Offended by my husband because he jerks off

Unread post by **viki** » 24 Jan 2020, 02:01

I’ve been married recently. I’ve been in a relationship for almost a year. I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently started because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused to leave. He needs to leave for a long time. At this time I found out that he jerks off at work, although he had not found the time before I found time to get some time and found it to jerk off. He thinks jerking off is normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel desirable. So I decided to masturbate myself in order to understand him better. So now the problem is I now don’t want sex with anyone at all .I have a grudge against my husband.What should I do?

Unread post by **Guest** » 02 Feb 2020, 14:18

In general, masturbating for men is good for the body, this is a fact. It’s better for you to support yourself a little and one evening change into something erotic and try something NEW with your husband. I think he will be happy with this.

Unread post by **Nika_miku** » 02 Feb 2020, 14:39

If there’s anything wrong with my top comment, write me a PM and I’ll explain it in more detail.

Unread post by **niqk** » 28 Feb 2020, 08:02

viki: ↑24 Jan 2020, 02:01 Recently married. Been in a relationship for almost a year. I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently began because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused to leave. He needs to leave for a long time. At this time I found out that he jerks off at work, although before that I didn’t find the time to get enough time to dial in, but I found it to jerk off. He thinks jerking off is normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel desirable. So I decided to masturbate myself in order to understand him better. So now the problem is I now don’t want sex at all with no one. I have a grudge against my husband. WHAT should I do?

And you try masturbation with him. Turns both of them on incredibly! He will fill you with fountains of sperm!

Unread post by **Six** » 12 Nov 2020, 14:30

I think we need to change the man. This resets the emotions associated with the husband. At least meet for a while.

Unread post by **A woman** » 01 Jul 2021, 09:50

Yours is at work and mine manages to do it at home too..... It started with the fact that I became a rapid fire literally for 2 minutes and fucked up, I’m in shock, I want to fuck and I didn’t even have time to cum!!! I started to find out what’s going on and he ends up on porn with mothers jerks regularly....he said he started using his tongue with his fingers and using his dick in turn, I allow him to cum only after himself

Unread post by **Alex90** » 01 Jul 2021, 09:51

Force fuck him

Unread post by **BezTormozov** » 10 Jul 2021, 10:19

Mine is also on porn with matures, jerking off in the toilet, ready to live with my sex for 2 minutes

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2021, 10:25

Without Brakes: ↑10 Jul 2021, 10:19 Mine, too, on porn with mature people, jerking off in the toilet, ready to live with my sex for 2 minutes

You guys are strange! Usually jerking off INCREASES fucking time! :question:

Unread post by **BezTormozov** » 10 Jul 2021, 16:23

niqk: ↑10 Jul 2021, 10:25
Without Brakes: ↑10 Jul 2021, 10:19 Mine, too, on porn with mature people, jerking off in the toilet, ready to live with my sex for 2 minutes
You guys are strange! Usually jerking off INCREASES fucking time! :question:

Maybe it’s different for everyone

Unread post by **niqk** » 11 Jul 2021, 05:53

Without Brakes: ↑10 Jul 2021, 16:23 Maybe it’s different for everyone

Well, I don’t know... Something is wrong here... Maybe you should go to a psychotherapist. ..

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 12 Jul 2021, 00:59

Without Brakes: ↑10 Jul 2021, 10:19 Mine, too, on porn with mature people, jerking off in the toilet, ready to live with my sex for 2 minutes

You don’t need a psychotherapist here. You just need to talk about it with your husband. But honestly.
Are you ready for an honest conversation without immediately drifting into the area of raised tones and mutual reproaches?

I’ll tell you right now what a man needs...
He either needs a woman who trusts him one hundred percent and looks into his mouth and who in general almost idolizes him.
Well, actually, I am describing the most ordinary female love. Or maybe upbringing from childhood, but then it must be a very young woman from somewhere in a remote mountain village in the Caucasus or Central Asia.
And this is the kind of woman that any man will like. Who loves you and who, as a result, wants you. Which wants you and does not give you. Do you feel the difference?

Or it should be a woman - a friend. That is, the guy has a fucking friend. They are interested in each other, they have almost the same topics of conversation, they respect each other’s hobbies, do not make fun of each other and care about each other. Well, in general, ordinary male friendship. Well, almost like brothers. But this one is a friend of a man of the opposite sex. Introduced!?

And in both of these situations, the appearance of friends of the opposite sex, of an oriental woman and her husband does not matter at all.
Because that relationships are built not on tits and pussies and not on the size of a bra or ass, but on something else.

Well, yes, probably the length and thickness of the penis matters. It also matters how tight or extremely stretched the vagina is. Because if we say the vagina is stretched greatly. And very strongly. And a man’s dick barely reaches 13 cm, then of course there may be problems.
But on the other hand, if people turn their faces towards each other and not their ass, then a solution to the problem can always be found. You can use penis attachments. You can change some positions. You can make a family friend with a dick of an acceptable size.

You can become family friends with any family and then your wife can talk to the wife of another family. Well, like, just the two of us, have a drink and cry. Like this is such a fucking problem. And what if we are friends, help me. Or rather, us.
Well, of course, the relationship should be quite close. The stages of joint picnics in nature, trips to the country, joint New Years and joint celebration of holidays or birthdays must be completed.
Well, in general, wives agree on how to get their men into bed together. So that this would be without mutual insults and misunderstandings. And I think that if the women agree, then the men will definitely.

