Should I tell my wife that I was fucked in my youth?

[DalnoBoy]

Who else did you have a gay experience with?

No, this is the only “gay” vacation in life, which only he and I know about)

[Katerinka]

Dima771714, don’t tell me for anything!

[Xenophon]

Dima771714, don’t tell me for anything !

Apparently, he still told, because... disappeared.
Can I ask you a question? Why do you so categorically advise him not to tell him?

[Henson]

Apparently, he did tell, because... disappeared.
Can I ask a question? Why do you so categorically advise against telling him.

a question of risk balance. If he tells you it’s normal, it seems good and cool. but if the wife doesn’t like it, the consequences may not be worth the risk. so the choice is made in favor of a more cautious strategy "it’s better not to lose than to win"

[Sorcerer]

DalnoBoy, you said in another topic that you are not homo. And here you say that you are a fag

[Alexssss]

DalnoBoy, you said in another topic that you are not a homosexual. And here you say that you are a fag

changed the topic along the way)))

[Aspiring]

It’s not worth it, you can destroy your status as a male protector. Even if your wife fucks you with a strap-on, she should be sure that only she is allowed to do this.

[Bully Carrie]

It’s not worth it, you can destroy your status as a male protector

What is the connection between a protector and anal sex? A muscleman and a special forces soldier cannot fuck in the ass? And vice versa, a coward and a goner, but not one who gets fucked in the ass - is he immediately a defender?

[Greek10]

DalnoBoy, you said in another topic that you are not a homosexual. And here you say that you are a fag

To lie you need to have a good memory) So, probably, after all, he is a fag and his wife is not just dynamite, the legs of that topic are from another places are growing.

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It’s not worth it, you can destroy your status as a male protector

What is the connection between a protector and anal sex? A muscleman and a special forces soldier cannot fuck in the ass? And vice versa, a coward and a goner, but not one who gets fucked in the ass, is he immediately a defender?

Apparently it is assumed that anal sex immediately puts you in a passive role at all levels, in including physical and moral. That is, they fucked you in the ass - everyone - now everyone is kicking you. Meanwhile, homosexuals are still fighters. There were many homosexuals in the army of Alexander the Great and it was believed that the soldiers would fight much more selflessly, protecting their lovers with their backs. In a military environment, it was generally considered normal to live in pairs, as a rule - an older and a younger soldier, his “grandfather” taught him the art of war, covered him in battle, The culture of antiquity did not divide relationships between people into heterosexual and homosexual. In Ancient Greece, it was normal for young men to sleep with men before marriage. After marriage, the young man became a man, his sexual role changed. In antiquity, adolescents did not differentiate between gender, i.e. girls and boys were considered a kind of neuter gender, “nymphs.” if you look at the sculptures of antiquity, all young guys have an effeminate face.

[eleyeley0101]

and I told my wife. she was very horny

[DalnoBoy]

I was just chatting with my sidekick, it just so happened that I love women!

[Aspiring]

What is the connection between the protector and anal sex? A muscleman and a special forces soldier cannot fuck in the ass? And vice versa, a coward and a goner, but not one who gets fucked in the ass, is he immediately a protector? protect her from the outside world, someone who will not let her be offended. Bringing to light the fact of passive anal sex can devalue this fact. It’s subconscious. Physical condition and "special forces" have absolutely nothing to do with it.

[Topchik]

Of course not.
Otherwise she will want to fuck you too.

Better tell your neighbor.
Let everyone know, except your wife.
You can even make business cards.

[Bully Carrie]

who can protect her from the outside world,

from the aggression of the outside world

The emergence of the fact of passive anal sex can devalue this fact

What is the logical connection here?

This is subconscious

exactly. These are games of your subconscious.

