Offended by my husband because he jerks off

Unread post by **viki** » 24 Jan 2020, 02:01

I’ve been married recently. I’ve been in a relationship for almost a year. I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently started because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused to leave. He needs to leave for a long time. At this time I found out that he jerks off at work, although he had not found the time before I found time to get some time and found it to jerk off. He thinks jerking off is normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel desirable. So I decided to masturbate myself in order to understand him better. So now the problem is I now don’t want sex with anyone at all .I have a grudge against my husband.What should I do?

Unread post by **rasaroam** » 30 May 2023, 07:27

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 Recently married. Been in a relationship for almost a year I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently started because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused to leave. He needs to leave. It takes a long time. At this time I found out that he masturbates at work, although before that he had not found time to gain time to dial and he found it to masturbate. He considers jerking off normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel desired. So I decided to masturbate myself in order to understand him better. So now the problem is that now I don’t want sex with anyone at all. I have a grudge against my husband. HOW to do?

Jerk off together. What is the problem?

Unread post by **Tapkin** » 30 May 2023, 07:43

.....the most accurate thing is most likely from the inability to talk, and if you add mutual reproaches, and everything seems fine most of the time, but sometimes emotions go through the roof.
And this is in the heap..doesn’t help at all happy married life, so just think, think... and "give up" on marital duty!))))

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 May 2023, 08:16

Yeah... Offended by your partner jerking off? Well, if there are no more serious problems and, in general, there is nothing else to do...

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 30 May 2023, 08:53

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 Recently married. Been in a relationship for almost a year. I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently began because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused to leave. He needs to leave for a long time. At this time I found out that he jerks off at work, although before that I didn’t find the time to get enough time to dial in, but I found it to jerk off. He thinks jerking off is normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel desirable. So I decided to masturbate myself in order to understand him better. So now the problem is I now don’t want sex at all with no one. I have a grudge against my husband. WHAT should I do?

Get a divorce, let him jerk off without you...

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 May 2023, 09:25

Sibiryak89, maybe it’s better to jerk off together? The buzz is twice as big!!!

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 May 2023, 10:40

AxAX: 22 Nov 2021, 13:39 my wife, after we got married, needed sex 1-2 times a month (then generally once every six months

Pichalka!

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 May 2023, 10:49

Hooligan Carrie, I wonder how you are? How many times is normal for you?

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 31 May 2023, 00:34

niqk: 30 May 2023, 09:25 Sibiryak89, maybe it’s better to jerk off together ? The thrill is twice as great!!!

Twice the thrill when you fuck in two holes

, other avoidance of responsibility

Unread post by **WazzzzzzzUp** » 14 Jun 2023, 23:26

In my humble experience, in such cases a conversation always helps, without emotions, without shouting, just constructive dialogue, an explanation of who expects what from whom and how to find a way out of the situation.

Unread post by **Mom** » 14 Jun 2023, 23:33

WazzzzzzUp: 14 Jun 2023, 23:26 In my humble experience, in such cases a conversation always helps, without emotions, without shouting, just constructive dialogue, an explanation of who expects what from whom and how to find a way out of the situation.

maybe you are right in some ways, but probably the reason is both. Jerks off means he wants to.

Unread post by **Alexei42** » 14 Jun 2023, 23:39

My husband just watched the movie The Wolf of Wall Street many times.
So he jerks off at work))
In general, it’s normal to be friends. Because sex is physical exercise and you have to warm up the girl, and then wash yourself or put on condoms.
In short, it’s easier to jerk off to porn sometimes.
Pysy: he’s trembling, which means he has unrealized fantasies that he watches in porn or imagines in his head.

Unread post by **|_rarely_|** » 25 Jun 2023, 21:45

WazzzzzzUp: 14 Jun 2023, 23:26 In my humble experience, in such cases a conversation always helps, without emotions, without shouting, just constructive dialogue, an explanation of who expects what from whom and how to find a way out of the situation.

In my humble experience, say it, don’t say it, it won’t stop jerking off

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 25 Jun 2023, 23:52

niqk: 30 May 2023, 10:49 How many times is the norm for you?