To our sheep...
It’s hard to say why he’s there. Your husband jerks off in the toilet and doesn’t fuck you. Maybe you don’t excite him. Not in the sense that you are ugly. And it’s just that when he fucks you, he falls down. And not because you are ugly. But simply because he has a small dick and you have a big, roomy pussy. And from excitement it flows and becomes even larger, and then he may even stop feeling you with his little dick. And he begins to fall due to the lack of tactile sensations.

This could easily happen. A woman thinks that she is fat and oily and ugly and it makes him feel worse. Yes, he is falling. But perhaps for other reasons.
Again, the guy probably knows all this, but doesn’t know how to say it. This is about the same as telling a man that his penis is small.
All the women you can’t ask keep saying that it’s not about the penis, but that you need to use it skillfully. They don’t seem to want to offend. So the men don’t want to offend either.

But all this does not negate the fact that he wants to fuck and with his hands he can get an orgasm by jerking off his penis.
Again You may be very upset during sex if he loses weight or if he cums earlier.
This makes him even more worried and every time he is afraid that this will happen again.

That at first everything will be fine, but then you will get tired of it, you will start to squelch there and it will fall again and you will again have an unhappy face. Come on face. I heard that many women in such situations generally throw scandals. They get out of bed and, without having time to get dressed, roll out to the man and show him what the fuck and all that and how fucked up it is and how long?
And what remains for the man? So, should he tell the woman everything?
Well, of course not!
He simultaneously feels sorry for her and at the same time is afraid of her. And he is silent guiltily. But he worries. And strongly.

And then they ask - why do men die so early, unlike women?
Because...

Well In general, you and your husband need to have a good drink together. Again, so that no one interferes. Agree not to lie to each other. But again, you need to be the most prepared for this honest conversation.
To avoid double standards. Like, you can honestly put everything in your eyes - but if he dumps it on you, you’ll either burst into tears, or slam doors and get offended.
If you’re not ready, then you probably shouldn’t start.

Well, then, having agreed and gotten drunk, try to somehow ask each other about what worries and worries you.
And I think that even the information that he fucks someone on the side should not shock you either. And accordingly, it too if YOU have someone.
Because if it were global, then you wouldn’t live with each other, but would go to the person you’re fucking with on the side.

I think you just need to understand that two people of opposite sexes living together have no boundaries in their relationship. That they can agree on anything. About swinging, about a family friend, about an unofficial second wife, about anything...
And this is better than walking and jerking off in the toilet alone, and the other walking around and being offended and thinking - why the hell do I need all this, and why did this happen, and why am I putting up with all this...

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 12 Jul 2021, 01:18

viki: ↑24 Jan 2020, 02:01 Recently married. Been in a relationship for almost a year. I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently began because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused to leave. He needs to leave for a long time. At this time I found out that he jerks off at work, although before that I didn’t find the time to get enough time to dial in, but I found it to jerk off. He thinks jerking off is normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel desirable. So I decided to masturbate myself in order to understand him better. So now the problem is I now don’t want sex at all with no one. I have a grudge against my husband. WHAT should I do?

No offense...
Imagine that you were appointed as your husband’s assistant at his work.
And you will spend the whole day with your husband. And you will not leave him for a minute all day.
I think by the evening you will be nothing.
And as soon as the front door closes behind you, your husband will begin to pester you.

You spent the whole day dreaming of how you would finally get home and get under a warm shower. Make yourself some coffee with cream, take out some tasty treat you’ve saved from the morning from the refrigerator.
And he grabs you by the tits and tries to put his finger in your pussy. And at this moment you are disgusted with yourself - everything stinks of sweat, your hair is sticky and dirty, there is some kind of greasy film on your face and neck. Fu fu fu!!!
And he (the husband) wants something from you. He hints in every possible way, and keeps trying to pull off your clothes and, apparently, is already starting to get angry little by little.

Imagine!?

As for YOU, the only thing you want right now is to wash yourself and climb into a chair in front of the TV with coffee and snacks and click buttons.
And you don’t want to be cooking anything in the kitchen right now, or generally doing any household chores for at least the next hour.
And you also don’t want to be pulled right now and asked to do something urgently.
And you definitely don’t want any sex.

That is, you just want to get away from work. So your husband wants this too.
He came home in the hope that this is the place where he can rest and relax. But it turns out that for him, home is not a place where he can relax and unwind.
And at such moments (believe me) men very much regret that they ever got married for some reason.

They thought that their life would improve from this. But the result is exactly the opposite.

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 12 Jul 2021, 01:32

By the way, especially now in the summer, I often see in the yard or outside the yard two or three men standing drinking something and eating something and rubbing something with each other.
And men are not marginalized. As a rule, they are young, no older than thirty. Well dressed. Their drinks and snacks are expensive and decent.

And they are not located near a liquor store or a place where local homeless people and outcasts gather, but, as a rule, somewhere near a children’s playground.
Or they even stand near the open trunk of a foreign car or some kind of gazelle.

And then you look at these men and understand why they stand here and don’t go home. Why are they drinking and chatting with each other here in the yard.
Although probably all three or four live in the same house. Maybe even in the same entrance.
But at home there are wives waiting for them who really don’t give a fuck, that they are tired, that they want to rest, that they want not to be disturbed for a while for any reason.
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They just want peace in their soul and the feeling that you are pleasant and good right now. And when they stand and drink near the trunk of their car, they really feel good.
But it never occurs to any of them to move the whole company to someone’s home. Because they know what will come out of all this.
That there will be a scandal in the end. If not immediately, then later. There will be problems. And no one wants them.

