Serial monogamy

[Venus]

Strecoza, the point is not Whether I consider the team large or small, the fact is that I have successful experience managing groups of people for more than 5 years, their size is of secondary importance. To be an effective leader, you need to be able to make the right decisions, even if they are unpopular and sometimes very tough. This is all to the topic of rules and restrictions.

Have you been a successful leader for five years? How did you understand that you were leading successfully and, most importantly, why did you manage for only five years? Removed? Hired a successful leader?

[BeachBunny]

Have you been a successful leader for five years? How did you understand that you were leading successfully and, most importantly, why did you manage for only five years? Removed? Have you hired a successful manager?

I don’t quite understand why you are interested in this, but so be it, in order: 1) More than five years for sure, 2) Managed successfully, since there were successful actual results of my leadership, there was something to compare with, 3) No one removed me, and no one could have done this. I left on my own.

[Venus]

Have you been a successful leader for five years? How did you understand that you were leading successfully and, most importantly, why did you manage for only five years? Removed? Have you hired a successful manager?

I don’t quite understand why you are interested in this, but so be it, in order: 1) More than five years for sure, 2) Managed successfully, since there were successful actual results of my leadership, there was something to compare with, 3) No one removed me, and no one could have done this. I left on my own.

Did you manage successfully and leave? Why? For five years everything suited you, and then it stopped? Something doesn’t add up in your story.
Everything interests me. When you enter into a discussion with me, be prepared for the fact that if I have my own position on any issue, it did not arise out of nowhere. This means that I have already thought through this issue before and made conclusions.
I am also a leader. You need an approach to your subordinates, to everyone. Of course, in my subordination there is a link of managers who manage middle management, junior staff and technical employees, but if necessary, I never consider it a shame to communicate with everyone without intermediaries. That’s why I have order in the department.
When checking, I never even had the thought of pointing at the neighboring department, saying that things were bad for me, and they were even worse. And, if I said that you haven’t been to Somalia yet, they would tell me that I’m a fool.
So now it seems to me that you are either playing the fool or really a narrow-minded person. A bad leader blames others. A bad leader has bad order instead of order. A bad leader has many ineffective restrictions.

[BeachBunny]

Strecoza, Successfully led. Gone. What’s surprising? Firstly, it no longer corresponded to my interests, and secondly, the constant hassle began to undermine my health, coupled with the fact that I was used to keeping everything under complete control, since I had reliable people to whom I could delegate all minor tasks and in fact there was no need to worry about them shitting themselves without direct control; in addition, I have such a negative trait as hyper-responsibility, which I have been trying to get rid of for a long time. Despite the very successful results in general, I did not get the results that I wanted, by the way, no one would have gotten them, but this did not suit me.

When checking, I never even had the thought of nodding to the next department that I have it bad, and they have it even worse. And, if I had said that you had not yet been to Somalia, then they would have told me that I was a fool.
So now it seems to me that you are either playing the fool or really a narrow-minded person. A bad leader blames others. A bad leader has bad order instead of order. A bad leader has many ineffective restrictions.

What exactly are we talking about? I had the best results of all the competitors, and who should I compare with if no one achieved the best results? And what does Somalia have to do with it?) I gave Somalia as an example so that you can clearly appreciate the possible difference. When you compare water at a temperature of 40 degrees and 39, you won’t feel the difference, do you understand the analogy?) What you think and who you think I am is unimportant. Bad order, good order - everything is relative and subjective. There are no clear criteria for good order or bad order. There are such concepts as efficiency, result and acceptable means to achieve it.

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People should not be reliable, but qualified. If a manager has no employees for five years who cannot work independently, without supervision, then you are not just a bad manager, but not a manager at all. Controlling processes and leading are two different things.
Well, your examples are not correct. If you must have order, then you must have order and you should not give any examples with others. If the restrictions you are taking are not effective, then there is no point in them.

This is what, in principle, the whole conversation should have been reduced to) You, without knowing the essence of the matter and the specifics of what I was doing, they diagnosed me and made conclusions about my competence as a leader) You have stereotyped, limited thinking, and you tell me that you are a leader, and not even a low-level one?) Very interesting) A person can be a qualified specialist and an unreliable person at the same time, this is for your information. Since you are in trouble, I will answer you that for 5 years I managed 3 different teams with the same specificity and everywhere I had excellent results, this is firstly, secondly, I did not have to control ordinary people, this is your speculation, there was no need for this, I had people for this, and the problems came from people precisely from the management team, intermediate management or people whose opinions had to be taken into account and I did not have the opportunity to remove these people from the equation, for reasons from me independent. My examples are more than correct, and most importantly simple, but apparently for some reason you are not able to comprehend even these examples. The restrictions and measures that I resorted to were effective and gave the result I needed, and it’s certainly not for you to judge) What you call order can only be order in your understanding, is this clear or not again?) I have there may be a different understanding of the order, the neighbor has a third, and so on. Regarding examples and comparisons - "Everything is known by comparison" (c) Friedrich Nietzsche.