[Henson]

the one who can protect her from the outside world, the one who will not let her be offended

it has always been amazing how ready people are to quickly become aggressive savages " for protection" than to develop professionally, build a career and move to more prosperous places

[padshiy]

I haven’t encountered such a situation, but I don’t think it’s worth it...
If you stopped with men, it is better to hide your sins of youth

[Aspiring]

Henson,
Again, no one says anything got it)
They are not talking about self-development here, but about a woman’s subconscious perception of her man.
And you can be three times self-developed in a prosperous country (insert the country yourself, I don’t know anyone like that), but if your woman understands that you are not wealthy as a male, she will stop considering you a man.
Yes, maybe she won’t get divorced because of money or children, but she will no longer be confident in you.

[Henson]

Aspiring, well, I don’t deny the same model of perception of the world among women. must be a redneck because the environment is appropriate, you must be able to bully if something happens. and a normal, educated person with no qualms about masculinity is a loser in their society. he drinks, he has less than zero money, but he’s a peasant man, he doesn’t punch you in the ass, but he punches you in the teeth every other day. That means he will protect her too. it’s true that she’ll fuck herself up before that, but other men will be afraid
I’m bombed precisely because I just escaped from this swamp and I’m so damn happy to be in an environment where women, among other things, care about something other than How much of a “man” you are, and how humane you are. do you like anal? let us suppose. Don’t you waste your money on booze? No? don’t you swear every word? Do you have anything to talk about besides football? well, that’s important, but let’s deal with your ass
smart-assed people are looking for someone to improve their conditions. The civilized are looking for someone to improve these conditions on equal terms. and it’s not just about sex, in friendships and work relationships it’s exactly the same

Yes, she may not get a divorce because of money or children, but she will no longer be confident in you.

and I am confident in me, because I will not cheat, I will not rape and I will not waste my life in Bucharest. and together with me you can build a prosperous life in a prosperous environment

[Tamerlane]

Can I tell my wife that in my youth I was fucked in the mouth and ass?

Tell the psychoanalyst. Or a sexologist. They will help. And since I didn’t say it earlier, I was dating and she wasn’t his wife. It’s not worth it at all. Don’t get on your spouse’s nerves.

[Katerinka]

Ksenofont, I imagined that my husband would tell me this, I would be disgusted to be honest, I couldn’t live like that

[The woman]

I told my then-fiancée that I practiced oral with men (and gave it to the ass quite a bit)). The reaction was quite adequate, and without any worries. If your soulmate really loves you, he will accept all your corners. After all, this was once upon a time, and not now. In addition, such an experience diversified our sex life. For example, my wife likes to “torment” me with toys) it’s not working out very well yet, but it’s a matter of time and experience

[Xenophon]

Ksenofont, I imagined that I would my husband told me this, I would be disgusted to be honest, I wouldn’t be able to live like that

What do you think, if you had experience in a relationship with a woman, How would your husband react?
I have never understood this strange, irreconcilable attitude of women towards men’s hobbies, which do not pose any threat to their relationship.

[Henson]

And what do you think, if you had experience in a relationship with a woman, how would your husband react?
I have never understood this strange, irreconcilable attitude of women towards men’s hobbies that do not pose any threat to their relationship .

well, it’s hard to give up the idea that a man should be a stereotyped man let him beat better, but other men are disgusting to him.
You will notice a pattern. the more developed people are, the more calmly they look at the hobbies of others (if hobbies do not go beyond the boundaries of the law and sanity (drinking and hanging around is BEYOND THE FRAMEWORKS of sanity))

[Shy Baby]

Explain to me: WHY DOES your husband/wife KNOW what you once had? This is unnecessary, unnecessary, and even harmful information.
My husband and I have an excellent relationship, but he DOESN’T KNOW and shouldn’t know what I once had. He will know what he NEEDS to know.

[Sorcerer]

My brother’s wife doesn’t know that her husband is a fag and participates in sessions, knows less, sleeps more soundly

[Henson]

My brother’s wife doesn’t know that her husband is a fagot and participates in sessions, knows less, sleeps more soundly

and why are there relationships where you can’t be frank? The question is not specifically for you, it just hangs in the air and I’m not teaching life, this is just my opinion, subjective

[Sorcerer]

why are there relationships where you can’t be frank? The question is not specifically for you, it’s just

it’s only here on the forum that everything is so simple, everyone knows about each other, they organize orgies, mzhm and are friendly to all kinds of perversion. I think these are just hidden desires, but in reality everything is not so simple and open.