Unread post by **niqk** » 12 Jul 2021, 08:12

Exactly the same thing happens here on the forum. Most forum members and forum members come here to chat, share their emotions and feelings,
tell about themselves, learn something new about sex, etc. Otherwise they would be simply bored!

Unread post by **Alinka** » 13 Jul 2021, 03:22

niqk: ↑12 Jul 2021, 08:12 Exactly the same thing happens here on the forum. Most forum members and forum members come here to chat, share their emotions and feelings,
tell about themselves, learn something new about sex, etc. Otherwise they would be simply bored!

My secret knight, you are also a psychologist)))))))))))))) ) mmm what a darling you are

Unread post by **niqk** » 13 Jul 2021, 06:41

Alinka: ↑13 Jul 2021, 03:22 My secret knight you are also a psychologist))))))))))))))) mmm what a NUTS you are : smile233:

With such lovely members of the forum you can’t become anyone!

Unread post by **Alinka** » 14 Jul 2021, 02:02

niqk: ↑13 Jul 2021, 06:41
Alinka: ↑13 Jul 2021, 03:22 My secret knight you are also a psychologist))))))))))))))) mmm what a NUTS you are : smile233:
With such lovely members of the forum you can’t become anyone!

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 14 Jul 2021, 02:14

niqk: ↑12 Jul 2021, 08:12 Exactly the same thing happens here on the forum. Most forum members and forum members come here to chat, share their emotions and feelings,
tell about themselves, learn something new about sex, etc. Otherwise, they would be simply bored!

And....
???
You seem to have not finished the thought.
It feels like you started writing, and then someone called you somewhere and you quickly pressed enter and ran away...

Unread post by **niqk** » 14 Jul 2021, 07:08

Vasyanitsa: ↑14 Jul 2021, 02:14
And....
???
You seem to have not finished the thought.
It feels like you started writing, and then who you then he called somewhere and you quickly pressed enter and ran away...

No. I’m just giving everyone the opportunity to remember why they go to the forum...

Unread post by **AssRez** » 24 Jul 2021, 15:20

Put lace on your underwear and everything will return to normal

Unread post by **vit123** » 25 Jul 2021, 03:39

viki, try joint masturbation, he for you and you for him.

Unread post by **niqk** » 25 Jul 2021, 06:08

vit123: ↑25 Jul 2021, 03:39 viki, try joint masturbation for you and you to him.

Excellent advice!!! If you do this business as a couple, then there will be no hard feelings left!

Unread post by **vit123** » 25 Jul 2021, 06:27

niqk,

:and-and:

Unread post by **Din71** » 28 Jul 2021, 09:39

If a man prefers a handjob instead of sex with his wife, especially one who really wants sex, then he has mental problems. Here one friend wrote that “masturbating is useful” is complete nonsense. There is nothing more useful than real sex with a real woman. And masturbation is just a way to "let off steam" when there is no one to fuck.

Unread post by **BUGOR** » 28 Jul 2021, 11:53

and what’s the offense if the husband jerks off?

Unread post by **niqk** » 28 Jul 2021, 11:59

I support!

Unread post by **Nandandaar** » 04 Aug 2021, 01:36

viki: ↑24 Jan 2020, 02:01 I don’t feel desired

Jerking off means you need a release. There is no release with you. Review everything in your behavior. Maybe there is something that makes him feel depressed, but his tanks are not empty. So he arranges a "sunset manually" for himself.

Unread post by **niqk** » 04 Aug 2021, 08:41

There is no need to confuse masturbation for release and masturbation for pleasure. Many people just like to jerk off! And both boys and girls jerk off for their own pleasure. Although they also have full-fledged sex in full! And release is a purely physiological need, although not without pleasure...

Unread post by **Carnival** » 04 Aug 2021, 22:21

niqk: ↑14 Jul 2021, 07:08 No. I just give everyone the opportunity to remember why they go to the forum.

I really like this site. It’s cool here. )))))). I had the same problem that hair loss was talking about. About a big pussy and about the fact that it is leaking. I honestly very rarely had pleasure, although I had sex regularly, but I tolerated it so that my husband didn’t start going to the left for a handjob and didn’t catch it.))))). After giving birth, I stopped wanting sex, apparently everything expanded and lost sensitivity. But talking on this forum helped me a lot, I won’t even say what exactly, but right now I really want it and now after I started to want it myself, I caress my husband, and sex doesn’t last more than 10 minutes, but that’s enough, we cum at the same time. We are already over thirty and sex is not like before for three to four hours. Yes, I don’t need it, I have children, he has a job, we are exhausted. But now when he cums, he moans like crazy, his moaning makes me feel so good. Now I’m on top of him when, well, so you don’t forget, all this happened with us, but it was somehow in black and white, well, it was and was, and on top of me, I was generally thinking, what’s wrong with him, and now, especially when it happened for the first time, those fucking eyes of his It seems to me that he himself did not believe his feelings; he looked at me as if I was not me. And so he began to achieve and moaned and I felt him, it was like a fireworks. There are a lot of difficulties in family life, the main thing is to find an approach, it’s easier, of course, to run away and give up everything, sometimes you also want to, but how long will you keep running away from problems. There were good people on this site who helped me cope, thank you boys, you are cool SUPERMAN. These are the ones who sit here all the time every day, supporting everyone and reassuring them as if they were at work. ))))) thanks to these boys I have super good sex. My husband is very conservative, he’s 32, but he’s so wild, I can’t connect anything new and I’m playing with one goal. But I try and the boys support me. And with stories and answers, I don’t mean just me personally, but I try to understand something from each story. THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

Unread post by **Nandandaar** » 05 Aug 2021, 03:19

niqk: ↑04 Aug 2021, 08:41 Do not confuse - jerking off for release and jerking off for pleasure.