The only norm is for both to enjoy it. No schedule)

Unread post by **Greek10** » 26 Jun 2023, 00:21

If he jerks off in exchange for a relationship with his wife, it means his wife is not giving him what he wants. If she doesn’t want to give it, then unfortunately - Not a couple. As an extreme example, I watched scat, a couple, all dirty, cum at the end of the video, both have genuinely happy eyes. They kiss. Couple - found each other

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 26 Jun 2023, 03:46

WazzzzzzUp: 14 Jun 2023, 23:26 In my humble experience, in such cases a conversation always helps, without emotions, without shouting, just constructive dialogue, an explanation of who expects what from whom and how to find a way out of the situation.

I just wanted to write and it was not fate that I saw your comment. I’ll add

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|_retko_|: 25 Jun 2023, 21:45 In my humble experience, say it, don’t say it, it won’t stop masturbating

but after a constructive dialogue it’s possible will start doing this together)) husband and wife after all)

26 Jun 2023, 04:00

If a man jerks off, then just get a divorce or accept the fact that there will be no sex over time, and you will have to masturbate too.
Talking is useless.

Unread post by **government38** » 26 Jun 2023, 06:41

I agree, if you have a beautiful woman at your side, jerking off to someone you don’t understand is wasteful, such men are in the furnace, the woman is ready to caress him, wash him and feed him, and he jerks like a teenager, if necessary, the wife herself will jerk him off with her vagina or lips and between tits will be pressed by dignity, ananism is ananism a relic of the past.

Unread post by **RealMax** » 26 Jun 2023, 07:13

᠌ ᠌ ᠌᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌: 26 Jun 2023, 04:00[quote="᠌ ᠌ ᠌᠌ ᠌
Talking is useless.

that’s the point)) the two of you can switch to such a pastime

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᠌ ᠌ ᠌᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌:26 Jun 2023, 04:00 If a man jerks off, then just get a divorce or accept the fact that there will be no sex over time, and from the word you will have to masturbate too.
Talking is useless.

so that’s the point)) the two of you can switch to such a pastime

Unread post by **King Bird** » 26 Jun 2023, 07:21

᠌ ᠌ ᠌᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌: 26 Jun 2023, 04:00 If a man jerks off, then just get a divorce or accept the fact that there will be no sex over time, from the word you will have to masturbate too. n

Where does such strange knowledge come from? My wife and I have sex and after 20+ years of marriage, everything is OK, although I sin from time to time. Either in porn or in virtual reality (there have been such cases). And even if you have insomnia, you won’t wake up your spouse at 2 am if she has to get up early? (but she knows about this, and always asks me to tell her, in detail, how I held my penis and where I lowered it). True, I also jerk off to my wife during sex with the ending, she likes it

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Jun 2023, 08:07

King Zogu, here you go! A healthy approach to business! Everyone gets their piece of pleasure...

Unread post by **Vartislav** » 26 Jun 2023, 15:57

The problem here is not so much that the husband is jerking off somewhere, but that he admitted to it. And most likely this was a deliberate step on his part - in order to shame his partner. This is what you’ve brought me to. Apparently, his wife refused him something intimate.

Unread post by **BlackJack22** » 26 Jun 2023, 20:56

If you want to be desired, don’t fuck your brain)
Do you know why it takes so long? Because women really like to dump their negativity on men. The woman moves away at the moment when she throws off her inner shit, and wonders why the man, covered in it, walks around dissatisfied. If a man tolerates this and does not send you to hell, it raises the level of prolactin, which extinguishes testosterone, turning the man into a sack of potatoes.

What would a man prefer in a sack of potatoes state?
Spend a lot of energy that you don’t have on sex with a woman who fucks his brain?
Or relax near the screen, looking at sexy and depraved women who don’t fuck his brain?

In your case, the tool to correct the problem is most likely another brain fuck about jerking off, and essentially worsening the problem.

Once again.
Step No. 0 - Don’t fuck your brain. Don’t take your negativity out on a man. A man is not a parasite for your emotions.
Next you can solve this problem in more interesting and joint ways

Unread post by **Profixx11** » 26 Jun 2023, 21:17

So what’s wrong with that? Jerk off yourself too and calm down.

Unread post by **Cuckold!!!** » 26 Jun 2023, 21:26

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 At this time I found out that he jerks off at work

The most interesting thing is how did you find out that he jerks off at work? He’s jerking off right in the smoking room or at the workplace and they told you this.
Such an intimate activity is especially hidden at work.

Unread post by **Tanya** » 26 Jun 2023, 21:34

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 ....At this time I found out that he was jerking off...

