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Such a thing. I want to diversify sex with my wife (but without third parties). Sexy lingerie, it was all there. I want to try double penetration (member + strap-on or butt plug), got everything. My wife doesn’t want to, how can I loosen her up? Or what else can you try. I’m waiting for advice.
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What does it mean to diversify? Is your wife no longer exciting?
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Igor1989: 24 Sep 2023, 02:45 My wife doesn’t want to, how can I free her up?
listen, well, you know your wife better....
Igor1989 : 24 Sep 2023, 02:45as
?Send her porn videos via messenger, organize a romantic dinner with wine at home, speak words through her mouth.
Are you sure you want this? Or is “the wife doesn’t want to” just an excuse and a reason to complain? :bel_flag:
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It excites me, but I want to try something new in sex. Previously, she was somehow more relaxed in bed. Cunnilingus and blowjob were always present, but now they are rare. So I want to diversify it somehow.
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Igor1989: 24 Sep 2023, 02:59 There was always cunnilingus, blowjob, but now it’s a rarity
She’s not enslaved, she just didn’t like it anymore
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Hooligan Carrie: 24 Sep 2023, 02:57 Organize a romantic dinner with wine at home, speak words through your mouth.
Are you sure you want this? Or is "the wife doesn’t want to" just an excuse and a reason to complain?
You think I don’t do this, although I didn’t send porn videos. As soon as it comes to this... You are some kind of pervert, why did you buy this.
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Igor1989: 24 Sep 2023, 02:59 Cunitation and blowjob were always present, but now they are rare. So I want to diversify it somehow.
Well, I don’t believe it right away. Not a single woman will refuse high-quality cunnilingus if she has already had it and liked it. The question is how good. Improve your equipment, try cunnilingus in a new way.
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Igor1989: 24 Sep 2023, 03:06 You think I don’t do this,
Well, how do I know))
Try again) Try differently.
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Hooligan Carrie: 24 Sep 2023, 03:07 Try differently.
most likely, this is not directly related to sex
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Igor1989: 24 Sep 2023, 03:06 As soon as it comes to this... You are some kind of pervert, why did you buy this.
At one time I had an aversion to porn. Although I am now very ashamed to admit it, but what happened, happened. When I was depressed, I broke down and said that I don’t want to watch porn. But then she wised up! And now we’re watching together!
What do I mean? Once is not enough, life is complex and varied, and even more so for a woman. Don’t accept rejection right away, take a closer look and move forward.
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Alena26: 24 Sep 2023, 03:14 most likely, this is not directly related to sex
It may well be. Here we are discussing a spherical horse in a vacuum: like, everything else is normal, but we only look at sex. And there, perhaps, hormones (@vvm, your topic!), fatigue, emotions, health and 100,500 other reasons.
But. If you establish relationship standards, then everything can be discussed and resolved.
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Hooligan Carrie, sex can just get boring, you need to abstain a little maybe the passion will return
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Hooligan Carrie: 24 Sep 2023, 03:07 Well, I don’t believe it right away. Not a single woman will refuse high-quality cunnilingus if she has already had it and liked it. The question is how good. Improve your equipment, try cunnilingus in a new way.
I don’t even know. She always got an orgasm, came, it was obvious (you can see and feel from a girl when she feels good), she even said that she was done.... What could go wrong.
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Alena26: 24 Sep 2023, 03:22 sex can just get boring
the same sex can get boring, but there are many types
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Hooligan Carrie: 24 Sep 2023, 03:29 but there are many types
but sex is not about types, it’s about relationships
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Alena26: 24 Sep 2023, 03:40 but sex is not a species, it is a relationship
so of course! And relationships need to be taken care of. It won’t grow on its own.
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Hooligan Carrie: 24 Sep 2023, 03:56 And relationships need to be dealt with
it’s just life, how can you separate sex from life
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Give advice a rewarding task. Some input information is needed. How old are you and your wife? How long have you been married? Do you have any children? Does she cum from classic sex? Masturbating? And is she having troubles at work? Maybe she has someone on the side?
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Igor1989: 24 Sep 2023, 02:59 It excites, but I want to try something new in sex. Previously, she was somehow more relaxed in bed. Cunnilingus and blowjob were always present, but now they are rare.
"I’ll tell you a smart thing. Just don’t be offended..."
:-)
Before, you fucked your wife, and apparently sex alone was not enough for her, and that’s why you gave her additional cunnilingus and she gave you a blowjob. By the way, blowjobs also excite many women. But apparently at some point someone else started fucking her. And apparently he fucks so well that she has enough without any toys. And as you know, they quickly get used to good things. And apparently, from some time on, she began to think that what was all these toys for when just one dick was enough. A good one, moderately large, thick and well-standing.