Well, yes, as they say: "Everyone jerks off as he wants!"

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 05 Aug 2021, 04:29

Carnival: ↑04 Aug 2021, 22:21 I really like this site. It’s cool here. )))))). I had the same problem that hair loss was talking about. About a big pussy and about the fact that it is leaking. I honestly very rarely had pleasure, although I had sex regularly, but I tolerated it so that my husband didn’t start going to the left for a handjob and didn’t catch it.))))). After giving birth, I stopped wanting sex, apparently everything expanded and lost sensitivity. But talking on this forum helped me a lot, I won’t even say what exactly, but right now I really want it and now after I started to want it myself, I caress my husband, and sex doesn’t last more than 10 minutes, but that’s enough, we cum at the same time.

Yes, it’s a serious problem when you fuck someone, and he obviously doesn’t want it. Well, it’s not that he doesn’t want to. Well, it just doesn’t warm him up and he just patiently waits for his partner to do something that he needs. And at these moments you feel like some kind of piece of shit. Like, what am I doing here right now?

I’m hastily sticking something somewhere...
Why? And you begin to be distracted from what is happening. And the more you think, the more distracted you become. And in the end, the penis begins to fall.
Not only is your dick already dangling in your pussy like a pencil in a glass, but also all sorts of thoughts.

As a result, there is some kind of residual disgusting feeling of dissatisfaction and, at the bottom, a little wounded pride. Well, in general, nothing good. And most importantly, I don’t want to repeat it because everything will be exactly the same again. Again you will silently sniffle, and one will wait for all this to end. And the other is thinking that right now he will fall again because at first he felt something with his dick, but then contact was lost.

In general, I think people fuck their partners in the ass so that in some way meaning to compensate for too big a pussy. In principle it should work. Let’s say you entered the vagina and at first everything seems to be fine - at first you feel it with your dick and everything seems to be moving towards orgasm. But then she began to get excited and began to leak heavily. And that’s it...

The vagina began to convulsively contract and expand. As a result, it began to literally squelch. And fucked up - contact is lost. And both. She stopped feeling you, you stopped feeling her. So what should I do?
And I think that, in principle, it should work if you pull the dick out of the pussy and enter the rear hole. It should be very tight. And if the dick is first lubricated with something, then the back hole can easily pass for the tight, almost never used pussy of a young girl.

The only question is - what about your woman? Will she like this ass sex? In principle, purely physiologically, nothing pleasant should come from this. But this is probably not for everyone. I’ve seen videos where women like getting fucked in the ass. But to be honest, I don’t quite trust these videos and those women who say that they like sex in the ass.
Although I admit that it is possible that there are women who practice this. But I think it’s just a matter of habit. That is, these women self-satisfied in this way and, in a sense, got used to manipulations with their anus. And then much later it continues to excite them and they like it when their partner fucks them in the ass. But I think that it’s more about the brain than about the needs of the body.

Well, so...
You can, of course, from time to time leave the spacious vagina and enter the neighboring hole and then return to the vagina again and thus maintain the desired level of arousal.
But it’s all the same what to do with the fact that the owner of a spacious pussy doesn’t get pleasure, just waits for you to cum. That is, in principle, your partner is not against you doing something that you need. And he doesn’t mind that you’re fucking her.
Have you ever seen a cow while milking? She stands and patiently waits for her to be milked. She knows that for some reason these two-legged people need to do this to her - milk her. And she stands and waits. As a rule, they don’t even tie her up - she won’t go anywhere until she’s milked.

That woman is exactly the same - she lies and waits for you to finish. And this can kill any lust, any love, any sensuality. Well, except maybe a soldier in the army or some very sex-hungry men. Which, in principle, don’t care what happens to the owner of the pussy. The main thing is that she is this pussy and she is available for fucking.

More in the next post...

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 05 Aug 2021, 05:34

Carnival: ↑04 Aug 2021, 22:21 I really like this site. It’s cool here. )))))). I had the same problem that hair loss was talking about. About a big pussy and about the fact that it is leaking. I honestly very rarely had pleasure, although I had sex regularly, but I tolerated it so that my husband didn’t start going to the left for a handjob and didn’t catch it.))))). After giving birth, I stopped wanting sex, apparently everything there expanded and lost sensitivity.

I think that the situation with your spacious pussy can be tried to be corrected. Well, like start going to the gym. First study the issue on a website called Sportsweeks and create an exercise program for yourself.
And initially refuse the services of trainers in the gym because they won’t really help you in any way - the gym for them is just a place where they earn money. And they earn it from such newbies.

In reality, they won’t be able to help you in any way. So, they’ll just brush your ears and stand next to you. And in reality they are only useful for not feeling so uncomfortable in the gym. Next to you is a pumped-up trainer and he approaches any exercise machine without waiting in line and generally pushes everyone away and you don’t feel uncomfortable in the gym.
But in reality, you need to pump up the metabolism in your body. And this is a whole complex. You need to force your body to reboot and start building muscle mass. And for this you need metabolism and normal nutrition in which there should not be a lack of protein. That is, meat.