And what’s wrong with that, I think a good half of men do it ....

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 .... he jerks off at work

I think you imagined this in the heat of a sensation for you. If this is done at work, I don’t think anyone could tell you except him.

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 ....I have a grudge against my husband. WHAT TO DO?

It’s stupid, what’s offensive about this, you’re offended at yourself, do it so that he doesn’t need it

Unread post by **aryamari** » 27 Jun 2023, 00:06

Tania: 26 Jun 2023, 21:34 a good half of men do this....

I’m sure that the evil half doesn’t disdain either

in general they say it’s even useful for men

Unread post by **King Bird** » 27 Jun 2023, 01:27

AryaMari: 27 Jun 2023, 00:06 in general they say it’s even useful for men

I’m sure it’s for women too.

Unread post by **Lizkkka616** » 27 Jun 2023, 03:15

Sometimes my husband and I generally masturbate together, turn on porn that’s interesting to both of us, fantasize out loud... we can do it to each other, or each to himself. The process is exciting and brings new colors to sexual life.

Unread post by **Alice** » 27 Jun 2023, 03:39

Mine also sometimes jerks off at work. He admitted it in a frank conversation. Although we are very good at sex. But apparently he has unrealized fantasies. It hurts me, but I have to put up with it. Talking, in my case, is useless.

Unread post by **meh1** » 27 Jun 2023, 05:42

He’s either not interested or it’s so rare that you start to forget about your wife. If you often want to, buy underwear with a cut-out where you need it, maybe something else in addition and show him your desire, there is no desire from a woman - a direct way for a man to jerk off. If you show the desire once every two weeks, then during the breaks, like it or not, you are forced to release the pressure manually.

Unread post by **rndx** » 27 Jun 2023, 13:41

There’s nothing wrong with that. Sometimes you just don’t have any strength for sex, but you want to, and sometimes, on the contrary, you’re so desperate, but there’s no one around, so there’s nothing left to jerk off

Unread post by **babybaby787** » 28 Jun 2023, 03:22

Well, let him jerk off. And you jerk off. What is the problem? Or jerk each other off. Ask him about his fantasies, maybe he wants something that you don’t do

Unread post by **Straight_yes** » 22 Aug 2023, 04:20

Here the problem of psychology and family relationships concerns, it is useless to talk.

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 22 Aug 2023, 04:26

viki, A man comes to the doctor and says: -Doctor, I have a problem, I can’t satisfy my husband in the evening.
I can’t get up and that’s it. No way. What to do, doctor?
The doctor asks the patient to describe his sexual regime and all that.
The patient begins to tell:
-Well, I wake up in the morning, I immediately wake up my wife and I It’s been about forty minutes,
so, we’re playing around. Then I have breakfast, and before leaving I give her another quick lunch...
I come to work and immediately call my secretary, on the carpet, there, on the sofa.
Well, during the working day she from time to time... I have an office a week
from home, so I have lunch at my place, after lunch again my wife once or twice.
Well, in the evening to a friend, and then I come back and cannot satisfy my husband
I can. No way. No way at all.
Everything is already clear to the doctor, but just in case he asks:
“Do you have any other contacts?”
“Yes,” says the man. - I know a young man, about sixteen years old, I also greet him once, two or three times a week. Moreover, I keep a goat on the balcony, if
my wife is late, and I can’t bear it, then I use the goat.
The slightly stunned doctor says:
- Well, my friend , what do you want. Your potency is enviable!
You won’t see this even at 16 years old, and you’re already 40-something! So don’t worry,
everything is fine with you!
Man:
-Thank you doctor, otherwise I thought it was all from masturbation!
nThe main thing is that he has enough strength for you. Let him jerk off to his health!!!!

Unread post by **Zucchini** » 22 Aug 2023, 07:03

Leave the guy and not torment him with your stupidity

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 Recently married. Been in a relationship for almost a year. I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently started because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused, he needs to move away .It takes a long time. At this time I found out that he jerks off at work, although before that he didn’t find time to get enough time to dial in and found it to jerk off. He considers jerking off normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel welcome. So I decided masturbate yourself to understand him better. So now the problem is I now don’t want sex with anyone at all. I have a grudge against my husband. HOW to do?

