back. From afar, he kept looking sideways, then he would lower his head, then he would look again...
I was waiting for him to talk to me, let’s say hello. And then he stopped smiling when we said hello. But he started saying “bye” instead of “goodbye” (the most interesting thing is that I had a note in my pocket with a number, but the meaning, the man’s face changed, he became somewhat serious)

We men are quite stupid about signs of attention from women, we don’t understand a lot, we don’t notice a lot. On the other hand, how can I understand, for example, my neighbor (we live on the same street), I don’t even know her name, suddenly began to greet me and smile, I do the same in response, that she is in love with me or something? I’m sure not. Your colleague thought the same thing...

[niqk]

All this was down to the tail of some waxwing, which got into the head of flirting

You made me feel guilty : oops:

This is very good! Maybe you should think a little about the possible consequences of your actions... Judging by your first post, your flirtations with a serious man were pure whim. And you don’t care how your whim ends for your possible partner. You will continue to jump to realize your next whims. A what to do guy, what if this little affair ruins his life?