And boost your metabolism with a set of exercises. Later I will post here a book of physical exercises specifically for women. From there you can pick up a complex for yourself that will take, say, about an hour to fully complete. Twice a week of classes is not enough. Ideally, this is every other day. In principle, this is possible at home. Your loved ones, if they want the best for you, they will meet you halfway and allow you to devote one hour every other day to these exercises. After the first exercises, the muscles of the whole body will ache. You have to endure this. Maybe even give up training for the next couple of days. But after a couple of days the muscles will stop hurting and you can continue - then it will be easier.

But that’s not all. You need to start counting calories. To maintain the functioning of the body you need about 1300 kilocalories. For the functioning of the heart and other internal organs. We must try not to overeat. That is, eat so much food that it does not exceed about 1500-1600 kilocalories. And in addition to this food restriction, you must do these exercises every other day.
For the first two weeks, the body will try to cope with the food restrictions and the unexpected load. This can result in breakdown of the body. Not the same as that of a drug addict, of course, but vaguely similar. Yes, I almost forgot. You will need to give up sugar and not consume it directly. That is, coffee and tea without sugar. At least this restriction on sugar is already a lot for the body.

The purpose of all this is to force the body to shake itself up. It will begin to rebuild. Muscles will begin to grow where there were none before. Fat will begin to disappear from those places where, in principle, it should not be.
If you endure exercise and food restrictions for two weeks, then after two weeks some changes will begin to occur in the body.
And in principle, if you are initially a very healthy person without pathologies, then they will begin to treat you that same girlish elasticity in the body returns. And in the pussy as well.

And you don’t need to worry too much about losing weight - it’s unnecessary for a woman and for femininity in particular. You will need to count calories just to get an idea of how much food you need to eat in a day. It’s just that if you consume more calories than you expend, then along with the muscles you will also gain excess fat. Because you will exercise and, accordingly, you will have a good appetite. But you don’t need to gain weight. You need to build muscle mass and at least not gain excess fat.

Again, remember when you were 14 or 18 years old. You were probably thin and your vagina probably wasn’t what it is now. And childbirth has nothing to do with it. It’s a matter of metabolism and the state of the body. Your body has simply fallen into a state of comfort zone. It’s good for him - they don’t put a lot of pressure on him, he stuffed excess fat into his bins so that they could save themselves and he doesn’t need anything else. You supply it with food regularly.
If you change the situation and give the body a load, it will first fight this obstacle that has arisen, but then when it sees that the load and nutrition are stable and are present regularly, it will begin to build muscle mass and get rid of excess to correspond to the loads with which YOU loaded it.

And all this will have a positive effect on your body. And on the pussy as well.

Next...
About your husband...

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 05 Aug 2021, 06:07

Carnival: ↑04 Aug 2021, 22:21 Yes, I don’t need it. I have children, he has a job, we are exhausted. But now when he cums, he moans like crazy, his moaning makes me feel so good. Now I’m on top of him when, well, so you don’t forget, all this happened with us, but it was somehow in black and white, well, it was and was, and on top of me, I was generally thinking, what’s wrong with him, and now, especially when it happened for the first time, those fucking eyes of his It seems to me that he himself did not believe his feelings; he looked at me as if I was not me. And so he began to achieve and moaned and I felt him, it was like a fireworks. There are a lot of difficulties in family life, the main thing is to find an approach, of course it’s easier to run away and give up everything, sometimes you also want to, but how long will you keep running away from problems.

This is all of course good and wonderful. And you are just great for regaining your sexuality and your libido. And they did the right thing. It’s just that you lost it for some time.
Doctors generally say that as long as a woman breastfeeds, she doesn’t care about sex at all. Well, accordingly, she doesn’t want to fuck.
This is so inherent in nature.

In the wild, males kill the female’s cubs and thus free her from caring for the offspring. And literally after some time, her fertility returns and she can be fucked and she will have the next offspring.
Therefore, the lack of desire is simply a consequence after the birth of children and it should have gone away after some time.
nAnother question is that women get used to this state and don’t try to regain their libido.

After all, for this you need to do something with yourself. Or a man must somehow purposefully excite a woman. And gently and carefully and without haste. Again, romantically, without any hint that there should be sex in five minutes. That is, all this should be very, very sensual. And I think a woman will be more likely to be able to regain her libido on her own - with herself.
Remember how she once masturbated when she did not have a regular partner. What did I think in these cases, what places did I touch myself, what did I imagine...

Above I described to you a way to restore the elasticity of the body with the help of physical activity and dietary restrictions. This might work. Or it might not work. It may work in relation to the general condition of the body, but the pussy can remain as spacious no matter what. Some things happen irreversibly in our body.
And in this case we will have to look for some solutions. You write that you and your husband are over thirty. And I would say that you are only over thirty. It’s not age at all. This is the state of the body when you want everything and everything is possible.

Next...
I heard that the problem of a big pussy is to some extent solved by the fact that the partner has a fairly large penis. Well, let’s say not 10 centimeters, and not even 15. And this is compensated.
But if YOUR husband has 15 cm, or even less, then I think there is no need to be very upset. But in turn, look for some solutions to this problem.
Have you ever wondered why and where cuckolds and swingers come from? Why do people try MFF, FMM, and other options. Why do people experiment? Why does someone fuck someone at work or somewhere else outside the home.