Unread post by **Seeker** » 19 Sep 2023, 00:13

Resentment as such is always destructive. This is such immature and childish behavior when we blame and or justify, and one way or another this is our selfishness.
I want this, but I don’t want that, I think one is right, the other is not, I will stick to one opinion, all the rest are unacceptable to me... in all these cases we think about our desires, and at the same time demand respect for ourselves. Is it possible to build a good relationship this way?
He jerks off and pays little attention to you, ask why he does this. Observe for yourself, it is not necessary to ask him a question, especially "directly".
And by the way, it is a big mistake of many to try to correct the situation by putting on erotic lingerie, and to lure a sexual partner without establishing basic trusting relationships, this can further repel and disgust. I know from my own experience, and if you are attentive, it is not difficult to see this as a fact.

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 19 Sep 2023, 00:36

viki: 24 Jan 2020, 02:01 So now the problem is, now I don’t want sex with anyone at all

This is the real problem, and not my husband’s jerking off.
Although in any case, this is necroposting, because here you can advise. Topic starter either solved the problem or slipped into neuroses. But the case is typical IMHO.

Unread post by **Cunnilingus** » 19 Sep 2023, 01:40

Sexar, why are you tricking a woman into cheating?

Unread post by **Vert** » 19 Sep 2023, 04:52

Alenka: 27 Jun 2023, 03:39 Mine also sometimes jerks off at work.

Perhaps it just relieves tension.

Unread post by **Alice** » 19 Sep 2023, 04:54

Vert: 19 Sep 2023, 04:52
Alenka: 27 Jun 2023, 03:39 Mine also sometimes jerks off at work.
Perhaps it just relieves tension.

Definitely.

Unread post by **Tanya** » 19 Sep 2023, 05:04

Alenka: 27 Jun 2023, 03:39 Mine also sometimes jerks off at work. He admitted it in a frank conversation. Although we have very good sex with him. But apparently he has unrealized fantasies. It hurts me, but I have to put up with it. Talking, in my case, is useless.

And mine.... and he doesn’t hide it from me.... but he’s away on a business trip.... and for a very long time. So often in our lives that’s why he….
So how can I be offended

Unread post by **Alice** » 19 Sep 2023, 05:22

Tania, 3 months have passed since my message. I reviewed it my views, I’m not offended - as long as it’s a joy...

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 19 Sep 2023, 07:06

Tania: 19 Sep 2023, 05:04 And mine.... and he doesn’t hide it from me.... but he’s far away on a business trip.... and for a very long time. So often in our lives that’s why he and....
So how can I be offended

I’ll tell you one story...
I once served in the army. Outside the country. The officers served there for two years. After a year of service, they were released on leave. It seems like a month. So, during some kind of feast, I heard the following conversation among the officers.
I don’t remember in what context, but the meaning was that one officer who had recently come to serve and served for about six or seven months was very busy from that that someone is probably fucking his wife at home.

Well, the people at the table are tipsy, everyone seems to be out of shape, but in sweatpants and slippers, and there seems to be no subordination. And they ask this officer: how long have you been here? He says seven months. They tell him, well, six months have already passed. That means someone is already fucking her.
Forget about it and don’t bother. Just take it for granted that in six months your wife will definitely be fucking someone. We all present think so and have come to terms with it.

And what was interesting to me myself was that everyone present agreed with this. This surprised me greatly then.
That is, the people, in order to save their psyche and not torment themselves with this green-eyed jealousy, simply accepted this fact for themselves and came to terms with it. Like yes, someone is already fucking my wife! So what!?
Well, what can you do, they say, such is life. We must accept this reality and move on. Well, such is military service that you have to leave your family for a long time.

I am writing this for wives whose husbands are on business trips for a long time.
Ladies, keep in mind that your husbands have already internally agreed that someone is fucking you in their absence. It’s easier for them to simply accept it than to doubt it all the time and think about it all the time - yes or no.

Unread post by **libertine** » 19 Sep 2023, 07:51

Vasyanitsa: 19 Sep 2023, 07:06 Ladies, keep in mind that your husbands have already internally agreed that someone is fucking you in their absence. It’s easier for them to just accept it than to doubt it all the time and think about it all the time - yes or no.

Yes, and don’t forget that if they fuck you at home, then your husband also fucks someone on a business trip! This is the cycle of fucking in nature!

Unread post by **King Bird** » 19 Sep 2023, 08:53

Debauchee: 19 Sep 2023, 07:51 and don’t forget that if you are fucked at home, then your husband is also fucking someone on a business trip!

