Love and sex

Unread post by **The passage** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:37

My question is very short, but I would like to read detailed answers.
Does sex for love and without love differ for you in any way, and if so, what are they?

Unread post by **niqk** » 23 Jul 2023, 09:48

Wolffr: ↑23 Jul 2023, 09:40 I had a case already in Germany, it was only upon arrival, while the language courses were not working, in general I wanted to, I didn’t really know the language and I went to the pouf with the girls..., I chose for a long time, and only settled down with one and came, there was no sex for 4 months, he pumped a couple of times and came, and give me 50 marks, there were still marks then. and after that I never went to a pouf again))
Puff in Russian is a brothel...

By the way, very useful experience!

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 23 Jul 2023, 11:28

Wolffr: ↑23 Jul 2023, 09:40 I had a case already in Germany, it was only upon arrival, while the language courses were not working, in general I wanted to, I didn’t really know the language and I went to the pouf with the girls..., I chose for a long time, and only settled down with one and came, there was no sex for 4 months, he pumped a couple of times and came, and give me 50 marks, there were still marks then. and after that I never went to a pouf again))
Puff in Russian is a brothel...

Well, that is, you came , stuck it in and finished?

Unread post by **Izumi** » 23 Jul 2023, 11:43

I haven’t tried sex just for the sake of sex, and I don’t want to.

I wouldn’t be able to have sex without great love and complete trust in a person, for me this is a really serious step.

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 23 Jul 2023, 11:50

Izumi: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:43 I haven’t tried sex just for the sake of sex, and I don’t want to.

I wouldn’t be able to have sex without great love and complete trust in a person, for me this is a really serious step.

My future wife had sex with me at first without any love. She fell in love with me a little later)))

Unread post by **Izumi** » 23 Jul 2023, 11:51

Serg_A, are you in an open relationship now?

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 23 Jul 2023, 11:56

Izumi: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:51 Serg_A, and you have free ones now relationship?

No, she thinks I’m faithful to her. But firstly, our sexual tastes did not completely coincide; I satisfied her, but she did not satisfy me.
Secondly, we haven’t had sex for two years now due to her disability.

Unread post by **Izumi** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:00

Serg_A, and what are the tastes that it did not satisfy ?

Serg_A: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:56 have been having sex for two years

oh, I see. you’ve probably been together for a long time.

Unread post by **The passage** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:02

Serg_A: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:56
Izumi: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:51 Serg_A, and Are you in an open relationship now?
No, she thinks I’m faithful to her. But firstly, our sexual tastes did not completely coincide; I satisfied her, but she did not satisfy me.
Secondly, we haven’t had sex for two years now due to her disability.

Have you been on erogen?

Unread post by **triangle** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:19

The division of sex into “for love” and “without love” seems too simplistic to me. Naturally, crazy love with crazy sex is the best, but simple mechanical sex just for the sake of orgasm - fuck it. But for me there are at least two more intermediate options.
One - when in a friendly and trusting relationship without love, but with mutual sympathy, a desire suddenly arises (usually on the female side) to try and see what will happen in sex. If there is compatibility in sex, great, the relationship reaches a new level. If not, the friendship continues as if nothing had happened.
Second - there is no love as such, but there is passion and drop-dead sexual compatibility and a general set of favorite perversions. When such a relationship ends, only pleasant memories remain.

Unread post by **niqk** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:26

triangle, do not confuse Love and Emotions. Love is a rather rare thing. That is why it is very much
valued. However, many have simply never met her... And emotions are a common thing. Everyone knows them!
Emotions can be aroused by many things - from beautiful appearance to the biological need for sex... Although
there are emotions not related to sex. The same feeling of inferiority when a person tries to prove to himself that he is - wow! And fucks everything that moves...

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:50

Marinka: ↑23 Jul 2023, 12:02
Serg_A: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:56
Izumi: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:51 Serg_A, are you in an open relationship now?
No, she thinks that I am faithful to her. But firstly, our sexual tastes did not completely coincide; I satisfied her, but she did not satisfy me.
Secondly, we haven’t had sex for two years now due to her disability.
Have you been on erogen?

