Set yourself up or deceive others, which is easier?

[Serg_A]

I naively came to visit men a couple of times, I don’t want to anymore.. I have a strong guardian angel)

You shouldn’t have gone to his house, you would have met on neutral territory, where he would have been afraid to touch you.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I naively came to visit men a couple of times, I don’t want to anymore.. I have a strong guardian angel)

There was no need to go to his house, we would have met on neutral territory, where he would have been afraid to touch you.

I thought about this later..

[Greek10]

Well, that is, you mean that: "Life is bad without a sucker!" . And you won’t use it on occasion,

It sounds like an unambiguous statement. From what does this statement follow? Re-read my answer to Carrie and think at least......

Well, to the first part of the question you answered that remove the noodles from your ears. But in the second part of the question Hooligan Kerry , is interested in your attitude towards this, whether you can take advantage of it yourself - a person’s weakness. Is it comfortable to be a victim, but at the same time remaining an honest person, or is it more pleasant to be a scammer? Well, and you thought that since a person is a victim, then he himself is to blame, because he didn’t want to leaving his comfort zone and he was too lazy to make an effort. And the one who cheated, well, that is, the one who deceived, he then made efforts, worked, that is, , well so he’s great.

what a deep thought. Everything is much simpler - Here is a question from Carrie - To expose yourself or to deceive others, which is easier? What’s easier? Of course he will substitute himself. What’s easier: dropping a barbell or picking it up? Should I ask an uncomfortable question or remain silent? Earn money or spend? What’s easier? Keep it simple, don’t look for a black cat in a dark room - it’s not there.

[Bully Carrie]

, don’t look for a black cat in a dark room - it’s not there.

What if this is Schrödinger’s cat? It seems like it’s not there, but it seems like it is There is?
It seems like it’s easier to drop a barbell, but...it’s easier for someone to lift it than to dodge falling iron.
Relationships are not pancakes in a rocking chair: the weight on them is not written in advance. What kind of barbell to pull in life, everyone understands in the process, and it doesn’t depend on the number of kg.

[Xenophon]

What if it’s Schrödinger’s cat? It seems like it’s not there, but it seems like it is?
It seems like it’s easier to drop a barbell, but...it’s easier for someone to lift it than dodge falling iron.
Relationships are not pancakes in a rocking chair: the weight on them is not written in advance. What kind of barbell to pull in life, everyone understands in the process, and it doesn’t depend on the number of kg

I didn’t want to get involved with my naturalism in such a fascinating philosophical discussion, but I just imagined how a falling barbell hits my leg... Smart thoughts immediately disappear.

[Lost]

Hi all! Maybe I’ll be a little off topic, maybe it’ll turn out the other way around from the TS topic. There were more than once times when I really wanted to achieve the favor of a lady, I tried to achieve it, one might say, for a long time, it was wasted, not only financially, but also morally)))) and when I already got what I wanted, I immediately wondered why I spent so much effort and time if this queen no better than an ordinary girl, a "simple girl" Even better than this miracle. After Olga bore such situations, he stopped engaging in nonsense and began to have a more philosophical attitude towards many things.

[The passage]

became more philosophical about many things

)))) Ahah - is that what you called masturbation?)))

[Lost]

)) Ahah - is that what you called masturbation?)))

no dear mademoiselle, I just made a decision for myself, there are no queens, all Cinderellas , but I don’t need to masturbate, everything is enough

[The passage]

)) Ahah - is that what you called masturbation?)))

no dear mademoiselle, I just made a decision for myself, there are no queens , all Cinderellas , but I don’t need to masturbate, there’s enough of everything

))) Ahah. The king makes the queen a queen. And Cinderella is Cinderella... apparently a fireman)))

[Serg_A]

Hello everyone! Maybe I’ll be a little off topic, maybe it’ll turn out the other way around from the TS topic. There were more than once times when I really wanted to achieve the favor of a lady, I tried to achieve it, one might say, for a long time, it was wasted, not only financially, but also morally)))) and when I already got what I wanted, I immediately wondered why I spent so much effort and time if this queen no better than an ordinary girl, a "simple girl" Even better than this miracle. After Olga bore such situations, he stopped dealing with nonsense and began to have a more philosophical attitude towards many things

In Soviet times, a condition like yours was considered a sexual disorder. But if you are cured, then great.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Hello everyone! Maybe I’ll be a little off topic, maybe it’ll turn out the other way around from the TS topic. There were more than once times when I really wanted to achieve the favor of a lady, I tried to achieve it, one might say, for a long time, it was wasted, not only financially, but also morally)))) and when I already got what I wanted, I immediately wondered why I spent so much effort and time if this queen no better than an ordinary girl, a "simple girl" Even better than this miracle. After Olga bore such situations, he stopped engaging in nonsense and began to take a more philosophical view of many labels.. they will not bring you any good. Each person is unique and each needs a different approach.

