Should you have an open conversation with your wife about intimate topics?

Unread post by **Iban** » 25 Aug 2021, 14:25

Good afternoon, forum members!
Should I talk frankly with my wife about intimate topics? More precisely, discuss those things that excite her, as well as her some kind of perverted fantasies, if she has any, her past sexual experiences?

Unread post by **Tanushka** » 25 Aug 2021, 14:33

To do this, you must have complete trust in each other in your relationship, otherwise all sorts of suspicions, jealousy, etc. may begin. It is simply necessary to communicate on these topics regularly so that each of you in your family does not have a double life.

Unread post by **Iban** » 25 Aug 2021, 14:50

Thanks for the answer! How to develop this trust? I love my wife, I have never cheated on her.

Unread post by **Copulatory Cycle** » 25 Aug 2021, 15:07

The author should not do this, a woman has not yet been born who can not cheat on her husband

Unread post by **Iban** » 25 Aug 2021, 15:11

Copulatory Cycle, I didn’t understand a little. Can you answer a little more specifically, please!

Unread post by **Tanushka** » 25 Aug 2021, 15:13

Iban: 25 Aug 2021, 14:50 Thanks for the answer! How to develop this trust? I love my wife, I have never cheated.

So, you should know better!
Well, if it wasn’t between you initially, how then can you communicate with her on such frank topics?
That’s just the point. Then maybe it’s not worth it yet?

Unread post by **Motogame** » 25 Aug 2021, 20:50

Of course it’s worth it.

Unread post by **georg** » 25 Aug 2021, 21:01

Weigh for yourself how happy you are in your marriage, how trusting your relationship is, etc. JUST DON’T TOUCH THE PAST.
And only after that, talk frankly about intimate issues. And it will be NORMAL.
It used to be like this for us. Now we have no longer had taboo topics.

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 26 Aug 2021, 09:34

Iban: 25 Aug 2021, 14:25 Good afternoon, forum users!
Should I talk frankly with my wife about intimate topics? More precisely, discuss those things that excite her, as well as some kind of perverted fantasies, if she has any, her past sexual experiences?

To whom do you need this truth? Sexual fantasies are one thing and past experiences are another. You don’t know what will come up and how you will react to it.

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 26 Aug 2021, 09:56

When I got together with my wife, I immediately asked her to tell me about her past relationships and fucks, so that if someone started telling me something about her, I would be ready to accept it. She told me about all her fucks, which she did how they did it. After that, I never thought about it. On my part, everything is fine, but she is jealous of me at every post. It all depends on the person.

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 26 Aug 2021, 13:08

You need to know everything about your wife!!!!! She’s my lifelong companion!! And you can safely hit the heel, and not be tormented by doubts, whether they told you the truth or wrote it... or!

Unread post by **Iban** » 27 Aug 2021, 01:47

Evgenii-SPb: 26 Aug 2021, 09:34
Iban: 25 Aug 2021, 14:25 Good afternoon, forum members!
Should I talk frankly with my wife about intimate topics? More precisely, discuss those things that excite her, as well as some kind of perverted fantasies, if she has any, her past sexual experiences?
To whom do you need this truth? Sexual fantasies are one thing and past experiences are another. You don’t know what will come up and how you will react to it.

If a person is ready to accept any past, then why not find out the past?

Unread post by **niqk** » 27 Aug 2021, 06:32

The past is in the past. The future is in the future. Live in the present! And enjoy life!!!

Unread post by **Uyra129** » 27 Aug 2021, 11:06

Here, if life is serious, everything happens by itself

Unread post by **A charmer** » 28 Aug 2021, 21:48

Of course it’s worth it! It will take your sex to a new level)

Unread post by **Alexb** » 29 Aug 2021, 03:18

Talk but be prepared that if she reveals her perverted needs and desires, she will have to fulfill them. Otherwise she will tell you that she opened up to you and you....

Unread post by **niqk** » 29 Aug 2021, 08:29

That’s why you need a frank, intimate conversation, to find out about your partners’ secret desires, and not to go around and around for years!

Unread post by **georg** » 29 Aug 2021, 09:31

niqk: 29 Aug 2021, 08:29 That’s why you need a frank intimate conversation, to find out about the secret desires of your partners, and not to go around and around for years!

And slowly but surely accumulate anger at each other because of unfulfilled desires. I know many such examples from the lives of friends!

Unread post by **niqk** » 29 Aug 2021, 09:42

If only there were examples. But these are real people!!!

Unread post by **A charmer** » 29 Aug 2021, 22:19

Don’t even hesitate - Create a romantic atmosphere and start a conversation!

Unread post by **niqk** » 31 Aug 2021, 08:14

You can even recommend talking to your wife very frankly about intimate topics. You may learn a lot of unexpected things...

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 05 Sep 2021, 12:43

niqk: 31 Aug 2021, 08:14 I can even recommend talking to your wife very frankly about intimate topics. You can learn a lot of unexpected things...

you won’t learn anything from mine. Conversations are nipped in the bud. Her motto: More action, less words! Even alcohol doesn’t help... Thanks to her friends, they sometimes talk a little about her past.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 07:04

Vitalism: 05 Sep 2021, 12:43
niqk: 31 Aug 2021, 08:14 It can even be recommended to talk with your wife very frankly about intimate topics. You can learn a lot of unexpected things...
you won’t learn anything from mine. Conversations are nipped in the bud. Her motto: More action, less words! Even alcohol doesn’t help..Thanks to her friends, they sometimes talk a little about her past.

And how? Were there any discoveries?