Well, we are all talking about me, yes about me) Let’s talk about you)

Enlighten me, who do you lead? What are your successes as a leader?) How to evaluate them? I have certain doubts on this topic, but I’m certainly not going to evaluate your competence as a leader, if you really are one)

P.S. It’s funny, your last comment also disappeared)

[Venus]

Strecoza, Successfully led. Gone. What’s surprising? Firstly, it no longer corresponded to my interests, and secondly, the constant hassle began to undermine my health, coupled with the fact that I was used to keeping everything under complete control, since I had reliable people to whom I could delegate all minor tasks and in fact there was no need to worry about them shitting themselves without direct control; in addition, I have such a negative trait as hyper-responsibility, which I have been trying to get rid of for a long time. Despite the very successful results in general, I did not get the results that I wanted, by the way, no one would have gotten them, but this did not suit me.

When checking, I never even had the thought of nodding to the next department that I have it bad, and they have it even worse. And, if I had said that you had not yet been to Somalia, then they would have told me that I was a fool.
So now it seems to me that you are either playing the fool or really a narrow-minded person. A bad leader blames others. A bad leader has bad order instead of order. A bad leader has many ineffective restrictions.

What exactly are we talking about? I had the best results of all the competitors, and who should I compare with if no one achieved the best results? And what does Somalia have to do with it?) I gave Somalia as an example so that you can clearly appreciate the possible difference. When you compare water at a temperature of 40 degrees and 39, you won’t feel the difference, do you understand the analogy?) What you think and who you think I am is unimportant. Bad order, good order - everything is relative and subjective. There are no clear criteria for good order or bad order. There are such concepts as efficiency, result and acceptable means to achieve it.

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People should not be reliable, but qualified. If a manager has no employees for five years who cannot work independently, without supervision, then you are not just a bad manager, but not a manager at all. Controlling processes and leading are two different things.
Well, your examples are not correct. If you must have order, then you must have order and you should not give any examples with others. If the restrictions you are taking are not effective, then there is no point in them.

This is what, in principle, the whole conversation should have been reduced to) You, without knowing the essence of the matter and the specifics of what I was doing, they diagnosed me and made conclusions about my competence as a leader) You have stereotyped, limited thinking, and you tell me that you are a leader, and not even a low-level one?) Very interesting) A person can be a qualified specialist and an unreliable person at the same time, this is for your information. Since you are in trouble, I will answer you that for 5 years I managed 3 different teams with the same specificity and everywhere I had excellent results, this is firstly, secondly, I did not have to control ordinary people, this is your speculation, there was no need for this, I had people for this, and the problems came from people precisely from the management team, intermediate management or people whose opinions had to be taken into account and I did not have the opportunity to remove these people from the equation, for reasons from me independent. My examples are more than correct, and most importantly simple, but apparently for some reason you are not able to comprehend even these examples. The restrictions and measures that I resorted to were effective and gave the result I needed, and it’s certainly not for you to judge) What you call order can only be order in your understanding, is this clear or not again?) I have there may be a different understanding of the order, the neighbor has a third, and so on. Regarding examples and comparisons - "Everything is known by comparison" (c) Friedrich Nietzsche.

Well, we are all talking about me, yes about me) Let’s talk about you)

Enlighten me, who do you lead? What are your successes as a leader?) How to evaluate them? I have certain doubts on this topic, but I’m certainly not going to evaluate your competence as a leader, if you really are)

People You are unreliable, but you are a very effective leader. The best among competitors. In your words.
What can I say? You love to praise yourself, but to have something to say about it, you come up with a whole story about leadership work. I have no doubts about you. With your primitive thinking, very primitive, you would not be hired to lead even a couple of people, despite your great ambitions and imagination.

[Serg_A]

Strecoza, well, I don’t agree with you about Iran, Quite normal modern people live there. As for the laws of morons, all these burqas and hijabs are of course savagery, but was it true that we ourselves were savages? In our country at the beginning of the last century, a woman could not walk with her head uncovered, and now they are trying to instill this savagery in us again, just to drive people somewhere, some to the temple, some to the mosque... In Iran, everything is there, including promiscuity, They just know how not to show it to anyone. And the fact that this “morality police” killed a woman is just a case of a person being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I’ll try to explain, I once learned that one of my classmates (long ago) was killed in the police, beaten to death, just as Kaidanovsky was beaten to death at the police station, and I know of several other similar cases. Well, yes, the police said that Kaidanovsky was rude to them, and my friend, he also behaved incorrectly. What I mean is that in any country you need to be very careful with those who are supposed to protect you, if you cheat, you can go to jail or end up dead...