These users thanked the author ◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊ for the post (total 3):

A meow, Serg_A, Bully Carrie

[A meow]

Each person is unique and everyone needs their own approach.

.. .or a way to get rid of it.

[Lost]

Ahaha. The king makes the queen a queen. And Cinderella is Cinderella... the fireman apparently)))

Everyone is right in their own way. Everyone has their own opinion. I’m not going to get into someone else’s head and I’m not going to restore my own order either. All these are prejudices and labels to make up for the inferiority that a king makes a queen. You, dear mademoiselle, hate everyone on this forum, your right, and I’m not going to correct you. You are probably asserting yourself a little and I don’t want to interfere with this. I just wish you good luck in your endeavors and if necessary I can support you.

In Soviet times, a condition like yours was considered a sexual disorder. But if you are cured, then great.

This is something new, I assure you mentally, everything is fine with me, believe me, there are no deviations, neither obvious nor hidden. And if you need help, I can help and recommend a good hospital with excellent doctors.

[Bully Carrie]

You, dear mademoiselle, hate everyone on this forum

Whoa-whoa, take it easy on the turns, monsieur! What are you doing now? This somehow doesn’t look very much like friendly communication.

[Beluga]

And Cinderella is Cinderella... the fireman apparently)))

And Cinderella is the cinderella worker

[The passage]

All these are prejudices and labels, to make up for inferiority

))) And, the fact that there are no queens, only Cinderella - this is not for to compensate for inferiority?

[Tamerlane]

The topic was inspired by a private conversation. Sorry, it was long.
Look. When you enter into a new relationship, you are euphoric and wearing rose-colored glasses. They can take you lukewarm and hang you as much noodles as you want. And even cheat for money and other goodies. And people use it often.
Question: have you often found yourself in such situations? How did you react? In the style of "samdurak/samaduravinovata" or was it really painful? Do girls or guys use this more often?
And another question: did you yourself take advantage of this moment, when you could get everything from a person who was in love with you, and even cheat you into everything, what else?
And in which role were you more comfortable? When you can easily deceive someone to the point of meanness, or know that you are an easy victim, BUT absolutely honest (honest) and pure (pure)?

n I have never done this before and never will. I always respected my partners. Taking advantage of a person is meanness.

[Lost]

Whoa-whoa, take it easy on the turns, monsieur! What are you doing now? This somehow doesn’t look very much like friendly communication.

If they saw rudeness in my words, I apologize. Expressed his opinion on the mood of others.

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And, the fact that there are no queens, only Cinderella, is this not to make up for inferiority?

No, of course, I don’t feel inferior and don’t I am. A completely accomplished person, balanced, happy with everything. I always wish everyone the best and try to be better than they are.))

[The passage]

I don’t feel like I’m not full-fledged

I think that the phrase that the king makes a queen a queen was also invented by people who are quite full-fledged.

[Lost]

I think that the phrase that the king makes a queen a queen was also invented by people who are quite full-fledged.

Probably this is true, in my statement above I had in view of the ladies who are arrogant, spoiled and treat life and others with bias. As far as I see, you are an intelligent person, it’s a pity that they didn’t understand this. Maybe I didn’t finish my thought, that could be the reason.

[The passage]

I think that the phrase that the king makes a queen a queen was also invented by people who are quite full-fledged.

Probably this is true, in their own way In the statement above, I meant ladies who are arrogant, spoiled and treat life and others with bias. As far as I see, you are an intelligent person, it’s a pity that they didn’t understand this. Maybe I didn’t finish my thought, this may be the reason.

I saw in your message only annoyance and how you pouted your lips. This is what a child does when he is offended.

[Lost]

I saw in your message only annoyance and how you pouted. This is what a child does when he is offended.

No, there is no annoyance, let alone any offense. It was purely a sporting interest, to see if somewhere is better, or somewhere worse, that’s all)))

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Being offended by such things is stupid. Youth is given for this purpose, in order to experience life and make it better in the future, already at a more mature age.

[The passage]

make it better in the future

Have you made life better?

[Lost]

Have you made your life better?

Completely satisfied with my life!

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I gave birth to children, planted a forest of trees, built a house and live with a beautiful woman, what else is needed for happiness.) )))

[The passage]

what else is needed for happiness.

Apparently this forum was the only thing you needed for complete happiness.

[Lost]

What’s wrong with that? One of my hobbies.

[The passage]

What’s wrong with that? One of my hobbies.

Everything is fine

[Lost]

Everything is fine

I’m happy for you! And I wish everyone the same, that it will be good!