And I’ll answer why...
Yes, because people are faced with a problem and they only have two option - either to realize your needs on the side and secretly from your partner.
Or negotiate with your partner.
That is, people like each other, they are satisfied with everything. Well, almost everything. Except for a very small nuance - they both would like to have good, full-fledged sex.

That is, to put it simply, you and your pussy personally need a big, long and thick dick. And I think your husband would really like the mouse-sized little pussy of a young girl.
The people whom I believe told me that their pussy, first of all, wraps around the dick very, very tightly. Secondly, they have a very short vagina. And in principle, a 15-centimeter dick will be too much for them. Such a seemingly small penis in a young girl fills the entire vagina and reaches the uterus and there’s even something left.

Isn’t that why there are some men who prefer to fuck very young girls. And why then they have very big problems. It’s not because these men have very small penises and they can only fully fuck with very young ladies. But this is so - just an assumption...

Next....

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 05 Aug 2021, 07:07

Carnival: ↑04 Aug 2021, 22:21 My husband is very conservative, he is 32, but he is so wild, I can’t connect anything new and I play with one goal.

Whatever He was not conservative, but I think that he would definitely get an erection on a naked woman.
I mean, first of all, plant the idea in his head that you really want him to fuck someone. But not somewhere out there, but with you. Or almost with you. Say that this excites you wildly and that you simply flow when you imagine it. Tell him this casually during any intimacy. Not necessarily during sex, but he just touched you by the pussy, and you took it and shared this erotic fantasy of yours with him. And they confirmed it with a wet vagina.

Well, for example, he reached into your panties - and there was a flood - your whole pussy was wet. He’s like - Wow!!!
And you say to him - well, I just imagined how the three of us and another girl went to the sauna. That we all went naked together to the steam room. And that after a steamy session you gave the girl a massage, and all the while she was holding your erect penis with her hand. And then we put you on a bench and the two of us massaged you and alternately sucked your dick.
And then the girl sat on top of your dick, turning her face to you. And I sat behind and watched how your dick entered and left her pussy.
And just like I imagined all this, I immediately became all wet. And here you are...

You will of course laugh at all this, but it will get into his head and then more than once and more than two times he will ask you - like, are you serious? Do you really want it? Well, and so on several more times.
And you, in turn, load it further - like, remember I told you about the girl and the sauna, and you also got into my panties? So today I had a dream.
True, there was also a man there besides the girl. And the man was not with the girl. He’s kind of on his own. And he touched me everywhere, and then he started giving me cunnilingus. And I felt so good.
And then someone entered me and I still didn’t understand who it was - this man or you. But I felt so pleased and so good that I started to cum.
And then I woke up and saw that I had cum in a dream.
Tell him this kind of innocent dream. Let this also spin in his head.

And always return to this topic. In the sense that you are more and more interested in this topic where your husband fucks someone in front of you.
In the end, he should like this idea. At first he will be afraid that this is some kind of setup or something else. But he needs to be convinced that this is not so and that this excites you terribly and that you really want this. So that he can fuck someone. Either right in front of you, or almost in front of you.

Next...
As for seducing your husband...
You probably have mutual friends or relatives from different sides. From time to time, ask your husband about this or that person - does he like her or not? In the sense that he could fuck both of you. For some time he will deny that he doesn’t like it, or is not to his taste, and all that. But at one fine moment he will say that yes, I like this woman. Like I would fuck her.
We still have to get to that point too. But this has to happen sooner or later.

Well, of course, it is unlikely that he will be able to get the woman he likes. But his consent will mean that, in principle, we can actually begin searching for a candidate. And this seems to be the problem. Finding a man is not difficult. But finding a woman is more difficult. Ideally, this could be your friend. But it’s not a fact that you can ask her about it, and it’s not a fact that she will agree. But some of your friends may agree.
The husband may, of course, find someone, but if you write that he is very wild about this, then this is unlikely. Although you never know. You can let him choose a woman and then think about where all this will take place.

The first thing that comes to mind is either a sauna, or a dacha with a bathhouse. But I remember - you wrote above about children and that it is not entirely clear what to do with them in this situation.
In general, in our racial practice, for such matters there has always been the institution of godparents. In Ukraine, this is called godfather and godfather.
That is, godparents usually belong to two families at once. And thus these two families become like godmothers and godfathers to each other. And it was supposed that if something happened, the children would be taken to another godfamily.

Well, if there were such arrangements and such trust, then it was assumed that the relationship in these two families was very, very close. Up to...
That is, the husband fucks the wife in this other family. And that guy from another family fucks your wife. Well, it’s not so revealing and in front of everyone, but everyone knows about it and jokes about it on occasion. And they, in turn, grab each other by the ass. And everyone likes it and everyone is very turned on and stimulated.

And since in the event of some kind of trouble it is assumed that the children will be taken to another family, then accordingly who will be born from whom next time seems neither is it very important - after all, the two families are practically friends with families and are very, very close. Perhaps they even live nearby or even have a common fence. And if in a neighboring family a boy grows up exactly like his neighbors, then what’s wrong with that?

Too, families have even more related feelings towards each other - like you have a son or daughter growing up in a neighboring family. And this is not indifferent to you.