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We probably learned from ours. No matter what our problems are discussed, they begin to point at other countries. Of course, such unfortunate presidents should be driven out with a filthy broom. You need to be responsible for yourself, and not look for stupid excuses

And I have a positive attitude towards Iran).

What’s good there?

For you?)
What’s bad? Are women oppressed? They have their own culture of relationships. We may think she is wild. But it triples them and it, this culture, is not much different from relations in Turkey. Does Türkiye evoke the same attitude in you?

[BeachBunny]

Your people are unreliable, but you are a very effective leader. The best among competitors. In your words.
What can I say? You love to praise yourself, but to have something to say about it, you come up with a whole story about leadership work. I have no doubts about you. With your primitive thinking, very primitive, you would not be hired to lead even a couple of people, despite your great ambitions and imagination.

Your rudeness does you no credit, and perhaps I will disappoint you, but you are also not a master at manipulation. "Your people are unreliable" (c) Suddenly, yes, imagine, this happens, I was unpleasantly surprised, although nothing foreshadowed it. "but you are a very effective leader" Without being very, simply effective, in that specific area, yes, and it is unlikely that anyone from the team, including management, would dispute this. I had nothing to praise myself for, I had the results of my activities, gratitude and authority, this was more than enough. And here I’m not praising myself, I just answered your questions, if you were disadvantaged, for a reason unknown to me, then that’s your problem, and even more so, I wasn’t going to prove anything to you. "We came up with a whole story about leadership work." Don’t judge by yourself, stop fantasizing and don’t make baseless conclusions, you look stupid)

With your primitive thinking, very primitive, you would not be hired to lead even a couple of people, despite your great ambitions and imagination.

Who would talk about the primitiveness of thinking, whose cow would moo, and yours would remain silent) Your "sharp “I could partially see my mind at the beginning of this topic.) As for the rest, in principle it’s not for you to judge, you don’t know anything about me. Your conclusions are made up from thin air, mere speculation and pulling the ears, and are probably a projection onto yourself. You know nothing about my abilities, nor about my ambitions, but about fantasies, only if they are sexual, and then superficially) You started for health, and ended for peace, slipping into outright rudeness, with the transition to personalities) But it all began just from your not very smart statements regarding Muslim countries)

On this note, I will end this conversation) All the best, leader

[Serg_A]

And I have a positive attitude towards Iran).

What good is there ?

For you?)
What’s bad? Are women oppressed? They have their own culture of relationships. We may think she is wild. But it triples them and it, this culture, is not much different from relations in Turkey. Does Turkey evoke the same attitude in you?

I once saw a video: in Turkey, a husband and wife go to vote, the husband is asked:
n - who will you vote for?
- for Erdogan. - the husband answers, and then he receives such a slap from his wife that he ducked down
- fool! What the fuck is Erdogan?!

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And they could also create a comfortable environment for smokers by making a smoking area. But we don’t care about people’s comfort

Smokers are being harassed in order to reduce the number of smokers in society). Smokers infect young people with the desire to smoke. Admit it, how many young people have you seduced into smoking?)))

[Serg_A]

And they could also create a comfortable environment for smokers by making a smoking area. But we don’t care about people’s comfort

Smokers are being harassed in order to reduce the number of smokers in society). Smokers infect young people with the desire to smoke. Admit it, how many young people have you, by seducing, taught to smoke?)))

But there is no need to tell here that someone cares about our health
Ordinary competition - smoke vapes instead of cigarettes, no one anywhere fines you for them, or even finds fault...

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He says that he is indirectly present on the forum).

So let him register and write! We really, really lack normal, real women here! They exist, but there are too many of them!

well, not a fan she forums).

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Just don’t tell us here that someone cares about our health

How can they not care, have you seen those scary pictures on cigarettes?) And how many horizontal bars are there? did they do it all around?)
Imagine, it would be interesting to hear from Marinka how last weekend on the horizontal bar she mastered a hundred in ten approaches))).

[Serg_A]

How can they not care, I’ve seen some scary pictures on cigarettes?

Yes, the pictures are scary, but what if one of the teachers replaces your son at school? with electronic cigarette, then he/she won’t even reprimand him/her and won’t tell you. Well, unless it will be a teacher from the old school.

[Serg_A]

And how many horizontal bars have they built around?)

Yes, I agree, there are more sports fields. I like it. But I’ll tell you this, an athletic physique is not in trend today.

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Yes, the pictures are scary, but if one of the teachers replaces your son at school with an electronic cigarette, he/she won’t even reprimand him or her and won’t tell you. Well, unless it will be a teacher from the old school

A law has been passed banning the smoking of electronic cigarettes for children under 18 years of age. Urgoza register. This is according to my daughter, she is in 11th grade. They have already registered someone.