I’ve never been there. Where did you get the idea that I was there?

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Izumi: ↑23 Jul 2023, 12:00 Serg_A , and what were the tastes that it did not satisfy?

Serg_A: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:56 have been having sex for two years
oh, I see. you’ve probably been together for a long time.

You can’t even imagine how long)))

Unread post by **The passage** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:53

Serg_A: ↑23 Jul 2023, 12:50
Marinka: ↑23 Jul 2023, 12:02
Serg_A: ↑23 Jul 2023, 11:56 No, she thinks that I am faithful to her. But firstly, our sexual tastes did not completely coincide; I satisfied her, but she did not satisfy me.
Secondly, we haven’t had sex for two years now due to her disability.
Have you been on erogen?
I’ve never been there. Where did you get the idea that I was there?

Forget it - it doesn’t matter.

Unread post by **Satna666** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:55

There’s a buzz on Erogen, more real and real girls.

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 23 Jul 2023, 12:57

Of course it does. Sex without love is much simpler and more enjoyable. We met - had a good time - "everything was fine, thank you, if you want, call me sometime" - they fled.
And love is nerves, jealousy and pain. All this kills sex sooner or later.

Unread post by **RazVratnik** » 23 Jul 2023, 13:45

Hooligan Carrie: ↑23 Jul 2023, 12:57 Of course it does. Sex without love is much simpler and more enjoyable. We met - had a good time - "everything was wonderful, thank you, if you want, call me sometime" - they ran away.
And love is nerves, jealousy and pain. All this kills sex sooner or later.

Do you have sex on the side without love? If so, can you confidently say that it is better than with your husband?)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 23 Jul 2023, 13:52

RazVratnik: ↑23 Jul 2023, 13:45 is there sex on the side without love?

Not now, but almost all sex on the side was without love. And yes, technically it happened that it was better than with my husband. Not always, but it happened.

Unread post by **etc** » 23 Jul 2023, 18:59

And I loved all the women with whom I had sex. In his own way, but he loved it. Even prostitutes.

Unread post by **loving** » 23 Jul 2023, 19:28

For me personally, SEX without love is purely mechanical movements.

Unread post by **The passage** » 24 Jul 2023, 00:12

vvm: ↑23 Jul 2023, 18:59 And I loved all the women with whom I had sex. In his own way, but he loved it. Even prostitutes.

Why in the past tense?

Unread post by **Cuckold!!!** » 24 Jul 2023, 00:15

Marinka: ↑29 Jan 2023, 03:37 Does sex for love and without love have any differences for you, and if so, what are they?

Sex is one thing, but love is completely different.

Unread post by **SeRg !$!** » 24 Jul 2023, 00:29

all partners with whom you had sex I felt the most tender and warm feelings for everyone, very close to love
With the exception of women with low social responsibility) here is sex for the sake of sex

Unread post by **etc** » 24 Jul 2023, 07:54

Marinka: ↑24 Jul 2023, 00:12 Why in the past tense?

I wanted to write briefly to cover all past women.)
The last 20 years only with my beloved wife sex.)

Unread post by **Beautiful** » 24 Jul 2023, 08:08

Marinka: ↑29 Jan 2023, 03:37 My question is very short, but I would like to read detailed answers.
Does sex for love and without love make any differences for you and, if so, what are they?

love and sex are ideal). But this rarely happens. What young people mistake for love is just emotions. And sex without love is the satisfaction of lust. And most often we satisfy our sexual needs. The love that many crave is the spiritual unity of two souls and sex is the highest manifestation of feelings and gratitude for each other. Spiritual and physical fusion. In my opinion this is true. Someone may have a different opinion.

Unread post by **The passage** » 24 Jul 2023, 08:12

Byutiful: ↑24 Jul 2023, 08:08
Marinka: ↑29 Jan 2023, 03:37 My question is very short, but I would like to read the detailed answers.
Does sex for love and without love have any differences for you, and if so, what are they?
love and sex are ideal). But this rarely happens. What young people mistake for love is just emotions. And sex without love is the satisfaction of lust. And most often we satisfy our sexual needs. The love that many crave is the spiritual unity of two souls and sex is the highest manifestation of feelings and gratitude for each other. Spiritual and physical fusion. In my opinion this is true. Someone may have a different opinion.