This institute existed in Russia and Ukraine precisely in order to somehow introduce some variety into the daily life of spouses.
Remember the movie "Anchor is still an anchor!"?
Where one officer had a pregnant wife and fucked a socially active aunt. Remember when her husband found them, she told him - well, Vasya! Well, understand, this is just for benefit. This is not cheating on you, this is just helping your colleague! After all, this is such a joy for a man!

And these are truly golden words if we put aside hypocrisy and hypocrisy. It’s really such a joy, let’s say, for your man to enter someone else’s pussy besides yours. And if this pussy is also tight and the size of your husband’s dick, then imagine what a pleasure it will be for your husband. And if he also knows that you like it, that he’s fucking someone right now. And that he doesn’t need to be encrypted and hide something and, on occasion, lie about something...
And that you almost with your own hands inserted his dick into someone’s pussy...
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Well, in general, in fact, this is such gratitude on the part of your husband if you allow him to do this and if it eventually comes true.
Again, under the right set of circumstances, if he loves you and if you both understand the problem with your capacious pussy, and if he really loves you, then I think he should also offer you to try to somehow solve this problem.

That is, arrange you sex with someone some kind of man.
Next...

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 05 Aug 2021, 07:21

Carnival: ↑04 Aug 2021, 22:21 I play with the same goal

If we talk about a man for you, then everything is much simpler in my opinion.
You can go for the weekend in a holiday home for two. I once saw at the Belorussky railway station in Moscow how people were loading into a large bus. There was a sign saying this was a transfer to such and such a weekend home. And there were people practically without children and almost everyone was single. That is, just girls and women and just boys and men.

Everyone has a suitcase on wheels and a small bag. You and your husband can agree that you arrive at this bus separately from each other. And you just correspond with each other on WhatsApp or somewhere else. But don’t come near each other. And I think either someone will definitely sit up to you and try to get to know you somehow.
Or there is a second option - a more realistic one. Your husband chooses any decent-looking guy and writes to you about him on WhatsApp.
You evaluate this guy further or give the go-ahead or not.

And then if you If you give the go-ahead to this guy, then upon arrival your husband will approach this guy and say this is the topic - I’m here with a woman from my work. All her life she wanted to try sex with two men. And ask him whether he agrees or not. If you don’t agree, then don’t show what kind of woman she is. If you agree, then let all three of you get acquainted and think further about where and how you can spend time together.
The option is almost one hundred percent. A friend of mine once told it to me. He also went to the holiday home in exactly the same way, and also with his wife.

And from his words, it turned out to be a good little group there. At first there were three of them in the room. And then their neighbors came to visit them - some kind of just unmarried couple. We sat and drank. Then they ran out for more drinks. The result was some nice three-on-two sex. Everyone got along well and no one was shy about anything or anyone. Everyone had a good time and had a blast.

Unread post by **Sergey_R** » 14 Aug 2021, 23:20

Vasyanitsa: ↑12 Jul 2021, 01:32 And no one wants them.

I think you are not entirely right. Maybe they do. Maybe they even want it too much. But men, maybe not so much. By a certain age or period of time together, this becomes so boring that drinking with your neighbors becomes much more interesting.

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Aug 2021, 07:09

It all depends on the sexual constitution and hormones. There are guys who, even in their youth, prefer drinking with friends to sex with a girlfriend...

Unread post by **Penelope** » 15 Aug 2021, 08:42

Sergey_R: ↑14 Aug 2021, 23:20 I think you are not entirely right. Maybe they do. Maybe they even want it too much. But men, maybe not so much. By a certain age or period of time together, this becomes so boring that drinking with neighbors becomes much more interesting.

I think the problem here is different. It’s just trivial that people are getting fat. For women, this is detrimental because everything increases in size because their body becomes loose. Metabolism, that is, metabolism, slows down. And if at one time the vagina was elastic and there were some muscles there, and accordingly it could decrease when necessary and when necessary to increase. Then, after the excess weight appeared, the vagina became spacious and very soft.

And if we say a man has a penis of about twenty centimeters and with a thickness corresponding to the length, then, in principle, these changes in the vagina are not very significant noticeable. But if a man has an ordinary penis. And the usual one, as statistics show, is not even 15 centimeters, but less, then I think everything is clear to everyone.
Time after time, such a man with a penis less than 15 centimeters tries to somehow fuck the spacious and soft pussy of his missus, and time after time this does not bring tangible results. And in the end it simply turns into something that is not customary to talk about out loud.

And every time a man climbs this Everest and every time he knows how it will end. And this whole thing does not add to the erection, and in an attempt to find the reason, people begin to think that maybe the whole point is that the husband has something with an erection. Or maybe it’s all about age, or sedentary work. But the whole point is, first of all, that someone has become very overfed and someone’s pussy has become very, very spacious.
But the husband is also good. He is also overweight and has a large belly, and as a result, in case of obesity, a man’s body secretes female hormones. The man’s boobs begin to grow and he becomes even more obese. Well, the penis also suffers - it decreases in size.

The penis is not a bone or a tendon, it is just a sponge that fills with blood and thereby becomes hard and takes on certain sizes. And this sponge can, for one reason or another, swell to its previous size, both in length and in thickness. Well, it’s like, either this sponge has become less elastic, or the pores are clogged in it, or maybe it’s filled with something. Well, with the same fat, for example, or something else.