But I’ll tell you this, an athletic physique is not in trend today

In trend). My daughter said that all the boys in their class were in the rocking chair. From the 8th grade we started chasing our physique.
10 percent are involved in sports, just like in Soviet times.

[Bully Carrie]

How can they not care, have you seen some scary pictures on cigarettes?

Yes, the pictures are scary, but if someone is at your son’s school... then he/she will replace one of the teachers with an electronic cigarette, then he/she won’t even reprimand him/her and won’t tell you. Well, unless it will be a teacher from the old school.

Yes, the teachers themselves smoke, they only go 150 meters from the school to do this.

[Venus]

Your people are unreliable, but you are a very effective leader. The best among competitors. In your words.
What can I say? You love to praise yourself, but to have something to say about it, you come up with a whole story about leadership work. I have no doubts about you. With your primitive thinking, very primitive, you would not be hired to lead even a couple of people, despite your great ambitions and imagination.

Your rudeness does you no credit, and perhaps I will disappoint you, but you are also not a master at manipulation. "Your people are unreliable" (c) Suddenly, yes, imagine, this happens, I was unpleasantly surprised, although nothing foreshadowed it. "but you are a very effective leader" Without being very, simply effective, in that specific area, yes, and it is unlikely that anyone from the team, including management, would dispute this. I had nothing to praise myself for, I had the results of my activities, gratitude and authority, this was more than enough. And here I’m not praising myself, I just answered your questions, if you were disadvantaged, for a reason unknown to me, then that’s your problem, and even more so, I wasn’t going to prove anything to you. "We came up with a whole story about leadership work." Don’t judge by yourself, stop fantasizing and don’t make baseless conclusions, you look stupid)

With your primitive thinking, very primitive, you would not be hired to lead even a couple of people, despite your great ambitions and imagination.

Who would talk about the primitiveness of thinking, whose cow would moo, and yours would remain silent) Your "sharp “I could partially see my mind at the beginning of this topic.) As for the rest, in principle it’s not for you to judge, you don’t know anything about me. Your conclusions are made up from thin air, mere speculation and pulling the ears, and are probably a projection onto yourself. You know nothing about my abilities, nor about my ambitions, but about fantasies, only if they are sexual, and then superficially) You started for health, and ended for peace, slipping into outright rudeness, with the transition to personalities) But it all began just from your not very smart statements regarding Muslim countries)

On this note, I will end this conversation) All the best, leader

Don’t make excuses. All your excuses look as stupid as all your primitive thoughts in this topic.

[Bully Carrie]

Urgoza to register.

Yes, now you can register from the age of 6. Petty hooliganism, vandalism, cruelty to animals... - just go. By the way, a protocol is also drawn up for swearing at the Unified State Examination.

[Venus]

And they could also create a comfortable environment for smokers by making a smoking area. But we don’t care about people’s comfort

Smokers are being harassed in order to reduce the number of smokers in society). Smokers infect young people with the desire to smoke. Admit it, how many young people have you seduced into smoking?)))

Why don’t fast foods give you nightmares? This is also pure harm, and without age restrictions. Or take lemonade. Do you know how much sugar there is? This is not only obesity, but also every time a strong blow to the pancreas. Spicy, salty, smoked, confectionery. All this is pure harm.

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Strecoza, well, I’m talking about Iran I don’t agree with you, quite normal modern people live there. As for the laws of morons, all these burqas and hijabs are of course savagery, but was it true that we ourselves were savages? In our country at the beginning of the last century, a woman could not walk with her head uncovered, and now they are trying to instill this savagery in us again, just to drive people somewhere, some to the temple, some to the mosque... In Iran, everything is there, including promiscuity, They just know how not to show it to anyone. And the fact that this “morality police” killed a woman is just a case of a person being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I’ll try to explain, I once learned that one of my classmates (long ago) was killed in the police, beaten to death, just as Kaidanovsky was beaten to death at the police station, and I know of several other similar cases. Well, yes, the police said that Kaidanovsky was rude to them, and my friend, he also behaved incorrectly. What I mean is that in any country you need to be very careful with those who are supposed to protect you, if you cheat and you can go to jail or end up dead...

n The police can beat people only if they resist. In cases where someone was beaten to death, we are simply dealing not with people, but with animals. If you put them to sleep. Order will quickly be restored.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Strecoza, I’m reading the forum, and I’m not at all sure: some people like it when they have a wife in front of them, others like to fuck a bunch of women at the same time, others like to expose their ass to everyone (and men too), a fourth like to have threesomes, a fifth like to force their partner to please someone... No , I don’t judge who I am for this, everyone decides for themselves. But it seems to me that I’m some kind of retrogastic mastodon, that I’m the only one - I sleep only with my wife (or don’t sleep when it doesn’t allow it). So tell me, as a psychiatrist, since I stand out from the general mass, does it turn out to be me - with deviations? After all, the norm is determined by the majority. And judging by the forum, Belshinstvo either cheats left and right or generally believes that the concept of fidelity in a relationship is atavism, nonsense and laughter.