[Henson]

It’s only here on the forum that everything is so simple, everyone knows about each other, they organize orgies, mmm and are friendly to all kinds of perversion. I think these are just hidden desires, but in reality everything is not so simple and open.

PERSONALLY I would be frank and would not waste time on half measures. I had experience with men - I’m talking about it. Is it disgusting for a girl to look at me? Well, alas and ah, it’s not mine, so I’ll find someone more open to such things

[Sorcerer]

well, alas and ah, it’s not mine, which means I’ll find myself more open to such things

I had a divorce for this reason. I found out by chance, scandal, divorce. She accused us of being all perverts, fagots, animals, and so on. But until I knew it, everything was great, almost an ideal family. They didn’t even remain friends.

[Henson]

I had a divorce for this reason. I found out by chance, scandal, divorce. She accused us of being all perverts, fagots, animals, and so on. But until I knew it, everything was great, almost an ideal family. We didn’t even remain friends.

I’m sincerely sorry that this happened, without banter (and I’m even more sorry that she didn’t turn out to be so understanding. That’s why I would have initially I would be honest, nothing will come out if everything is known. I believe that you can find a girl who is at least calm about such an experience. It is clear that ideally she should still be a supporter of bisex, but that’s another story.

[Aspiring]

That’s what we’re talking about! You need to be frank with a woman (to a certain extent), but do not forget that women have a very weak psyche, and besides, their hormonal levels constantly fluctuate. There is no need to overload a woman!
It’s already hard for them!

[Xenophon]

That’s what we’re talking about! You need to be frank with a woman (to a certain extent), but do not forget that women have a very weak psyche, and besides, their hormonal levels constantly fluctuate. There is no need to overload a woman.!
It’s already hard for them!

Yes! But we must not forget that everything secret becomes clear. You don’t need to talk about all your exes. But we must tell you that they were. And you don’t need to talk about your bi addictions in detail, but you can’t help but tell what it was.
Otherwise you will get what was written about here above. And it’s good that by this time you won’t have three children and a mortgage.

[Ekaterina trans]

Although you are right... there are also those who can stop existing as a man... that’s my opinion... everything is strictly individual... You need to carefully “test the waters”, look at the reaction and analyze it! n

here is mine, having learned that men were fucking me and, moreover, in a female form, she ceased to exist for her as a man.

[Sorcerer]

Ekaterina transi, are you a lesbian now?))

[Ekaterina trans]

Ekaterina transi, now you are a lesbian

I don’t know who I am

[Katerinka]

Ksenofont, I don’t think he would have liked it very much. Now, if we had a frivolous relationship with him, then yes. Have fun.

[Diana disobeyed]

I also don’t know how to tell my wife that my ass is periodically pulled....

And, you want everything about did they know this?)))

Well, about everyone, this is too much. But I often want my wife to know about this side of my life. It’s scary though. I don’t even know how she will react, but still from time to time she is tempted to do something to get herself burned.

[The wall]

I told mine when I wanted. And then when I tried it. I thought he might want to watch or participate. But alas. She’s not interested.

[Sorcerer]

Although it’s scary. I don’t even know how she will react, but still from time to time she is tempted to do something to get herself burned.

that’s exactly what, if she finds out, the family can collapse. First, from afar, you can try to find out her opinion using the examples of others.

[Ilya.womanizer]

I thought he might want to watch or participate. But alas. She is not interested in this.

Apparently, in general, she is also not very interested in you in family life, perhaps something is holding her back in your relationship and in at any moment, if the opportunity arises, it will leave you.

[Ivan.Kirillov]

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[Wercom]

it all depends on preferences in sex, some people also like to make sex with men)

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