Unread post by **Fall in love** » 06 Sep 2021, 07:11

My husband knows about all my adventures and men. About all the stories. And he told me

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 06 Sep 2021, 07:14

To fall in love: 06 Sep 2021, 07:11 My husband knows about all my adventures and men. About all the stories. And he told me

Very good. It remains for us to tell.

Unread post by **Fall in love** » 06 Sep 2021, 07:20

I’m afraid you’ll choke on saliva))

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 06 Sep 2021, 07:31

To fall in love: 06 Sep 2021, 07:20 I’m afraid you’ll choke on saliva))

What are you, don’t be afraid, please, we are no longer at that age to drool over something or someone -That. But thanks for your concern)

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 10:31

To fall in love: 06 Sep 2021, 07:20 I’m afraid you’ll choke on saliva))

And you try it!

Unread post by **georg** » 06 Sep 2021, 10:34

To fall in love: 06 Sep 2021, 07:20 I’m afraid you’ll choke on saliva))

Doubts take over me! This is not the site of pampered and bashful "Classmates" supposedly!
Here people are serious, perverted by life experience, that in museums marble statues blush

when they see them!
As if they wouldn’t overwhelm you with advice!!!

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:09

niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 07:04 And how? Were there any discoveries?

there were, only they didn’t tell me about her, but their husbands. And they leaked information to me. But I don’t believe it much, I want to hear everything from the FIRST mouth.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:14

Vitalism: 06 Sep 2021, 11:09
niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 07:04 And how? Were there any discoveries?
there were, only they didn’t tell me about her, but their husbands. And they leaked information to me. But I don’t believe it much, I want to hear everything firsthand.

What will this change?

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:28

niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 11:14And what will this change?

I have little faith in people, they will come up with it or think it through.... I remember an episode from the film ""Evenings on a farm near Dikanka". There, three old women told the villagers how the blacksmith Vakula committed suicide. The methods were voiced: he hanged himself, drowned himself, shot himself, but he was alive!!!!

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:29

What are you - a detective? Or does it really excite you?

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:47

niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 11:29 Are you a detective? Or does it really excite you?

I really want to know the person whom I have chosen as my life partner. I wouldn’t want to raise a child that wasn’t my own, I wouldn’t want to find out at the end of my life that she had a child whom she left in an orphanage for the sake of marrying me, etc. and so on.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:49

You think about troubles long before they appear on the horizon... Your life is hectic...

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:55

niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 11:49 You think about troubles long before they appear

no. All I want is to know the person I’m living with.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 11:57

Vitalism: 06 Sep 2021, 11:55
niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 11:49 You think about troubles long before they appear
no. All I want is to know the person I live with.

A commendable wish! You just can’t foresee everything. And then, what happened was! It’s gone... And if you stir up the old, it may come back...

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:00

niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 11:57 what happened was! It’s gone...

I agree! Therefore, I see no reason for women’s secrets.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:04

Vitalism: 06 Sep 2021, 12:00 I agree! Therefore, I see no reason for women’s secrets.

Secrets come in different forms. It’s better to forget others completely! Do you want to remind...

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:17

I don’t want to remind or discuss or go over anything..... I simply want to know the PERSON who is nearby.

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:22

Vitalism: 06 Sep 2021, 12:17 I don’t want to remind or discuss or go over anything.....I simply want to know the PERSON who is nearby.

What is it to know a person? study his character, and not some secrets of his past...

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:30

niqk: 06 Sep 2021, 12:22 to study his character,

why study him? He’s all in front of you.

Unread post by **Fall in love** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:38

Secrets from the past can help you find out what he or she likes in sex

Unread post by **niqk** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:42

To fall in love: 06 Sep 2021, 12:38 Secrets from the past can help you find out what he or she likes in sex

So it’s easy to find out without going into the past!

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 06 Sep 2021, 12:53

To fall in love: 06 Sep 2021, 12:38 Secrets from the past can help you find out what he or she likes in sex

It’s easy to find out what you like in sex (and not in sex)! Enough to talk.

Unread post by **Sergei** » 05 Oct 2021, 01:45

My wife and I not only talk about intimate topics, but also fantasize together and do not hide our desires.

Unread post by **STI** » 05 Oct 2021, 01:56

It’s difficult to talk to my wife about intimate topics
she would be all giggling and hawing
she herself will never offer anything and well, she doesn’t really want to participate in anything and experiment either
it’s a bit boring It happens

Unread post by **Ryzhik** » 05 Oct 2021, 03:08

Even before the wedding, they told each other everything. Well, after that I fantasized and pretended as much as possible. This is the only way to get what you want and give it to your loved one.

Unread post by **STI** » 05 Oct 2021, 03:10

Ryzhik: 05 Oct 2021, 03:08 Even before the wedding, we told each other everything. Well, after that I fantasized and pretended as much as possible. This is the only way you can get what you want and give it to your loved one

Yeah
I told my wife the same thing when I was drunk about my exes and what happened
Now this bitch constantly reminds me of who you fucked with, go to her and go or she does better, so let her do it and leave me alone
And why the hell did I say that
It would be better if I said it that I’m a virgin and it would be much better

Unread post by **Ryzhik** » 05 Oct 2021, 03:21

STI: 05 Oct 2021, 03:10 Yeah
I told my wife the same thing when I was drunk about my exes and what happened
Now this bitch constantly reminds me of who I fucked with her and go or she better do it, let her and she does and leave me alone
And nafik I said it
It would be better if I said that I am a virgin and it would be much better

Someone is unlucky.

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