you are not the only one.. there are at least two of us)) for me, fidelity in a relationship is not an atavism, but the only suitable way to exist)

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And why aren’t fast foods a nightmare? This is also pure harm, and without age restrictions. Or take lemonade. Do you know how much sugar there is? This is not only obesity, but also every time a strong blow to the pancreas. Spicy, salty, smoked, confectionery. All this is pure harm

Fast food is at least food). What is smoking?)))
Is it difficult to quit fast food? - No. What about cigarettes?
If they eat fast food nearby, is it harmful for those standing next to them?
And if they smoke nearby? Do nearby vessels not narrow?)))

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Serg_A, son came up. He says that almost everyone at the technical school works out, they want to have a beautiful physique. But they gave up sports. My son has been boxing since he was 12, there are almost no one left in the juniors, everyone has fled. Many ran to the rocking chair.
My son says kickboxing, mma is also being abandoned. Pawning and knocking have become fashionable. Many people wear pepper spray. Saying why would I fight with him, what if I kill him.... I’d rather complain or use a can of pepper spray.

[Venus]

Why aren’t fast foods a nightmare? This is also pure harm, and without age restrictions. Or take lemonade. Do you know how much sugar there is? This is not only obesity, but also every time a strong blow to the pancreas. Spicy, salty, smoked, confectionery. All this is pure harm

Fast food is at least food). What is smoking?)))
Is it difficult to quit fast food? - No. What about cigarettes?
If they eat fast food nearby, is it harmful for those standing next to them?
And if they smoke nearby? Don’t the blood vessels of those nearby narrow?)))

If food causes much more harm than good, then it is no longer food. You can understand when there is no alternative, but all these products can be prepared in a way that will be beneficial for the body. A serving of French fries, which is not only not prohibited, but also has no age restrictions, is more harmful than smoking a pack of cigarettes. Sugar can be compared to cigarettes. There is zero benefit from it, no less harm.
Well, as for if they smoke nearby, you can ask them to move away from you. If they don’t leave, then leave yourself. If a running car is parked next to you, you either inhale exhaust fumes or move away. Right?! There is no thought to ban them. A ban on smoking at a bus stop where hundreds of cars pass by looks like insanity.
Yes, an unpleasant smell. I personally don’t like it when people eat boiled eggs on the train. The smell is just killer for me, and if they also eat them with fish, then it’s completely fucked up. Well, these are my feelings.
We can only talk about vasoconstriction in those who inhale tobacco smoke when a smoker and a non-smoker are in the same room, and in a very small one with poor ventilation.
It’s good when a person doesn’t smoke. One can be proud of this when he leads a generally healthy lifestyle. Well, if a person doesn’t move much, doesn’t eat healthy food and lives in a city with thousands of cars, then there’s no point in not smoking. Is it saving the family budget? Moreover, if he uses the money he saves to buy fries with Pepsi, then it would be better if he smoked. There would be less harm to the body.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Ah, why aren’t fast foods a nightmare? This is also pure harm, and without age restrictions. Or take lemonade. Do you know how much sugar there is? This is not only obesity, but also every time a strong blow to the pancreas. Spicy, salty, smoked, confectionery. All this is pure harm

Fast food is at least food). What is smoking?)))
Is it difficult to quit fast food? - No. What about cigarettes?
If they eat fast food nearby, is it harmful for those standing next to them?
And if they smoke nearby? Don’t the blood vessels of those nearby narrow?)))

If food causes much more harm than good, then it is no longer food. You can understand when there is no alternative, but all these products can be prepared in a way that will be beneficial for the body. A serving of French fries, which is not only not prohibited, but also has no age restrictions, is more harmful than smoking a pack of cigarettes. Sugar can be compared to cigarettes. There is zero benefit from it, no less harm.
Well, as for if they smoke nearby, you can ask them to move away from you. If they don’t leave, then leave yourself. If a running car is parked next to you, you either inhale exhaust fumes or move away. Right?! There is no thought to ban them. A ban on smoking at a bus stop where hundreds of cars pass by looks like insanity.
Yes, an unpleasant smell. I personally don’t like it when people eat boiled eggs on the train. The smell is just killer for me, and if they also eat them with fish, then it’s generally bad. Well, these are my feelings.
We can only talk about vasoconstriction in those who inhale tobacco smoke when a smoker and a non-smoker are in the same room, and in a very small one with poor ventilation.
It’s good when a person doesn’t smoke. One can be proud of this when he leads a generally healthy lifestyle. Well, if a person doesn’t move much, doesn’t eat healthy food and lives in a city with thousands of cars, then there’s no point in not smoking. Is it saving the family budget? Moreover, if he uses the money he saves to buy fries with Pepsi, then it would be better if he smoked. There would be less harm to the body.

you are justifying your bad habit, admit it)

[Venus]

Fast food is at least food). What is smoking?)))
Is it difficult to quit fast food? - No. What about cigarettes?
If they eat fast food nearby, is it harmful for those standing next to them?
And if they smoke nearby? Don’t the blood vessels of those nearby narrow?)))