If you and I really meet, we will check how sex is without love)))
Oh, so, I completely share your opinion.

Unread post by **Beautiful** » 24 Jul 2023, 08:16

Marinka: ↑24 Jul 2023, 08:12
Byutiful: ↑24 Jul 2023, 08:08
Marinka: ↑29 Jan 2023, 03:37 My question is very short, but I would like to read the answers in detail.
Does sex for love and without love make any differences for you, and if so, what? n
love and sex are ideal). But this rarely happens. What young people mistake for love is just emotions. And sex without love is the satisfaction of lust. And most often we satisfy our sexual needs. The love that many crave is the spiritual unity of two souls and sex is the highest manifestation of feelings and gratitude for each other. Spiritual and physical fusion. In my opinion this is true. Someone may have a different opinion.
If you and I really meet, we will check how sex is without love)))
Oh, so, I completely share your opinion.

. Sex without love also brings joy, but for a while, and I will not give up even short-term joy in life. Life is so hard that it would be a crime to deny yourself such joy). But there may not be love, only emotions))

Unread post by **gnusmas** » 12 Aug 2023, 05:14

Without love there is nowhere in sex. Well, or at least there should be a strong sympathy. Otherwise, everything turns out somehow wrong, better by hand

Unread post by **kenzo** » 13 Aug 2023, 04:48

I will say this, love or sympathy must be there!
I noticed this when going to fairies, when you are loved and wanted, sex goes to a higher level, the sensations from it are completely different. When it’s just for fun, if you don’t like a person, aren’t interesting, then of course the sex isn’t like that and all that.
So, mutual desire (love or sympathy) is a must!
But love without sex, they say, exists, but it’s definitely alien to me...

Unread post by **Grass** » 13 Aug 2023, 10:58

Often sex without love develops into friendship or even love.
So don’t miss the chance.

Unread post by **niqk** » 13 Aug 2023, 11:28

Gramen: ↑13 Aug 2023, 10:58 Often sex without love develops into friendship or even love.
So don’t miss the chance.

Usually it’s the other way around! Friendship sex can turn into love!

Unread post by **Wow** » 13 Aug 2023, 11:55

I never messed with love.
For me, this state is extremely uncomfortable and therefore unacceptable. Ever since kindergarten, I immediately moved away from those that I liked to the maximum. This is the same as the attitude towards drugs: it is better to never get involved...
And sex for love cannot be imagined even in fantasies.
I only allow correspondence on “neutral” topics. And so they continue... for years, and sometimes even a decade and a half.

Unread post by **1221** » 26 Mar 2024, 04:44

Good afternoon!
I have always shared and continue to do so in relation to love and sex.
There is such an expression "making love". It is alien to me, because in my hierarchy there is a clear gradation and division. Love is feelings, high feelings, when partners are able and ready to trust each other completely, to do something for free to make their loved one feel better, more pleasant, more comfortable, etc. Love is NOT a process, it is a form of life with a predominance of warm and tender feelings. And sex is either a process of realizing a person’s natural sexual needs, or a form of showing love for a partner. But in any case, they are engaged in sex (or one can formulate it differently: they fuck, fuck, etc.), and not love. These are different matters. Something like that.

Unread post by **ms240690** » 12 May 2024, 15:55

Marinka, Of course, this is completely different. It’s one thing when a woman gives herself over in love, both soul and body, and quite another when she simply gives herself over, without any passion. Tried it with a prostitute - no pleasure

Unread post by **Alex1987** » 13 May 2024, 03:03

Hooligan Carrie: ↑23 Jul 2023, 12:57 Of course it does. Sex without love is much simpler and more enjoyable. We met - had a good time - "everything was fine, thank you, if you want, call me sometime" - they fled.
And love is nerves, jealousy and pain. All this kills sex sooner or later.

I agree. In general, I think that sex and love different things

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