I just know examples from life when certain women who seemed to have been given up for a long time, as sexual objects were attacked by some macho man with a member of 25 centimeters. And these fat accountants and storekeepers began to feel like they were 17 years old. And all because the long, large and thick penis filled the entire vagina, even though it is quite roomy. And the owner of the penis himself feels this fat partner of his well due to the size of his penis. And this maintains the required level of arousal throughout sex.

And the woman is also excited by the fact that she feels a big penis inside her and, accordingly, she somehow reacts to it, which turns both of them on even more . And both eventually finish and in general they are happy and feel good. And both want the banquet to continue.
I read somewhere on some forum that some guy wrote that they celebrated the warehouse team on February 23rd. Five men and three storekeepers. All are married. Everyone is fat and overweight.
During the celebration, everyone got drunk and then fucked. The guys are all young and unmarried. The storekeepers are all immensely happy. Each of them tried with each of the five and more than once. And the next day, all three storekeepers expressed a desire to celebrate March 8th. And certainly in the same composition.

Why do you think? Because these women are sluts? Don’t think. It’s just that someone finally fucked them properly. A normal dick with a normal erection. And several more times in a row. Which she probably already forgot a long time ago, as it happens when they throw five sticks at you in a row.

And what to do in this situation, you ask...
Well, I don’t know . If a woman still has some chance of losing weight and then getting stronger in order to restore body elasticity, good tone and, accordingly, return her pussy to the state in which it was, say, at 17 years old, then what are the chances for a man to return the size of his penis that he had at 17 years old I don’t know. Yes, and is this even possible?

Although something tells me that if you massage your penis every day, say for about twenty minutes, that is, in essence, masturbate, then perhaps you can somehow restore its functionality and ability significantly increase in size. But in any case, you will first have to lose significant weight. Get rid of excess weight, then maybe build up. Again, take your nutrition seriously and don’t eat any junk. I mean chips, shawarma made from who knows what, these French fries, give up sugar for at least six months in order to get back in shape.

Ideally, of course, start going to the gym. But before going to it, it’s good to study the question of what he will do in this room. That is, what exercises should be done, with what equipment, at what frequency and with what weights. And all this is essentially for the sake of full and good sex.
It’s probably easier for someone to forget about this matter and go have a drink with the men.

Unread post by **artm. lecher** » 15 Aug 2021, 09:09

viki, We all jerked off, but wives and girlfriends "we love" . We must count on strength for everything.

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Aug 2021, 09:15

artm.razvratnik: ↑15 Aug 2021, 09:09 viki, We I jerked off everything, but we love our wives and girlfriends. We must count on strength for everything.

Well said! How can you calculate? This is the most difficult thing...

Unread post by **Penelope** » 15 Aug 2021, 09:32

niqk: ↑15 Aug 2021, 09:15 Well said! How can you calculate? This is the most difficult thing...

Maybe a slide rule? There are a lot of different things on it, especially on the back. Maybe this is there too and we just don’t know?

Unread post by **artm. lecher** » 15 Aug 2021, 09:42

niqk, + - one or two)))) )

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Aug 2021, 09:52

Penelope: ↑15 Aug 2021, 09:32
niqk: ↑15 Aug 2021, 09:15 Well said! How can you calculate? This is the most difficult thing...
Maybe a slide rule? There are a lot of different things on it, especially on the back. Maybe this is there too and we just don’t know?

Good suggestion! Study the line and you will report how and what, where it leads...

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artm.razvratnik: ↑15 Aug 2021, 09:42 niqk, + - one or two)))))

Well done!!! Did you guess it yourself or did you steal it?

Unread post by **nosty** » 15 Aug 2021, 13:05

Now the work has begun, the corners are filled with sperm. There are always two people to blame for a problem.

Unread post by **Tanushka** » 17 Aug 2021, 08:22

niqk: ↑28 Feb 2020, 08:02
viki: ↑24 Jan 2020, 02:01 Recently married. Been in a relationship for almost a year. I like sex with my husband. Conflicts with my husband recently began because of this there was no sex for a long time, he refused to leave. He needs to leave for a long time. At this time I found out that he jerks off on at work, although before that I didn’t find time to get enough time to type and found it to jerk off. He considers jerking off normal. But I don’t, because it offends me, I don’t feel desirable. So I decided to masturbate myself in order to understand him better. So now the problem is me now I don’t want sex with anyone at all. I have a grudge against my husband. What should I do?
And you try masturbation with him. Turns both of them on incredibly! He will fill you with fountains of sperm!

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 17 Aug 2021, 13:12

Run away. You are strangers to each other.
Over time, everything will work out for both you and him..

Unread post by **vvv123** » 01 Nov 2021, 09:32

turn on porn and jerk each other off

Unread post by **Barkas** » 22 Nov 2021, 13:29

viki: ↑24 Jan 2020, 02:01WHAT TO DO?

If you don’t have enough sex, then find someone on the side to compensate for the lack. You will have great sex with your husband, and when he doesn’t want it, you will get it on the side. New impressions are always useful.
A question for you, by the way. Have you ever masturbated before this incident?

Unread post by **Ahah** » 22 Nov 2021, 13:39

I started masturbating often and then got more women (regular ones) due to the fact that my wife, after we got married, needed sex 1-2 times a month (then generally once every six months

), and I need it almost every day in the morning and evening (occasionally there are exceptions). In the morning the blanket sticks out like a tent! She doesn’t want to do many of the experiments that I suggested to her. Now she’s no longer jealous, she used to be furious.

Offended by my husband because he jerks off

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