If food causes much more harm than good, then it is no longer food. You can understand when there is no alternative, but all these products can be prepared in a way that will be beneficial for the body. A serving of French fries, which is not only not prohibited, but also has no age restrictions, is more harmful than smoking a pack of cigarettes. Sugar can be compared to cigarettes. There is zero benefit from it, no less harm.
Well, as for if they smoke nearby, you can ask them to move away from you. If they don’t leave, then leave yourself. If a running car is parked next to you, you either inhale exhaust fumes or move away. Right?! There is no thought to ban them. A ban on smoking at a bus stop where hundreds of cars pass by looks like insanity.
Yes, an unpleasant smell. I personally don’t like it when people eat boiled eggs on the train. The smell is just killer for me, and if they also eat them with fish, then it’s generally bad. Well, these are my feelings.
We can only talk about vasoconstriction in those who inhale tobacco smoke when a smoker and a non-smoker are in the same room, and in a very small one with poor ventilation.
It’s good when a person doesn’t smoke. One can be proud of this when he leads a generally healthy lifestyle. Well, if a person doesn’t move much, doesn’t eat healthy food and lives in a city with thousands of cars, then there’s no point in not smoking. Is it saving the family budget? Moreover, if he uses the money he saves to buy fries with Pepsi, then it would be better if he smoked. There would be less harm to the body.

you are justifying your bad habit, admit it)

This may be partly true, but many smoking-related bans really do not make life more comfortable. People violate, pay fines and continue to violate. This did not make it any easier for non-smokers. The smoker who paid the fine did not become healthier and did not quit smoking. You can come up with many measures. Effective. If we allow a non-smoking person to pay a higher salary. You can add a few days to your vacation, but this is only once a year, so-so motivation. Like all these scarecrows, but if non-smokers were paid significantly more every month, then there would really be an incentive.

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Strecoza,
A portion of fried potatoes is more harmful smoked a pack of cigarettes?))) Marina, what are you doing?)))
Let me stop eating fried potatoes, and you smoke?))) Shall we kill ourselves?)))

[Venus]

Strecoza,
nA serving of fried potatoes is more harmful than smoking a pack of cigarettes?))) Marina, what are you doing?)))
Let me stop eating fried potatoes, and you stop smoking?))) Shall we kill ourselves?)))

Yes, more harmful. I like smoking and will quit when I get the motivation. So far I don’t see any compelling reason to do this. I don’t smoke at home, I don’t smoke around non-smoking people, and I didn’t smoke even before all these bans. And, I don’t smoke in front of children.
I wrote about the bans in the spirit that they are all basically stupid, ineffective and do not bring any benefit to citizens. Unless the budget is replenished in the form of fines. You know that fines, I mean not only for smoking, in general, are included in the budget. A couple of years ago I saw a speech by a Moscow City Duma deputy and she said that a billion rubles worth of fines were included in the Moscow budget. Not a small amount. Is not it? Here is the answer to the question why ineffective restrictions are needed. They replenish the budget.
Let’s say we have a dirty street. Not dirty in the word dirt, but dirty in the sense of littered. What should be done? Place as many ballot boxes as possible. A person who has eaten ice cream, for example, will not put the dirty label from the eaten ice cream in his bag or pocket, he will look for where to throw it away and will throw it away. The only difference is this. He will throw it in the trash can or on the lawn. Oh, he’ll throw it away anyway.
So that’s what they do here. They impose a fine and hang up cameras. The person was found, fined, but the packaging remained there, and not just one. But they don’t want to put up ballot boxes. Why - you have to spend money on trash cans, spend money on those who will remove garbage from these bins, and if you take fines, then on the contrary, this is not a credit, but a debit. If people grumble. then especially gifted or cynical people suggest comparing a littered street with a garbage dump. It seems that there is more garbage there. Rejoice. Well, if they don’t stop being outraged, they will introduce fines for outrage, and fines for those who liked this outrage. So as not to be indignant.
By the way, they themselves do not live on this dirty street. They live on clean. Not because they don’t litter there. They clean there very carefully, using money received from fines. But you can’t just be indignant about this, you can’t even just mention it. Otherwise it will no longer be a fine, but a prison.