It depends on what kind of business trip - there are also those where women are not around.

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 19 Sep 2023, 08:58

King Zogu: 19 Sep 2023, 08:53 It depends on what kind of business trip - there are also those where there are no women nearby.

Well, yes. The one I was talking about was the same business trip where there were no women. Well, or rather, they were in the military unit itself, in the hospital and in the medical battalion. But there were vanishingly few of them compared to the total number. Well, these women themselves, understanding the demand, were very, very picky. For example, the regiment commander, of course, slept with some waitress from the officers’ mess. And she even lived in his location. Although the regiment commander was married and had a family at home.

Well, some other officers lived with some women. I remember the chief of staff, some officers and warrant officers from the medical unit.
Well, the rest could only imagine sex in their dreams and dreams.

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I thought about it and decided to write more on this topic...
In general, I think that six months is, of course, a very long time. And even more so a year. What I described above meant that those officers were leaving for a business trip for a whole year. And they were allowed to go on vacation for some period of time (I think a month), and then again for another year.
And I think that this is just a huge period of time for two people who live together and who have regular sex.
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I think that when going for such a long period of time, both should honestly face the truth and not torment their other half with suspicions and mistrust. And also the requirement to maintain fidelity, which is very difficult to maintain for a whole year. And those officers were right - six months is the deadline for what a person is probably capable of in observing this unnecessary loyalty to anyone.

That’s why the wife asks, she needs her husband to live without sex for a whole year. In my opinion, if she loves her husband, then she should only be glad for him that he stuck it to someone because the opportunity presented itself. And the same goes for my husband. I think that while leaving home on good terms, he should not be jealous of her, suspecting in advance that someone will fuck her while he’s gone, but on the contrary, tell her that you’re not too stupid. If you’re really desperate, then find someone there for yourself while I’m not there. But be careful, choose men so that either you don’t catch some kind of infection or so that he is adequate and without any dramas.

And in general, before leaving, you can even bring some kind of colleague , introduce them to both of them there and explain that they say this and that. We need to somehow solve this problem. That they say I don’t mind and no offense. It seems to me that this is more honest than living together and then walking around and holding this stone in your soul for both of you. Having once agreed with the fact that your wife slept with someone in your absence with some very high degree of probability. But who didn’t tell you anything about it, kept this fact silent. But you didn’t seem to ask, and this is what lies in you like this.

Or don’t agree to such business trips, which is simply not possible, and all the way up to dismissal from somewhere.
All the same, you live not with the service, but with your wife, and no matter what, your wife is closer to you than the service.

Unread post by **A meow** » 19 Sep 2023, 13:58

viki, lazy, that means husband! He only thinks about himself, just to cum...

Unread post by **Xenophon** » 19 Sep 2023, 16:13

Meow: 19 Sep 2023, 13:58 lazy, that means my husband! He only thinks about himself, just to finish...

Firstly, laziness is the engine of progress. Secondly, I don’t really understand why you should jerk off if you don’t want to cum. Thirdly, it is not true that men think only about themselves during masturbation. They think about their loved ones, and if they are not there, then about just sexy women. And in general, if men didn’t masturbate, the world would go to hell. This does not in any way affect the attraction to women and does not weaken the male libido. It eliminates irritability, spontaneous aggression, brings romance into life, and most importantly, sometimes allows women to calmly endure headaches.

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 19 Sep 2023, 19:07

Meow, you wanted to say, just so as not to cum in woman))

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Meow, and in general, why get married with healthy hands )

Unread post by **King Bird** » 19 Sep 2023, 20:11

Ksenofont: 19 Sep 2023, 16:13 Firstly, laziness is the engine of progress.

In the sexual paradigm this is not so. Largely due to laziness, for example, incest became widespread. And this is a regressive phenomenon.

Ksenofont: 19 Sep 2023, 16:13 Thirdly, it is not true that men think only about themselves during masturbation. They think about their loved ones, and if they are not there, then about just sexy women.

But this is for sure. True, I heard that sometimes masturbation is beginning to replace and supplant sex, but this seems to be the exception. than the rule. I think even the majority of those who have regular sex will jerk off, fantasizing about a neighbor or colleague. But the desire to actually go left is reduced. You put it down on the wall and you think - did you really need it? I mean, cheating on your wife with someone.

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