Should you have an open conversation with your wife about intimate topics?

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niqk: 19 Apr 2023, 08:56 Lerunchik, again - almost... There are a lot of sex cockroaches in the head that are scary to show
to others. Even my wife! And it is unknown how she will react to them: maybe she will agree with delight, or maybe... For example,
my husband really likes his mother-in-law and he would gladly drag her into bed third. What will his wife say to him?
Crap example. If you like this kind of relationship, look for a suitable soul mate. Which is ready for this. And if you know even before getting married that your desires will create problems for you, then you purposefully look for these problems. So there’s no point in whining later about how shitty it is for you poor things. I got what I wanted! Agree?
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Of course it’s worth talking. Did you know that you can still fuck her?
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Lubitel123: 19 Apr 2023, 09:01 Lerunchik, you are wrong in this situation. Yes, a wife, yes, a loved one, but not everything can be told to her, she is not ready to hear everything, and there is also hope that she herself will understand, she will figure it out with her own mind.
Blat! Can’t you hear me at all? I wrote above in Russian: that’s why discussions are needed, to try not only to find common interests in sex, but also if tastes don’t converge somewhere, to find a solution that suits both! I also wrote that in such discussions, you need to be able to sort out your feelings! And understand what is more valuable to you: your soul mate, or your whims. To the point of breaking up if their tastes are too different. If you want to fuck your mother-in-law, fuck your mother-in-law and don’t fuck your Moscow wife!

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Bayonet: 19 Apr 2023, 09:19 Of course it’s worth talking. Did you know that you can still fuck her?
And who is this question addressed to?
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Lerunchik, LOL! You, like our hero Xenophonticus, are flying into a cavalry attack! Sabers drawn!
Overeed!.. First of all, you yourself don’t know what exactly you like now. This may not be at all what you liked in the past. And you really can’t know what you’ll like in the future. Or maybe you won’t like it.
The girl over there is wondering how to make a cuckold out of her husband. Although he made it clear to her that he did not want this...
What can they agree on?
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Lerunchik, You know, I don’t want to talk about this in public space to spread, I have an example from life.
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niqk: 19 Apr 2023, 09:30 Lerunchik, Laughing! You, like our hero Xenophonticus, are flying into a cavalry attack! Sabers drawn!
Overeed!.. First of all, you yourself don’t know what exactly you like now. This may not be at all what you liked in the past. And you really can’t know what you’ll like in the future. Or maybe you won’t like it.
The girl over there is wondering how to make a cuckold out of her husband. Although he made it clear to her that he did not want this...
What can they agree on
Say what you want. I’m tired of saying something, where are the answers, like that girl doesn’t need them.
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Lerunchik, you see, you’re already tired... So we talked...
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niqk: 19 Apr 2023, 09:42 Lerunchik, you see, you’re already tired... So we talked
Answer one question and I won’t pester anyone else on this forum with your posts: and if you remain silent about your desires, namely about really fulfilled desires, and not about wanking fantasies, about which you yourself know that they are not fulfilled, will it be better?
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Lerunchik, well, first of all, you’re nobody here don’t pester me. There is a normal dialogue going on! Secondly, I have already told you more than once - there is no need to remain silent. BUT! And you have to speak very carefully. Take care of your partner’s psyche. Thirdly,
a person himself may not know what he wants until he sees something in some porn that is interesting for himself, but
hardly acceptable for his partner. Fourthly, if someone disagrees with you about something, you don’t need to pour the boiling cauldron of your emotions onto his poor head. Calm down, honey, calm down...
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In an ideal world, we all talk to each other freely, but the reality is that the woman you want to spend your life with may not be as perverted as you. And then the question arises, should I introduce her to her demons? What if it turns her off? You never know.
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Mr.hamsterrr, therefore, you need to turn on your brains during !
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niqk, this generally goes with everything)
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