[etc]

Strecoza, don’t you eat fried potatoes?

[Beluga]

Strecoza, you don’t eat fried potatoes ?

Chops both cheeks

[Venus]

Strecoza, you don’t eat fried potatoes ?

No, I don’t fry anything at all. I even cook soups without overcooking. My youngest son has had gastrointestinal problems since birth. It so happened that I had manual separation of the placenta and after giving birth I was injected with very strong antibiotics, and I, a brainless fool, began to breastfeed my newborn son and, of course, ruined everything possible for him. Until a year it was all bad, but now everything is relatively normal and there is no strict diet, but if you grossly violate it, then the gall and pancreas immediately become inflamed. Well, we can’t eat what he can’t. That’s why everyone is on a forced diet

[Beluga]

Serial monogamy. What do you think about this?

Most likely, serial monogamy is a chain of failures in your personal life. Or, on the contrary, good luck, and each time you get more and more lucky)
I dated one boyfriend, broke up, met another... We didn’t have the same personalities, temperaments... And then I met my current husband, and serial monogamy is on it ended: lucky )

or not? who knows

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He says that he is indirectly present on the forum).

So let him register and writes! We really, really lack normal, real women here! They exist, but there are too many of them!

but it’s full of abnormal, and not only women

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You, without knowing the essence of the matter and the specifics of what I was doing, diagnosed

what else can you expect from a crazy doctor? diagnoses are her bread and salt!

[etc]

. That’s why everyone is on a forced diet

And you won’t eat at a party?

[Venus]

. That’s why everyone is on a forced diet

And you won’t eat at a party?

n Of course not

[Alice]

I saw a speech by a Moscow City Duma deputy a couple of years ago and she said that a billion rubles worth of fines were included in the Moscow budget.

Oh, Strecoza, well, you discovered America. Any inspection body has a plan for fines. Almost every inspector goes to the inspection with a specific amount. Moreover, you pay one to the budget, and the other to his pocket.
And how should the state treasury be replenished? Fines, taxes, duties, etc.

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I don’t smoke at home, I I don’t smoke around non-smoking people and I didn’t smoke even before all these bans.

Where did you smoke, and even in such quantities as you write? Not in the forest You’re running around! And in hospitals, for example, I didn’t see smoking rooms.

[Venus]

A couple of years ago I saw a speech by a Moscow City Duma deputy and she said that a billion rubles in fines were included in the Moscow budget.

Oh, Strecoza, well, you discovered America. They have a plan for fines any inspection body. Almost every inspector goes to the inspection with a specific amount. Moreover, you pay one to the budget, and the other to his pocket.
And how should the state treasury be replenished? Fines, taxes, duties, etc.

The budget includes fines worth a billion, which do not yet exist. To receive them, a person must violate. That is, fines are not a struggle for order, but a means of earning money. Therefore, most restrictions are not effective. They don’t need efficiency.
The treasury must be replenished through taxes.

[Alice]

The budget includes fines worth a billion, which do not yet exist. To get them, a person must violate.

Well, deputies know that people will violate...take parking, for example...because drivers know that will they be fined or evacuated, but they still put it up, cover the number with a piece of paper and hope for a miracle? If it doesn’t happen, they will punish you anyway.. and these are people on logans, it’s just their mentality, and they don’t want to maintain order... but over time They’ll learn. They taught us how to buy a train ticket, but before we used to run around... but there are people who keep order without punishment and will not throw an ice cream wrapper on the lawn, but put it in a pocket or bag.

[Venus]

The budget includes fines worth a billion, which do not yet exist. To get them, a person must violate.

Well, deputies know that people will violate...take parking, for example...because drivers know that will they be fined or evacuated, but they still put it up, cover the number with a piece of paper and hope for a miracle? If it doesn’t happen, they will punish you anyway.. and these are people on logans, it’s just their mentality, and they don’t want to maintain order... but over time They’ll learn. They taught us how to buy a train ticket, but before we used to run around... but there are people who keep order without punishment and will not throw an ice cream wrapper on the lawn, but put it in a pocket or bag.

If people park their cars in prohibited places, then we need to think about parking. And of course, if there are trash cans, people will not throw garbage on the lawn.
But for this you have to spend money.
Unfortunately, those who have the psychology of a slave are happy that they may have chains, but they won’t beat them. Let them beat you, but they didn’t kill you. They may have killed them, but thank God they didn’t kill me...

[OLD FRIEND]

If people park their cars in prohibited places, then we need to think about parking. And of course, if there are trash cans, people won’t throw garbage on the lawn.
But for this you have to spend money.

Deputies don’t give a fuck. They are not going to live here.

[etc]

And of course, if there are trash cans, people won’t throw trash on the lawn.