You better take care of your health. Stop drinking beer and eating flour and sweet treats. Lose weight if you have it. Well, in general, take care of your health. All this to make it stand better. And in general, getting yourself into good physical shape has never hurt anyone.

Well, forget about jealousy. There is no need to calculate it and check whether this is true. If she didn’t need you, she would leave you. If he lives, it means he either loves you or simply thinks that you are good. Well, the fact that she has something somewhere on the side in terms of sex, this is a temporary matter. As a rule, this does not last long. The one who fucks her will either leave somewhere, or get married or move to another area or to another job and all this will stop. And it is important that by this moment you have a good erection and everything is normal with potency and health.

Well, apparently you just didn’t satisfy her and someone guessed about it and didn’t offer her something that she had been missing so much lately. Maybe she was painfully unable to finish with you. And every time after sex with you I felt broken. Hence the toys. Or maybe it was necessary not to use toys and not with the help of cunnilingus to bring her to orgasm, but just to drink and talk frankly about what’s wrong with sex. And maybe the two of us can somehow decide what’s going on here.

Why do you think people have sex with threesomes? Do you think it’s because they’re mad about fat? No. People are just trying, honestly looking for a solution to the problem without screwing around and without secretly going to the left of each other.
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Vasyanitsa: 24 Sep 2023, 09:13 And apparently he fucks so well that she has enough without any toys. And as you know, they quickly get used to good things. And apparently, from some time on, she began to think that what was all these toys for when just one dick was enough. A good one, moderately large, thick and well-standing.
Exactly so! This is exactly why I don’t like toys in sex, you can get used to them, and without them something won’t be the same...
And you can add variety without toys, all sorts of games... :angel: :oops:
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Meow: 24 Sep 2023, 11:42
Vasyanitsa: 24 Sep 2023, 09:13 And apparently he fucks so well that she has enough without any toys. And as you know, they quickly get used to good things. And apparently, from some time on, she began to think that what was all these toys for when just one dick was enough. A good one, moderately large, thick and well-standing.
Exactly so! This is exactly why I don’t like toys in sex, you can get used to them, and without them something won’t be the same...
And you can add variety without toys, all sorts of games... :angel: :oops:
there are more than one toys. We don’t use it very often, when we’re in a playful mood. For many years no one has gotten used to it
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Fargal94: 24 Sep 2023, 12:06 there are toys and more than one. We don’t use it very often, when we’re in a playful mood. For many years, no one has gotten used to it
I also have 2 pieces, but I don’t need them for sex, it’s when there’s no one to relieve tension ... Each hut has its own rattles!!! :)
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Meow: 24 Sep 2023, 12:14
Fargal94: 24 Sep 2023, 12:06 there are more than one toys. We don’t use it very often, when we’re in a playful mood. For many years, no one has gotten used to it
I also have 2 pieces, but I don’t need them for sex, it’s when there’s no one to relieve tension ... Each hut has its own rattles!!! :)
sometimes we forget about them for 2-3 weeks)
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Fargal94: 24 Sep 2023, 12:15
Meow: 24 Sep 2023, 12:14
Fargal94: 24 Sep 2023, 12:06 there are more than one toys. We don’t use it very often, when we’re in a playful mood. For many years, no one has gotten used to it
I also have 2 pieces, but I don’t need them for sex, it’s when there’s no one to relieve tension ... Each hut has its own rattles!!! :)
sometimes we forget about them for 2-3 weeks)
So, why don’t you need them! Pampering is...
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Meow: 24 Sep 2023, 12:20
Fargal94: 24 Sep 2023, 12:15
Meow: 24 Sep 2023, 12:14 I also have 2 of them, but I don’t really need them for sex, when I don’t have anyone to go with, it relieves tension... Each hut has its own rattles!!! :)
sometimes we forget about them for 2-3 weeks)
So, why don’t you need them! This is pampering...
well, of course it’s pampering! That’s what we bought it for)
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