[Watchman]

Of course it’s better to throw than to be thrown

[niqk]

You can, of course, throw it. But you can miss...

[Watchman]

You can, of course, throw it. Only you can miss...

This is a problem exclusively for the one who was thrown, where he landed there and was useful

[Mitry]

You, dear mademoiselle, hate everyone on this forum

this is a kind of sex, moral

[niqk]

You can, of course, throw it. Only you can miss...

This is a problem exclusively for the one who was thrown, where he landed there and was useful

If only... Often the one who threw it starts to bite his elbows - and why did I do that?..

[Watchman]

why did I do that?..

yes, I touched it with my hands and threw it, but I should have used a 3-meter stick

[Pierro]

I came to visit men a couple of times, I don’t want to anymore

I For some reason I think that you are still a risk taker..)

[niqk]

... both in a gas mask and in chemical protection...

[Serg_A]

The topic was inspired by a private conversation. Sorry, it was long.
Look. When you enter into a new relationship, you are euphoric and wearing rose-colored glasses. They can take you lukewarm and hang you as much noodles as you want. And even cheat for money and other goodies. And people use it often.
Question: have you often found yourself in such situations? How did you react? In the style of "samdurak/samaduravinovata" or was it really painful? Do girls or guys use this more often?
And another question: did you yourself take advantage of this moment, when you could get everything from a person who was in love with you, and even cheat you into everything, what else?
And in which role were you more comfortable? When you can easily deceive someone to the point of meanness, or know that you are an easy victim, BUT absolutely honest (honest) and pure (pure)?

nI’m actually not surprised that there is little sympathy for the victim, even if there is any.
Still, most people probably have an opinion on how to avoid getting into a situation where they will blatantly take advantage of you. It’s best, of course, not to fall in love, but what if this has already happened?

[niqk]

Serg_A, and if it has already happened - rejoice and love further ! This is the most wonderful state
of a person’s soul!!!

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I came to visit men a couple of times, I don’t want to anymore

for some reason I think that you are a risky person anyway..)

not anymore)

[Serg_A]

The topic was inspired by a private conversation. Sorry, it was long.
Look. When you enter into a new relationship, you are euphoric and wearing rose-colored glasses. They can take you lukewarm and hang you as much noodles as you want. And even cheat for money and other goodies. And people use it often.
Question: have you often found yourself in such situations? How did you react? In the style of "samdurak/samaduravinovata" or was it really painful? Do girls or guys use this more often?
And another question: did you yourself take advantage of this moment, when you could get everything from a person who was in love with you, and even cheat you into everything, what else?
And in which role were you more comfortable? When you can easily deceive someone to the point of meanness, or know that you are an easy victim, BUT absolutely honest (honest) and pure (pure)?

nI’m actually not surprised that there is little sympathy for the victim, even if there is any.
Still, most people probably have an opinion on how to avoid getting into a situation where they will blatantly take advantage of you. It’s best, of course, not to fall in love, but what if this has already happened?

Here’s another story. My wife and I have been friends for quite some time with one woman, she is middle-aged, but pretty, and she drove her husband away because of drinking. Well, she met one of our friends, Valera. She really liked this Valera, and soon began to live with her. She really fell in love with him, and all because he knows how to fuck well. This Valera began to take advantage of this, persuaded her to take out several loans, otherwise he needed to buy a new car for his business, and when he got promoted, he would give her everything. They bought him a car, and in the meantime he married a young woman who lives in another city. She knows everything, he lives with his wife for half a month, and with her for half a month. In her mind, she understands that he is deceiving her, but she can’t do anything...

[Seeker]

The topic was inspired by a private conversation. Sorry, it was long.
Look. When you enter into a new relationship, you are euphoric and wearing rose-colored glasses. They can take you lukewarm and hang you as much noodles as you like. And even cheat for money and other goodies. And people use it often.
Question: have you often found yourself in such situations? How did you react? In the style of "samdurak/samaduravinovata" or was it really painful? Do girls or guys use this more often?
And another question: did you yourself take advantage of this moment, when you could get everything from a person who was in love with you, and even cheat you into everything, what else?
And in which role were you more comfortable? When you can easily deceive someone to the point of meanness, or know that you are an easy victim, BUT absolutely honest (honest) and pure (pure)?

nWhen I was warm, it happened that I was bred in my youth, the flesh boils, the head doesn’t think)
I didn’t take advantage of the moment, prostitution is not my thing. Which one is more comfortable? In no way, of course... it was unpleasant when a girl, at the first meeting in a cafe, ordered expensive buns at my expense, clearly understanding that this meeting was both the first and the last, i.e. sees that she doesn’t attract me in any way.
And knowing that you are an easy victim but absolutely honest is so childish and immature, it looks like a certain form of neurosis. The question made me smile)