I haven’t noticed any trash lately. It was somehow clean, there were trash cans all around.
There are a lot of videos on YouTube comparing Russia and Western countries. New York, London, Amsterdam - garbage.

[Beluga]

There are a lot of videos on YouTube comparing Russia and Western countries. New York, London, Amsterdam are a dump.

depending on what you compare with, what area

[Venus]

And of course, if there are trash cans, people won’t throw trash on the lawn.

I haven’t noticed any trash lately. It was somehow clean, there were trash cans all around.
There are a lot of videos on YouTube comparing Russia and Western countries. New York, London, Amsterdam are garbage.

It was an allegory about garbage.
They will make whatever videos you want, so that you don’t have to work, but continue to plunder the country.

[etc]

There are a lot of videos on YouTube comparing Russia and Western countries. New York, London, Amsterdam are a dump.

depending on what you compare with, what area

Usually they compare Moscow, but there are no doubts about Western cities; people living there complain in the comments that everything has gotten worse lately.

They will make whatever videos you want

All sorts of bloggers make them. There are admiring reviews from foreigners about how beautiful and clean it is here.
The guy left Novosibirsk to study at a university in the States. There he married a black woman and brought her to Novosibirsk. We walked and took pictures. At some point she asked - don’t you have homeless people? And she was surprised that our children go to school on their own.

[Beluga]

Usually they compare Moscow

In Moscow, too, there are areas, there are sleeping bags, there are elite ones, just like there in the west. You can take it off as needed.

I liked the cleanliness of Belarus, it was like living in a sleeping bag, but clean, really clean : unknown: was surprised.

[Venus]

that our children go to school on their own.

I drive a car. The road to school is pure mud, because we don’t have asphalt here. If there was a road, then one could dream that it would someday be repaired, but there is no road, there is nothing to repair.

[etc]

In Moscow, too, there are areas, there are sleeping bags, there are elite ones, just like there in the west. You can film it as needed

No, you have to see it there, in the videos. Our residential areas are quite clean. There’s a srach there.
Here is a funny video. But the authors cheated there. The gay festival was over in London, but it’s fucked up...


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I drive a car. The road to school is pure dirt, because we don’t have asphalt here

Can I take a photo or video?

[BeachBunny]

It’s clean not where they clean, but where they don’t litter.

[Bully Carrie]

Well, it’s a strange idea to judge life in other cities based on YouTube videos: it will always be a subjective view. The other day my husband and I were talking about Iceland (they just played and lost to Slovakia) - and we started googling what it was like there. So what do you think? Yandex shows me skyscrapers, but Google shows him only small private houses, and all in the same Reykjavik! And my classmate lives there, so in her photo on VK - Iceland is still completely different. So the Internet is kind of a source.....
But Moscow is really clean and there are almost no homeless people, yes. And there is also an MFC, which is very convenient.
But there are no convenient ramps for wheelchairs in the subway or on buses, or on trains.

[Venus]

In Moscow, too, there are areas, there are sleeping bags, there are elite ones, just like there in the west. You can film it as needed

No, you have to see it there, in the videos. Our residential areas are quite clean. There’s a srach there.
Here is a funny video. But the authors cheated there. The gay festival was over in London, but it’s fucked up...


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I drive a car. The road to school is pure dirt, because we don’t have asphalt here

Can I take a photo or video?

Two kilometers of mud. Even in front of the school there is no asphalt in front of the fence; there is asphalt behind the fence, but it is under water. Children walk along the curb. No photo. There is nothing to photograph there.

[Alice]

I liked Belarus for its cleanliness, it was like living in a sleeping bag, but it was clean, really clean, I was surprised

It was clean, and everything was aimed at a healthy lifestyle . Parks, bike paths, playgrounds, stadiums, sports grounds, in every district of Minsk.

[Mihaaa 4]

Apart from my wife, having two mistresses is too much for me. Wife and one mistress. We broke up, another one appeared, but not two at once. Where can you find so much free time?

[BeachBunny]

Two kilometers of mud. Even in front of the school there is no asphalt in front of the fence; there is asphalt behind the fence, but it is under water. Children walk along the curb. No photo. There is nothing to photograph there.

Or maybe everything is simpler, maybe you are lying? I read many of your comments and come to the conclusion that I have already encountered such behavior and thinking as you have, only in another woman, by the way, she was, let’s say, not entirely healthy. Passive-aggressive behavior, illogical, harsh, manipulative thinking, jumping from one topic to another, diverting the conversation from the main topic, avoiding a direct answer, manipulation, attempts at gaslighting, attempts at devaluation, etc. You write that you are a leader, under whom there is a whole team, and some people here write that you are a psychiatrist..., they call you Marina... All this is very strange. I have strong suspicions that you are not who you say you are and/or have some kind of personality disorder.